girls ... do you mind if your men go to strip clubs?
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You can't motorboat personality0
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You can't motorboat personality
This is true. I've tried. :ohwell:0 -
Why do I think you're single?
Because you're mistaken...0 -
I used to mind a little bit,
but i've gone to the strip clubs with the guy I was seeing and i didn't care.
I personally don't think I would anymore, but then again, I am single,
so who knows if that would change,0 -
You can't motorboat personality
My man can motorboat me anytime. Dont need a strip club.
I am FINE with singles and strip clubs. I used to go when I was single, jus twith girl friends. Nothing I really WANTED to do though.0 -
You can't motorboat personality
My man can motorboat me anytime. Dont need a strip club.
It was a joke, why so serious?
I think the point to be derived here is that some people mind, and some don't...so make sure you COMMUNICATE your opinion with your s/o so that you don't have issues down the road.
I think saying that strip clubs = sex is a bit of an exaggeration (either that or you have had some REALLY bad partners in the past...and yes, that's another joke). Stating that your s/o going to a strip club is tantamount to cheating makes more sense. Again make sure you let them know that. It's a semantics thing though, so to each their own.
I go to strip clubs, not often but occasionally. In fact I'll be going to a bunch this weekend for my bachelor party. Nothing I see this weekend will make me love my fiancee any less. She has already told me that she's ok with it, so there's no problem.
In my own humble opinion, there are more important things in life to worry about than if your man spent $20 to get blue balls just to come home and take it out on you later.0 -
Doesn't bother me at all......He would be coming home to me anyway:)
Or you just install a stripper pole somewhere in the house......problem solved:)0 -
wouldn't bother me, but my husband hasn't been and says he has no interest in going, I've offered to take him to one...we'll see...0
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I dont mind really. The first and only time my guy went, I was actually with him and he was lookin at me more than the dancers so I wasnt bothered!0
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Agreed.
My boyfirend hates strip clubs... He wouldnt want men grinding up on me, nor do i like women on him. If your thinking about another woman, dreaming about puttin it in her... Why be with the same woman daily? I am in a relationship because I want only him.
He gets disgusted by women who use thier bodies for money. I have a friend who is a stripper and he disapproves of it.. I love her to death though. We have our fun, lots of it. We dress up, and have crazy nights together, at one point had our own pole... Hes the only man I lust over... I dont get excited over randoms. Personality turns me on. Not bodies.Very good points. In my experience, men who go to those places alone are looking for something they don't get at home for one reason or the other (either their own incompetence, or their partner's hesitation) . I'm not generalizing; I'm just saying that is the case with those people I know who go to them. Many couples who go together are probably just looking for adventure, and hey, whatever lights your fire.
But if you have a satisfying sex life without them, what's the point? I've never seen the point...
I will do everything those strippers will do for him. Im am not embarressed with him, and we have both lost and gained weight. If he wants me to put on some stripper clothes, then so be it
. Sex should be fun and a lot of men dont get that themselves. Sex/pleasure is so much better when you have a bond with someone.
I have fantasized about other men while in relationships, and it came down to the fact that i was bored and moved on. My current relationship I am completely content. I look at a guy at the gym and think "Darn that body must have taken work to get" But not "GAH I wanna him in me"...
But do you not think that there will eventually come a time when he gets tired of looking at you? Not that he isn't attracted to you or anything, but he might want to change things up once and awhile, visually. I'm sure you look at guys and think of them sexually, even if you say you don't.0 -
Thank god for titties and beer!0
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You can't motorboat personality
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!0 -
I don't know what kind of strip clubs you guys are going to but over here, the strippers are ridiculously talented and they put on a hell of a show. It's not just having chesticles in your face and her asscheeks rubbing against your man's lap. You get some of the titty rubbing if you're sitting around the stage and the lap dances are if you call them over to your table. But for the most part, you're at a table with your party enjoying the visuals. They climb to the top and hang off the poles with just their kitties, get into like these ridiculously bent positions, balance themselves on some other stripper who's up there too..It's pretty damn exciting. It's almost like a hot, naked, and naughty version of cirque du soleil :laugh:
Flame on. :laugh:0 -
I don't know what kind of strip clubs you guys are going to but over here, the strippers are ridiculously talented and they put on a hell of a show. It's not just having chesticles in your face and her asscheeks rubbing against your man's lap. You get some of the titty rubbing if you're sitting around the stage and the lap dances are if you call them over to your table. But for the most part, you're at a table with your party enjoying the visuals. They climb to the top and hang off the poles with just their kitties, get into like these ridiculously bent positions, balance themselves on some other stripper who's up there too..It's pretty damn exciting. It's almost like a hot, naked, and naughty version of cirque du soleil :laugh:
Flame on. :laugh:
You, my dear, are the first one who has described it to a T!
I think I love you! LOL0 -
Agreed.
My boyfirend hates strip clubs... He wouldnt want men grinding up on me, nor do i like women on him. If your thinking about another woman, dreaming about puttin it in her... Why be with the same woman daily? I am in a relationship because I want only him.
He gets disgusted by women who use thier bodies for money. I have a friend who is a stripper and he disapproves of it.. I love her to death though. We have our fun, lots of it. We dress up, and have crazy nights together, at one point had our own pole... Hes the only man I lust over... I dont get excited over randoms. Personality turns me on. Not bodies.Very good points. In my experience, men who go to those places alone are looking for something they don't get at home for one reason or the other (either their own incompetence, or their partner's hesitation) . I'm not generalizing; I'm just saying that is the case with those people I know who go to them. Many couples who go together are probably just looking for adventure, and hey, whatever lights your fire.
But if you have a satisfying sex life without them, what's the point? I've never seen the point...
I will do everything those strippers will do for him. Im am not embarressed with him, and we have both lost and gained weight. If he wants me to put on some stripper clothes, then so be it . Sex should be fun and a lot of men dont get that themselves. Sex/pleasure is so much better when you have a bond with someone.
I have fantasized about other men while in relationships, and it came down to the fact that i was bored and moved on. My current relationship I am completely content. I look at a guy at the gym and think "Darn that body must have taken work to get" But not "GAH I wanna him in me"...
But do you not think that there will eventually come a time when he gets tired of looking at you? Not that he isn't attracted to you or anything, but he might want to change things up once and awhile, visually. I'm sure you look at guys and think of them sexually, even if you say you don't.
If my husband gets tired of looking at me enough to where he feels he just needs to go to a titty bar then he can head on down the road...seriously...if that's the justification.
What's next? If someone's husband gets tired of having sex with his wife, the his wife is going to just give them permission to go **** someone else just to "change things up once in a while"? Just because he's a man and men like variety? Give me a break.
My husband had his variety in his 30 years of living before he met me. I feel so sorry for some of you, really. I don't understand how you don't feel disrespected or less special. YOU DESERVE MORE.
A bachelor party every once in a great while, whatever. Or if couples want to go together because BOTH of them get off on it, same way.
But going any time other than that just to go get grinded on by some tramp....and then try and release on me???? No thank you!!!! I have higher standards than that...Call me insecure or a prude or whatever. I call it self-respect.0 -
Ive gone to two strip clubs and could honestly say I dont care for them. I just felt trashy going to them and it does nothing for me. Watching a girl cook in the kitchen is much sexier than throwing dirty rolled up dollar bills at her snatch. I like women with class.0
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If my husband gets tired of looking at me enough to where he feels he just needs to go to a titty bar then he can head on down the road...seriously...if that's the justification.
What's next? If someone's husband gets tired of having sex with his wife, the his wife is going to just give them permission to go **** someone else just to "change things up once in a while"? Just because he's a man and men like variety? Give me a break.
A lot of people do have relationships like that. It's funny, it's almost like not everyone is you and handles their own relationship as they see fit. But thank goodness you're here to set them all straight!0 -
Agreed.
My boyfirend hates strip clubs... He wouldnt want men grinding up on me, nor do i like women on him. If your thinking about another woman, dreaming about puttin it in her... Why be with the same woman daily? I am in a relationship because I want only him.
He gets disgusted by women who use thier bodies for money. I have a friend who is a stripper and he disapproves of it.. I love her to death though. We have our fun, lots of it. We dress up, and have crazy nights together, at one point had our own pole... Hes the only man I lust over... I dont get excited over randoms. Personality turns me on. Not bodies.Very good points. In my experience, men who go to those places alone are looking for something they don't get at home for one reason or the other (either their own incompetence, or their partner's hesitation) . I'm not generalizing; I'm just saying that is the case with those people I know who go to them. Many couples who go together are probably just looking for adventure, and hey, whatever lights your fire.
But if you have a satisfying sex life without them, what's the point? I've never seen the point...
I will do everything those strippers will do for him. Im am not embarressed with him, and we have both lost and gained weight. If he wants me to put on some stripper clothes, then so be it . Sex should be fun and a lot of men dont get that themselves. Sex/pleasure is so much better when you have a bond with someone.
I have fantasized about other men while in relationships, and it came down to the fact that i was bored and moved on. My current relationship I am completely content. I look at a guy at the gym and think "Darn that body must have taken work to get" But not "GAH I wanna him in me"...
But do you not think that there will eventually come a time when he gets tired of looking at you? Not that he isn't attracted to you or anything, but he might want to change things up once and awhile, visually. I'm sure you look at guys and think of them sexually, even if you say you don't.
If my husband gets tired of looking at me enough to where he feels he just needs to go to a titty bar then he can head on down the road...seriously...if that's the justification.
What's next? If someone's husband gets tired of having sex with his wife, the his wife is going to just give them permission to go **** someone else just to "change things up once in a while"? Just because he's a man and men like variety? Give me a break.
My husband had his variety in his 30 years of living before he met me. I feel so sorry for some of you, really. I don't understand how you don't feel disrespected or less special. YOU DESERVE MORE.
A bachelor party every once in a great while, whatever. Or if couples want to go together because BOTH of them get off on it, same way.
But going any time other than that just to go get grinded on by some tramp....and then try and release on me???? No thank you!!!! I have higher standards than that...Call me insecure or a prude or whatever. I call it self-respect.
^^^^^This!0 -
If my husband gets tired of looking at me enough to where he feels he just needs to go to a titty bar then he can head on down the road...seriously...if that's the justification.
What's next? If someone's husband gets tired of having sex with his wife, the his wife is going to just give them permission to go **** someone else just to "change things up once in a while"? Just because he's a man and men like variety? Give me a break.
A lot of people do have relationships like that. It's funny, it's almost like not everyone is you and handles their own relationship as they see fit. But thank goodness you're here to set them all straight!
This argument is dumb. I'm stating my opinion the same exact way everyone else has in this thread so far. Both sides. Thank goodness you are here to set me straight!0 -
This argument is dumb. I'm stating my opinion the same exact way everyone else has in this thread so far. Both sides. Thank goodness you are here to set me straight!
You are certainly entitled to your opinion (and for the record I don't think you are a prude for having it), but don't you think stating that other women who don't feel the way you do are letting themselves be disrespected and deserve more is a bit much?0 -
Watching a stripper and ****ing other girls are 2 totally different things. How do you feel about him watching porn, kylesmomy89?0
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This argument is dumb. I'm stating my opinion the same exact way everyone else has in this thread so far. Both sides. Thank goodness you are here to set me straight!
You are certainly entitled to your opinion (and for the record I don't think you are a prude for having it), but don't you think stating that other women who don't feel the way you do are letting themselves be disrespected and deserve more is a bit much?
No I really don't. I actually think it's a positive message and women deserve their husbands to treat them as though they are the sexiest, most beautiful women that they have ever laid eyes on and don't even want to have some random chick shaking her tits in their husband's face to keep him satisfied and happy.0 -
If my husband gets tired of looking at me enough to where he feels he just needs to go to a titty bar then he can head on down the road...seriously...if that's the justification.
What's next? If someone's husband gets tired of having sex with his wife, the his wife is going to just give them permission to go **** someone else just to "change things up once in a while"? Just because he's a man and men like variety? Give me a break.
A lot of people do have relationships like that. It's funny, it's almost like not everyone is you and handles their own relationship as they see fit. But thank goodness you're here to set them all straight!
This argument is dumb. I'm stating my opinion the same exact way everyone else has in this thread so far. Both sides. Thank goodness you are here to set me straight!
So when you state your opinion, that other women are pathetic and need to feel the same exact way as you do, that's fine, it's your opinion. But when I state that other people feel differently (have their own opinions) it's a dumb argument.
Damn my nose is bleeding...0 -
Ivealways dated a lady who will go with me. I have a strict no prudes policy. And to the poster, you really don't think he doesn't think about other women from time to time when Yal havel sex? If you believe that I have some MySpace stock to sell you.0
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This argument is dumb. I'm stating my opinion the same exact way everyone else has in this thread so far. Both sides. Thank goodness you are here to set me straight!
You are certainly entitled to your opinion (and for the record I don't think you are a prude for having it), but don't you think stating that other women who don't feel the way you do are letting themselves be disrespected and deserve more is a bit much?
No I really don't. I actually think it's a positive message and women deserve their husbands to treat them as though they are the sexiest, most beautiful women that they have ever laid eyes on and don't even want to have some random chick shaking her tits in their husband's face to keep him satisfied and happy.
My husband thinks I am the most sexiest, beautiful woman on the planet and tells me that about a dozen times a day.
He will also go to strip clubs with friends. He doesn't do it all the time but it something that he will do.
I will also go to strip clubs with him.
He loves and respects me.
We have an awesome relationship based on mutual trust and *gasp!* RESPECT!
We have never had an argument.
Jealousy is never an issue.
I know he would never cheat on me.
He's not having sex with the strippers that he goes to watch.
He loves women, especially naked women.
He loves my naked body and he loves to look at other naked bodies as well.
None of this means he disrespects me, doesn't love me or feels that I'm worthless.
None of this means that I don't respect myself because my husband enjoys beauty.
You don't know me or my relationship with my husband. To say that someone "Deserves Better" because he goes to a strip club is absolutely ludicrous.
You are not me.
You do not live in my house.
Do not throw out a blanket judgment on people like me.0 -
Watching a stripper and ****ing other girls are 2 totally different things. How do you feel about him watching porn, kylesmomy89?
I understand that. I was replying to the statement that men should be able to look at strippers because they are tired of looking at their wives...If that's the logic, then what's to stop a man from having sex with someone else because they are tired of having sex with the same person?
My husband rarely even has a computer when I'm not around as I take my laptop to school with me and it also serves as our family computer. If he does watch porn, he hides it very well lol. I've never found porn on my computer or in our house. If I did find it, I would be probably be pissed. I've just never had the issue with him. He's mentioned to me before that he's only really watched it when he was single.0 -
If my husband gets tired of looking at me enough to where he feels he just needs to go to a titty bar then he can head on down the road...seriously...if that's the justification.
What's next? If someone's husband gets tired of having sex with his wife, the his wife is going to just give them permission to go **** someone else just to "change things up once in a while"? Just because he's a man and men like variety? Give me a break.
A lot of people do have relationships like that. It's funny, it's almost like not everyone is you and handles their own relationship as they see fit. But thank goodness you're here to set them all straight!
This argument is dumb. I'm stating my opinion the same exact way everyone else has in this thread so far. Both sides. Thank goodness you are here to set me straight!
So when you state your opinion, that other women are pathetic and need to feel the same exact way as you do, that's fine, it's your opinion. But when I state that other people feel differently (have their own opinions) it's a dumb argument.
Damn my nose is bleeding...
Well no crap people think differently or this wouldn't be a debate! Congrats on making the point that everyone has an opinion???0 -
This argument is dumb. I'm stating my opinion the same exact way everyone else has in this thread so far. Both sides. Thank goodness you are here to set me straight!
You are certainly entitled to your opinion (and for the record I don't think you are a prude for having it), but don't you think stating that other women who don't feel the way you do are letting themselves be disrespected and deserve more is a bit much?
No I really don't. I actually think it's a positive message and women deserve their husbands to treat them as though they are the sexiest, most beautiful women that they have ever laid eyes on and don't even want to have some random chick shaking her tits in their husband's face to keep him satisfied and happy.
My husband thinks I am the most sexiest, beautiful woman on the planet and tells me that about a dozen times a day.
He will also go to strip clubs with friends. He doesn't do it all the time but it something that he will do.
I will also go to strip clubs with him.
He loves and respects me.
We have an awesome relationship based on mutual trust and *gasp!* RESPECT!
We have never had an argument.
Jealousy is never an issue.
I know he would never cheat on me.
He's not having sex with the strippers that he goes to watch.
He loves women, especially naked women.
He loves my naked body and he loves to look at other naked bodies as well.
None of this means he disrespects me, doesn't love me or feels that I'm worthless.
None of this means that I don't respect myself because my husband enjoys beauty.
You don't know me or my relationship with my husband. To say that someone "Deserves Better" because he goes to a strip club is absolutely ludicrous.
You are not me.
You do not live in my house.
Do not throw out a blanket judgment on people like me.
That's wonderful that you really do feel that way. A lot of women don't and just let their men do as they please anyway. These are the women I'm referring to.0 -
So when you state your opinion, that other women are pathetic and need to feel the same exact way as you do, that's fine, it's your opinion. But when I state that other people feel differently (have their own opinions) it's a dumb argument.
Damn my nose is bleeding...
Well no crap people think differently or this wouldn't be a debate! Congrats on making the point that everyone has an opinion???
:explode:
Nevermind. Explaining it to you clearly isn't working. I don't know how to make it any simpler.0 -
This argument is dumb. I'm stating my opinion the same exact way everyone else has in this thread so far. Both sides. Thank goodness you are here to set me straight!
You are certainly entitled to your opinion (and for the record I don't think you are a prude for having it), but don't you think stating that other women who don't feel the way you do are letting themselves be disrespected and deserve more is a bit much?
No I really don't. I actually think it's a positive message and women deserve their husbands to treat them as though they are the sexiest, most beautiful women that they have ever laid eyes on and don't even want to have some random chick shaking her tits in their husband's face to keep him satisfied and happy.
My husband thinks I am the most sexiest, beautiful woman on the planet and tells me that about a dozen times a day.
He will also go to strip clubs with friends. He doesn't do it all the time but it something that he will do.
I will also go to strip clubs with him.
He loves and respects me.
We have an awesome relationship based on mutual trust and *gasp!* RESPECT!
We have never had an argument.
Jealousy is never an issue.
I know he would never cheat on me.
He's not having sex with the strippers that he goes to watch.
He loves women, especially naked women.
He loves my naked body and he loves to look at other naked bodies as well.
None of this means he disrespects me, doesn't love me or feels that I'm worthless.
None of this means that I don't respect myself because my husband enjoys beauty.
You don't know me or my relationship with my husband. To say that someone "Deserves Better" because he goes to a strip club is absolutely ludicrous.
You are not me.
You do not live in my house.
Do not throw out a blanket judgment on people like me.
That's wonderful that you really do feel that way. A lot of women don't and just let their men do as they please anyway. These are the women I'm referring to.
Hmm. Sorry but I disagree. This clearly shows that you feel a man going to a strip club regardless of what their relationship is with their wife is disrespecting her and that she's not keeping him satisfied and happy.I actually think it's a positive message and women deserve their husbands to treat them as though they are the sexiest, most beautiful women that they have ever laid eyes on and don't even want to have some random chick shaking her tits in their husband's face to keep him satisfied and happy.0
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