girls ... do you mind if your men go to strip clubs?

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  • Italianyc84
    Italianyc84 Posts: 192 Member
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    debbie downer over here...
    I would say yes it bothers me. Because I know how easily addicted people can get to strip clubs, porn, etc. And it can ruin people. I would rather be single for the rest of my life, then have my boyfriend/husband go to a strip club or watch porn. Those images that the men will get in thier head after going to the strip club, it is hard to get those images out of thier heads. Porn too. I was a prostitute at one time in my life, trying to pay the bills after my divorce. And alot of my clients were married men. Thier wives had no idea. The other thing is, do you think the strippers like what they are doing? No, but they do it for the money, the drugs, etc. They don't really know any better. I have some stripper friends, they are not strippers anymore thank God. But all of them were sexually abused as children, as teenagers got into drugs and then became strippers. Drugs are very easy to get when your a stripper. Do you really want your men spending thier hard earned money on these strippers? Dont forget thier are vip sections where they can get extra's. And some men once they have been drinking awhile. They will forget about thier wife, and they will think, hey a handjob or blow job isnt cheating, because we aren't having intercourse. Have any of you researched the sex trafficking industry? They make millions on stealing girls and women and pimping them out. Alot of these women don't want to be prostitutes but are forced into it. Keep letting your husbands induldge in strip clubs, etc. I won't be surprised when he ends up cheating on you, or giving you an std. Strip clubs are not harmless fun. They are disgusting. Open your eyes. I dare you women to go to the strip clubs by yourself. Talk to the strippers, hear thier stories, and see all the married men with rings on thier fingers, sitting thier acting like horny teenage boys. There is an epidemic, and more and more people are becoming sex addicts, because of the easy affordable sex there is out there. Porn, prostitutes, strippers, Adult personals. Yall might be normal people that don't know about this stuff. But I have lived it, and seen the devestation it causes.
  • Italianyc84
    Italianyc84 Posts: 192 Member
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    If you lust in your heart, you have already committed adultery.

    then I guess I need to be punished...somebody spank me!! (ps, I don't usually lust in my heart, I lust in my p*ssy)
  • Italianyc84
    Italianyc84 Posts: 192 Member
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    oh, and for the record--when I was young and stupid I totally got jealous, but now...honestly couldn't care less. I know my girl is true to me. She went once a few years back...she's not really into it. I, however, am dying to go!! I've never been! I did have a lap dance at a party once a couple of years ago where they hired strippers. It was all harmless fun.
  • mslack01
    mslack01 Posts: 823 Member
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    No, but I want to go too!
  • picassoadagio
    picassoadagio Posts: 407 Member
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    He's gone once in his life. He was sloshed & young. Now, he finds them tacky. That's good. That means I'm doing my job. :)
  • sunshine77081
    sunshine77081 Posts: 67
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    I don't care if my husband goes but he isn't into that. I've tried taking him. If he would decided to go it wouldn't bother me that he would visualize me as the stripper. At least he came home to me and is with me. :)
  • SeasideOasis
    SeasideOasis Posts: 1,057 Member
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    Couldn't care less.

    I think his one friend was trying to be nice (the friend was also a close friend of mine) and stopped dragging him to the strip clubs when we started dating. My reacting is/was,"WOAH - TAKE ME WITH YOU!!!" Girls are pretty to look at :laugh: :love: :drinker: :blushing:
  • katy4399
    katy4399 Posts: 136 Member
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    I would not like it all. I guess that makes me a prude.
  • ZombieChaser
    ZombieChaser Posts: 1,555 Member
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    I wouldn't care if he went to a strip club. Its no different than watching porn really. But, I live in a small town... the strippers around here all look like crazy crack *kitten*.

    OMG this! We have 1 stip club, and the VIP area is separated with a shower curtain....classy!
  • UpEarly
    UpEarly Posts: 2,555 Member
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    My husband has never been to a strip club, and has passed on all the invitations to birthdays/bachelor parties celebrated at strip clubs (both before he met me, while we dated and while we've been married).

    I don't have a problem with strip clubs, but if he suddenly started going now, I think I would be worried and not too happy because it would be vastly out of character for him.

    I don't think he has a moral problem with strippers or people who go to strip clubs. He just thinks it's silly and a waste of money. And the general style of strippers is totally not his thing. He's not attracted to make-up or glitter or implants or high heels. He probably would hate the stripping music too - unless the women started stripping to Government Mule or Umphreys McGee. LOL
  • MsMuniz
    MsMuniz Posts: 399 Member
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    i personally don't mind at all. One rule though - he doesn't get to come home and get ~me~. "Bubbles" doesn't get to be in his mind while he's with me (not that my awesome body wouldn't override that fact...)

    but really - srip clubs, lap dances bother me not in the least. Unless, of course, he was blowing his paycheck everweek, then there would be a problem.

    You? How do you feel about it?

    I'm the same, as long as he doesn't come home thinking he's gonna get any afterwards.
  • BrettPGH
    BrettPGH Posts: 4,720 Member
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    I love the idea that some of these women are against strip clubs because they want to "help" the strippers by also making them unemployed.
  • itgeekwoman
    itgeekwoman Posts: 804 Member
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    Totally cool with it as long as it's ok for me to go and see the male strippers.
  • gatorgirlyyy
    gatorgirlyyy Posts: 349
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    Well, for my 18th birthday my (girl) friends and I all decided to go to the strip club since we were finally old enough to do something like this and thought it would be fun. I went and honestly had a great time but I never imagined the kinda s**t that goes down in that place. I was in awe... and not in a good way. If I found out the man I was in a relationship with was going to a strip club I would be livid and honestly very hurt.

    I just don't like it. That's my personal opinion though.


    To each their own.... :)
  • spectralmoon
    spectralmoon Posts: 1,230 Member
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    I mind. He doesn't go, but I'd mind if he did.
  • sofitheteacup
    sofitheteacup Posts: 397 Member
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    Haven't been with someone who likes going, but I would prefer to go with. Not to keep an eye on him, but to enjoy it also.
  • Soon2BeMrsThomson
    Soon2BeMrsThomson Posts: 167
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    I've been alone and he's been alone before we got into a relationship - I thought it was fun but looking back (I was young and naive) a lot of those girls were there so they could buy their drugs which makes me sad. Although I'd rather them do that than on the street, somehow seems safer I suppose. My other half doesn't like them - he says they are a waste of money. He would rather be at home with me than sitting on his hands watching a girl dance round him!! I had to admire his honesty :laugh:
  • LooseWheel
    LooseWheel Posts: 211 Member
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    My man hasnt (not that he's shared it with me b4) but he knows I would love to go with him. I like the idea of what ever is going through his mind afterwards, driving the bedroom antics to a firey fun night to make me feel like a teen again! Stip away, could learn some new things too, but thats the limit right! It aint not 'hooker blvd' as that just costs too much and swinging can be done for free right? lol. Funny topic. Wonder what then men are saying!

    :blushing:
  • atsteele
    atsteele Posts: 1,358 Member
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    re "I love the idea that some of these women are against strip clubs because they want to "help" the strippers by also making them unemployed"; We could use the same reasoning to justify keeping pimps and prostitutes on the streets. They need to earn a living too. Sex trafficers need to earn a living... Just saying.
  • annikabanannika
    annikabanannika Posts: 7
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    I have a very simple rule for my boyfriend. Look all you want, but do not touch!

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