Am I the only Virgin here?

vade43113

I am just curious, cause the way a few people are talking on another thread, no names, it makes it seem being a virgin or single and wishing to stay that way is a disease.... or something.

no I am not gay...

and no I don't have any drive to change my single status.

sktllmdrhmz

I find the lack of replies ironic.

HelloSweetie4

I'm not a virgin, but I don't judge people for choosing who they give their virgnity to, or whatever they choose. I have only had sex with one person in my life, and that's my husband. That's how I wanted it. I had opprotunities before him, but it was also important to me that I waited until I found the person I knew i would marry. (The original plan was to wait until marriage but when you life together first, that because pretty much impossible lol)

It's your life, enjoy it how you see fit.

P.S. my best friend is a virgin at 25, so you're definately not alone.

Toddrific

It seems to me the basic function of human life is to procreate. So it is kind of unnatural to not want to...

I'm a born again virgin. Not by choice though!

Muahahahahaahah. And is Virgin really a capital v?

WifeNMama

I was a virgin before I got married, at 26. On purpose. It's a decision I made as a teen and stuck to it. It's definitely not the norm, and it's a difficult thing to do, but it was completely worth it. :-)

If you're happy with your status, then don't allow other people's biased opinions ruin your happiness. It takes a confident and secure person to enjoy being and staying single. And if you're asexual, you'll have a singularly uncomplicated life ahead of you. Just make sure you have a couple of good, true friends that you can talk to and share your life with so you don't isolate yourself, and set some lofty goals for yourself to achieve without the distraction of dating getting in your way.

MariaAlbina

I'm a virgin! And that will change when I'm ready; but for now, I'm too insecure with my body to show it to anyone in that way. I'm not rushing it, though.

AZackery

I am just curious, cause the way a few people are talking on another thread, no names, it makes it seem being a virgin or single and wishing to stay that way is a disease.... or something.

No I am not gay...

and no I don't have any drive to change my single status.

If a person is a virgin, they should be proud. If a person is single they should be proud. No one can speak for you, but you, so let everyone elses' word fall to the ground. You don't have to live their life. You only have one life to live and that's yours.

mommared53

Good for you. You're not the only one. My son is 25 and still a virgin.

Edited to add, he also doesn't want to change his single status. Right now he's in art school and has no desire to be in a relationship at all at this point. He's too focused on finishing school and starting a career.

Bosbes

Good for you. You're not the only one. My son is 25 and still a virgin.

That's what you think...

kbmnurse

Good for you.

mommared53

Good for you. You're not the only one. My son is 25 and still a virgin.

That's what you think...

Well, he tells me he is and I have no reason to believe he's lying because he certainly doesn't have to.

ChasingSweatandTears

Why are people on another thread talking about virginity anyway? Lol. This is myfitnesspal not mysexlife pal. i know there ks a section for chit chat, but my point is who cares? If you're a virgin good for you and more power to ya! Do whatever makes you happy and abides by your personal moral code. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.

jsenecal12

I am and will be until the day I'm married!

herdthinner

I am. 44 and holding.

Toddrific

I am. 44 and holding.

Holding what is the question =P

LovesGG

I am and will be until the day I'm married!

Same!

taunto

Well, I lost my virginity at the age of 12. However, I dont think its a disease, if anything losing your virginity at a very young age can deprive you of some experiences since sex tends to ruin some innocent experiences.

herdthinner

I am. 44 and holding.

Holding what is the question =P

Maybe "to infinity and beyond" would make more sense?

HorrorChix89

I'm a virgin! And that will change when I'm ready; but for now, I'm too insecure with my body to show it to anyone in that way. I'm not rushing it, though.

...nvm I'll leave this alone

budhandy

I say if your happy and then why does it matter?

Farfourah

I'm a virgin......in my butt.

vade43113

I say if your happy and then why does it matter?

It doesn't, just a large curiosity thing. That was brought on by another thread, that pretty much, many of the posters was saying if a guy isn't thinking about sex at least once every 5 seconds.... something is wrong.

Curiosity wins out with a lot of things for me. :?

Not to mention, my family thinks I need a girlfriend/wife in order to live or something

gumigal82

I was a virgin until only a few years ago (only been with one guy as well), so I understand the kind of stigma that comes with "virgin territory" (ha ha) after a certain age.
I definitely don't judge those who have been with many partners, even if it's a choice I didn't/wouldn't make. I also never judge "older" virgins, as I am a person who made that choice. (I also know people who want to remain virgins till marriage, which is an amazing, incredibly difficult life decision. I respect it fully)

FitBlitz

Not a virgin, but it also wasn't a choice. Had that incident not happened, I'd likely still be a virgin.

So, I'm like.. half-comrade?

You'll catch a lot of flak for not cleaning some pipes, but do what's right for you. Some people just aren't into that area as much as others. You have better things to do.

spade117

I'm a virgin......in my butt.

Heh.

budhandy

I say if your happy and then why does it matter?

It doesn't, just a large curiosity thing. That was brought on by another thread, that pretty much, many of the posters was saying if a guy isn't thinking about sex at least once every 5 seconds.... something is wrong.

Curiosity wins out with a lot of things for me. :?

Not to mention, my family thinks I need a girlfriend/wife in order to live or something

sorry if i came off rude and honestly respect the fact you are virgin

CMmrsfloyd

There's nothing wrong with being single and nothing wrong with being a virgin. If you are happy with your life choices/circunpmstances, you shouldn't let anyone get you down about it.

That being said, *technically* you could possibly have a low testosterone level or something which would lower your sex drive. Having imbalanced hormones can cause other issues as well. If you were a friend of mine in real life, I would probably tell you to stick with whatever choices make you happy but perhaps also get your hormone levels checked *just in case* they might be off, b/c if one thing is out of balance in your body it can affect other things. So I would politely recommend a thorough checkup just to make sure there is nothing that you need to be concerned about. But aside from that, plenty of people are happy being single and not procreating. Your life choices should be whatever you want, not what your family thinks you need.

fleshandbonesss

18 year old virgin and proud.

i'm ready for sex but not from the people who are offering it to me. I'm perfectly happy that way and you should be too. just do what you want a **** the rest.

vade43113

I say if your happy and then why does it matter?

It doesn't, just a large curiosity thing. That was brought on by another thread, that pretty much, many of the posters was saying if a guy isn't thinking about sex at least once every 5 seconds.... something is wrong.

Curiosity wins out with a lot of things for me. :?

Not to mention, my family thinks I need a girlfriend/wife in order to live or something

sorry if i came off rude and honestly respect the fact you are virgin

I didn't take it as being rude.

genuinelyfrans

I am just curious, cause the way a few people are talking on another thread, no names, it makes it seem being a virgin or single and wishing to stay that way is a disease.... or something.

No I am not gay...

and no I don't have any drive to change my single status.

I am not afraid to admit that I am a virgin and when the right woman comes around, then it will be great I definitely understand where you are coming from vade43113.

Jen32285

Haven't been for 10 years now. Man that was a long time ago. I have two kids.