Am I the only Virgin here?
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virginity is a choice. I gave myself only to one man, my husband. I've been celibate since he's been in Heaven, 10 years, now, and I will be until I marry again. And I intend to...
man (people) were not meant to be alone. God gave Eve to Adam as his wife. 0 -
I don't know why people are so doubtful when I say my son is a virgin. I'm not that gullible when it comes to my kids and they know I wasn't a virgin when I got married so no reason for either of them to lie about something like that. Would it be different if he got on here himself and said he was a virgin? :ohwell:
Do worry about the people that thinks you are blind to what your son is doing. It takes a strong person to stand up for being a virgin. Why would your son lie about being a virgin? A lot of people believe that a person has to lose their virginity at a certain age or something is wrong with them. A lot of people that's going around saying they aren't virgins are actually scared virgins. They are afraid of being strong, so they weakly fall into the hands of people they want to like them. It's sad, but it's true, a lot of people go out and lose their virginity to fit in.
Fornication is a sin.
No where does it say Fornication is a sin.
Fornication outside of wedlock is considered a sin but God actually orders us to fornicate.
I would like to know where in The Bible does God orders people to fornicate.
Genesis 9:7 - "Go Forth and Multiply." I am not biologist by I do know that humans do not reproduce via mitosis.
You need to read the whole chapter to understand what God was talking about. God would never order people to fornicate, because it's a sin. God was talking to married people. God was talking to Noah and his three sons and all 4 men were married men. Please get an understanding of God's truth, before you say something about God that's not true.
Sorry, I missed the wedding ceremony.0 -
Holding what is the question =PI am. 44 and holding.
Baa hahahaha!0 -
Ooooo religion. . .
I'm out.0 -
Same!I am and will be until the day I'm married!
Me too! It's been tough but still got my v card 0 -
Well, it helps to
1) be a quasi-middle aged, smart alec, soft around the middle type guy
2) as a consequence be something of a loner.
So unless I get married (again) I've no chan-- I mean I'm with the OP.0 -
Nope, you're not the only one --- I am...and plan to be until the day I'm married. My husband has me as all his - we're both virgins. (He's 30, I'm 23)0
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I'm not a virgin, i lost mine at the age of 17 which i regret very much, and if i had that choice again i would keep it until i find that one specail person.
it is hard tho, especaialy when your 17 and peir preasure, with it apparently "being uncool" to still be virgin.
which i dont think anymore, as i'm not a stupid teenager anymore.
I blame the programme Skins for the whole losing your vaginity by a certain age.
it's rediculas now when ppl of 12-16 are in desparate urge to lose there vaginity.
so stay how you are, be yourself and save yourself for that one specail person, and when YOU are ready.0 -
There are a huge number of sexualities and sexual preferences besides homosexual and heterosexual. There are a huge number of reasons that one wouldn't want to have sex or be single, none of which are wrong or right. However, not having a desire or curiosity into that matter could mean that you're asexual (and asexual doesn't necessarily mean someone who doesn't *kitten*, there are all different kinds of asexual, too). Not that it matters, but if you feel the need to explain yourself to other people, then reading up on these things can help you get your point across.0
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Im 21 and Im a virgin 0
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Firstly: 'fornication' is a sin. 'fornication' means 'sexual intercourse outside wedlock'
Sadly this only affects persons involved in certain religions stemming from the middle east. The rest of us can bonk with joy and abandon not giving two hoots what some book says. If you think that book is just cute myths and legends and you don't take it too seriously then (a) you don't offer your virgin daughters to people about to gang-rape strange men and (b) you don't slit your wrists over having just had a very fine night of rumpy-tumpy with your hot, gorgeous boyfriend with that peachy, peachy butt.
PS: no, of course I'm not a virgin. My kids would be pretty worried if I were.0 -
PS: at my great age now, I look at romance novels and I think 'humans are trying to dress sexual intercourse up so they don't have to see it in the daylight.'
A man can handle his daughter bonking far better if she's married and it's 'leeerrrrrv' and they're getting a house and having children, than he can handle the raw reality of two mammals making the beast with two backs.
I don't think I can think of anything more destructive to the world over the ages than this romanticisation of a basic fundamental bodily function. It has been the keystone to so many religions, so many ways of controlling the masses. Control them through their sexuality and you have the ultimate control. Teach them to feel guilt about even thinking about it and that's just gravy.0 -
i am not a virgin but i WISH I HAD WAITED its a beauiful and special gift that you share with someone not something to be given lightly.
be proud and happy and dont let anyone tell you any different
as for thinking about nookie all the time u can still do that and be a virgin so that was a supid comment for people to make.
you will know when you are ready so dont rush and enjoy life x0 -
I lost my virginity at 18, and in my group of friends (and where I lived!) that was pretty late. I'm glad I waited until I was comfortable with it, and I think other people should always wait until they're sure it's what they want, whatever age that happens at!
I don't get why people are so weird about it, I don't really care who people are or aren't sleeping with, so I've always found it hard to understand why others are so bothered. Whatever reason you have for staying a virgin, I say good on you for sticking to your guns and waiting until the time is right for you. Same goes for people who aren't, go with what you believe in, morally, religiously, whatever.0 -
I'm a virgin! And that will change when I'm ready; but for now, I'm too insecure with my body to show it to anyone in that way. I'm not rushing it, though.
...nvm I'll leave this alone
I can only wonder if you're talking about the 3 of 4 pictures showing just her boobs. :huh:0 -
:laugh: my mum thinks that i am still a virgin as well hahaha.
That's what you think...Good for you. You're not the only one. My son is 25 and still a virgin.
Well, he tells me he is and I have no reason to believe he's lying because he certainly doesn't have to.0 -
I haven't had sex in 10 months, so I suppose you could say that I've re-virginised LOL0
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It seems to me the basic function of human life is to procreate. So it is kind of unnatural to not want to...
I'm a born again virgin. Not by choice though!
Muahahahahaahah. And is Virgin really a capital v?
Only if you talk about Virgin flights, Virgin trains, Virgin media, Virgin Holidays, Virgin money, Virgin London Marathon, Virgin broadband........
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To each their own. There's different views on the subject and I don't think that any of them should be considered to be 'wrong'. You do it when you're ready.
I personally decided to wait for my fiance (to be married in 5 days), and that was what was best for me. He waited for me, also. But I hardly look down on or think someone is wrong for not waiting. That's their personal choice.
Edit;; Also, I never 'lost' mine. I gave it to someone. 0 -
I think its admirable in this day and age to not fold under peer pressure. Shows great strength of character. Congrats x0
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Meh.
If you want to stay a virgin until the time is right for you then do that.
If you want more bangs than a Chinese fireworks factory then do that instead.
The sexual act in itself is no indicator of true morality (although the context within which is takes place may well be) and having sex or lots of sexual partners doesn't make a person kewl either.
Be happy.0 -
It's been so long that I feel like a virgin...but that's not what you're asking...0
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I'm not a virgin, but I don't judge people for choosing who they give their virgnity to, or whatever they choose. I have only had sex with one person in my life, and that's my husband. That's how I wanted it. I had opprotunities before him, but it was also important to me that I waited until I found the person I knew i would marry. (The original plan was to wait until marriage but when you life together first, that because pretty much impossible lol)
It's your life, enjoy it how you see fit.
^^ This ^^0 -
Oh, and another thing whilst I am on my high horse (and yes, I am on it...) there seems to be a myth that takes root in the minds of people that haven't had sex in a while that everyone else is going at it hammer and tongs making them a bit weird.
Obviously this is utter nonsense.
Most people's sex lives I would wager are perfectly average despite all the bravado and does not involve multiple positions multiple times a day whilst a Rocky like theme song is played in the background...0 -
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Meh.
If you want to stay a virgin until the time is right for you then do that.
If you want more bangs than a Chinese fireworks factory then do that instead.
The sexual act in itself is no indicator of true morality (although the context within which is takes place may well be) and having sex or lots of sexual partners doesn't make a person kewl either.
Be happy.
I agree.0 -
I could never marry as a virgin. I mean, what if the guy sucks in bed? Nah, not my thing.0
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I'm a virgin......in my butt.
Hahaha. Same.0 -
I could never marry as a virgin. I mean, what if the guy sucks in bed? Nah, not my thing.
But you could mold him into your perfect lover because he wouldn't know any different.0 -
I could never marry as a virgin. I mean, what if the guy sucks in bed? Nah, not my thing.
But you could mold him into your perfect lover because he wouldn't know any different.
That would be too much work. I like 'em when they already know what they're doing.0
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