Are most men like this to live with??

IronmanPanda

I hate man bashing threads with an all-consuming passion.

Men. Are. Awesome.

Guess what - I suck at keeping the dishes and laundry and other chores done. I'm a girl.
Penises don't make someone a slob. Being a slob makes someone a slob.

Men - YOU ROCK! I love that you're logical and solution-based. I love when you make me feel safe. I love the way you smell. I love the way you look. I love when you fix things for me or show me how to fix them. I love that you put up with my emotional roller coasters.
Men. Are. Awesome.

/endrant

this post plus your default pic make me think you seriously want a man in your life.

As opposed to these 2 chest poppers which tells us men how sophisticated you are?

chest poppers? after spending 6k, i dont need to pop my chest, thanks though. And that is quite a bit different than cramming a phallus shaped fruit down my throat and calling it a default.

Since there is no popping going on can I just motorboat? That's much more fun.

amylynn96

Wait, did I read it right? Are you his girlfriend or his MOTHER? :noway:

I didn't expect my mother to wait on me and she wasn't going out of her way to do so either.

But I'm one of those "started doing his own laundry at ten" kinds of kids.
-wtk

Apperently my mother in law did something right because i scored with the helpful, team work kind of guy. I always cook so its his instinct to clean up the kitchen after, i dont have to ask. I wash laundry and he folds it, we put it away together. My friends always wonder how i get him to do that? Either his mama taught him well or somewhere along the lines hes just got enough commen sense to be helpful when its OUR house and OUR life, or both . I have a son and i refuse to let him out of my house until hes trained to be a good man like his daddy, and i hope someday his wife comes to thank me im very grateful for my mother in law:flowerforyou:

Carl01

Yes but given that most women are money grubbing,crazy b!itches it is only fair.

J/K in case anyone doesn`t get that.



Honestly,if that is the man in your life then walk away from him,it really is that simple.

nammer79

I've recently moved in with my boyfriend and I'm just wondering if I'm being taken advantage of or if all guys are like this?

My boyfriend NEVER washes up his dishes which really annoys me because he has friend eggs and bacon every morning for breakfast. I just think he could at least clean his pans and plates and cups once as a sign of respect rather than leaving than for me. I also have cereal every morning which he knows that I don't use a pan...I just have one bowl.

He also just expects I'm going to make his dinner every night which is a pain for me because I'm a vegetarian and he's not so I have to make separate meals. He often doesn't finish until late so I have to make sure his meal is ready and hot by the time he gets home. I hate to sound like I'm ranting and being selfish but it's getting to the point where I don't want to do it anymore and I resent him for it sometimes. It's things too like making his bed which he just expects I'll do every morning and then it's funny because sometimes I'll leave a couple of crumbs on his couch and he'll say 'You can't eat breakfast on the couch, it has to be at the table...you're too messy' and then I'll look in the sink and there's a bazillion plates and cups there again :I

I'm just wondering if it's me being picky or if there really is a problem here?

you should have spent some real time with him before you moved in together if you guys have been together for a while than none of this should shock you. At least your not married LOL

yoovie

WAIT, so the OP is living rent free with no job.

i change my vote. yeah you should be pulling your fair share by cooking and cleaning.

thats what I was screaming.

The only thing off here is that they dont share a bed- which could be because he snores, or doesnt sleep well next to someone (which i hear all the time- guys and girls alike- some pople just arent comfortable sharing a bed when they arent having sex- almost normal)

Or maybe the reason she has a crap bed on the floor is because she didnt buy herself a bed yet.

doorki

I hate man bashing threads with an all-consuming passion.

Men. Are. Awesome.

Guess what - I suck at keeping the dishes and laundry and other chores done. I'm a girl.
Penises don't make someone a slob. Being a slob makes someone a slob.

Men - YOU ROCK! I love that you're logical and solution-based. I love when you make me feel safe. I love the way you smell. I love the way you look. I love when you fix things for me or show me how to fix them. I love that you put up with my emotional roller coasters.
Men. Are. Awesome.

/endrant

this post plus your default pic make me think you seriously want a man in your life.

As opposed to these 2 chest poppers which tells us men how sophisticated you are?

chest poppers? after spending 6k, i dont need to pop my chest, thanks though. And that is quite a bit different than cramming a phallus shaped fruit down my throat and calling it a default.

$6k? Bananas are only like $0.99 a pound or something like that. She is just being thrifty.

CoryIda

this post plus your default pic make me think you seriously want a man in your life.

No argument there, but have you considered that I just happen to have a sense of humor?

And I repeat... men are awesome.

sense of humor...cry for attention... tomato\tomato...

Ooooh. You mean, like this????
http://youtu.be/oTb_MAQPVlc

Becoming_A_Butterfly

No, not all men are like this. My boyfriend and I work together to cook, clean, work in the yard, everything required to keep a household running. It's just being an adult, to us, but it is also the shared expectation we brought into living together.

Fayve

I recently moved in with my boyfriend internationally as well. I can't work just yet, so my contribution is taking care of the house. Food, cleaning, the whole shebang.

While I do find the whole "sleeping in separate beds" thing a little odd, I think that housekeeping is a fair exchange for having financial support from your SO.

TiffanyDeanee

lmao, a bump for later! gotta go to work.

taunto

I hate man bashing threads with an all-consuming passion.

Men. Are. Awesome.

Guess what - I suck at keeping the dishes and laundry and other chores done. I'm a girl.
Penises don't make someone a slob. Being a slob makes someone a slob.

Men - YOU ROCK! I love that you're logical and solution-based. I love when you make me feel safe. I love the way you smell. I love the way you look. I love when you fix things for me or show me how to fix them. I love that you put up with my emotional roller coasters.
Men. Are. Awesome.

/endrant

this post plus your default pic make me think you seriously want a man in your life.

As opposed to these 2 chest poppers which tells us men how sophisticated you are?

chest poppers? after spending 6k, i dont need to pop my chest, thanks though. And that is quite a bit different than cramming a phallus shaped fruit down my throat and calling it a default.

So basically both of you are trying to seek attention. Nothing new. Just saying that people with glass houses shouldn't be throwing stones

GrnEydGrl86

HAS EVERYONE SEEN MY VIDEO OF ME SHOVING A BANANA DOWN MY THROAT???????


YES????



Good.

IronmanPanda

I hate man bashing threads with an all-consuming passion.

Men. Are. Awesome.

Guess what - I suck at keeping the dishes and laundry and other chores done. I'm a girl.
Penises don't make someone a slob. Being a slob makes someone a slob.

Men - YOU ROCK! I love that you're logical and solution-based. I love when you make me feel safe. I love the way you smell. I love the way you look. I love when you fix things for me or show me how to fix them. I love that you put up with my emotional roller coasters.
Men. Are. Awesome.

/endrant

this post plus your default pic make me think you seriously want a man in your life.

As opposed to these 2 chest poppers which tells us men how sophisticated you are?

chest poppers? after spending 6k, i dont need to pop my chest, thanks though. And that is quite a bit different than cramming a phallus shaped fruit down my throat and calling it a default.

So basically both of you are trying to seek attention. Nothing new. Just saying that people with glass houses shouldn't be throwing stones

But motorboating is ok right?

BrettPGH

My favorite thing I've learned today:

Spending $6,000 dollars to have doctors cut you open and insert foreign substances into your body so your boobs look bigger - female empowerment

Picture of a woman eating a banana - blatant whoring

LadyVivica

No, I have been living with my bf of 5 years for a year now and we work together to keep things clean and tidy.

But now that i'm unemployed I do more around the house and more of the cleaning, but that's because its the only way I can contribute. I personally do not believe in "roles" and when someone pushes them on me, it really angers me.

Its 2012, just do what needs to be done when you see it...but guys tend to be really messy...don't be afraid to stand up for yourself.

EDIT: sorry I was late to the party, when I first wrote this, this thread was one page...now its 8 LOL

GasMasterFlash

this post plus your default pic make me think you seriously want a man in your life.

Dude, posting other member's pics is not only against the guidelines, it's a really douchy thing to do.

Scott613

I hate man bashing threads with an all-consuming passion.

Men. Are. Awesome.

Guess what - I suck at keeping the dishes and laundry and other chores done. I'm a girl.
Penises don't make someone a slob. Being a slob makes someone a slob.

Men - YOU ROCK! I love that you're logical and solution-based. I love when you make me feel safe. I love the way you smell. I love the way you look. I love when you fix things for me or show me how to fix them. I love that you put up with my emotional roller coasters.
Men. Are. Awesome.

/endrant

this post plus your default pic make me think you seriously want a man in your life.

As opposed to these 2 chest poppers which tells us men how sophisticated you are?

chest poppers? after spending 6k, i dont need to pop my chest, thanks though. And that is quite a bit different than cramming a phallus shaped fruit down my throat and calling it a default.

Yeah but can you cook and clean too? If not It's like buying a car with a neat paint job but crappy engine. After awhile you'll get tired of looking at it if it doesn't work properly:flowerforyou:

poisongirl6485

LMAO, this thread was great. Thanks for the laugh guys!

sexforjaffacakes

Basically, if you're unemployed and he's paying for everything, do the damn house work until you get a job and quit whining (would say the same to an unemployed man).

The weird bit is that you supposedly sleep on a mattress n the floor...wtf?

Pretty sure this is a troll. Either that or she's a mail order bride and doesn't seem to realise the difference :P

marieautumn

I hate man bashing threads with an all-consuming passion.

Men. Are. Awesome.

Guess what - I suck at keeping the dishes and laundry and other chores done. I'm a girl.
Penises don't make someone a slob. Being a slob makes someone a slob.

Men - YOU ROCK! I love that you're logical and solution-based. I love when you make me feel safe. I love the way you smell. I love the way you look. I love when you fix things for me or show me how to fix them. I love that you put up with my emotional roller coasters.
Men. Are. Awesome.

/endrant

this post plus your default pic make me think you seriously want a man in your life.

As opposed to these 2 chest poppers which tells us men how sophisticated you are?

chest poppers? after spending 6k, i dont need to pop my chest, thanks though. And that is quite a bit different than cramming a phallus shaped fruit down my throat and calling it a default.

Yeah but can you cook and clean too? If not It's like buying a car with a neat paint job but crappy engine. After awhile you'll get tired of looking at it if it doesn't work properly:flowerforyou:

FYI i cook, own my own home, pay a cleaning lady and crossfit my butt off 3 times a week.