Do you kiss on the 1st date?

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  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Been a long time since I have been on a first date, but every date is different and I don't have any preset rules or boundaries.
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 1,799 Member
    That's an interesting distinction you make. Generally, yes.
  • LeenaRuns
    LeenaRuns Posts: 1,309 Member
    I kissed my husband on the first date but we were already madly in love! :love:

    Prior to him, it just depended on how the date went and the vibe I got from the man. Some I did and some I didn't. it just depended on how I felt.

    This.
  • jcstanton
    jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
    It depends on the situation. If it's someone I've known for a while before we went out, and I'm feeling chemistry, maybe...but no further. If it's someone I just met, probably not.
  • bluegirl10
    bluegirl10 Posts: 695 Member
    Yup...and now I am married to him :)

    Same here!
  • MikeyD1280
    MikeyD1280 Posts: 5,257
    when anticipation is built up, it makes for a better more chemical bond. I agree with the OP about waiting, it's not prudeness, it's a fantasy you build with one another about how the kiss is going to be. I waited when I dated and it makes for a better kiss... to me..

    Exactly. I make a kiss the on the cheek something to toss and turn over.

    like you said too, you know a "one-night-stand girl", and a "keeper". and it's always better with a keeper....
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Kissing on the first date is a tough call. If he's playing his cards right, then I'll want to kiss him by the end of the first date. Then, a kiss could seal the deal, BUT if he really wanted to drag out the sexual tension, he might not kiss me good night, but still find a way to show that he is interested. That is what makes the first date kiss such a tough call. Women (*disclaimer: maybe not everyone) use the kiss as indicator of how well their relationship is doing. If you don't kiss on the first date, but don't replace it with other cues, then she might not think you are interested at all.
  • mommy2AR
    mommy2AR Posts: 2,796 Member
    I have before... if the connection is there I see no reason really that you shouldnt
  • caraiselite
    caraiselite Posts: 2,631 Member
    what is this dating you speak of?

    but i probably would.
  • meg7399
    meg7399 Posts: 672 Member
    My BF and I live together...we kissed on the first date...but we had to or the sex on the first date my have been weird! Yep, I was that girl! We knew we were meant for each other...we had been talking for a month prior. He to this day tells me how it was the best decision he had made!
  • d0gma
    d0gma Posts: 3,966 Member
    If you're dropping them off at home, and it's after midnight, tell them you don't kiss on the first date. After the close the door, knock, tell them you noticed it's after midnight, so technically it's the second date and see what happens.
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    It depends ... I have kissed on the first date and I have done the whole quick hug thing. It really dpepends on the guy and how it went... Rules like this are silly
  • pyrowill
    pyrowill Posts: 1,163 Member
    Kiss what?
  • blazeybug87
    blazeybug87 Posts: 226 Member
    I stopped having rules about kissing when I was in high school. I'm a grown woman. If I want to kiss a man and I get the feeling he wants to kiss me, it's happening.

    Agreed!
  • blazeybug87
    blazeybug87 Posts: 226 Member
    If you're dropping them off at home, and it's after midnight, tell them you don't kiss on the first date. After the close the door, knock, tell them you noticed it's after midnight, so technically it's the second date and see what happens.

    LOL stuff like that is soooo cheesy!!!

    I'm glad I don't date. I will happily die a single mad cat lady :)
  • Roadie2000
    Roadie2000 Posts: 1,801 Member
    Occasionally I do, but usually not, generally just because I try to keep first dates quick and casual
  • feb06momma
    feb06momma Posts: 169
    My boyfriend and I kissed on our first date...13 months later, we are still going strong!!
  • tinacrane
    tinacrane Posts: 134 Member
    I have been married forever and ever, but I would say a warm handshake, hug or friendly cheek peck are a wonderful ending to a great first date, I have been married 31 years, so the rules were different back then , now I would think about it more :)
  • yo_sushi
    yo_sushi Posts: 77
    does her dad own a brewery?
  • jaquwa
    jaquwa Posts: 92 Member
    If you're dropping them off at home, and it's after midnight, tell them you don't kiss on the first date. After the close the door, knock, tell them you noticed it's after midnight, so technically it's the second date and see what happens.

    This is genius....cheesy but oh so good!
  • HeidiMightyRawr
    HeidiMightyRawr Posts: 3,343 Member
    Well I've never had a proper first date (started seeing my bf at 14 and we didn't really go on dates) but yes I would if I liked them, it depends on the scenario.

    I probably wouldn't make the first move though, if the guy didn't then I'd probably just leave it at that, and wait until next time. It doesn't bother me either way.
  • Notorious_T
    Notorious_T Posts: 384
    ill kiss downstairs on a first date, im a slut

    I like sluts...
  • Phrak
    Phrak Posts: 353 Member
    Id probably get drunk and try to make a move on the first date for sure.
  • hbrittingham
    hbrittingham Posts: 2,518 Member
    Well, I haven't had a first date in 22 years, but when I was single and dating, I did kiss on the first date. That was part of how I would gauge if I wanted a second date. I mean, kissing is an important part of a relationship. Fortunately, my husband is a fabulous kisser.
  • Princess_Sameen
    Princess_Sameen Posts: 284 Member
    I havent kissed on a first date...nice to connect with someone on a different level first. But hey I havent been on that many dates to be fair lol always in a long term relationship with my second boyfriend now 7years in october :)
  • 19foxy71
    19foxy71 Posts: 4 Member
    If you like them then yeh why not. I love kissing & its a good way to feel if theres a definate chemistry between you. At the end of the day its a kiss not a proposal of sex . . . or marriage
  • lizzybethclaire
    lizzybethclaire Posts: 849 Member
    So I gots me a hot date tonight, and I was curious if I was the only one with this philosophy. Call me old fashion, but I don't. kiss on the 1st date. Never have. The question is, do you?

    This does not count one-night stands. That's a different story. I treat a woman I want to get to know a lot differently than some chick I'm tryna smash.

    Why bother with the one night stands then?

    I didn't kiss my hubby on the first date, but I really wanted too. I have kissed on the first date, but it never turned into a full hook up session.
  • YaBoiMUGS
    YaBoiMUGS Posts: 237
    So I gots me a hot date tonight, and I was curious if I was the only one with this philosophy. Call me old fashion, but I don't. kiss on the 1st date. Never have. The question is, do you?

    This does not count one-night stands. That's a different story. I treat a woman I want to get to know a lot differently than some chick I'm tryna smash.

    Why bother with the one night stands then?

    Because not every girl is worth getting to know. :laugh:
  • Natx83
    Natx83 Posts: 1,298 Member
    If you're dropping them off at home, and it's after midnight, tell them you don't kiss on the first date. After the close the door, knock, tell them you noticed it's after midnight, so technically it's the second date and see what happens.

    LOL stuff like that is soooo cheesy!!!

    I'm glad I don't date. I will happily die a single mad cat lady :)

    Lol. Who are you trying to kid.

    If some cute guy did that to you, you would at least be flattered.
  • omlax24
    omlax24 Posts: 31
    I understand what youre saying that you want to get to know the person and not just on a sexual level but if the vibes right theres not much I wouldnt do on a first date
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