Do you kiss on the 1st date?

SeasideOasis

Depends, I think.

My boyfriend and I (when we first started dating 2.5 years ago) had already known each other for a couple of month. We definitely kissed on the first date, but we were already pretty comfortable with one another. That doesn't mean, however, we were knocking boots by date 2....

blazeybug87

If you're dropping them off at home, and it's after midnight, tell them you don't kiss on the first date. After the close the door, knock, tell them you noticed it's after midnight, so technically it's the second date and see what happens.

LOL stuff like that is soooo cheesy!!!

I'm glad I don't date. I will happily die a single mad cat lady

Lol. Who are you trying to kid.

If some cute guy did that to you, you would at least be flattered.

Seriously, I really don't like it and I would more than likely laugh and ask if that had ever actually worked. So contrived!

brewerchick

If the chemistry is there go for it! If you arn't sure then hold off. Have fun tonight and we expect details tomorrow

hdelamore

Most of my first dates have been with someone who I know well, therefore I do kiss them because I know I like them etc.
If it was a blind date however or someone I didn't know well, I probably wouldn't depends on the chemistry! x

Perfectdiamonds1

Nope, Nope, Nope.:noway: Handshake is good, and thank them. Maybe thats why I have not been on a date in a verrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry long time :laugh: :sad:

natacha305

I pretty much gave it up on the first date... men do it and so did I

now im married and i get to give it up everyday to the person I love

Prudiddy

I kissed my husband on the first date but we were already madly in love!

Prior to him, it just depended on how the date went and the vibe I got from the man. Some I did and some I didn't. it just depended on how I felt.

I agree, I kissed my husband on the first date, he told me he knew I was going to be his wife. Woohoo 8 months later we married. 4years later same kiss. Yeah it was worth it! LOL

still_crafty

what is this "date" you speak of? I believe I've heard of it before and if it leads to kissing, I may need to find one.

sdoldsMD2013

I don't kiss on the first date or several dates for that matter.

Waterbottlefiller

No kissing is way too sexual , I bang instead.

ultim8one

what is this "date" you speak of? I believe I've heard of it before and if it leads to kissing, I may need to find one.

good luck with that ... (-;

manderann

If it wasn't considered a date in the first place, but you still kiss, does that count??

Shannon2714

Exactly. I make a kiss the on the cheek something to toss and turn over.

Not gonna lie...that sounds pretty amazing

HauteP1nk

Depends, but I don't see why not if I am attracted to the person.

kikilieb

The last first date I had was 10 years ago, as I recall we were both up to no good that night and we got really drunk and we DID kiss. We were totally hot for each other… fast forward 10 years and we are still kissing. I guess you could say we were just meant for each other

Having said that, there are plenty of first dates that I haven't kissed on. Those relationships didn't last anywhere near 10 years (probably not even 10 days). Therefore I draw no correlation between intimacy on first dates versus quality of the relationship for the future. :happy:

Nailrep

YES. I want to see if there is chemisty so I don't waste anybody's time if there isn't.

But there will be no more first kisses for me, unless you consider the first one in the morning!

DrewMaxwell

It depends. If we're talking about the newly conceived idea of a date known as the "meet & greet", it's probably not gonna happen. This type of "date" is usually more awkward and ends in pleasantries being exchanged. If were talking about the traditional type of first date where you pick here up at her home, open the doors and generally behave as a gentleman truly interested in getting to know her, then it might end in a kiss when you drop her off, but mostly ends in a quick hug (embrace). The second date there should be no expectations, but I'd rather it end with a kiss and not much more as not to confuse the situation by dragging lust into the equation - especially if she is someone I could see myself with in a long term type of relationship.

placebomonkey

The last first date I had was 1991...I kissed her. The rest os history!

Awwwwww where are all the men like you ???

_binary_jester_

So I gots me a hot date tonight, and I was curious if I was the only one with this philosophy. Call me old fashion, but I don't. kiss on the 1st date. Never have. The question is, do you?

This does not count one-night stands. That's a different story. I treat a woman I want to get to know a lot differently than some chick I'm tryna smash.

I really don't understand the distinction, but thank you for perpetuating the myth that a woman you merely want to hook up with doesn't have to be respected.

sktllmdrhmz

The last first date I had was 1991...I kissed her. The rest os history!

Awwwwww where are all the men like you ???

Married.

Jules2Be

So I gots me a hot date tonight, and I was curious if I was the only one with this philosophy. Call me old fashion, but I don't. kiss on the 1st date. Never have. The question is, do you?

This does not count one-night stands. That's a different story. I treat a woman I want to get to know a lot differently than some chick I'm tryna smash.

I really don't understand the distinction, but thank you for perpetuating the myth that a woman you merely want to hook up with doesn't have to be respected.

i ****ing you

ZombieChaser

ill kiss downstairs on a first date, im a slut

as for me, nope...but all bets are off if there's a second date

sarahmoo12

yup a wee kiss not licking the face off the fella lol

Foxypoo61287

*Yes I edited it don't have big enough cahonas to not...*

JellyButter

I never been on a date....

MissFit0101

Kissing on the first date is a tough call. If he's playing his cards right, then I'll want to kiss him by the end of the first date. Then, a kiss could seal the deal, BUT if he really wanted to drag out the sexual tension, he might not kiss me good night, but still find a way to show that he is interested. That is what makes the first date kiss such a tough call. Women (*disclaimer: maybe not everyone) use the kiss as indicator of how well their relationship is doing. If you don't kiss on the first date, but don't replace it with other cues, then she might not think you are interested at all.

I have to agree with this ^

WhittRak

My husband and I did not kiss on our first date, or even our second. We kind of...skipped to the big enchilada for our third (totally not like me) Hahaha. I wouldn't have had it any other way :flowerforyou:

MikeyD1280

ill kiss downstairs on a first date, im a slut

as for me, nope...but all bets are off if there's a second date

POST OF THE DAY!!!!! :drinker:

lauralizzy829

I would say no kiss, but make sure she knows that you're still interested. I do generalize and stereotype men (based on my own experiences)...sorry!!!! So if a guy doesn't kiss me, I'll all up in my head wondering why?! What did I do?!
So my neurotic tendencies aside.......a kiss on the cheek or my favorite a kiss on the hand (very gentlemanly) will def pique her interest.

BrokenButterfly

I really don't understand why people think there are 'rules' to dating. Go with what feels right, not with what society tells you to do.