Do you kiss on the 1st date?
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I did with my now husband.
However, we had known each other and worked together for around 2 months at that time, so we really were past the "getting to know you" stage. At that point we knew that we liked one another a good bit0 -
Definitely depends on the chemistry between us. If it's going well of course it's just a kiss (doesn't mean there has to be tongue invovled)..., but if I really am digging a guy he will know it no doubt0
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You want to know what I think about a lady trying to kiss me when at a bar or a club...especially one that I might frequent? I feel like I am a fire hydrant and she is marking her territory. We are still talking first date kisses here mind you...0
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So I gots me a hot date tonight, and I was curious if I was the only one with this philosophy. Call me old fashion, but I don't. kiss on the 1st date. Never have. The question is, do you?
This does not count one-night stands. That's a different story. I treat a woman I want to get to know a lot differently than some chick I'm tryna smash.
You never know what a one-night stand could turn into if you treat it right. I've got a daughter and someone I've been with for over 2 years now from one, and we connected well enough that first night to stay connected afterward into something more.
Mentality is everything. Once you decide something won't work for whatever reason, you've closed all other options before they've even begun.0 -
I sure do....and if that is good...it leads to a great romp in the hay and breakfast the next morning.0
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Only if she's lucky. :smooched:0
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I'll kiss on the first date if things are going well and there is a lot of chemistry. To me though, I really like a kiss on the cheek on the first date. It says, "I like you, I had a great time, but I'm not trying to rush things."0
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Yes, of course.0
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Depends on the person and how good the date was. I wouldn't kiss(and only kiss) on the first date unless they're already gonna get a second date.
I agree with this!!0 -
I'll only go as far as a kiss on a cheek. But I've had some really weird relationships where there have been tendencies where the casual "date" never really happened.0
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I don't go on dates with anyone unless I know them pretty well to begin with so if I feel comfortable enough with the person and can see a relationship - casual or serious - then I won't have a problem. But if I feel things won't pan out with the person, then things won't go there. I generally don't make that move anyway.0
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My first date kiss, it went like this: He put his hands on each cheek, first he kissed my forehead, then he kissed my left eye, then my right eye, then my right cheek, then my left cheek. Then he kissed my nose. Then he laid a long , long one on my mouth, which eventually led to some tongue. IT WAS AWESOME! That was to Best kiss of my life - I'll never forget that one! And NO, it did not lead to anything other than kissing!
But it all really depends on the chemistry you are feeling between the two of you! If you want to kiss her, by all means DO IT!0 -
My last "first date" was almost 7 years ago. We didnt kiss, but I gave him a "Thank you" peck on the cheek. We both blushed. And now I've been married to my best friend for over 6 years.
Prior to that, Yes I most def kissed on the first date but all those first dates turned out to be wrong ways and dead ends.
Respect and trust come with not pushing and being willing to wait. The wait makes it sweeter when it does actually happen!0 -
When i was dating heck ya i did. I needed to see if there was chemistry, If there was no chemistry than tat would be in the end of that. It wasa bad thing because i let go of alot of nice guys because they could not kiss. No wmy husbandWOWZA amazing kisser.:blushing: :smooched:0
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hmmm do people still date these days? I'm confused. But then again, I love kissing but it depends on if I'm interested in them that way!0
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All 1st dates I've ever been on that didn't end with a kiss, the guy never called me back or answered my message.
Granted, it's been 10 years since I've dated.0 -
If the date is good, it absolutely deserves to end in a kiss! Even if it's a little peck on the mouth!0
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There isn't a rule whether you should or shouldn't kiss on the first date. If two people like one another, they're attracted to one another, and want to kiss, why would they follow a silly rule? If it feels right, go for it. I personally like a confident guy, one that isn't afraid to kiss me Have fun tonight!0
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It's all up to you. I think it is sweet to wait but word of advice...give her a hug or put your hand on the small of her back while you walk at least! After my first date with my fiance who was extremely shy he walked me to my car but there was no hug or physical contact at all and I walked away thinking he wasn't interested. Obviously I found out later he def. was but it would have been nice to be clued in.0
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I don't, but I have had a guy kiss me on the cheek. I find it a little too intimate if you are still getting to know someone. But it depends on chemistry. It doesn't mean I haven't wanted to...I had to resist several urges Saturday on my date. :blushing:0
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