Do you kiss on the 1st date?

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  • 7funnygirl7
    7funnygirl7 Posts: 1,176
    I think a kiss is harmless~ You can choose wether lips or just cheek. I myself like a kiss on a first date to kinda break the ice. You can tell a lot throught that kiss if you have chemistry together and if you actually think another date would be a go! :smile:
  • shaynak112
    shaynak112 Posts: 751 Member
    If a guy didn't try to kiss me on the first date, I'd wonder if it was a date. Does he like me? Probably not if he doesn't try to kiss me!!!
  • morgansmom02
    morgansmom02 Posts: 1,131 Member
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    *Yes I edited it don't have big enough cahonas to not...*

    No strikes for you!
  • Nerdy_Rose
    Nerdy_Rose Posts: 1,277 Member
    I don't date. I just have friends. And live. And sometimes, eventually, a kiss happens.
  • LeilaFace
    LeilaFace Posts: 390 Member
    I bang on the first date ... Hasn't failed me yet ...
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
    So I gots me a hot date tonight, and I was curious if I was the only one with this philosophy. Call me old fashion, but I don't. kiss on the 1st date. Never have. The question is, do you?

    This does not count one-night stands. That's a different story. I treat a woman I want to get to know a lot differently than some chick I'm tryna smash.
    Tell her about your theory on how it's only ok to kiss on the first date for chicks you are just "tryna smash" and I'm sure she wouldn't want to kiss you anyhow.

    My boyfriend kissed me on the first date. There was a ton of chemistry. He got up to go get us drinks at one point and before he walked away he just leaned in and went for it. I was into it. I wasn't going to be prudish and turn my head. Rules are stupid. Games are stupid. Just do what feels right to you in the moment and if it is meant to be, it'll be. We are going on 3 years now. I'm glad he kissed me.
  • SmexAppeal
    SmexAppeal Posts: 858 Member
    I would say I do normally kiss on the first date, but that's it. However, my boyfriend now we went all the way on the first date... BUT that's because we have known each other for over a year and kind of flirted the entire time. We knew it was going to happen. Just do what feels right. You may not be able to resist. If you get caught up in a moment, go for it!
  • SVCat
    SVCat Posts: 1,483 Member
    So I gots me a hot date tonight, and I was curious if I was the only one with this philosophy. Call me old fashion, but I don't. kiss on the 1st date. Never have. The question is, do you?

    This does not count one-night stands. That's a different story. I treat a woman I want to get to know a lot differently than some chick I'm tryna smash.
    Tell her about your theory on how it's only ok to kiss on the first date for chicks you are just "tryna smash" and I'm sure she wouldn't want to kiss you anyhow.

    My boyfriend kissed me on the first date. There was a ton of chemistry. He got up to go get us drinks at one point and before he walked away he just leaned in and went for it. I was into it. I wasn't going to be prudish and turn my head. Rules are stupid. Games are stupid. Just do what feels right to you in the moment and if it is meant to be, it'll be. We are going on 3 years now. I'm glad he kissed me.

    Rules be damned, go with the flow I say...just don't be trying to kiss me while at a bar or in a club...
  • Bentley2718
    Bentley2718 Posts: 1,689 Member
    I've had threesomes on the first date (well, it wasn't exactly a date, but close enough). And before you get all whatever, that man is now my best friend and my *husband*. Not everyone makes sharp distinctions between people they're "really" interested, and people they're just trying to f**k. There is something to be said for giving people a chance, and not just being a douche because you think a woman is easy and therefore not worth your time to really get to know.
  • SofaKingRad
    SofaKingRad Posts: 1,592 Member
    I've had threesomes on the first date (well, it wasn't exactly a date, but close enough).

    FRIEND REQUEST SENT!!!!! (just kidding :tongue: )
  • JDMPWR
    JDMPWR Posts: 1,863 Member
    I think the bigger question is will even want to kiss you? Maybe she just wants to smash and bounce.
  • bulbadoof
    bulbadoof Posts: 1,058 Member
    If it feels right.
  • ryall70
    ryall70 Posts: 519 Member
    My hard, fast rule is NO! But I broke that last year, intense chemistry. Wish I hadn't now :)
  • missoularocks
    missoularocks Posts: 294 Member
    I bang on the first date ... Hasn't failed me yet ...

    LMAO. Yeah, Leila!
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
    Rules be damned, go with the flow I say...just don't be trying to kiss me while at a bar or in a club...

    Atta boy, cap'n! Although, a kiss in a bar or club is fine as long as it isn't from people you don't know trying to grope you on the dance floor.
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    I got nothing against kissing on the first date. Hubs was so shy, though, he kissed me on the 7th date. I was starting to think he didn't know how...he proved me wrong.
  • PittShkr
    PittShkr Posts: 1,000 Member
    *note to self call Leila when i travel to the Northwest area!*
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
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  • contingencyplan
    contingencyplan Posts: 3,639 Member
    I generally try to avoid kissing at all as it is not natural for me. But first date would be absolutely out of the question.
  • afigueroa_pr
    afigueroa_pr Posts: 344
    Yes I do :-)

    Nothing wrong with it personally.
  • Tristis
    Tristis Posts: 288 Member
    If the chemistry is there, I think it is okay, but waiting makes it more memorable when it happens.
  • kristen6022
    kristen6022 Posts: 1,923 Member
    Depends. But more than likely I'd just go in for hug. Now, if the chemistry is like "WOW", I would then. But sometimes it takes that awhile to spark...
  • hesn92
    hesn92 Posts: 5,966 Member
    If we like each other yeah. If not, no way.
  • bekah_ann13
    bekah_ann13 Posts: 62
    I have not "dated" for eight years now. I have been married for almost eight years, but I kissed my future husband before we even began dating lol. We were "talking" at the time and one day he was in a bad mood and to cheer him up I kissed him and then we started to "date"
  • genuinelyfrans
    genuinelyfrans Posts: 584
    Never been on a date or kissed :( However, go with what you're comfortable with. If you really like her and she really likes you, go for it! If you feel more comfortable waiting until the second date, then do that.
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,339 Member
    always kiss on the first date.
  • SVCat
    SVCat Posts: 1,483 Member
    Rules be damned, go with the flow I say...just don't be trying to kiss me while at a bar or in a club...

    Atta boy, cap'n! Although, a kiss in a bar or club is fine as long as it isn't from people you don't know trying to grope you on the dance floor.

    You want to know what I think about a lady trying to kiss me when at a bar or a club...especially one that I might frequent? I feel like I am a fire hydrant and she is marking her territory. We are still talking first date kisses here mind you...
  • Darlingir
    Darlingir Posts: 437
    So I gots me a hot date tonight, and I was curious if I was the only one with this philosophy. Call me old fashion, but I don't. kiss on the 1st date. Never have. The question is, do you?

    This does not count one-night stands. That's a different story. I treat a woman I want to get to know a lot differently than some chick I'm tryna smash.

    your last few sentences are interesting....going to have my daughter read it.
  • Giraffe33991
    Giraffe33991 Posts: 430 Member
    My current boyfriend kissed me ALOT on our first date & I'm soooooo happy he did!!
    Sometimes you just gotta go with the flow...
  • emmymae22
    emmymae22 Posts: 206
    For me it depends on the situation...if it feels right, I want to be kissed. :)
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