Do you kiss on the 1st date?

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  • MikeyD1280
    MikeyD1280 Posts: 5,257
    FirstDateKid.jpg


    *Yes I edited it don't have big enough cahonas to not...*

    haha, when I had myspace... yes i SAID MYSPACE this was... or still is, on my wall!!! haha...
  • supatim
    supatim Posts: 239 Member
    It just depends on where she wants me to kiss her...
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    I think someone got their dating strategies from Jersey Shore.
  • p0pr0cksnc0ke
    p0pr0cksnc0ke Posts: 1,283 Member
    (granted its been 11.5 years since my "first date)
    But, yes. I kissed him on the first date. Never regretted anything. ♥
  • Shayztar
    Shayztar Posts: 415 Member
    I haven't had a first date in 12 years!! But yes, I used to kiss on the first date. I think that kissing is like a fingerprint. Everyone is different. No point in getting to know someone on a potentially romantic level if they kiss like a dead fish or like a hungry puppy. If our kiss is not compatible, then making out is gonna suck.

    That being said, I can sometimes notice in movies when the two characters do not have a compatible kiss, but force it because in the movie they are "In Love". Worst kisser? The guy who played E (Eric) on Entourage. Total hungry puppy. Every show or movie I've seen him kiss in? Om nom nom nom. Doesn't look sexy at all.
  • aprilgrl27
    aprilgrl27 Posts: 176 Member
    My BF and I live together...we kissed on the first date...but we had to or the sex on the first date my have been weird! Yep, I was that girl! We knew we were meant for each other...we had been talking for a month prior. He to this day tells me how it was the best decision he had made!

    LMAO *love this :)
  • vim_n_vigor
    vim_n_vigor Posts: 4,089 Member
    So I gots me a hot date tonight, and I was curious if I was the only one with this philosophy. Call me old fashion, but I don't. kiss on the 1st date. Never have. The question is, do you?

    This does not count one-night stands. That's a different story. I treat a woman I want to get to know a lot differently than some chick I'm tryna smash.

    So, translation here. You are hot and I'd like to see you again, so I'll act like a gentleman,

    but.....

    I'm really a douche that thinks it is ok to treat some women like trash because I only want to get laid.
  • Diary_Queen
    Diary_Queen Posts: 1,314 Member
    when anticipation is built up, it makes for a better more chemical bond. I agree with the OP about waiting, it's not prudeness, it's a fantasy you build with one another about how the kiss is going to be. I waited when I dated and it makes for a better kiss... to me..

    :love:
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    Yes, I'll kiss on the first date.
    Love to play games as well...
    like kiss the taco and hide the sausage.
  • vim_n_vigor
    vim_n_vigor Posts: 4,089 Member
    Yes, I'll kiss on the first date.
    Love to play games as well...
    like kiss the taco and hide the sausage.

    Ha!
  • BAMFMeredith
    BAMFMeredith Posts: 2,810 Member
    First of all, OP, you sound absolutely charming.


    Second of all, if there's chemistry and I wanna kiss the guy, I'll kiss him. Hell, my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years and I fooled around on our first date (although we'd known each other for like 10 years). I've never played by the rules very well.
  • Elf_Princess1210
    Elf_Princess1210 Posts: 895 Member
    I don't see a problem with kissing on the first date , but that's as far as I would want to go.
  • xuashe
    xuashe Posts: 46
    Yes.
    I went full on make-out in car mode with my fiance. :blushing:
  • Kitten2629
    Kitten2629 Posts: 1,358 Member
    Yes, and his kiss still effects me as it did 11 years ago.
  • RaeN81
    RaeN81 Posts: 534 Member
    Personally, absolutely not.
  • Lkoblara
    Lkoblara Posts: 137 Member
    last first date I went on was over 12 years ago. I kissed on the first date, and the second, and the third. 12 years later: Lived together for 11, Married for 7, Have a 3 year old son. . . and I'm still kissing him :)

    Sometimes it's ok to break a rule ;)
  • Expialidojess
    Expialidojess Posts: 441 Member
    This does not count one-night stands. That's a different story. I treat a woman I want to get to know a lot differently than some chick I'm tryna smash.

    Awwww, how sweet of you. So what, you take her to Applebees instead of Jack in the Box?
  • sareebee25
    sareebee25 Posts: 1
    I would say yes kiss on the first date...however, I think if you don't it'll make the girl want you more lol!
  • d0gma
    d0gma Posts: 3,966 Member
    If you're dropping them off at home, and it's after midnight, tell them you don't kiss on the first date. After the close the door, knock, tell them you noticed it's after midnight, so technically it's the second date and see what happens.

    This is genius....cheesy but oh so good!
    Disclaimer!!! You may want to find out if she's seen "Things to Do in Denver When You're Dead" before you try this. If she has, she might just tell you that you're not as smooth as Andy Garcia.
  • FitzJill
    FitzJill Posts: 3
    Yes, though on one date a guy didn't kiss me and I felt slightly rejected.
  • mikeyboy
    mikeyboy Posts: 1,057 Member
    If everything was going good, and her body language said so, I would give her a goodnight kiss on the cheek. :smooched:
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    No, I won't. For me, I say at least a couple of dates before that will happen.
  • MikeyD1280
    MikeyD1280 Posts: 5,257
    This does not count one-night stands. That's a different story. I treat a woman I want to get to know a lot differently than some chick I'm tryna smash.

    Awwww, how sweet of you. So what, you take her to Applebees instead of Jack in the Box?

    :laugh: :laugh:
  • coachblt
    coachblt Posts: 1,090
    It's been years since I've gone on a date, so seeing this thread should be helpful.

    In my past, I have never kissed on the first date. I believe kissing is one of the most intimate behaviors two can share, and it takes a while before I feel we're both ready for sharing. I know, that's old-fashioned, but that's how I am.

    Since its been almost a decade since I've been on a date, I wonder if it still works this way?????
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    If he doesnt kiss me, I assume he wasnt into me. The next time he wants to hang out, im sure its to go bowling or something friendly and platonic like that. The only way I dont feel this way is if he makes an effort to touch me several times throughout the evening.

    but usually, if he doesnt kiss me on the first date, i dont bother him anymore.
  • BROscience_PHD
    BROscience_PHD Posts: 215 Member
    So I gots me a hot date tonight, and I was curious if I was the only one with this philosophy. Call me old fashion, but I don't. kiss on the 1st date. Never have. The question is, do you?

    This does not count one-night stands. That's a different story. I treat a woman I want to get to know a lot differently than some chick I'm tryna smash.
    Absolutely not, mono is a sickly disease bruh
  • FitnFabMichelle
    FitnFabMichelle Posts: 161 Member
    It really depends...but I'm tending to believe the MORE I like someone the LESS likely I am to kiss them on the first date.
  • laughingdani
    laughingdani Posts: 2,275 Member
    So I gots me a hot date tonight, and I was curious if I was the only one with this philosophy. Call me old fashion, but I don't. kiss on the 1st date. Never have. The question is, do you?

    This does not count one-night stands. That's a different story. I treat a woman I want to get to know a lot differently than some chick I'm tryna smash.

    Why bother with the one night stands then?

    Because not every girl is worth getting to know. :laugh:

    I'm sure some girls could say the same thing about you.

    I just hope they're not the ones sleeping with you.
  • Bronx_Montgomery
    Bronx_Montgomery Posts: 2,284 Member
    As long as there is a connection YES
  • T_R_A_V
    T_R_A_V Posts: 1,629 Member
    It depends on how the earth and stars are alligned whether I will or not

    I guess every situation is different...

    Have I, hell yah? Have I not, of course?

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