Is this jealousy or intuition?

LonLB

So I am dating this guy. We've been dating on and off for about 3 months, roughly 10 dates. We have been off for the past month, but are back on currently. We went out yesterday and he informed me that he is taking his ex (who happens to be a stripper, who he had a threesome with) out to dinner for her birthday on Friday. Am I just jealous, or is my intuition kicking in here? Maybe I'm jealous just because her profession. If she were an accountant, would I be feeling the same?
I told him straight up, as long as you aren't giving her birthday sex. BUT instead of telling me I have nothing to worry about, he says "We can't. She's not coming to my house." Am I over thinking that statement? Are guys just that stupid that that is the first thing that came into his head?
And finally... how can I talk to him about this concerning me without sounding whiny, jealous or complaining. I don't want to care if he hangs out with an ex. I just feel very concerned about the situation. And I would like to address it to him without attacking him.
Please help me ... :ohwell:

When I dated someone I really was into, I spent time only with them.
He's not into you enough to sweat what you care, so it's time to make like a tree.

Erisad

It's neither jealousy or intuition. It's a big red flag telling you this dude is a loser!

You have a son; be careful of the messages he is receiving about how to treat women.

I don't care what year it is - wait until you get married to have sex!

When you are older and wiser, you will start to get things in the Bible that you never got before.

You will look back on your life and realize that if you only listened to God's Word instead of man, your life would have been a whole lot better.

(Let the bashing begin - I'm out of here!)

Wow, reminds me of my grandmother. Pulling the Bible out and using it in EVERY conversation, whether it's relevant or not. *sigh*

She must be so proud! I feel sorry for her as a grandmother.

She refers to me as a heathen so yeah, it's a bit rough between us right now because I want nothing to do with Christianity anymore due to its politics among other things. Can't wait to move out so I can stop having my beliefs criticized on a regular basis.

HiKaren

To make a answer short..... Intuition... Go with your gut on this one...