Sleeping with my boyfriend ticks me off.

takechances
takechances Posts: 65
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And before you say anything, I really mean sleeping. I'm a wait until marriage kind of girl. :)

Anywho, with his work schedule, some days my only chance to see him is early early in the morning and after 11:30 at night. Most days like that he'll just spend the night so we can have time together.

Don't get me wrong. I love sleeping with him... Sometimes. On good nights, I sleep fantastically. The other 50% of the time I wake up to him fondling my stomach or back. Or like last night, he kept me up for HALF AN HOUR because he was licking and kissing my ears and breathing on them. This just drives me CRAZY! Or I'll say "stop that." and he'll do it again later!
Some nights I'm in a cuddly mood. But if I'm hot, then I can't stand to have a hot, sweaty body all over me. Or even touching me for that matter.
He sleeps in late and stays up until around 3am. He's kind of like a child in the sense that if I don't stay awake despite exhaustion to entertain him, he'll keep me up all night.

Does anyone else have a problem like this? I should tell him, right?
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  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    Shocking, I know... but I think he's horny, honey.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Shocking, I know... but I think he's horny, honey.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • doorki
    doorki Posts: 2,576 Member
    does he also keep poking you in the back when you can already feel both of his hands?
  • taso42
    taso42 Posts: 8,980 Member
    can't you get him fixed (neutered) or something? then when you're ready to get married, find a guy who still has organs.
  • LifeOnMars_
    LifeOnMars_ Posts: 720 Member
    :huh:
  • michellekicks
    michellekicks Posts: 3,624 Member
    You need to get out of his bed if you're waiting for marriage.
  • Il_DaniD_lI
    Il_DaniD_lI Posts: 1,593 Member
    I would say have sex with him and he will go right to sleep, but since you're waiting until you get married that isn't going to work.
  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    Shocking, I know... but I think he's horny, honey.

    This. If you don't want to have sex with him, he probably shouldn't be staying the night.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    can't you get him fixed (neutered) or something? then when you're ready to get married, find a guy who still has organs.

    that's the perfect solution. pure genius.
  • _Elemenopee_
    _Elemenopee_ Posts: 2,665 Member
    You poor, poor thing. How horrible this must be for you. You just want to sleep, right?

    Yes, I think you should tell him. This madness needs to stop!
  • _skittybang
    _skittybang Posts: 970 Member
    As long as you're waiting, at least let him bagpipe you. I don't think the armpits get enough play, anyways.
  • Polly758
    Polly758 Posts: 623 Member
    Telling a person you're waiting until marriage and then going to bed with him...?

    I don't see a problem here.
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
    He's trying to seduce you, sweetie. And you're being a tease. Stop it.
  • Maude_Lewbowski
    Maude_Lewbowski Posts: 395 Member
    Down at Fraglle Rock *clap clap*
  • Thomasm198
    Thomasm198 Posts: 3,189 Member
    Tie him up and gag him? dunno.gif
  • DopeItUp
    DopeItUp Posts: 18,771 Member
    At least give him a handski or something. He'll leave you alone and be snoring in no time. Poor guy.
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
    Tie him up and gag him? dunno.gif
    No, no, she said they're waiting for marriage.
  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,275 Member
    Actually sleeping with your boyfriend probably ticks him off more than you......so have they gotten completely blue yet? \m/
  • _Ivian
    _Ivian Posts: 198
    As long as you're waiting, at least let him bagpipe you. I don't think the armpits get enough play, anyways.

    OMFG I lost it! I have water all over my keyboard now!
  • SaraBelle0312
    SaraBelle0312 Posts: 328 Member
    BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!
    ***WALKS OUT OF FORUM LMAO!!!*** :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :bigsmile:
  • LilMissSunshine_
    LilMissSunshine_ Posts: 520
    And this is what people call a "tease".
  • ephemerata
    ephemerata Posts: 82 Member
    if you're really serious about not losing your virginity until marriage, i suggest setting some clear boundaries with him. he's obviously trying to have sex with you.
  • TexanThom
    TexanThom Posts: 778
    H.
    a.
    n.
    d. Job.
  • daffodilsoup
    daffodilsoup Posts: 1,972 Member
    My boyfriend and I have very strict rules when it comes to sleeping - we snuggle for a little while, then once one of us is tired, we both roll over and fall asleep and that's it! No more touching til morning, haha.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    As long as you're waiting, at least let him bagpipe you. I don't think the armpits get enough play, anyways.

    Oh for the love of gravy, i've pissed myself... again. Damnit, Skitty!
  • PANZERIA
    PANZERIA Posts: 471 Member
    You can still fool around without having sex. But the whole 'staying the night' thing is kindof a mixed signal to him. I understand missing him, but only stay for as long as you can, then go home. Your relationship will work out better if you do this, and then there's no chance of these 'annoying' habits of his.
  • BoatReadyBody
    BoatReadyBody Posts: 376
    Actually sleeping with your boyfriend probably ticks him off more than you......so have they gotten completely blue yet? \m/


    Lmao!!!
  • AllyC_804
    AllyC_804 Posts: 32
    And this is what people call a "tease".

    Second this!!! If you are "sleeping" in bed with him, he is gonna want more. Especially if he is NOT a virgin. You are like a shiny gold prize. :drinker:
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,238 Member
    okkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkthen.
  • LifeOnMars_
    LifeOnMars_ Posts: 720 Member
    Pillowpants and Listerfiend got your back girl :)

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