Sleeping with my boyfriend ticks me off.

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  • xMonroeMisfit
    xMonroeMisfit Posts: 411 Member
    He's trying to seduce you, sweetie. And you're being a tease. Stop it.


    :drinker:
  • mfp_junkie
    mfp_junkie Posts: 359
    Solve the problem. Get married, and you'll leave each other alone, and sleep in peace. :bigsmile:
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,173 Member
    Solve the problem. Get married, and you'll leave each other alone, and sleep in peace. :bigsmile:

    Who are you who is so wise in the ways of science?
  • theresmynapkin
    theresmynapkin Posts: 183 Member
    Happens all the time. My breaking point is about 20 minutes before I give in and let him have sex with me so he'll leave me alone and let me sleep.
  • calvert6183
    calvert6183 Posts: 539 Member
    It cause he has blue balz. Poor guy is dieing cause you wont touch his willie. Thats like putting a bowl of food outside the kennel in front of the dog anf he cant get to it.
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    If you let him tickle your tailpipe, technically you're still a virgin. Win-win right there.
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,173 Member
    If you let him tickle your tailpipe, technically you're still a virgin. Win-win right there.

    Listen to him...he knows what he's talking about.
  • Pimpmonkey
    Pimpmonkey Posts: 566
    And before you say anything, I really mean sleeping. I'm a wait until marriage kind of girl. :)

    Anywho, with his work schedule, some days my only chance to see him is early early in the morning and after 11:30 at night. Most days like that he'll just spend the night so we can have time together.

    Don't get me wrong. I love sleeping with him... Sometimes. On good nights, I sleep fantastically. The other 50% of the time I wake up to him fondling my stomach or back. Or like last night, he kept me up for HALF AN HOUR because he was licking and kissing my ears and breathing on them. This just drives me CRAZY! Or I'll say "stop that." and he'll do it again later!
    Some nights I'm in a cuddly mood. But if I'm hot, then I can't stand to have a hot, sweaty body all over me. Or even touching me for that matter.
    He sleeps in late and stays up until around 3am. He's kind of like a child in the sense that if I don't stay awake despite exhaustion to entertain him, he'll keep me up all night.

    Does anyone else have a problem like this? I should tell him, right?

    Tell him. It may not fix it, but at least he can't pretend he doesn;t know what he's doing. :laugh: I work nights and for the most part my old man is on my schedule, but there are times when his schedule is different for various reasons and he tries to torment the crap out of me because he either doesn't want to sleep alone, or because I have to sleep and he wants to talk or cuddle or whatever.

    Good luck, Men are notorious children!
  • MisterGoodBar
    MisterGoodBar Posts: 157 Member
    after the 1st night he allowed that type of coercion, should've been known that he's insane and that she was manipulative and selfish (for only wanting her own type of intimacy). soooo many other things she should/could/supposed to do as a negotion.
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    after the 1st night he allowed that type of coercion, should've been known that he's insane and that she was manipulative and selfish (for only wanting her own type of intimacy). soooo many other things she should/could/supposed to do as a negotion.
    sometimes the thesaurus is a bad thing.
  • Erisad
    Erisad Posts: 1,580
    Um...there are other things you can do to hold him over until you're ready to get married while you keep your virginity. Come on, don't be a tease. Poor guy. >.<
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
    I'm surprised at all the people calling the OP a tease. I would hope that her boyfriend is aware she's a wait until marriage kinda girl and if he's not ...well there's bigger issues than sleeping here. If he is aware of it then he needs to respect her boundaries- waiting until marriage may not be what most people do but if that's her choice then any person she dates should be respectful of it.
    I assume she's more of a troll, but seriously? You don't think that saying no but getting into bed with someone is being a tease? Oooookay then!

    Not if she's open and honest about it- there's a lot of stuff we dont know...I mean if they sleep naked together yea something's weird...but no I don't think it makes her a tease if he is aware of her boundaries. I'm quite positive she didn't hold a gun to his head and say sleep next to me but don't screw me...

    There's nothing wrong with waiting but if it's for religious reasons, or any reason for that matter, then they should not be sleeping together. When my boyfriend and I decided not to have sex for religious reasons, we knew we had to put limits on how we spend our time together. And cuddling late a night definitely had to go!

    There is nothing wrong with waiting, but just because she wants to wait doesn't mean he wants to wait and isn't hopeful she'll change her mind . . . especially with these mixed signals.
  • chameleon77
    chameleon77 Posts: 124
    Temptation is just too strong!!!
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    You need to get out of his bed if you're waiting for marriage.

    This I agree with. I completely understand where you're coming from with no sex before marriage, and I support you 100% but it's a mixed message when you'll sleep with him in the bed.
  • 33neenaj
    33neenaj Posts: 306
    LOL
  • Tender78
    Tender78 Posts: 119 Member
    H.
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    n.
    d. Job.

    Hahahaha, love this!!
  • Melanie_RS
    Melanie_RS Posts: 417 Member
    Sorry to see OP is gone.

    I was going to suggest that her boyfriend exercise a bit before bed, it will probably be a more restful night for both of them.

    shake.gif

    I just need all my friends to read this thread. It has surely been the highlight of my day.
  • hesn92
    hesn92 Posts: 5,966 Member
    aahahahahahahahaha!!!!! Poor guy.
  • dhiannon
    dhiannon Posts: 111 Member
    I want to say BUMP but I'm also waiting until marriage :)
  • stupidloser
    stupidloser Posts: 300 Member
    B.L.O.W.J.O.B.
  • Charger440
    Charger440 Posts: 1,474 Member
    ROFLMAO!!!
  • Devlyn_P
    Devlyn_P Posts: 294 Member
    Seriously? :huh:
  • Sman317
    Sman317 Posts: 3
    Well the way I'm laughing reading this thread, it is very healthy. I'm burning more calories than if I wasn't :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • Arexxx
    Arexxx Posts: 486 Member
    Throw him a sympathy screw.
  • weighlossforbaby
    weighlossforbaby Posts: 847 Member
    And how is this related to fitness and losing weight?? Just curious.

    It's called Chit-chat, fun, and games.
  • dhiannon
    dhiannon Posts: 111 Member
    One day you're going to wake up with him slapping his penis on your forehead.

    Get out of his bed if you're waiting!

    I am seriously crying laughing so hard at this comment. Awesome :)
  • weighlossforbaby
    weighlossforbaby Posts: 847 Member
    If you're waiting til marriage you shouldn't be sleeping with him. I waited til marriage and we didn't live together. We met online and lived in different states til the day we got married in a court house.
  • kimi131
    kimi131 Posts: 1,058 Member
    I'm surprised at all the people calling the OP a tease. I would hope that her boyfriend is aware she's a wait until marriage kinda girl and if he's not ...well there's bigger issues than sleeping here. If he is aware of it then he needs to respect her boundaries- waiting until marriage may not be what most people do but if that's her choice then any person she dates should be respectful of it.

    But, she's sleeping in his bed!!!!! Or did you miss that part? I mean, talk about mixed signals...
  • kimi131
    kimi131 Posts: 1,058 Member
    I'm surprised at all the people calling the OP a tease. I would hope that her boyfriend is aware she's a wait until marriage kinda girl and if he's not ...well there's bigger issues than sleeping here. If he is aware of it then he needs to respect her boundaries- waiting until marriage may not be what most people do but if that's her choice then any person she dates should be respectful of it.
    I assume she's more of a troll, but seriously? You don't think that saying no but getting into bed with someone is being a tease? Oooookay then!
    Kind of makes you wonder what someone would actually have to do to be considered a tease then? Lick it then say no?

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  • One day you're going to wake up with him slapping his penis on your forehead.

    Get out of his bed if you're waiting!

    I am seriously crying laughing so hard at this comment. Awesome :)

    Oh come on, all guys do this... (don't they?)