Online Cheating

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  • Iceman1800
    Iceman1800 Posts: 476
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    Some of your comments are just too funny!!

    I can be friends with either sex online, because at the end of the day I'm really only interacting with my keyboard and monitor :tongue:
    exactly. Are you cheating if you watch porn? What about a steamy romance novel? Online isn't real life.
  • rocksyraeis
    rocksyraeis Posts: 194
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    Some of your comments are just too funny!!

    I can be friends with either sex online, because at the end of the day I'm really only interacting with my keyboard and monitor :tongue:
    exactly. Are you cheating if you watch porn? What about a steamy romance novel? Online isn't real life.

    Ahhahaha ok waaait aaaa secooond its different in porn those are people you will NEVER meet, a romance novel is strictly a fantasy the people on here are real people with real lives and arent doing "sexting" for a paycheck (pornstar does it for money) to say "oh its not real its ok!" is kinda like saying hey since its online and ill never see this person unless i make an effort and get closer its ok! I dont knooow thats AWFUL close to cheating.
  • Ralphrabbit
    Ralphrabbit Posts: 351 Member
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    If people want to cheat they will cheat! I have some great supportive friends of the opposite sex, on here and in life. I respect them by not flirting with them married or not (I am not but have been married!) I someone is sleazy & makes me feel uncomfortable they get deleted whether or not they are male or female!! If I made silly rules I would lose the support of some great guys!
  • Missklara
    Missklara Posts: 283 Member
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    I agree! I would be nuts if my boyfriend had female friends on internet and flerted with them!
    It's not cheating but i don't accept flirting of any kind
  • rocksyraeis
    rocksyraeis Posts: 194
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    I agree! I would be nuts if my boyfriend had female friends on internet and flerted with them!
    It's not cheating but i don't accept flirting of any kind

    What is considered flirting to you?
  • ❤B☩❤
    ❤B☩❤ Posts: 634
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    For me its a women only rule as any of the guys I've come across so far usually have ulterior motives even being on a site like MFP!

    Also out of respect for my husband as well as I wouldn't be happy about him having women friends - men and women cannot be friends without sex or innuendoes coming into the equation!

    Then, unfortunately, you have DEFINITELY come across the wrong guys. Do you really think that guys don't have weight problems, or low self-esteem? Better yet, do you think that guys don't have some great (NON-SEXUAL) ideas? I should direct you to my Guy Friends here on MFP. I, too, am very happily married, and the friends I have have all been very helpful and supportive of me.... A HAPPY WIFE = A HAPPY LIFE!
  • dodihere
    dodihere Posts: 490
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    I chose two men to be my online friends for one reason only, so I can compare my food intake and exercise to a man that is losing weight/lost weight. I am not seeking attention from any man.
  • bsuid72
    bsuid72 Posts: 33
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    Then, unfortunately, you have DEFINITELY come across the wrong guys. Do you really think that guys don't have weight problems, or low self-esteem? Better yet, do you think that guys don't have some great (NON-SEXUAL) ideas? I should direct you to my Guy Friends here on MFP. I, too, am very happily married, and the friends I have have all been very helpful and supportive of me.... A HAPPY WIFE = A HAPPY LIFE!


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  • Vince_1964
    Vince_1964 Posts: 359 Member
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    - men and women cannot be friends without sex or innuendoes coming into the equation!

    I disagree totally. They do not with me and nor do they with most of the people I know. I think you must have run into more than your fair share of sleaze bags. We're not all "only interested in one thing".

    ^^^ I agree with this. I have a number of female friends (both "virtual" on MFP and "real") in my life - and it has nothing to do with sex or having ulterior motives. Sorry, but it seems your experience with men has been tainted by meeting and dealing with some real slime-balls. I don't count myself among them!
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
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    I agree! I would be nuts if my boyfriend had female friends on internet and flerted with them!
    It's not cheating but i don't accept flirting of any kind

    How YOU doin?
    :wink:
  • Vince_1964
    Vince_1964 Posts: 359 Member
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    - men and women cannot be friends without sex or innuendoes coming into the equation!

    I disagree totally. They do not with me and nor do they with most of the people I know. I think you must have run into more than your fair share of sleaze bags. We're not all "only interested in one thing".

    ^^^ I agree with this. I have a number of female friends (both "virtual" on MFP and "real") in my life - and it has nothing to do with sex or having ulterior motives. Sorry, but it seems your experience with men has been tainted by meeting and dealing with some real slime-balls. I don't count myself among them!

    Oh ... and I've been happily married for 25 years while maintaining friendships with both women and men ...
  • wolfpack77
    wolfpack77 Posts: 655
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    The approach I take is that if a person is naturally a social butterfly, its going to be that way in all areas of their life - not just online. These kinds of people are going to attract the opposite sex no matter what because of their outgoing nature... It doesn't necessarily mean that they're a cheater or prone to infidelity. They are who they are.

    If you choose to date or be with a person like that, its just something you accept about their personality. If you're insecure then this personality type isnt a match for you. You'll just end up stressing yourself out and making their lives miserable. A waste of time for the both of you!

    I am not and never have been the jealous type, and I believe people should be allowed to be who they are without others trying to change them because they're judgemental, insurece or controlling. In the end a person is going to do what they want to do anyways and you're not going to stop them. If they want to be with you, they will be. If they want to cheat on you and leave you, they dont need the Internet to do it.

    Basically in the end its about knowing yourself and who you're a good match for. Choose wisely and these types of issue wont even be a problem.
  • scruffykaz
    scruffykaz Posts: 317 Member
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    Hearing all the stories about people cheating on their spouses, what is your take on having friends of the opposite sex at MyFitnessPal?

    I ask them to form an orderly queue then shag my way to increased calories...it's all good exercise!
  • DeenaSteelerGirl
    DeenaSteelerGirl Posts: 449
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    I am innocent.. That is my story and I am sticking to it !!!! :tongue: And really .. people flirt here ? Noooooooo news to me... :indifferent:
  • sofakingawesome69
    sofakingawesome69 Posts: 149
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    I keep my wife locked in the basement so she can't be tempted by other men. I mean, who knows just what she might do..
  • marthathebear
    marthathebear Posts: 498
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    For me its a women only rule as any of the guys I've come across so far usually have ulterior motives even being on a site like MFP!

    Also out of respect for my husband as well as I wouldn't be happy about him having women friends - men and women cannot be friends without sex or innuendoes coming into the equation!

    That's probably true somewhat but I do have male friends. I only have friends and conversations I wouldn't mind my husband reading.
  • jcjsjones
    jcjsjones Posts: 571 Member
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    I have male MFP friends but we encourage each other, not flirt. I have a wonderful husband and would never do anything to hurt my marriage.
  • HeinzPrincess
    HeinzPrincess Posts: 92
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    I just joined MFP and here's what I do:

    1. If you make a flirtatious comment on my wall, it stays there because it's public
    2. If you make a flirtatious comment on a private message, I will tell you I have a boyfriend. I'm not offended (I mean, seriously, they are compliments) but I want to make sure we are on the same page.

    My boyfriend is on here as well but only to track calories right now so he doesn't have friends other than me. I told him some people made some comments about me and that I told them I have a boyfriend. Both of us have ex's that cheated online, so I am very sensitive! If he were to log on MFP and see my messages, nothing would be a surprise to him and nothing would paint me in a bad light. He doesn't check up on me, but I live my online life as clean as my real life.

    I love to joke/tease and would feel very comfortable doing it in a public forum on here but not privately. Secrets breed trouble. If I don't feel comfortable relaying the story to my boyfriend, I shouldn't do it.
  • TaylorsGranddad
    TaylorsGranddad Posts: 453 Member
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    My Mrs has messaged other woman in my FL saying I've seen you supporting MY HUSBAND, which was a polite back off I think. However, I do flirt on here but I think on here it's a self esteem thing, well it is for me anyway.
  • Celestialfairie
    Celestialfairie Posts: 134
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    I'm actually the type that has historically always gotten along better with males than I have females. This is something that my SO knows full well. He knows that I've started posting in the forums and making friends on MFP. As long as I'm not obsessively speaking about any of them, he doesn't have any reason to suspect anything: male or female friends.

    It actually says a lot about trust. My ex husband and I met online (as friends, not on a dating site, so it carries a big impact with things). I've actually cut my online usage way back due to the ex and seem almost shy to my approach. My current beau has told me time and time again not to worry about it. That until I give him reason to doubt, he's not going doubt.

    That being said, I'm also not going to go around leading people on or sending questionable pics or whatever and so forth.

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