Online Cheating

coachblt

men and women cannot be friends without sex or innuendoes coming into the equation!

Yeah, I want to get physical with all the women on my friends list. However, due to fact that most are married, I will treat them with the respect that they deserve...and their husbands deserve...and stay friends. You see - I'd rather have them as friends than not at all.

hbrittingham

I have some male friends here and they don't flirt or act inappropriately with me. They are good support and I try to be good support to them, too. I have had a couple of males friend me that did hit on me and I dropped them when they did that. I also have great female friends here, none of them get out of line or act all flirty with the males.

ElizabethRoad

I love my man-friends as much as I do my lady-friends, but I'm not going to fruck any of them. (sorry, everyone)

Well that's disappointing.

OKmac3

So are you asking if Offline Cheating and Online Cheating are the same? Either way you have to be awake.

Let me answer it this way, if your dreaming and having a wild wet erotic dream about another person than your S/O is that cheating? Even if it is more erotic than what you have had or ever dreamed with your S/O.

_Timmeh_

For me its a women only rule as any of the guys I've come across so far usually have ulterior motives even being on a site like MFP!

Also out of respect for my husband as well as I wouldn't be happy about him having women friends - men and women cannot be friends without sex or innuendoes coming into the equation!

What?

kiminikimkim

I think men are generalized because of statistics. http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/17951664/ns/health-sexual_health/t/many-cheat-thrill-more-stay-true-love/#.UBFQFmFfG4o

1 in 5 adults will have cheated on their partner.

and

HALF OF MARRIED MEN have reported on CHEATING on their wife. (Love the honesty though)

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Therefore, half of the married men on MFP are faithful and the other half, I try to avoid. But since I don't know who is which, I befriend no male MFP members at all.

PBsMommy

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Ummm, please read my comment again. I said "'Out of respect for my husband' is one of the biggest BS statements I have seen on this site." I have seen many females make this statement and I think the STATEMENT is BS. I DID NOT say you having respect for you SO is BS, There is a hugh difference. I have total respect for my wife however I do not feel that having female friends here on MFP or FB or in real life is disrespectful. Before you blast my comments please read completely and in context.
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Key words you used "how you feel". That doesn't mean everyone feels that way. Everyone has different "feels" and opinions on life. It doesn't give anyone the right to bash another's and say that what they feel and believe is BS.

Evidently that is a common misconception for people on MFP. To many my way or the highway type people on here.

LorinaLynn

Hearing all the stories about people cheating on their spouses, what is your take on having friends of the opposite sex at MyFitnessPal?

If some words and pictures on a screen were enough to make either one of us cheat, our relationship would have been in trouble long before any friendship entered the picture.

Pedal_Pusher

For me its a women only rule as any of the guys I've come across so far usually have ulterior motives even being on a site like MFP!

Also out of respect for my husband as well as I wouldn't be happy about him having women friends - men and women cannot be friends without sex or innuendoes coming into the equation!

Get a hold of yourself..........or over yourself. Whatever.

ElizabethRoad

I think men are generalized because of statistics. http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/17951664/ns/health-sexual_health/t/many-cheat-thrill-more-stay-true-love/#.UBFQFmFfG4o

1 in 5 adults will have cheated on their partner.

and

HALF OF MARRIED MEN have reported on CHEATING on their wife. (Love the honesty though)

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Therefore, half of the married men on MFP are faithful and the other half, I try to avoid. But since I don't know who is which, I befriend no male MFP members at all.

But... if you have a man on your friends list, and he is willing to cheat on his wife... that doesn't mean YOU are willing to cheat. Or does this mean you just can't control yourself?

lizzybethclaire

The problem is not MFP..or FB..or people having friends of the opposite sex.

It's the individual who does not have boundaries or certain respect for their spouses set who have the problem and until they get their minds straight on what they want and how they want to live in the world, the rest is blah..

agree

This

randy0987

There is no issue with having friend on MFP if you understand the difference between friend and more. If your in a relationship then you must respect that relationship no one can make you do that its internal

randy0987

i disagree to that post respect is everything if you know your bondaries and respect them

pornstarzombie

I think it's a very fine line between cheating and not cheating, and a lot of it does have to do with how you and your SO view cheating.

I think with the start of social media networking, IMing, smart phones, etc it has made it much easier and tempting to fall into something like cheating, whether it was originally meant to be that way or not.

I think people need to step back and think: "If my partner was doing this, would I be happy with them?"

Sometimes stops things in its track.

skinnyinnotime

Having friends of the opposite sex on MFP isn't online cheating..

Exactly, what nonsense!!!

ExplorinLauren

Women only rule for me.

kasslass2

Have friends of both sex on here, FB and in real life. Love to play around and flirt, but that is exactly what it is......nothing more. I would never cheat on my husband. I took a vow, said the words and meant every one of them. Love him more than life. Married more than 20 years to my best friend.

mynameiscarrie

Yes because men ONLY talk to me because they want me...

WHAT THE WHAT?!

I have male friends on MFP. If they get weird they get deleted. That's it. If your SO has a problem with a male (or female) on your friends list on an online weight loss site without a reason, you've got another problem...

Jipples

I think men are generalized because of statistics. http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/17951664/ns/health-sexual_health/t/many-cheat-thrill-more-stay-true-love/#.UBFQFmFfG4o

1 in 5 adults will have cheated on their partner.

and

HALF OF MARRIED MEN have reported on CHEATING on their wife. (Love the honesty though)

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Therefore, half of the married men on MFP are faithful and the other half, I try to avoid. But since I don't know who is which, I befriend no male MFP members at all.

I love how when cheating is mentioned, it's automatically directed at men cheating. Women are as bad, if not worse, when it comes to cheating. I also find it interesting that when these topics are posted, most are all "I would never blah blah blah, if someone feels they need to cheat they just leave blah blah blah, if he/she loved his/her spouse they wouldn't be cheating blah blah blah.......". It's really just that simple isn't it? You 'psycho'analysts have it all figured out.

Terree83

I'm rather amazed this topic is even posted. I'm on here to support people that have a common goal--to lose weight, be more fit and have a better lifestyle.

Are people on here really looking for hook-ups? Pretty sad and ridiculous if you are...