Why don't women pay for dates?

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  • CaliforniaSweetheart
    CaliforniaSweetheart Posts: 989
    I pay for my half and if he pays I cover the tip. At least that's how it typically plays out.
  • turtlefitnessdad
    turtlefitnessdad Posts: 585 Member
    I have no problem paying if they put out.



    Would you like to go out? :laugh:
  • shoneybabes
    shoneybabes Posts: 199 Member
    I try to pay but guys really don't like it.
  • Cr01502
    Cr01502 Posts: 3,614 Member
    I have no problem paying if they put out.

    This is what men like to call a "good date"
  • CaliforniaSweetheart
    CaliforniaSweetheart Posts: 989
    I have no problem paying if they put out.



    Would you like to go out?

    Better not cry if she says no!.
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    In my country, when a man takes a woman out on a date, the woman pays for everything. The womens family usually does if she can't afford it. I like my culture. Why don't we have that in the west? I thought women have more means of making money there. Why have the man pay for your food?

    I mean men here have multiple wives so its hard on our pocket. The least you can do is pick up a check...
    I'm not from this western country either, however, I must say there is a certain logic to the fact that you pay for dinner when you ask out a woman. Why would she have to pay for your dinner?

    So when you're asking them out, its considered paying for their company? Isn't there another word for this? Maybe a certain old profession?
    And really, if you like your culture so much, you should just go back to your country. Nobody is forcing you to stay here

    Bro...

    Just... no. You just made Hulk sad that you are considered a Human being. Are you one of those people who scream "They took our jerb!!!" ?
  • turtlefitnessdad
    turtlefitnessdad Posts: 585 Member
    I have no problem paying if they put out.



    Would you like to go out?

    Better not cry if she says no!.


    bully
  • CaliforniaSweetheart
    CaliforniaSweetheart Posts: 989
    I have no problem paying if they put out.



    Would you like to go out?

    Better not cry if she says no!.


    bully
    Takes one to know one. :laugh: I'll tell you what..if she says no, I will buy you some coffee. Lmao
  • Martucha123
    Martucha123 Posts: 1,089 Member
    I pay and I expect them to put out
  • turtlefitnessdad
    turtlefitnessdad Posts: 585 Member
    I pay and I expect them to put out


    hi
  • Xiaolongbao
    Xiaolongbao Posts: 854 Member
    I expect men to open doors, pay AND put out.

    I'm high maintenance like that.
  • stephdeeable
    stephdeeable Posts: 1,407 Member
    I'm not just talking about dates. If I buy a friend a coffee, I at least expect some hand stuff. It's called manners people.
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,342 Member
    I'm not just talking about dates. If I buy a friend a coffee, I at least expect some hand stuff. It's called manners people.

    ERsSj.gif

    You're my new favourite...
  • IIFerdi
    IIFerdi Posts: 47 Member
    I always pay if I ask her out. Not sure why but I don't mind iether.
    Don't mind is she would pay tho :D

    Kinda being a gentlemen also I guess. Take her coat , Stand up is she stands up or comes back , open the door for her ,those kind of things.
  • CaliforniaSweetheart
    CaliforniaSweetheart Posts: 989
    Wow. I'm gonna start upping my expectations. I gotta get some kind of action lol.
  • CaliforniaSweetheart
    CaliforniaSweetheart Posts: 989
    I always pay if I ask her out. Not sure why but I don't mind iether.
    Don't mind is she would pay tho :D

    Kinda being a gentlemen also I guess. Take her coat , Stand up is she stands up or comes back , open the door for her ,those kind of things.
    Oh yes... You had me at opening the door.
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    Because some feel they can get away with it.
  • aquasw16
    aquasw16 Posts: 342 Member
    Trolls
  • turtlefitnessdad
    turtlefitnessdad Posts: 585 Member
    It is an overt reaction to female genetic transformations caused by transforming endeavors within the context of overt feminism. These corrupt and unrespectable behavioral mannerisms are largely due to the societal influences of dramatic feminist viewpoints pushed out by radical feminine regimes that aim to take away historically better behaviors between man and women.
  • CaliforniaSweetheart
    CaliforniaSweetheart Posts: 989
    Do men really still take your coat and open the doors? I mean AFTER first dates??? I have been missing out if so.
  • Blair_Waldorf
    Blair_Waldorf Posts: 41 Member
    Because that is the minimal fee men have to pay to be graced with my presence. DUH.

    But in all seriousness...

    Even though you're a troll I'm going to humor you only because we just talked about this in my sociology class and I feel like sharing haha.

    To put it simply, it's the same reason male peacocks try to attract females by showing off their feathers. On top of that, in our culture, whether we like it or not, Men are seen as the "providers". When they take women on a date they are showing their ability to provide.

    Perhaps it's not fair but it's also not fair that a man will make more money than a woman in the same position. So stop complaining about paying for my chicken pot pie!!


    :laugh: Hahaha! I love your last sentence! And I agree with everything you said too :smile:
  • turtlefitnessdad
    turtlefitnessdad Posts: 585 Member
    never
  • bethgames
    bethgames Posts: 534 Member
    When my boyfriend and I go out, I pay. That is because I make a lot more money than him and I want to go out. When my husband and I go out, he pays for the same reason.... :smokin:
  • Shetchncn1
    Shetchncn1 Posts: 260 Member
    MMMM... I work , I pay my own bills.... mmmm I can hire someone to fix my car and mow my lawn... pay for my own meal... I think I would rather eat alone. If I need someone to take care of I can get a puppy. Less stress.

    Seriously though. My husband and I both work. And he works really hard and provides for our family. I look up to him for that. Making the woman pay puts you in a less of a provider light and her in a shmuck light.
  • IIFerdi
    IIFerdi Posts: 47 Member

    Oh yes... You had me at opening the door.
    When I am nearby i will hold the door open for you then :)
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,342 Member
    When my boyfriend and I go out, I pay. That is because I make a lot more money than him and I want to go out. When my husband and I go out, he pays for the same reason.... :smokin:

    :frown: You're underpaying your pool boy!
  • LMT2012
    LMT2012 Posts: 697 Member
    @Beth. Go on with your bad self!

    Because we pay for makeup, hair color, waxing, lacy undergarments, manicures, pedicures, birth control, etc etc and are broke.
  • CaliforniaSweetheart
    CaliforniaSweetheart Posts: 989

    Oh yes... You had me at opening the door.
    When I am nearby i will hold the door open for you then :)
    Aww! :blushing: Oh wait..you're pretty dang far away lol. That won't be working out. Sweet thought though, thanks!
  • CaliforniaSweetheart
    CaliforniaSweetheart Posts: 989
    never
    I saw what you wrote! You're not such a big jerk afterall. Aww!!! Lmao
  • turtlefitnessdad
    turtlefitnessdad Posts: 585 Member
    never
    I saw what you wrote! You're not such a big jerk afterall. Aww!!! Lmao

    dang it, i did not want to ruin my rep!!!

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