I want him, He doesnt want me :(.. Vent/Rant
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I guess I don't know what else to say to help you..
Your post topic is 'I want him, he doesn't want me' I guess you answered your own question and didn't need us.
Good luck..0 -
If he told the he wasn't ready.. Listen to him0
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Its a cynical cynical world. 98% of you guys are crashed, burned and inoperable or obsolete. Jack and Rose met on the Titanic and took them all but 2 days to have a multibillion worldwide romance. Love comes to those who believe it. And thats the way it is.
1) It was a movie.
2) Jack died.
...but the heart does go on...
It does. Celine Dion's world winning streak didn't.
My point in replying that way was to illustrate that basing love on Hollywood ideals is a bad idea. Hollywood never deals with bad sex, arguments over dishes and taking out the trash, joblessness that leads to late bills.
Long term relationships need practical advice, practical practice. I don't need Prince Charming. I need an adult who knows that movies end.
Well that's easy to fix, the women does all the dishes and chores.
The man sits back jobless and gets amazing sex.0 -
Disney and Titanic.
Which is funny when you think about it. Titanic was the supposedly unsinkable vessel that, well, sank. Hint hint much? Hahaha
Interesting sidenote: The girders of the Titanic were pulled from the wreckage of the air-balloon R101. R101 had crashed.
Into the ocean, killing 48 of the 54 souls aboard.0 -
It does, and I truly believe that. But if somebody is giving you red or yellow light.Its a cynical cynical world. 98% of you guys are crashed, burned and inoperable or obsolete. Jack and Rose met on the Titanic and took them all but 2 days to have a multibillion worldwide romance. Love comes to those who believe it. And thats the way it is.
YOU DON'T REV UP THE ENGINE and blow through.0 -
I hate the booty call situation cuz I have been on the receiving end of it a few times. All I ever want is a relationship and all I ever get is horny women.0
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Lmao dont you have to give the booty up to be a booty call.... i love this thread people are just on a rampage with nonsense lmaoooooooooooooooo....chick. if hes hanging around but hes not wanting anything more than being friends yet he still calls and what not. you are A BOOTY CALL. my advice is RUN. cause he wants to f&$k nothing more -.-
Agreed :drinker:0 -
Its a cynical cynical world. 98% of you guys are crashed, burned and inoperable or obsolete. Jack and Rose met on the Titanic and took them all but 2 days to have a multibillion worldwide romance. Love comes to those who believe it. And thats the way it is.
1) It was a movie.
2) Jack died.
...but the heart does go on...
It does. Celine Dion's world winning streak didn't.
My point in replying that way was to illustrate that basing love on Hollywood ideals is a bad idea. Hollywood never deals with bad sex, arguments over dishes and taking out the trash, joblessness that leads to late bills.
Long term relationships need practical advice, practical practice. I don't need Prince Charming. I need an adult who knows that movies end.
but sometimes if you really believe, the movie ends and you die together in an old people house in the same bed.0 -
I hate the booty call situation cuz I have been on the receiving end of it a few times. All I ever want is a relationship and all I ever get is horny women.
Are you really complaining? HAHA jk!!!!! Where have you been all my life?0 -
Are You 10 or are you lying?! What kind of adolescent crappe is THIS?! LMRAO...First off "Christians" in deed/actions or just in outward appearance>>> WOW, smoking, drinking, sexing, lusting, LOL. I know NO adult who dilly-dally like THIS, EXCEPT the Emotionally Challenged or someone who does NOT know their sexual orientation (or who DOES, and fighting it), like I said those with the Emotional Quotion of 10 yr olds. I don't believe THIS for one minute! LMRAO!0
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but sometimes if you really believe, the movie ends and you die together in an old people house in the same bed.
That's the ideal ending. But it doesn't take belief. It takes work.0 -
Are you seriously 31?Today is my day off yesterday although i worked I treat it like my day off because i dont have to be in bed early as like monday is technically my day off too but i have to be in bed by 9pm so not really a night off.. So saturday after work i stay up as late as i want which was till 2 something i'm obviously off now which is why im on here and i'll be off tomorrow and with him our day will probably last from 12pm to 8pm last monday we stayed out till 10 wayy to late...0 -
wow0
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I hate the booty call situation cuz I have been on the receiving end of it a few times. All I ever want is a relationship and all I ever get is horny women.
Are you really complaining? HAHA jk!!!!! Where have you been all my life?
But Canada is so cold. You will need to relocate for love.0 -
lmaooo its been raining here and i've caught a cold, so im a little light headed off the Robitussin and halls... i erased that immediately lmaoooo.. yes i am 31.
To the above poster.
I am a Christian in actions and deeds, No one is perfect, but you wont catch me boozing it up, booty calling it, smoking...0 -
then she saysWhat kind of adolescent crappe is THIS?! LMRAO...First off "Christians" in deed/actions or just in outward appearance>>> WOW, smoking, drinking, sexing, lusting, LOL.Lmao dont you have to give the booty up to be a booty call....lmaoooooooooooooooo....
Actually if you did yes you are, you are at his house at 2am and you just met. At his house everyday and he's not your man.
In your own words " we act like a couple" "I want to give it a title buy he doesn't" "If he wants to hang out later I may go".
You are more than friends and less than a couple = booty call
When his friends come around you have to leave because "he thinks it's weird" for you to hang with him and them because this nice Christian man who you can fall in love with told you "he does not want to corrupt you"0 -
Lmao the luster is gone from my thread, i'll be back when there is more action and less talk about disney and titanic...:yawn:
Maybe i do need to start :drinker: :smokin: lmao:laugh:0 -
I did not take the time to read all the responses so pardon me if this is a repeat.
I feel like everyone is missing a very important key factor here, he is being up front and honest with you about telling you he is not a good boyfriend because he's not ready to grow up and still wants to do the partying thing. Take my advice from someone who was in a relationship like this, it won't get better and he won't grow up. So don't think by getting into a relationship with this guy he will change, he won't! It will only be drama filled and heartache.
You sound like you have good values so don't settle for just anyone.0 -
You should start drinking and smoking.
Ahahahah! ????0 -
A booty call is when someone calls you over anytime of the night for sex. We have not had sex. He did not call me at 2 am. He called me at 7 Something to go have dinner. I didnt get back to him till like 9+ and we hung out having dinner, shopping, talking, him singing to me ti'll 2am when his thousand friends finally came over and got him away from me lol
then she saysWhat kind of adolescent crappe is THIS?! LMRAO...First off "Christians" in deed/actions or just in outward appearance>>> WOW, smoking, drinking, sexing, lusting, LOL.Lmao dont you have to give the booty up to be a booty call....lmaoooooooooooooooo....
Actually if you did yes you are, you are at his house at 2am and you just met. At his house everyday and he's not your man.
In your own words " we act like a couple" "I want to give it a title buy he doesn't" "If he wants to hang out later I may go".
You are more than friends and less than a couple = booty call
When his friends come around you have to leave because "he thinks it's weird" for you to hang with him and them because this nice Christian man who you can fall in love with told you "he does not want to corrupt you"0 -
Aww that was so sweet thank you for actually reading.:flowerforyou: :glasses: I'll definetly take your advice into consideration.I did not take the time to read all the responses so pardon me if this is a repeat.
I feel like everyone is missing a very important key factor here, he is being up front and honest with you about telling you he is not a good boyfriend because he's not ready to grow up and still wants to do the partying thing. Take my advice from someone who was in a relationship like this, it won't get better and he won't grow up. So don't think by getting into a relationship with this guy he will change, he won't! It will only be drama filled and heartache.
You sound like you have good values so don't settle for just anyone.0 -
I think you're wrong in your assumption that it's "being a man" not to want to label your relationship. A man who wants to be in a relationship will have no trouble in that department. If he doesn't want to label your relationship it's because he doesn't want to be in one. Maybe that's because he's just met you (that would be totally reasonable) or maybe it's because he's not ready to settle down. Either way you need to be realistic and believe what he is telling you.0
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Seriously, is this a joke? 31 going on 13. Stop being so desperate if you are 31.0
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Love is not a fleeting emotion or something that you fall into like a ditch - that is called infatuation.
Infatuation is scientific in that the brain chemical dopamine is responsible for the highs of infatuation.
It is not a good idea to confuse love with infatuation.
Love is difficult and is NOT PRIMARILY a feeling, rather, it is an ACTION.0 -
How old is he?0
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lmaooo its been raining here and i've caught a cold, so im a little light headed off the Robitussin and halls... i erased that immediately lmaoooo.. yes i am 31.
To the above poster.
I am a Christian in actions and deeds, No one is perfect, but you wont catch me boozing it up, booty calling it, smoking...
But maybe not a Christian in attitude...
Edit add: you would catch me doing all 3 -- realizing how imperfect you actually are helps you keep a good perspective on, well yourself -- in situations like the one you are in.0 -
Lol.
You are a little too clingy and he isnt ready to grow up.
is this a joke between u two? lol0 -
LOL this post isnt even real ...
OP, "This" I believe.....
Why use MFP to spin a tale? Might be a better use of your time to work on that nearly empty food diary.....0 -
We had a joint account to save for our wedding 3 months in, quick isn't necessarily bad BUT only if you are both as keen as each other. That doesn't seem to be the case here at all. I'm thinking he is at least not as into you as you are to him, or at worst, he is playing you and stringing you along... sorry
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