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  • FatStoatLondon
    FatStoatLondon Posts: 197 Member
    I still haven't figured out why women seem to always be attracted to *kitten* and A-holes - and then complain to their "nice" male friends about it.

    This is a myth: all the women I know, including me, go out with nice men.

    Re: the OP, I would be interested to hear which celebrities he thinks are "hot": I bet they wouldn't be the same people who are on my list. I think men and women have different ideas about what is attractive in a man.
  • MellowGa
    MellowGa Posts: 1,258 Member
    My wife said she keeps me around because I make cute babies, oh and I do the dishes too.
  • FatStoatLondon
    FatStoatLondon Posts: 197 Member
    I've been running a dating advice site for about a dozen years. So between my own real-life experience, second hand accounts from friends and family, and what I've witnessed on that site, I've made a lot of observations.

    And while I absolutely hate to make sweeping generalizations... I will say that heterosexual men are the WORST judges of what women find attractive. :laugh:

    I couldn't agree more! How many times have you sat in a pub with a mixed group of friends and heard men shriek with laughter when girls start discussing they actors they actually fancy? I find Jack Black, Jamie Bell and Edward Norton extremely hot, but George Clooney, Tatum Channing and Brad Pitt do nothing at all for me.
  • FatStoatLondon
    FatStoatLondon Posts: 197 Member
    For some reason...no idea why (*cough* *Bruno* *cough*)...I think of Sacha Baron Cohen as hung like a donkey too. I'm guessing that was a stunt wiener tho. Regardless, he's damn sexy (tall, dark and handsome is my thing) AND unbelievably funny...SMART too (just heard an interview on NPR...wow!) what's not to like?

    Agreed! Sacha is hot :)))
  • raccoon182
    raccoon182 Posts: 29
    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and some people you may think are appealing may be unappealing to others.
  • Maddyjoe
    Maddyjoe Posts: 8
    Hate to say it, but most famous hot chicks with ugly dudes are insecure. They go and hook up with fugly guys that won't overshadow their career or their profile in pictures. Non-famous hot chicks who hook up with fugly dudes were either fat or nerdy in high school and don't know they could do better. My two cents.
  • SurfinBird1981
    SurfinBird1981 Posts: 517 Member
    This thread is old :laugh:
  • TheBraveryLover
    TheBraveryLover Posts: 1,217 Member
    Same reason why hot guys date average or below average women? Money?

    Joke thread, joke response. :-D
  • bkw2488
    bkw2488 Posts: 190 Member
    My wife said she keeps me around because I make cute babies, oh and I do the dishes too.




    LOL same reason I keep my hubby around and he has to do more then just the dishes :laugh:
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    Firstly physical perfection is.

    A. subjective
    B. Fleeting


    Women just want to somebody to treat them well and make them happy.
  • PittShkr
    PittShkr Posts: 1,000 Member
    Did you try taking a poop? Works for me.
  • WarriorCupcakeBlydnsr
    WarriorCupcakeBlydnsr Posts: 2,150 Member
    Feel free to PM me :).

    Remember though...I truly believe women are superior. There's not a single solitary one out there that couldn't have me eating from her palm simply by being polite and lady like, and there's not a single other group on the planet that could say the same.

    Except maybe children lol.
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    Awww :flowerforyou:
  • EmCarroll1990
    EmCarroll1990 Posts: 2,832 Member
    In every relationship there is a "Reacher" and a "Settler." You've just noticed the females are the settlers in this discussion.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    In every relationship there is a "Reacher" and a "Settler." You've just noticed the females are the settlers in this discussion.
    While there is some truth to this...I doubt many hot women in love with less conventionally hot men think they are "settling"
  • EmCarroll1990
    EmCarroll1990 Posts: 2,832 Member
    In every relationship there is a "Reacher" and a "Settler." You've just noticed the females are the settlers in this discussion.
    While there is some truth to this...I doubt many hot women in love with less conventionally hot men think they are "settling"

    I'm not saying it's a conscience thing, I'm saying it just is.
  • bcattoes
    bcattoes Posts: 17,299 Member
    Perhaps women go more for brains than looks? And men do the opposite. Having a "hot woman" shouldn't be as much of a priority as having a compatible individual as your significant other. After all, their looks wont be around forever - their personalities will.
    Yes but you still have to sleep with that every night. Don't know how they do it.

    I think it might have something to do with comments like that.
  • DrowningMermaid
    DrowningMermaid Posts: 143
    Smart guys don't start threads like this, brah.

    Glad someone else said it before me. OP may be attractive and brainy, but this whole thread makes me think the D in his username stands for douche.
  • melbot24
    melbot24 Posts: 347 Member
    Nothing turns me on more than intelligence and a great personality.
  • supatim
    supatim Posts: 239 Member
    Nothing turns me on more than intelligence and a great personality.

    Truth!
  • AreneeG31
    AreneeG31 Posts: 256 Member
    looks arent everything. the man can be attractive in some way to me but his personality makes up for anything that I may at first say is missing. I dont want a man that looks better than I do, its too much of a headache to share the bathroom! LOL
  • hazelovesfood
    hazelovesfood Posts: 454 Member
    What's the deal with hot women being attracted to ugly *kitten* men? I see it everywhere. I think I'm going to let my face get run over by a truck.



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    I dont know who that is, but hes not ugly lol, very well dressed and thats s good thing, I think a nice person attracts more than looks.
  • ErinBeth7
    ErinBeth7 Posts: 1,625 Member
    Money. Fame.
  • hazelovesfood
    hazelovesfood Posts: 454 Member
    Perhaps women go more for brains than looks? And men do the opposite. Having a "hot woman" shouldn't be as much of a priority as having a compatible individual as your significant other. After all, their looks wont be around forever - their personalities will.
    Yes but you still have to sleep with that every night. Don't know how they do it.
    You have just made it clear what your personality is, and im not sure it would be attractive to me, sex isnt all in life.
  • norcal_yogi
    norcal_yogi Posts: 675 Member
    that man is NOT ugly.... geez.
  • meshashesha2012
    meshashesha2012 Posts: 8,329 Member
    looks arent everything. in fact looks aren't anything much. i've dated some traditionally hot men and let me tell you they were only good for 1 thing :laugh: as far as conversation, thoughts, ideas, goals :noway:

    for me intelligence, wit, charm and confidence can easily turn a 6 into a 10.

    of course you have your rare occasions where the guys are hot and smart, but generally speaking since i'm also a 6 (turned into a 10 thanks to intelligence, wit, charm tyvm :laugh: ) those dudes aren't into me anyway
  • kaittx13
    kaittx13 Posts: 88 Member
    Perhaps women go more for brains than looks? And men do the opposite. Having a "hot woman" shouldn't be as much of a priority as having a compatible individual as your significant other. After all, their looks wont be around forever - their personalities will.
    Yes but you still have to sleep with that every night. Don't know how they do it.

    'cause brains are SEXY!
    I'm a smart guy. And I'm single right now.


    Smart guys don't start threads like this, brah.

    yeah i am gonna have to agree with the above^^^ to me only an a-hole who is only looking for a "hot" woman would start something like this..


    .. and at least to me.. a persons personality can either make them more or less attractive. i know plenty of good looking ppl (men and women) who have crappy personalitys so to me they are a lot less attractive
  • greasygriddle_wechnage
    greasygriddle_wechnage Posts: 246 Member
    one time in my life did i date a really really hot woman ,she liked my humor , but my god the stress of it i bet not a day went by someone didnt say how the hell did you manage that, the looks everywhere we went , i finally broke up with her because it was too stressful for me ,funny thing was she thought i was the best looking thing under the sun, that was 7 years ago shes married now but has actually said out loud that i this bug lug was the best boyfriend she ever had and she woulda married me , she had zero issues with me i was the one who had a problem, love truely is blind


    Longest sentence in history ^^^^ :smokin:
  • amysj303
    amysj303 Posts: 5,086 Member
    Well, there are way more hot girls than hot guys so I think most girls end up with a guy less attractive than them. And when you're talking about super models, well, there are hardly any guys who can match them, and so they have to date rock stars. and rock stars have to mate with supermodels so their children aren't total trolls. Not that it always works;)
  • bcattoes
    bcattoes Posts: 17,299 Member
    Perhaps women go more for brains than looks? And men do the opposite. Having a "hot woman" shouldn't be as much of a priority as having a compatible individual as your significant other. After all, their looks wont be around forever - their personalities will.
    Yes but you still have to sleep with that every night. Don't know how they do it.
    You have just made it clear what your personality is, and im not sure it would be attractive to me, sex isnt all in life.

    Even if sex was all in life, having a pretty face doesn't automatically make you better at it than someone with a less pretty face.
  • DoomCakes
    DoomCakes Posts: 806 Member
    Depends on how you approach it. Psychologically speaking, an "attractive" girl may chose someone less attractive because it makes them feel better, and this can be vice versa.

    OR

    It could be personality wise. I rather be with an unattractive guy that treats me right and knows how to have fun then some stuck up loser who just thinks I'm cute but can't enjoy their time with me.

    OR

    Because for some reason what someone else calls ugly might not be what the other person sees. Maybe that person is drawn to a different phsyical feature then you. Maybe you don't think they're cute cause their nose is too big, but the girl might only see their eyes.

    OR

    Because the girl knows that the unattractive guy is less likely to cheat and/or be hit on by other girls.

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