BOOB OBSESSION!?

OP, go get yourself some and then you will understand. True story! I lived it!

Don't do anything to your breasts until after you have children if you are planning on have them. You can't breast feed if they reposition the nipple. And once you've had giant milk engorged breasts, you may change your mind and just go in for a lift. Oh to have money for a lift and a mini tummy tuck... Sigh.

I say a talk with the boyfriend is in order. Tell him you are aware he likes larger breasts, and also aware that you have smaller breasts, and his talking about it makes you feel inadequate. If he wants to find some boobs on legs to date, let him. But don't go augmenting tour body for someone who talks without considering the effect of his words.
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Love this. Wise words!

Just wear a really REALLY padded bra, and then when you take them out of that and he makes a comment about feeling cheated or deceived, tell him that's why it's nonsense men wear pants.

I love boobs lol mine and other womens i'm obsessed with them..but i'm not a lesbian.

Anyways don't be self conscious because hello he's obviously still with you and hasn't cheated on you with someone with bigger boobs...also don't change yourself for someone else. If he doesn't love you the way you are then on to the next one

You are adorable, can't tell you how many times the inner girl has won me over, physically peoples are drawn to things they like, but I have been involved with women with A's up to a D....talk to him about how it makes you feel when he says things that make you question his desire for you, if you still feel unappreciated get the **** out cuz there are millions of dudes who would love you the way you want to be loved.

like so many other comments....this is great one and pretty much what i was gonna say. ur obviously too cute and precious to be worried about just ur boobs! but i will say, i do understand quite well. how u feel. i have a large chest! the down side, is that no matter how much i work out, no matter how much weight i lose or even how much i breastfeed....my boobs arent going ANYWHERE!!! i have a double D...and my husband loves them! i have had these puppies since i was in grade school. ive mentioned to my hubby about a reduction and he's said if i do then he wants a divorce! i just laugh cuz i dont think that will happen b/c even tho he loves the boobies...he loves me!
and even i have these girls....he still looks at other boobs! so yes...its a man's obsession! no matter how good u look or how nice ur boobs & cleavage r...if a nice rack passes by..he's gonna look!!! hell, i even look and if i notice before him...i point them out for him!! its a guy thing! they love boobies!!!!
u just need to learn to love urself with or without boobs. i want smaller...but im not getting it b/c i like my boobs. they are a headache and literally a pain in the neck...but i learned to love myself w/ them.
learn to love urself w/o them! and he needs to as well. have a talk w/ him about how it hurts ur feelings and if he cant understand that....r care....then u need someone who loves u for u, just as much as u love u!!!!

i like big BOOBS and I cannot lie, you other brothers cant deny, when a girl walks in with an itty bitty chest, using cutlets for her breasts you dont get SPRUNG!

I just made that up right now.

Um. No you didn't.

You are adorable..I'd be pretty upset if someone was obsessing over boobs..that were not mine...maybe you should start obsessing about stuff he "might" not have :laugh:

Why do women get insulted by men having a preference over boob size? Its amusing to see some get annoyed that people have their own preference!

Would you be bothered if your woman said you weren't, ahem, big enough? Same difference.

I just laughed out loud right now. This thread is hilarious.

Only one way to try and cure a guy of that. Have him wear a bra for one day and put a 5 lb. sack of flour in each cup. Make him wear it for about 12 hours. And another things, if he likes boobs so much get him some of his own, for real. Shoot you can buy those things anywhere nowadays:laugh:

I likeboobs, but they don't have to be big .. what I like most is the person they belong to. I think your boyfriend is being pretty shallow

Aww sorry to hear that, I'd feel insecure if my bf said that too! He should just keep those thoughts to himself.

My husband pulled his face when I told him I'd lost an inch UNDER my bust. He hadn't even noticed. Then I re-iterated this was the measurement under my bust, and not around, and he confirmed that was ok as long as my actual chest hadn't got smaller.

Dur!

I think you need to ask him, straight out: Do you love ME or my boobs? Seriously, if he truly loves you, the size of your breasts should NOT matter, at all. A guy should love you because you are you. A woman is a woman, not boobs!!!

And if his answer is: Boobs - kick his sorry *kitten* to the curb!! You would have no trouble finding a guy to love YOU not your boobs!!!

If you dislike each others personality or indeed bodies, you are with the wrong person.

I think you can dislike one part of someone and still have a strong relationship. The problem here is a lack of sensitivity on his part. For example, I like muscular guys but my last bf was skinny fat. BUT I didn't check out ripped guys in front of him or talk about how much I liked that look. I just kept it to myself and loved him for who he was, which was more than enough.