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    I want him, He doesnt want me :(.. Vent/Rant

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    • Posts: 209
      here's a video for you lol...


      http://youtu.be/Yh0AhrY9GjA
    • Posts: 387 Member
      Propose to him and see how things turn out.
    • Posts: 34,971 Member
      Stage 5 clinger, please exit to the right and keep on moving because he is not that into you! Sorry!!!

      Maybe OP should show him this post since she thinks they are meant to be. Even if he doesn't return the feelings (which I am going to bet he doesn't), at least he'll have something to hold on to if this infatuation "gets out of hand".
    • Posts: 162
      LMAO>>>cuckoo clock

      Meantime chick how in the world do you have that much free time??? Work, hobbies, friends, family... anything... you seem more obsessed than in love... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g4elno62DUs ... don't hurt him ok???... just kidding I read where it's mutual but seriously if you want to see where he really is make yourself LESS available, no last minute hangs he needs to make proper plans with you ahead of time... just a thought ;-) … good luck

      All of the above and then some lol i work 12 hour shifts some days and work starts at 5am daily.... then when i get off i have family, friends, exercise etc... we usually make plans to have dinner together i'm suppose to be in bed by 9pm didnt happen all week i think i got 3 hours one night lmaooo.... schools starts next month too full freaking plate gotta make it work...
    • Posts: 3,303 Member
      Its a cynical cynical world. 98% of you guys are crashed, burned and inoperable or obsolete. Jack and Rose met on the Titanic and took them all but 2 days to have a multibillion worldwide romance. Love comes to those who believe it. And thats the way it is.
    • Posts: 34,971 Member
      Its a cynical cynical world. 98% of you guys are crashed, burned and inoperable or obsolete. Jack and Rose met on the Titanic and took them all but 2 days to have a multibillion worldwide romance. Love comes to those who believe it. And thats the way it is.

      Can I haz your number?

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    • Posts: 4,052 Member
      Its a cynical cynical world. 98% of you guys are crashed, burned and inoperable or obsolete. Jack and Rose met on the Titanic and took them all but 2 days to have a multibillion worldwide romance. Love comes to those who believe it. And thats the way it is.

      1) It was a movie.

      2) Jack died.
    • Posts: 8,218 Member
      Its a cynical cynical world. 98% of you guys are crashed, burned and inoperable or obsolete. Jack and Rose met on the Titanic and took them all but 2 days to have a multibillion worldwide romance. Love comes to those who believe it. And thats the way it is.

      Best response yet. :laugh:
    • Posts: 326 Member
      I had this problem in back in high school too. I watched Clueless several times (it was the 90s, it was appropriate), and then I bought new clothes, and I started dating someone else.

      That movie had some really excellent dating advice.
      Its a cynical cynical world. 98% of you guys are crashed, burned and inoperable or obsolete. Jack and Rose met on the Titanic and took them all but 2 days to have a multibillion worldwide romance. Love comes to those who believe it. And thats the way it is.


      Romeo and Juliet fell in love and died over a weekend, that story has lasted forever. Sure he was 17 and she was 13 and they both ended up dead because communication wasn't in their vocabulary....you could maybe learn from that and slow your roll by about 99% and have a girls' night with your best friend and remember how great life is without a commitment-phobic guy who isn't your boyfriend being a commitment-phobe.
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      Maybe OP should show him this post since she thinks they are meant to be. Even if he doesn't return the feelings (which I am going to bet he doesn't), at least he'll have something to hold on to if this infatuation "gets out of hand".
      LOL this post isnt even real in the sense that it was just a rant/vent not a well thought out or planned post where i was actually seeking advice or critique... it turned out to be very nice thread with lots of insight and nice thoughts and replies for the most part which is nice to see on this board.


      LOL he has text and convos we've had, im sure he can remember date and times, we have discussed, this topic verbatim.. im going to act like a man and just let it be no lables just enojys each others company get to know each other better and see what happens
    • Posts: 1,273 Member
      i work 12 hour shifts some days and work starts at 5am daily.... then when i get off i have family, friends, exercise etc... we usually make plans to have dinner together i'm suppose to be in bed by 9pm

      Should be in bed at 9pm and work starts at 5 am daily but you are at his house "everyday" sometimes till 2am in the morning. :huh:
    • Posts: 3,303 Member
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      1) It was a movie.

      2) Jack died.

      ...but the heart does go on...
    • Posts: 2,382 Member
      Its a cynical cynical world. 98% of you guys are crashed, burned and inoperable or obsolete. Jack and Rose met on the Titanic and took them all but 2 days to have a multibillion worldwide romance. Love comes to those who believe it. And thats the way it is.

      Never thought of it like that :laugh:
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      Can I haz your number?

      sshhh shhh..you had me at Can.
    • Posts: 209
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      LOL this post isnt even real in the sense that it was just a rant/vent not a well thought out or planned post where i was actually seeking advice or critique... it turned out to be very nice thread with lots of insight and nice thoughts and replies for the most part which is nice to see on this board.


      LOL he has text and convos we've had, im sure he can remember date and times, we have discussed, this topic verbatim.. im going to act like a man and just let it be no lables just enojys each others company get to know each other better and see what happens

      http://youtu.be/WNXDJlEhCYQ here is another video for you...check it out haha
    • Posts: 4,052 Member
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      ...but the heart does go on...

      It does. Celine Dion's world winning streak didn't.

      My point in replying that way was to illustrate that basing love on Hollywood ideals is a bad idea. Hollywood never deals with bad sex, arguments over dishes and taking out the trash, joblessness that leads to late bills.

      Long term relationships need practical advice, practical practice. I don't need Prince Charming. I need an adult who knows that movies end.
    • Posts: 212 Member
      I feel like i can fall deeply in love with this guy, we met not even two weeks ago

      Less than two weeks and your in love.... Do most women take relationship/love advice from Disney films?
    • Posts: 222 Member
      I can't believe you're 31, I thought this was an under 20 year old writing this...

      /Agreed
    • Posts: 34,971 Member
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      sshhh shhh..you had me at Can.

      :blushing: :love:
    • Posts: 2,467 Member
      Okay girl....WOAH!!! You've only known this guy for not even two weeks??!! You need to chill out! You're being WAY TOO CLINGY!!! (And your clinginess is probably turning him off.) Seriously, you don't even know this guy that well. He may be immature and his faith may even be fake for all you know. Or he may not be a good match for you. But you don't know any of that right now because you BARELY EVEN KNOW HIM.

      Just chill out, relax, and give it all time. Focus on you, your life, and your friends and if he's interested, let him come to you, don't chase him or pressure him into dating you. If it's meant to happen, it'll happen.

      Good luck and God bless, girlie! *hugs*



      YOU NEED TO CHILL GIRL!
    • Posts: 3,303 Member
      While we are talking movies, for guys Swingers is the movie to watch for dating advice and voicemail etiquette.
    • Posts: 163
      chick. if hes hanging around but hes not wanting anything more than being friends yet he still calls and what not. you are A BOOTY CALL. my advice is RUN. cause he wants to f&$k nothing more -.-
    • Posts: 34,971 Member
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      LOL this post isnt even real in the sense that it was just a rant/vent not a well thought out or planned post where i was actually seeking advice or critique... it turned out to be very nice thread with lots of insight and nice thoughts and replies for the most part which is nice to see on this board.


      LOL he has text and convos we've had, im sure he can remember date and times, we have discussed, this topic verbatim.. im going to act like a man and just let it be no lables just enojys each others company get to know each other better and see what happens

      So if it isn't "real" and full of laughs, you should be okay with showing him this :)
    • Posts: 5,214 Member
      I'm sorry, I am just commenting on this so it shows up in my friends' feed.
    • Posts: 1,857 Member
      Bump--I have to read this in the morning. :laugh:
    • Posts: 55
      I learned the hard way that f someone wants to be with you, they will try very hard to be with you, but if they don`t, pushing will only drive them away. Two weeks might be too short a time in some cases or enough time in others, but you both have to be at the same point in the relationship. From what I read, he seems not to be on the same page as you, so, don`t rush things, get to know him without the pressure of a "relationship". You might not even like him in a few weeks.
    • Posts: 1,273 Member
      chick. if hes hanging around but hes not wanting anything more than being friends yet he still calls and what not. you are A BOOTY CALL. my advice is RUN. cause he wants to f&$k nothing more -.-

      Agreed :drinker:
    • Posts: 34,971 Member
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      Less than two weeks and your in love.... Do most women take relationship/love advice from Disney films?

      Disney and Titanic.

      Which is funny when you think about it. Titanic was the supposedly unsinkable vessel that, well, sank. Hint hint much? Hahaha
    • Posts: 162
      Really.:frown: :indifferent:
    • Posts: 3,303 Member
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      Disney and Titanic.

      Which is funny when you think about it. Titanic was the supposedly unsinkable vessel that, well, sank. Hint hint much? Hahaha

      Dont knock it off till you tried it. Something real romantic about rescue boats and life savers.
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