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    do girls want the bad boyz or the nice guy

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    • Posts: 5,214 Member
      What I never understood is why some women think that nice means sexually weak.

      Frequently, the guys claiming to be "nice" are the ones who are bitter about being "friends-zoned" and talk a lot about how women don't want a guy who values them for more than sex. So really, it's those "nice guys" who are to blame. Those "nice guys" also tend to be the ones who honestly believe providing emotional support means they are going to get sex. When sex is denied they cry about their crappy luck with women.

      My point is, don't blame women -- blame guys who downplay the importance of sex to get sex.
    • Posts: 1,719 Member
      Women like confidence.
    • Posts: 2,178 Member
      Um, I don't want any kind of boyz... especially with a z at the end like that.
    • Posts: 5,263 Member
      I grew out of the bad boy stage. I spent too much time with a guy who was in and out of jail, getting arrested for fighting and being a 'bad boy". I want a responsible guy who is going to put his focus on me, a family and a future and not trying to be cool and looking for hot chicks to hook up with.
    • Posts: 739 Member
      I don't know WHAT I want.

      I know what I have though. I have the BEST guy.
    • Posts: 175 Member
      btw, to the women who are saying they want bad boyz... yeah... you haven't seen many (or are delusional about them). See I've seen bad boyz. Rapists. Pimps (who pimp out their own SO and even sisters), drug dealers who purposely get their girl addicted to hard drugs so they could pimp her out. Murderers. Women beaters. Get you pregnant and take off. Beat your kids. Call you names in front of everybody. Mooch off of you. etc.

      I'm sure you would love to have those bad boyz

      OK.....clearly our definition of "bad boy" differs. I wasn't thinking CRIMINAL when OP asked about bad boys....:frown:
    • Posts: 869 Member
      Nice guys during the day. Bad boys in bed. :blushing:
    • Posts: 5,263 Member
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      OK.....clearly our definition of "bad boy" differs. I wasn't thinking CRIMINAL when OP asked about bad boys....:frown:

      I'm trying to picture a bad boy in a non-criminal way or non-****head kind of way and I am struggling. What do you picture a bad boy to be?
    • Posts: 2,564 Member
      They actually just want some wine and chocolate.
    • Posts: 14,025 Member
      show previous quotes

      Frequently, the guys claiming to be "nice" are the ones who are bitter about being "friends-zoned" and talk a lot about how women don't want a guy who values them for more than sex. So really, it's those "nice guys" who are to blame. Those "nice guys" also tend to be the ones who honestly believe providing emotional support means they are going to get sex. When sex is denied they cry about their crappy luck with women.

      My point is, don't blame women -- blame guys who downplay the importance of sex to get sex.

      Did I.come off as whining? :huh:
    • Posts: 337
      I don't know about the other Ladies, but I prefer a man who treats me like Lady:heart:
    • Posts: 1,826 Member
      They actually just want some wine and chocolate.

      Make it beer and chocolate and you've got a deal!
    • Posts: 899 Member
      Both I think...but what do I know

      Agreed with both! :happy:
    • Posts: 1,826 Member
      I don't know about the other Ladies, but I prefer a man who treats me like Lady:heart:

      I like this to a point. I dated one guy who would open the car door for me and I almost gagged. I don't mind doors to restaurants or anything like that, it just seemed to be a bit much when it was the car door too.

      Maybe the real problem was that it was MY car and I didn't want him touching it more than he had to. I'm a bit possessive when it comes to my car.
    • Posts: 221 Member
      I don't know about the other Ladies, but I prefer a man who treats me like Lady:heart:

      I Love this one!! That is what I prefer too :) And kissing the ground I walk on helps too. :smooched: So Nice, but still Manly is what I like. :wink:
    • Posts: 963 Member
      They want men. Men can be bad in the sense that they know what they want and will try and get it, even if its something the girl disapproves.

      Most of the "men" nowadays are boys who tip toe around everybody. They lack confidence in themselves. When you don't even believe in yourself, why should any women?

      Most (not all) girls like a nice guy. Just be confident enough to tell her that you won't always be a nice guy when the need for a tough person comes along.

      :flowerforyou:
    • Posts: 49,119 Member
      They just want the guy they want to really want them. Doesn't matter if the guy was nice or bad.

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    • Posts: 1,133 Member
      Bad, but not so bad as to be abusive -- but, note, he still will get laid just fine.
      Nice, but not so nice as to be an obsequious doormat, passive-aggressive, or bitter. This guy won't get laid. Ever.

      **** the extremes.

      And what's with categorizing men as either/or? We are a bit more complicated than cardboard cutouts. My brother in law is a tough-looking biker dude with a heart of gold and loves his kitty cats. And some nice guys with short hair and no tattoos have a hidden bad streak.
    • Posts: 430 Member
      Both. Been with my bad body/good guy 26 years.
    • Posts: 643 Member
      Girls want the bad boy. Women want the good guy.
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      My experience is that they completely ignore men who are intelligent, responsible, hardworking, educated, well-read, cultured and respectful and instead sleep with the men who are crass, misogynist, callus and cruel.

      People on this board have already commented that it is the nice-guys fault for being nice. But, really what type of basis is that for establishing a relationship. Do I have to be mean to women in order for them to treat me with respect? What type of respect is that?
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    • Posts: 1,752 Member
      speaking from experience.... bad boyz....:glasses:
    • Posts: 2,407 Member
      I think girls who like bad boys just want to fix them.

      In the end - Nice guys always come in 1st.
    • Posts: 62 Member
      My experience is that they completely ignore men who are intelligent, responsible, hardworking, educated, well-read, cultured and respectful and instead sleep with the men who are crass, misogynist, callus and cruel.

      People on this board have already commented that it is the nice-guys fault for being nice. But, really what type of basis is that for establishing a relationship. Do I have to be mean to women in order for them to treat me with respect? What type of respect is that?

      ^^
    • Posts: 443 Member
      Depends on the girl. What do you think we are, clones?
    • Posts: 5,044 Member
      I don't know about the other Ladies, but I prefer a man who treats me like Lady:heart:

      I'll treat you like a lady...just let me pull your hair later:tongue:
    • Posts: 457 Member
      I only like bad boys in movies. In real life they're selfish and too child like. I'll take a nice man thank you.
    • Posts: 117
      I want the nice guy, but he cant be a wimp still has to know how to be a man.
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