strip club question??...
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As long as I am with him.. I am fine with it! Hell we both got a lap dance, it was pretty fun! And I even got to pick out the girl & I am picky! It was fun, But we have only went about 4 times total in MANY years..0
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don't care. have fun. DON'T spend too much money.
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It would be disrespectful to my wife IMO. I don't go and expect the same from her. I haven't always felt that way, I would go on rare occasion when I was in my 20's if my buddies were all going. But now at 43, I've come to realize that buddies come and go but my wife will always be there for me and there's no one more important to me than her
Besides what's the point of looking if you can't touch, I'd much rather look at my wife and touch all I want :-)0 -
If I had a wife or a daughter I sure as heck wouldn't want them to have to earn money by stripping in front of others.. So it would be pretty hypocritical if I went myself. I just can't wrap my mind around the logic that "if you're secure in your relationship it shouldn't be a problem." I mean come on now..if you're truly secure in your relationship why not just ask your wife or husband to do whatever it is for you? My personal opinion is that we are all prone to make mistakes.. And the further you push yourself towards and open flame the higher the chance you may get burnt.. Its not about "trust" its about risking what you don't need to.. Its like being ok with your wife or husband leaning over the edge of a high cliff without a rope.. Its not that you don't "trust" she or he won't fall over, but that accidents happen and if they did it would be catastrophic.. Now, you don't want to be "that" person thats GPS monitoring their spouses every move, and searching thru they're entire web and cell history, cause thats where true trust comes in.. But going to a strip club? Cmon.. Before y'all start flaming though, this is all just my personal belief and opinions..
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I'd say she better take me too. And don't spend all my $$$!
Or better yet, I get a stripper to myself too.0 -
If it was for a stag night then fair enough overall though am not really comfortable with it but when I've reached my goal weight i wanna do some sorta classy sexy dance class so he will be sorted he says his not bothered about going not his cuppa tea so win win i guess xD0
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It doesn't bother me, I worked in those for over 15yrs. Most of the girls in there hate men...Don't be jealous, go with him, you might be surprise nothing really bad happens. You have to trust your man..0
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never been to one, never care to go unless it ladies night (chip and dales is more my thing lol) but even meh. If I can only look and not touch I rather porn at home, that way when i start spanking the monkey I wont arrested :P But some people are into strip clubs and i say good for them.0
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hell no
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What's wrong with stripping? I have frineds that do it. Not because they have to either, they want to. One of my friends has her masters degree, but enjoys stipping more. Not really fair to judge other people doing what they like or what makes them happy.
They make a lot of money too. Cash.0 -
Alone? I'd be pissed! I would want to be there and also get a lap dance ;-)0
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I go with him & lap dances for both if a dancer attracts us0
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Wow, best response (and smile too).0
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u said it!!!0
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I've gone to strip clubs with my husband. He hates them actually, but we like to take his single friends and watch them act like dorks. The guys love it because all the strippers flock to me. Ballin'. ;D0
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Here's my view on it:
Some girls need to make money. I am not offended by strippers.
Some guys need to experience something different. I am not offended by guys who need a little spice in their life.
However, there are girls like me who are willing to do anything for their man, any fantasy, open to everything, I just don't care and I'll try it.
But the reason I'll do anything for him is because I expect him to ASK ME if he wants a strip tease, ASK ME if he needs something new in his life.
If you're a single guy, go ahead, go look at some women.
If you have a girlfriend and you still need to look at other girls, and your current girl doesn't appreciate it, you need to reconsider your relationship. It makes most of us feel as if we're not enough.
This has nothing to do with self esteem, either. I just expect that for all of the **** I go through to make him happy, that I be the only woman he looks at.
By the way, this is my opinion.0 -
LOL I don't care he goes but no dance
Love these responses, BTW.0 -
I wouldn't mind it at all. In fact, I'd go with him.0
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Still trying to wrap my brain around the idea of another woman doing a lap dance to me. Ugh! Repulsive idea! What could possibly be attractive/fun/entertaining about that?? I'd just stand up in disgust, say "no thanks", and push her off.0
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When I've been in relationships, it never bothered me. Hell, I'd go with
Sweet!0
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