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  • beccas27
    beccas27 Posts: 200 Member
    As long as I am with him.. I am fine with it! Hell we both got a lap dance, it was pretty fun! And I even got to pick out the girl & I am picky! It was fun, But we have only went about 4 times total in MANY years.. :)
  • smoofinator
    smoofinator Posts: 635 Member
    don't care. have fun. DON'T spend too much money.

    Yep.
  • Toblave
    Toblave Posts: 244 Member
    It would be disrespectful to my wife IMO. I don't go and expect the same from her. I haven't always felt that way, I would go on rare occasion when I was in my 20's if my buddies were all going. But now at 43, I've come to realize that buddies come and go but my wife will always be there for me and there's no one more important to me than her

    Besides what's the point of looking if you can't touch, I'd much rather look at my wife and touch all I want :-)
  • hsmaldo
    hsmaldo Posts: 115 Member
    If I had a wife or a daughter I sure as heck wouldn't want them to have to earn money by stripping in front of others.. So it would be pretty hypocritical if I went myself. I just can't wrap my mind around the logic that "if you're secure in your relationship it shouldn't be a problem." I mean come on now..if you're truly secure in your relationship why not just ask your wife or husband to do whatever it is for you? My personal opinion is that we are all prone to make mistakes.. And the further you push yourself towards and open flame the higher the chance you may get burnt.. Its not about "trust" its about risking what you don't need to.. Its like being ok with your wife or husband leaning over the edge of a high cliff without a rope.. Its not that you don't "trust" she or he won't fall over, but that accidents happen and if they did it would be catastrophic.. Now, you don't want to be "that" person thats GPS monitoring their spouses every move, and searching thru they're entire web and cell history, cause thats where true trust comes in.. But going to a strip club? Cmon.. Before y'all start flaming though, this is all just my personal belief and opinions..

    Very well said.
  • trojanbb
    trojanbb Posts: 1,297 Member
    I'd say she better take me too. And don't spend all my $$$!

    Or better yet, I get a stripper to myself too.
  • beckieboomoo
    beckieboomoo Posts: 590 Member
    If it was for a stag night then fair enough overall though am not really comfortable with it but when I've reached my goal weight i wanna do some sorta classy sexy dance class so he will be sorted ;) he says his not bothered about going not his cuppa tea so win win i guess xD
  • ersweeny2
    ersweeny2 Posts: 7 Member
    It doesn't bother me, I worked in those for over 15yrs. Most of the girls in there hate men...Don't be jealous, go with him, you might be surprise nothing really bad happens. You have to trust your man..
  • 4homer
    4homer Posts: 457 Member
    never been to one, never care to go unless it ladies night (chip and dales is more my thing lol) but even meh. If I can only look and not touch I rather porn at home, that way when i start spanking the monkey I wont arrested :P But some people are into strip clubs and i say good for them.
  • Lisa1971
    Lisa1971 Posts: 3,069 Member
    hell no

    :flowerforyou:
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,749 Member
    What's wrong with stripping? I have frineds that do it. Not because they have to either, they want to. One of my friends has her masters degree, but enjoys stipping more. Not really fair to judge other people doing what they like or what makes them happy.

    They make a lot of money too. Cash.
  • theepervette
    theepervette Posts: 638 Member
    Alone? I'd be pissed! I would want to be there and also get a lap dance ;-)
  • Jen9239
    Jen9239 Posts: 70 Member
    I go with him & lap dances for both if a dancer attracts us ;)
  • mypotential
    mypotential Posts: 12 Member
    Wow, best response (and smile too).
  • cheeky1990
    cheeky1990 Posts: 9
    u said it!!!
  • mrshoneydew
    mrshoneydew Posts: 253
    I've gone to strip clubs with my husband. He hates them actually, but we like to take his single friends and watch them act like dorks. The guys love it because all the strippers flock to me. Ballin'. ;D
  • Birlioz
    Birlioz Posts: 20
    Here's my view on it:

    Some girls need to make money. I am not offended by strippers.
    Some guys need to experience something different. I am not offended by guys who need a little spice in their life.

    However, there are girls like me who are willing to do anything for their man, any fantasy, open to everything, I just don't care and I'll try it.

    But the reason I'll do anything for him is because I expect him to ASK ME if he wants a strip tease, ASK ME if he needs something new in his life.

    If you're a single guy, go ahead, go look at some women.

    If you have a girlfriend and you still need to look at other girls, and your current girl doesn't appreciate it, you need to reconsider your relationship. It makes most of us feel as if we're not enough.

    This has nothing to do with self esteem, either. I just expect that for all of the **** I go through to make him happy, that I be the only woman he looks at.

    By the way, this is my opinion.
  • lilcassers
    lilcassers Posts: 163
    LOL I don't care he goes but no dance :)

    Love these responses, BTW.
  • gonnamakeanewaccount
    gonnamakeanewaccount Posts: 642 Member
    I wouldn't mind it at all. In fact, I'd go with him.
  • MelsAuntie
    MelsAuntie Posts: 2,833 Member
    Still trying to wrap my brain around the idea of another woman doing a lap dance to me. Ugh! Repulsive idea! What could possibly be attractive/fun/entertaining about that?? I'd just stand up in disgust, say "no thanks", and push her off.
  • Prplhd
    Prplhd Posts: 1
    When I've been in relationships, it never bothered me. Hell, I'd go with :)

    Sweet!
  • sm1zzle
    sm1zzle Posts: 920 Member
    How would you feel about your spouse going to a strip club and possibly getting a lap dance.. just curious to see how people feel about it :smile:

    My wife and I have gone to the strip club together.
    She has also gone to male shows with her friends before.

    No big deal. It's all about being mature.
    Jealousy is a turnoff and a huge weakness.
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,346 Member
    Still trying to wrap my brain around the idea of another woman doing a lap dance to me. Ugh! Repulsive idea! What could possibly be attractive/fun/entertaining about that?? I'd just stand up in disgust, say "no thanks", and push her off.

    Well, considering it isn;t something they just come up and do of their own accord, and you have to request a lap dance and pay for one, I guess you're never going to face that problem, are you?
  • SakuraRose13
    SakuraRose13 Posts: 621 Member
    why would he go to begin with ? what's the point ? I can give him one for free :)
  • DalekBrittany
    DalekBrittany Posts: 1,748 Member
    I am too shy to go to one with my man...which if you knew me would probably surprise you. I would love to go with him, neither of us have ever been to one and kinda want to go. I even hear that when women go that all the dancers pay more attention to other women than the guys! Maybe we tend to be less creepy...IDK. But I'm just shy that I'd have no idea what to do with myself. Like, do you just stare the whole time, is it rude to look away, WHAT ARE THE SOCIAL PARAMETERS FOR WOMEN AT STRIP CLUBS?! lol.

    These are the things I think about. Lord help me.
  • DalekBrittany
    DalekBrittany Posts: 1,748 Member
    Still trying to wrap my brain around the idea of another woman doing a lap dance to me. Ugh! Repulsive idea! What could possibly be attractive/fun/entertaining about that?? I'd just stand up in disgust, say "no thanks", and push her off.

    Well, considering it isn;t something they just come up and do of their own accord, and you have to request a lap dance and pay for one, I guess you're never going to face that problem, are you?

    This. It is disgusting to me that people are "disgusted" by other women...you have the same bits. To me, that just screams "I'm uncomfortable in my sexuality!"
  • sm1zzle
    sm1zzle Posts: 920 Member
    why would he go to begin with ? what's the point ? I can give him one for free :)

    Just because you own a Mustang.... does not mean that you don't still drool over a well built Trans Am, Camaro, Nova, Chevelle, etc.
  • Stump_Likker
    Stump_Likker Posts: 2,059 Member
    why would he go to begin with ? what's the point ? I can give him one for free :)

    Just because you own a Mustang.... does not mean that you don't still drool over a well built Trans Am, Camaro, Nova, Chevelle, etc.

    Lol. Kinda like always banging in the bedroom. Sometimes you need to use the kitchen.
  • Phoenix24601
    Phoenix24601 Posts: 620 Member
    hell no...i will be giving the lap dances to my own husband. :wink:
  • DalekBrittany
    DalekBrittany Posts: 1,748 Member
    why would he go to begin with ? what's the point ? I can give him one for free :)

    Just because you own a Mustang.... does not mean that you don't still drool over a well built Trans Am, Camaro, Nova, Chevelle, etc.

    Lol. Kinda like always banging in the bedroom. Sometimes you need to use the kitchen.

    OMG this! lol
  • brittanydwright
    brittanydwright Posts: 40
    i woulnt mid it if my man went to a strip club

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