Women in relationships aren't allowed to have male friends?

Well.... I think it should go both ways. I don't think he should be "hanging out" with other women either. Me and my fiance can both be on the jealous side. So we both agreed to have mutual friends that we all hang out together. I have yet to meet a guy that just wants to hang out and be my friend. I had this one friend that I thought for sure he was just my friend. I was all like "baby you have nothing to worry about, he's just a friend and besides I don't like him like that" anyways, we hung out and sure enough dude puts the moves on me even though he knew I was engaged and even though we had built a friendship for over a year. Now I can't even be around him.

I'm sure there could be "just friends" with the opposite sex, but more often then not there is some sexual tension involved and I just don't see the reason of pushing that or making unnecessary temptations. I just keep my flirting to online It's safer that way lol!

I as a married woman, wouldn't just have a friend who is a male, the same way as my husband wouldn't just be a friend with a woman, it's a complete respect issue, our friends are couples that we do things together with, or I will go out with friends who are women and he would go out with friends who are guys, but as far as going out alone with a friend of the opposite sex, I would never do that nor would my husband. As the saying goes, you play with fire you're going to get burnt, have more respect for your spouse to not do that.

:huh:

Seriously???

My best friend is a guy. I met him on my first day at University. We are as platonic as they come. We've also lived together in shared student houses while studying. Nothing has ever nor will anything ever happen. You could leave us on a desert island together and we would be great at building huts, finding food etc but never do anything dodgy!! It would be like doing stuff with my brother. :noway:

Now this guy has been a great friend to me for over 20 years now!! According to your bizarre standards, I am to dump him as a friend of over two decades, because it is somehow disrespectful to my OH to have a male friend in my life??? :noway:

We ALSO have "friends who are couple we do things together with" but not ONLY. I have friends that are male, female, younger than me, older than me, with kids, without kids, with dogs, without dogs, in same sex relationships, in opposite sex relationships, in no relationships...... I don't pick my friends to be carbon copies of me and my OH, I pick them for interests and qualities that are totally unrelated to their gender or relationship status.

I as a married woman, wouldn't just have a friend who is a male, the same way as my husband wouldn't just be a friend with a woman, it's a complete respect issue, our friends are couples that we do things together with, or I will go out with friends who are women and he would go out with friends who are guys, but as far as going out alone with a friend of the opposite sex, I would never do that nor would my husband. As the saying goes, you play with fire you're going to get burnt, have more respect for your spouse to not do that.

:huh:

Seriously???

My best friend is a guy. I met him on my first day at University. We are as platonic as they come. We've also lived together in shared student houses while studying. Nothing has ever nor will anything ever happen. You could leave us on a desert island together and we would be great at building huts, finding food etc but never do anything dodgy!! It would be like doing stuff with my brother. :noway:

Now this guy has been a great friend to me for over 20 years now!! According to your bizarre standards, I am to dump him as a friend of over two decades, because it is somehow disrespectful to my OH to have a male friend in my life??? :noway:

We ALSO have "friends who are couple we do things together with" but not ONLY. I have friends that are male, female, younger than me, older than me, with kids, without kids, with dogs, without dogs, in same sex relationships, in opposite sex relationships, in no relationships...... I don't pick my friends to be carbon copies of me and my OH, I pick them for interests and qualities that are totally unrelated to their gender or relationship status.

Soo you lived together at college and never hooked up once? Ohhhhh cool story bro.....To bad you are not being honest with yourself

Edit- if you didn't hook up, its simply because YOU never offered.

A) I am not a "bro" sweetheart.

There really is little point in attempting to have an even vaguely cerebral argument with you, so I shan't waste my breath. I guess most of your brains are in your pants if you believe everyone acts like you think. It probably says more about yourself than "everyone else".

I as a married woman, wouldn't just have a friend who is a male, the same way as my husband wouldn't just be a friend with a woman, it's a complete respect issue, our friends are couples that we do things together with, or I will go out with friends who are women and he would go out with friends who are guys, but as far as going out alone with a friend of the opposite sex, I would never do that nor would my husband. As the saying goes, you play with fire you're going to get burnt, have more respect for your spouse to not do that.

:huh:

Seriously???

My best friend is a guy. I met him on my first day at University. We are as platonic as they come. We've also lived together in shared student houses while studying. Nothing has ever nor will anything ever happen. You could leave us on a desert island together and we would be great at building huts, finding food etc but never do anything dodgy!! It would be like doing stuff with my brother. :noway:

Now this guy has been a great friend to me for over 20 years now!! According to your bizarre standards, I am to dump him as a friend of over two decades, because it is somehow disrespectful to my OH to have a male friend in my life??? :noway:

We ALSO have "friends who are couple we do things together with" but not ONLY. I have friends that are male, female, younger than me, older than me, with kids, without kids, with dogs, without dogs, in same sex relationships, in opposite sex relationships, in no relationships...... I don't pick my friends to be carbon copies of me and my OH, I pick them for interests and qualities that are totally unrelated to their gender or relationship status.

Soo you lived together at college and never hooked up once? Ohhhhh cool story bro.....To bad you are not being honest with yourself

Edit- if you didn't hook up, its simply because YOU never offered.

A) I am not a "bro" sweetheart.

There really is little point in attempting to have an even vaguely cerebral argument with you, so I shan't waste my breath. I guess most of your brains are in your pants if you believe everyone acts like you think. It probably says more about yourself than "everyone else".

So you do realize you didn't have sex because YOU never offered right?

You can repeat yourself as often as you please, that does not make your statement a truth. I know myself and I know my friend and I know my 20+ year friendship. I feel really sorry for you to believe that he is only my friend because after 2 decades he's still waiting for me to come up with the goods.

Of course, you are so opinionated that you're always right, so you will now believe that I have been in denial for 2 decades with this friendship. Thankfully your opinion matters precisely zilch. :flowerforyou:

Because women are the weaker gender and they cannot be trusted with their feelings. Who knows when feelings will overwhelm you and you will jump on that "friend". There is a reason all women are strictly prohibited from talking to men or even showing their face/bodies in the middle east.

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So you do realize you didn't have sex because YOU never offered right?

Out of curiosity are you saying that a man is literally incapable of turning down sex if offered by an attractive woman?

Or that anytime a man is being nice to an attractive woman is because he is "offering d*ck"?

You are Chris Rock (again) and I claim my prize!

Do you guys live on planet earth?

Yes.

Next question.

I dont, cos I'm out of this world y0

That wasn't a question!!!

Yes, but only if your partner is an insecure tool.

OMG 17 pages of this? Oh people of the interwebs...

thank you mustafa.

And today's lesson on how to use the quote button is bought to you by the letters "D" "O" and "H" and the number 12....

Good lord, I buggered that up as well...