In love with a guy who is engaged!

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  • karl39x
    karl39x Posts: 586 Member
    Can't believe the quick judgement being passed here by many. You guys don't know me, or him, OR the entire story, yet you feel like it's okay to call us slurs and judge our whole relationship?

    Thanks to the mature people in here who are giving their input but aren't jumping to conclusions.

    How long have you even known this guy?

    6 months.

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  • hstoblish
    hstoblish Posts: 234 Member
    Seriously? You know he's engaged, don't be a home wrecker.

    There are other guys in this world, I promise.

    What? He's not married, she wouldn't BE a freaking "home wrecker."

    People get out of engagements ALL THE TIME. Get engaged to someone, then they meet someone else, etc. etc.

    The way I see it, there isn't a ring on his finger, anything could happen still.
    Tell him how you feel, be completely honest about it, and if he feels the same way, he'll have some serious thinking to do. If he keeps playing you along, while remaining engaged to be married, he's a d-bag playing around with your feelings and you need to get away.

    And if he marries his fiance... Do not pursue!

    No, no ring on HIS finger... man. What about this other person. Engagements can (and often are) placeholders while you plan a wedding and a marriage. This is still a relationship, and you're either the kind of person who respects that or you're not.
  • j0705
    j0705 Posts: 185
    If you pine after an engaged man, and he stays with his fiance, you will be brokenhearted.

    If you pine after an engaged man, and he leaves his fiance for you, then you are stuck with a man who would leave his fiance. Enjoy planning your wedding!
    lol so true.

    this 100%... what makes you any different than her, either hes a *kitten* and will betray his FIANCE, or he wont... and if he will, then he will do it to you too... and, likewise, either your the type of girl who would insert yourself into someone elses relationship, or your not... and there are names for girls who will...

    people always say once a cheat always a cheat.. its bs . If you have found the right person you wont cheat... simple :P

    HAHAHAHAHA!!! Uh no. lol

    My dad was a serial cheater, and HE told me that "once a cheat, always a cheat". It was during one of his lovely "talks" when I started dating as a teen.

    like i said .. if someone cheats then they arent with the right person. ill admit ive cheated, then i met the right person and was faithful for 20 yrs. :P
  • Unashamed1
    Unashamed1 Posts: 5
    Can't believe the quick judgement being passed here by many. You guys don't know me, or him, OR the entire story, yet you feel like it's okay to call us slurs and judge our whole relationship?

    Thanks to the mature people in here who are giving their input but aren't jumping to conclusions.

    You must understand when you ask a question you are now at the mercy of other people's mentalities. You will get responses that you don't like and you might not agree with; therefore, you if you are only conditioned to hear what you like or what you are comfortable with, please don't asked questions because the truth hurts sometimes.
  • Pete0725
    Pete0725 Posts: 36 Member
    I'm not going to bash the guy because there's two sides to each story and we are only hearing one side. So i think the folks that are saying he is a loser should just chill and stop judging. Dude may have set her straight and she failed to see or hear it. Sometimes we hear what we want to hear.
  • erulasse
    erulasse Posts: 141 Member
    Thanks to the mature people in here who are giving their input but aren't jumping to conclusions.

    Mature would be not letting your feelings and naïveté rule your better judgement; a mature person would look at this situation, gather a little dignity and say NOPE. He's taken, he's obviously a **** person for stringing other women along when he's engaged.

    If he was a decent guy and if he really wanted you, he'd have left her ages ago. Right now you're thinking about taking something that isn't yours. Grow up, get some empathy for this poor woman and move on... There are billions of other men out there.
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