Girls do you like a nice guy? You just friendzoned him

I these threads.

They're magnets for stereotypes, bitterness, *kitten* hats, and anti-social personalities.

So . . . In.

IKR? So many hateful women in here.

I still hold that finding a great woman is harder than finding a great man.

I don't know about how common either good men or good women are, but I know I got lucky.

I think you both did. Trust me when I say, as a single man, that good women are scarce and most are already married.

I these threads.

They're magnets for stereotypes, bitterness, *kitten* hats, and anti-social personalities.

So . . . In.

IKR? So many hateful women in here.

I still hold that finding a great woman is harder than finding a great man.

I don't know about how common either good men or good women are, but I know I got lucky.

I think you both did. Trust me when I say, as a single man, that good women are scarce and most are already married.

I'm a dam good woman and when I was single men were not exactly beating down my door. Heck, I'm 37 and not married yet!

Just sayin'.

They're out there. You're just too busy looking at the Barbie dolls. :flowerforyou:

I'm a nice guy, I always get friend zoned because they honestly couldn't handle sleeping with me, I would ruin them for other men...

Generally, I find that the quality of people you have around you is a reflection of the quality of person you are. Good people tend to attract good people. Jerks tend to attract jerks. If you want to find a good person, be a good person.

Generally, I find that the quality of people you have around you is a reflection of the quality of person you are. Good people tend to attract good people. Jerks tend to attract jerks. If you want to find a good person, be a good person.

I agree completely, not necessarily as who you hang out with as THE determining factor, but it's very true....like attracts like, so if you're a jerk, don't be surprised what you end up with \m/

So if I don't attract anyone, do I have to start questioning my own existence again!? That led to some pretty heavy stuff last time!

I am attracted to nice people...If you are a jerk, man or woman I want nothing to do with you I don't care how "good looking" you are!!!

I like my guy. He'll hold the door open for me, but also slap my *kitten* as I walk through it.

BOOM!

"Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.

Not quite. I've been the nice guy more times than I'd like to admit and I have a few friends who are still the nice guy. Nice guys don't always have poor social skills or expect anyone to have sex with them just for being nice. Basically, they just lack confidence when it comes to women.

Women like guys with confidence, and they need to feel like they're pretty and desirable. Nice guys get put into the friendzone because they don't have the balls to make a move and they fear rejection, so they just act overly nice towards the girls they like in hopes that they'll make the move instead. Women write this off as a turnoff or a lack of interest and that's where the friendzone comes in. And then the nice guy gets confused when the girl falls for the guy with confidence even though he treats her like crap.

The lack of confidence isn't the real reason women hate the "nice guy" bull****, because we completely understand the lack of confidence and fear of rejection involved with making the first move (especially since, particularly in our media, schlubby dudes aggressively going after hot girls are glorified and she's supposed to give him a chance, but a girl that you think is less attractive than you expressing that makes her pathetic in the same media). It's the fact that a lot of "nice guys" get super pissed and ****ty and passive-aggressive when the girl--that assumes that him being nice and acting like a friend means he desires to be FRIENDS with her--doesn't fall into his arms. It's a real let-down when all of a sudden the guy that you felt a great friend-connection with blows up and talks about how you're stupid and/or a *kitten* because you end up dating someone else other than him. Just sayin'.

That's right, I have to either have sex with a guy or never look at him. Anything in between is friend zoned. That's how life works.

"Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.

This. Just because a girl is nice to you and considers you a friend doesn't mean she's obligated to want to have sex with you just because you're nice. Guys like that need to the get over themselves.

Also, because I want to add something valuable to the discussion:

Amazing. In the process of sending this to several people

It's true right?

Beta zone!

:laugh:

I like a nice guy and haven't friendzoned him....


.... yet

"Nice guy" = entitled man with poor social skills who believes that women owe him sex (or a relationship if he's the type who insists that it's not about sex) if he displays the bare minimum of being (or pretending to be) a decent human being.

Q.F.T.