I want him, He doesnt want me :(.. Vent/Rant
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Dangit, I didn't check the date. This is indeed a very old thread.0
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I feel like i can fall deeply in love with this guy, we met not even two weeks ago
Less than two weeks and your in love.... Do most women take relationship/love advice from Disney films?
Not women in their thirties.0 -
Dangit, I didn't check the date. This is indeed a very old thread.
*giggles* But keep coming back to see how many people post thinking it's a new one. It's fun!0 -
Dangit, I didn't check the date. This is indeed a very old thread.
*giggles* But keep coming back to see how many people post thinking it's a new one. It's fun!
I just noticed. Why in the world did someone resurrect this nonsense? Smh.0 -
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Dangit, I didn't check the date. This is indeed a very old thread.
*giggles* But keep coming back to see how many people post thinking it's a new one. It's fun!
I just noticed. Why in the world did someone resurrect this nonsense? Smh.
PghPensFan69 did it! He should know better!0 -
Dangit, I didn't check the date. This is indeed a very old thread.
*giggles* But keep coming back to see how many people post thinking it's a new one. It's fun!
I just noticed. Why in the world did someone resurrect this nonsense? Smh.
PghPensFan69 did it! He should know better!
Coming from someone that posted *giggles* and keep coming back .... It's fun!
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.Dangit, I didn't check the date. This is indeed a very old thread.
*giggles* But keep coming back to see how many people post thinking it's a new one. It's fun!
I just noticed. Why in the world did someone resurrect this nonsense? Smh.
PghPensFan69 did it! He should know better!
Coming from someone that posted *giggles* and keep coming back .... It's fun!
We wouldn't even be having this fun if it weren't for you. So thank you for that. :bigsmile:0 -
We wouldn't even be having this fun if it weren't for you. So thank you for that. :bigsmile:
You're quite welcome 0 -
all i can say is.... run.. run farrrr away from this man... yeah it might be fun in the beginning.. but OMG the countless nights you spend crying on this BOY will not be worth it..... believe me... i know... just dont...
^^This. Run away, as fast as you can. Felt this way once, it turned out to be a co-dependent and abusive relationship. If you refuse to run, at least pump the brakes a little until you actually KNOW this person. Take your time and really get to know him. I knew my boyfriend for 3 years before we even started dating. Once we started seeing each other, it was 3 months before we put a title on it. Happiest I've ever been with someone because I took the time to build trust and respect for him.0 -
It looks like OP hasn't been around in almost a year. I'm bummin', I want to know what happened!0
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It looks like OP hasn't been around in almost a year. I'm bummin', I want to know what happened!
Send her a private message. Maybe she gets e-mail notifications when she gets one0 -
WHOA go get some counseling. Any man would be wise to RUN AWAY from someone talking like you.
1. Quick involvement is a HUGE Red Flag
2. Desperation is not sexy. You sound very, very desperate.
3. Why would you want a commitment from a guy who does so much of what you don't approve of?
4. Please, please get counseling and learn self-respect, how to stand on your own, etc before you get involved with a man.0 -
It looks like OP hasn't been around in almost a year. I'm bummin', I want to know what happened!
Send her a private message. Maybe she gets e-mail notifications when she gets one
I think I will! I feel like such a meanie because I keep bumping this thread, but I get a kick out of seeing how many people post without reading the whole thing. :laugh:
ETA how did you find this one? I have a hard time finding old posts. The fart threads are obvious, the person had to have been searching farts. :bigsmile:0 -
I was the opposite with my husband. He still says love at first sight for him as he saw me and felt instantly that we could make each other happy but I took a little convincing, partially as I was worried that the intensity of the feelings was more lust/obsession than love or that it would burn out but we were married in under a year and that was 12 years ago now. (And boy do we have some great stories from that time of our life)
So people can fall in love quickly, and at different speeds, but honesty is important. Space is important. You can't smother each other or you risk loosing yourself and your partner. The thought of being smothered with constant attention makes me shudder.0 -
I really need to check the darn dates on these things!0
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Here's my advice... Just be **** buddies, they're always the best
:laugh: Funny thing is that's my husband and I got started. It started as just that and then we got to spending all that time together, got to know each other, and after a month and a half we were dating. Seven months after that we got married :blushing: It's not a course that would work for everyone though lol
To OP, if he says he isn't ready to commit, then he's not ready to commit. You really do need to back off give him space. I understand about being needy and codependent and needing constant attention. I used to be like that and believe it's not healthy and can lead you down a dangerous track. The men who are willing to give constant attention are the kind of men who give healthy attention, at least in my experience. At any rate, best of luck with however you decide to handle it.
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I sent her a message, but she hasn't responded. I really want to know. The suspense is killing me, maaaan!0
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I sent her a message, but she hasn't responded. I really want to know. The suspense is killing me, maaaan!
Keep us posted0 -
I sent her a message, but she hasn't responded. I really want to know. The suspense is killing me, maaaan!
Keep us posted
You know I will! :bigsmile:0 -
COARSE... of coarse
anyone find that gem yet?0 -
"in the last 10 mins, literally he got 20 phone calls 10+ people showing up at his house and it was 1 am" Smoking a little more than cigs I would venture to say. Sounds like a dealer with 20 phone calls and 10 diff people showing up in middle of night 0
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COARSE... of coarse
anyone find that gem yet?
lol, your funny0 -
Good thing I read all they way through - didn't realize this was a zombie thread at first.
I want to know what happened!!!0 -
Coming from a recovering "clinger" myself, listen to what these other people are saying... Stop being so clingy. Lol. It is NOT a turn on for a guy, you will chase him far far away, and then you'll be sad. Trust me. You sound like me when I was a teen! hahaha. Whew lawdy. 0
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Lol.
You are a little too clingy and he isnt ready to grow up.
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I think he's a more independent type in a relationship and you are obviously, to put it bluntly, very clingy. Which you have even admitted. I think you need to accept that maybe you just aren't right for each other. If you keep trying to make him give you attention all the time he is going to feel trapped and freak out even more and you'll only appear desperate. If it's meant to be, it will be. Don't try to force something that isn't meant to happen. Why would you want to be with someone who isn't that into you anyways? Find someone who enjoys the constant attention reciprocated and you can both give each other attention all day long and be happy doing it!0
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Yeah girl, WAY too fast... I'm 23 and I've been friends with my now BF for almost a year, and even we haven't fully commit to each other yet. Chill out!0
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Show him this thread and you won't have to worry about him anymore.0
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*facepalm*
In for the resurrection lol.0
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