Can a man and woman be good friends without...?

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  • KameHameHaaaa
    KameHameHaaaa Posts: 837 Member
    I think they can be, but then again I've always had lots of male friends and very few boyfriends/partners. I HAVE found that during some relationships this fact has been a problem with the guy I'm dating. "You're always hanging around guys how do I know what's going on" etc. Also since I'm bisexual, my most recent boyfriend pulled the whole "I can't even trust you around women" !?!?!?!?!?

    I've been in 4 relationships total. 2 of them ended because I was cheated on. I'VE NEVER CHEATED, ever. Honestly, when I'm in a relationship I really just tune out attractions to other people and I guess a lot of people don't "get" that? o_O Oh well. Starting to think I'm just destined to have friends, no boy/girlfriends.
  • jyogit
    jyogit Posts: 280 Member
    95% of my friends are woman .. rule of thumb ..never f..k a friend ..that way you won't have her as a friend for much longer.. i don't get along with men as I've always been surrounded by women and sure the odd urge of sexual attraction has arisen so to speak .. but it can be overcome.
    A lot of my friends are also married and we occasionally travel together alone and in groups with husbands consent etc etc.. its a great world where men n women can be friends and experience stuff together ..
  • jyogit
    jyogit Posts: 280 Member
    I think they can be, but then again I've always had lots of male friends and very few boyfriends/partners. I HAVE found that during some relationships this fact has been a problem with the guy I'm dating. "You're always hanging around guys how do I know what's going on" etc. Also since I'm bisexual, my most recent boyfriend pulled the whole "I can't even trust you around women" !?!?!?!?!?

    I've been in 4 relationships total. 2 of them ended because I was cheated on. I'VE NEVER CHEATED, ever. Honestly, when I'm in a relationship I really just tune out attractions to other people and I guess a lot of people don't "get" that? o_O Oh well. Starting to think I'm just destined to have friends, no boy/girlfriends.

    i too have come across the same problems although I'm not bisexual .. lol
    but having all female friends does tend to worry perspective partners. its a good job i like being single :drinker:
  • jyogit
    jyogit Posts: 280 Member
    95% of my friends are woman .. rule of thumb ..never f..k a friend ..that way you won't have her as a friend for much longer.. i don't get along with men as I've always been surrounded by women and sure the odd urge of sexual attraction has arisen so to speak .. but it can be overcome.
    A lot of my friends are also married and we occasionally travel together alone and in groups with husbands consent etc etc.. its a great world where men n women can be friends and experience stuff together ..

    Okay I already love you as a friend! :flowerforyou:

    Thanks :flowerforyou:
  • Megan101792
    Megan101792 Posts: 3,194 Member
    yes, but the gf/bf of the other will not be okay with it. I'm sorry, yes, I will grab my guy friend in random places, we will sleep in same bed, we will be totally inappropriate, we will change in front of each other, he may grab my boobs or butt, but no, there is nothing going on. GF now fiancee just had to get used to the face I've known him since I was eight and nothing was there but complete and utter friendship that just made people question.

    I have friends that are guys and gf's just get ridiculous mad at me. I don't get it. They view me as one of the guys who can drink them under the table and be the one who can get them drinks quicker at the bar...or be the one who will be there to explain the inner workings of a woman to them when they are confused by gf.

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