WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR APRIL 2015

Pip, just what I needed today. Food Porn! It looks delicious!

Janet, I understand how irritating it can be to use a less familiar device. I normally use my ipad and am using my antique desktop this morning. (It is so old that it had Windows 2000 on it when I bought it. I've upgraded to XP.) I keep waiting for it to correct my spelling, but it doesn't.

I'm just about chewing nails this morning. My dear darling son is jerking me around and he thinks I don't know. He didn't want to come to Easter Dinner yesterday because he was SOOOO tired and worn out from moving, he just needed some time alone to relax. So, the kids came without him. OK, fine. I told the kids I was going to send home a plate of food and one of them told me to be sure to send enough for Julie, because she was there too. They told me she is there every day. Julie is the evil stepmother who he is supposedly divorcing and can't stand to be around. OK, so fine. He knows I don't approve of her since the way she acted when she was drunk and mistreated the kids, not to mention HIM, and in a small way ME (called me names and belittled me). So fine, I hold a grudge and he is more forgiving. Hmmm. Well, where was she when we were moving all his crap from one apartment to the other? Where was she when his mother - with a HEART CONDITION was moving his furniture? Nowhere.

So, this morning I was supposed to go over there after taking the kids to school and help clean the old apartment. I had put my own obligations on hold to do it, because this is the day it needs to be done. Fine. So, he called me bright and early and said that he couldn't start cleaning till 10:00 because the cable guy is supposed to come between 8-10. Oh, and by the way yesterday he dropped a cast iron pan on his foot and can hardly walk, so he's not sure how much use he will be. Translation...You will have to do it all. Then at 9:45 he called and said 10:00 is not good either because something else has come up. So, I sit here with my cleaning supplies all packed and ready. I told him I could go start on my own and he could come up later, but he didn't want to do that. So, the day is going to creep by and it's not going to get done or I will be up there late into the evening cleaning.

Also, it turns out that he wants to start repaying the deposit we paid for the new apartment in small installments (which NEVER actually happens). I suspect he has promised the deposit money from the old apartment to Julie, but that's just a guess.

Well, it feels better to get that off my chest. Sometimes it's hard to be the mother of a master manipulator.

I have all the kids masks loaded in the kiln for their final firing. Then I can be done with it. That will feel good.

Tomorrow I have to do the prep for my colonoscopy and upper/lower gi scope on Wednesday. I hate that stuff. The laxative makes me gag. I tried it in the past with the pills, but didn't like that either. I had to drink too much water all at once. I fear that this one is the same way. But this time it says I can drink orange juice and lemonade and tea. I don't think I was allowed to do that before. I'm supposed to start the prep at 3:00 and I'm supposed to take the kids to swimming lessons at 6:00, so something is going to have to be done about that. Hubby said he thinks he can do it.

Well, I need to go do something. Anything. I hope you are all having a great day.

Sylvia

whippet - lololol food porn LOVE IT... it was a beautiful ride there.. glad we were riding so I could work someone it off afterwards.

katla - that wasn't fudge, it was something else, tasted like it had some coffee flavor in the middle, it was AWESOME

exermom - thanks! i will, i think he's good looking too. i find myself staring at him and when he catches me, he gets embarresed.

damnit - yeah, i sure didn't dress up for easter, i barely brused my teeth!

Happy Monday ! ! !

Yesterday I drank a Mocha Frappe from Burger King, then typed it into MFP. WOW ! ! ! I forced myself to exercise as much as possible just so I could have a salad for supper (I can tolerate the knee pain longer on the bike if I'm playing Candy Crush). The weather was clear and chilly, so we took DS to the batting cages. It looks (to me) like he is ready for the High School try-outs, but DH is the expert.

Carey (and all others) lol about my plateau. It was a lot of work, but worth the effort. And it has given me more desire to keep trying harder. Thanks for the support !

Heather - I saw "Sessions" with my Dad when it first came out. I can understand how some people would be offended, but we both found it touching and informative.

Sylvia - (((Hugs))) for the DS situation. My instinct wants to say "Natural Consequences", but I also know the inner turmoil of being a Mom. IMHO, the priorities are yourself and your grandkids. I wish you the best. More Hugs. It's so hard being a Mom sometimes.

As for the missing Gift Certificate, I looked through DH's pile of junk mail, and there it was. I even found another from a year ago given to DH and me from my Dad. That place put an expiration date on it, so we'll see if I can sweet-talk them into an extension.

The kitchen floor is looking amazing. The taupe and beige tiles really subdues the ugly shade of green that the people before us painted on the walls. He should be there now, putting the finishing touches on the grout between the tiles, and we should be allowed back in there some time tomorrow.

Hugs for Everyone ! ! !

Terri in Milwaukee

Hi Everyone,
Katla49 I am sleeping more of a 7-8 hours total. I have a c-pap now. My Fybromyalga is under decent management too. This all helps. Usually I can sleep w/out a problem. This one work situation has been really tough. Usually when something bothers me like that I know I need to bring it to prayer. Less than a month and a half & this project will be done.

Damitjanit Hope your pain subsides soon or at least receeds to a tollerable level.

Pip The picts look great. Props for being so honest when reporting your food.

Dia_nruf Hope the snow stops soon. I still have a little in the yard but nothing to shovel for a few weeks now.

I am so impressed w/the women who can get 10k steps in. Today I'm trying to sit for no longer that an hour at a time and use the eclipticle to up my steps to 1k an hour. I'm working from home so I thought I give it a try & see how it goes.

Naiomi2015 from 53F and sunny Massachusetts

Pip - I try to log first and eat later, but DH wanted Burger King and I wanted coffee. Next time, just coffee (not frappe). I'm glad I was able to exercise and play Candy Crush at the same time. That's good info for me.
Sylvia - More Hugs (in fact, More Hugs for everyone - we all should get and give more hugs).

Better picture of great niece.

Evening all ... I hope you've all had a great Easter Bank Holiday today!
Weather here in N.Wales has been beautiful.
After a day painting ... Again!.... My renamed "Life on the Rocks" is done!
Off to the framers tomorrow and then put it in an exhibition/sale.
I'm tempted to keep it though!
Popped in to see grand twins before their 3rd b'day tomorrow ...it seems we're not to be there on the day

margaretturk wrote: »

Better picture of great niece.

diggin them dimps!

Hi all...I've been pretty busy the past few days.

I began Saturday by walking the mall with a couple of friends for about an hour, then off to get final things to bring to friends' for Easter Dinner. Spent the afternoon making carrot cake and organizing home office. Closet cleaning and a bit more exercise in anticipation of Easter eating rounded out the day. Got in over 16K steps.

Sunday I took Jake for a 3 mile walk and then had breakfast with my son, daughter in law and step granddaughter. I struggled trying to figure out what to wear for dinner. I had it in my mind what I would wear, but when I tried stuff on I decided I looked frumpy. I think these clothes were just a bit too big. I finally decided on a dress I haven't worn in years (I haven't worn a dress voluntarily in years) and a cute pair of heels with hose. I felt wonderful and soaked up the compliments of my friends. I got on the elliptical for a bit when I got home to exercise those much enjoyed calories.

I'm trying to figure out what exercise to do when I leave work, elliptical or mall walking. I have a chocolate & wine tasting ladies night on Thursday so I have to get that exercise in once again in anticipation.

The carrot cake was wonderful but my friends insisted I bring it home...not good. I hate throwing away food and I don't want to eat it (it was so delicious), so I decided to invite some friends over tomorrow evening after work for cake and coffee. I will have a sliver and then throw out what is left. I don't need that temptation hanging around.

Gotta run...
My best to all!
Chris in 39F MA