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Was really fat. Now less fat. Stuck being less fat. So why?

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  • Posts: 8,029 Member

    You use this line all the time. a) it's incorrect and b) it belies what a bitter sexist you are.

    You don't get the answers you want because you shoot down and make excuses for every suggestion and help people offer. You have easily the worst attitude of any regular poster I've ever seen and until you work on that first and foremost very little is going to change for you. I don't know why anyone bothers to help you anymore.

    Oh and I reported this thread for trolling.

    Spot on.

  • Posts: 8,680 Member
    draznyth wrote: »
    so this thread is way more boring than I expected

    Yeah wasn't like yesterday.
  • Posts: 8,029 Member

    Or when he starts logging accurately and consistently.

    And exercising consistently.
    And applying himself consistently.
    And realizing it takes effort consistently.

  • Posts: 4,696 Member
    yopeeps025 wrote: »


    Well that what I call doing your own program. It can happen.

    So he's just been picking up the same weights for years? What would be the point of lifting if you're not going to increase your weight?
  • Posts: 3,133 Member
    draznyth wrote: »
    so this thread is way more boring than I expected

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  • Posts: 8,680 Member

    So he's just been picking up the same weights for years? What would be the point of lifting if you're not going to increase your weight?

    Well not exactly but some people don't know when you progress in weight. There was a thread about that today with someone lifting 12 reps then got to 25 reps asking when to increase weight. This poster has a trainer too. So with that said it won't surprise me to see a do your own program not really go anywhere in weight.
  • Posts: 14,260 Member

    So he's just been picking up the same weights for years? What would be the point of lifting if you're not going to increase your weight?

    What's the point of him asking for advice if he's never going to follow it?

    I think his workout program is: 1 rep of writing post asking for advice, 5 reps refuting advice, 8 reps comparing himself to others, rest.
  • Posts: 4,696 Member
    yopeeps025 wrote: »

    Well not exactly but some people don't know when you progress in weight. There was a thread about that today with someone lifting 12 reps then got to 25 reps asking when to increase weight. This poster has a trainer too. So with that said it won't surprise me to see a do your own program not really go anywhere in weight.

    Ah, gotcha.
  • Posts: 4,696 Member
    jemhh wrote: »

    What's the point of him asking for advice if he's never going to follow it?

    I think his workout program is: 1 rep of writing post asking for advice, 5 reps refuting advice, 8 reps comparing himself to others, rest.

    Agreed.

    He probably cools down with more whining.
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  • Posts: 8,029 Member
    Regarding not being able to the exercises or not very many of them. I understand how you might think that if you're not doing all of them to their fullest that it's not going to help. I have just started working on strength training myself. Literally. Like I'm 1 day in. I've searched for some 30 minute beginner workouts on YouTube and was all excited when I started today. I quickly got to a point, about 2 minutes in, so right after the warm up pretty much, where I couldn't keep up with the video. So instead of stopping and getting no benefit at all, I altered what I saw into something that still worked the muscles and that I could continue in the video. I completed the 30 minutes completely winded and with my heart pounding. So I know that even my half-assed versions were working my body in a way that will be beneficial and as I continue I expect to be able to complete the moves at the full level in time. I'm not worried how long it takes. I'm only concerned about completing it as often as I need to each week.
    There would be 2 minutes of cardio between different things. Those would be something like a lunge then hop to the other leg and then lunge with that leg and hop back again. I couldn't keep up with the hop in it. I had to switch from each lunge just by stepping into it. And after a couple, I couldn't go down as far as I was supposed to. So I just did what I could where I still felt my muscles burning.
    I couldn't do the side planks at all. I absolutely could not lift my hips off the floor. So I stayed in that position and with each lift, I just gave my best effort at lifting. I didn't get off the floor, but I could feel the muscles working trying to do it.
    There were many other ways I had to adapt this beginners workout to my current abilities including doing fewer reps and I am not one bit embarrassed about it because I saw it through. And I will do it again and again for as long as it takes.

    He already knows all this. His past threads have demonstrated the fact that he wants to BE THERE. He doesn't want to work to get there.


  • Posts: 8,680 Member

    Ah, gotcha.

    Also I wasted my newbie lifting stage when I started. Did i increase in weight. Of course I did. I did stall out a lot on the way and didn't know about deloads. So yes it can happen. That my guess for OP lifting program. A made up by the user program with little results.
  • Posts: 8,029 Member
    keola64 wrote: »

    Are you kidding me? So if a 5'5 man at 40% body fat that sits on his *kitten* all day would need more calories than 1800? You full specs before you spit out your opinion about how much calories should be taken in daily! If he was 230 pound at 6% BF I'd agree but seriously? Lack full information on the person you can't make assumptions like that.

    Check yourself, dude.

    Usmcmp, first of all knows her stuff. She's also been 'round the block a time or two or twelve with this OP before until she's blue in the face. She knows his specs.

  • Posts: 5,446 Member
    jemhh wrote: »

    What's the point of him asking for advice if he's never going to follow it?

    I think his workout program is: 1 rep of writing post asking for advice, 5 reps refuting advice, 8 reps comparing himself to others, rest.
    :D
  • Posts: 5,446 Member

    Check yourself, dude.

    Usmcmp, first of all knows her stuff. She's also been 'round the block a time or two or twelve with this OP before until she's blue in the face. She knows his specs.

    Usmcmp knows a whole lot, more than most on this board, and has been really kind in sharing it with the OP.
  • Posts: 2,973 Member
    tomatoey wrote: »

    Usmcmp knows a whole lot, more than most on this board, and has been really kind in sharing it with the OP.

    Far kinder than he deserves IMHO.
  • Posts: 5,377 Member
    Saw this recently, seems appropriate.
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  • Posts: 21,219 Member
    tomatoey wrote: »

    Usmcmp knows a whole lot, more than most on this board, and has been really kind in sharing it with the OP.

    I'm not THAT smart, I just try to make the advice reasonable. No sense in giving someone an ideal set up if it is something they can't follow. Practical advice wins.
  • Posts: 8,029 Member
    tomatoey wrote: »

    Usmcmp knows a whole lot, more than most on this board, and has been really kind in sharing it with the OP.

    Cosigned.

  • Posts: 1,184 Member
    tomatoey wrote: »

    Usmcmp knows a whole lot, more than most on this board, and has been really kind in sharing it with the OP.

    Agreed.
  • Posts: 1,184 Member
    senecarr wrote: »
    Saw this recently, seems appropriate.
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  • Posts: 1,206 Member
    BFDeal wrote: »

    I didn't say I don't run or can't. I said it will be easier. I'd be fast. My pace would be better. I'd be able to go for longer. And "get stronger" is another vague piece of advice. OK. So how specifically? If I can't lift myself I can't lift myself. It's not going to magically happen.

    This is information that literally took me less than a minute to find once I decided to stop making excuses (I couldn't do pull-ups at 270 lbs, nor could I do them at 190 lbs, because that's not how it works), got off my *kitten*, and did something about it.
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  • Posts: 8,680 Member
    edited June 2015
    BFDeal wrote: »

    Nah, I do 5/3/1. I use the Wendlerized app for it (Android, not sure if it's on iOS). It's a basic program but I'm looking for basic result. Look a little better. Get a little stronger. Lose a little weight. I'm not training for contest prep or whatever. I'm trying to end up 200lbs 20% body fat. I do the periodization template for the accessories. I leave out the squat day. Hurts my knees and I never made great progress so I just ride my bike one day extra instead following the "do something you enjoy" philosophy of exercise or some weeks just do a second deadlift day. I only have the bench, bars, and power tower to work with. I don't have access to cable machines etc.
    So you do a program and not follow it. You are aware that Wendler says to not do that right?
  • Posts: 8,029 Member
    If squats hurt your knees, you're doing them wrong.

    I have Psoriatic Arthritis, and I do squats. My knees are one of my worst joints, btw. I've done 100 squats in one day with resistance bands to correct a problem with my form that I have when I do them with weights.

    Stop making excuses.
  • Posts: 8,029 Member
    If squats hurt your knees, you're doing them wrong.

    I have Psoriatic Arthritis, and I do squats. My knees are one of my worst joints, btw. I've done 100 squats in one day with resistance bands to correct a problem with my form that I have when I do them with weights.

    Stop making excuses.
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