WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MAY 2016

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  • Charleen2
    Charleen2 Posts: 223 Member
    edited May 2016
    Lenora It makes my heart glad to hear there are still gentlemen being raised by their Mammas. I am ever hopeful that my 22 year old daughter will find one of these 'keepers' and bring him home. She is so focused on her work and classes for her Masters degree I don't think she even notices guys. She's smart, very polite and has a kind heart. She's also a cutie.
    I'll see if I remember to take pics of the waterfall so I can post it. It was finished just before the freeze last winter and I ordered shrubs and flowers that will arrive this week to green it up a bit.

    Charleen in Colorado (Today was a good day!)
  • tryingtolive1
    tryingtolive1 Posts: 245 Member
    Katla so excited for you. Hope you enjoy the visit.

    Went back to the gym today. Felt good. Makes a difference in my mood for sure. Only got 40 minutes in but was grateful for that. New tat hampers some of it. Starting to really itch so by thursday I should be back to normal length and normal workout.

    Saffron I know it can be tough to get motivated. Been on similar meds in the past. A small walk can get the ball rolling. I know that starting out slow and building on that made it work for me during that time. Baby steps.

    Becca I alway appreciate a man being polite opening the door etc. Makes me feel like there are still gentlemen in the world. I am amazed at how gentlemanly the guys have been at the gym. Young and old.


    Lenora I know when my daughter sprained her ankle she said it hurt more than when she broke it. Take it easy for awhile. She learned her lesson with that.

    Anne from Wisconsin
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,723 Member
    It has just occurred to me that we haven't seen Vicki on here for a while. (Motorbikes) Hope everything is ok.

    I'm up in the night. I've been dreaming about DH's family troubles. I feel so, so sorry for everyone involved. :'( He was a bit down this evening after DSIL left. I'm sure it's on his mind.
    It didn't help that the dinner I cooked, chicken in tomatillo sauce, was far too hot for him. I liked it - a lot, but I won't be cooking it for the two of us again. I might finish the jar off with some eggs for me. Boy, was it salty though! I've obviously got used to less salt these days, though I still have a salty tooth. I so rarely use a jar of anything that it was a shock. Loved the heat though.

    Yoga day today. :D Our friend, who is walking the Camino in Spain, is on her last week. She has done 700 km and has 100 to go. She turned 60 on the walk. One day last week she did 35 km, uphill, in 26ºC heat. Exhausted. I'm enjoying her blog.

    Today is my baby Kate's birth/death day. 38 years ago. My mind is going through the events of the night and morning. I very nearly died from blood loss from placental abruption. The hospital had only just instituted the policy of letting the mother see/hold the stillborn baby, so I was able to hold my perfect, full term baby for a while.
    It's a little bit hard, not being able to properly share my loss with DH. He knows about it and he knows I have bought the tulips in her honour, but it wasn't his child. Strangely, I know that there would have been no DS#2 and I wouldn't have had the three wonderful grandchildren, that I love so much, had Kate lived. So many thoughts for the middle of the night. Thank you for listening. <3

    Heather. UK.
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,210 Member
    :)Pip, Jake has kept a bar of soap under the top sheet near the foot of the bed and swears that it has kept the leg cramps at bay...he also drinks tonic (contains quinine) as another deterrent to leg cramps

    Today as we drove to the ferry on Bainbridge Island (before 6 AM) we passed many bicycle riders....they were clearly riding their bikes to work in Seattle and I thought of Pip and her suggestion that we all ride our bikes to work

    Jake saw the spine surgeon today and has surgery scheduled for June 29...more will be revealed about the details.

    smiley-sleep012.gifI got up at 1:45 this morning in order to walk the dogs and be ready to leave for Seattle at 4:45....I had 10,000 steps by the time we got to the ferry terminal at 6AM....the rest of the day had a lot of sitting....I stayed up late enough to vote for my favorites on DWTS....we'll watch our recording of the show tomorrow when we're wide awake.

    <3 Barbie
  • GodMomKim
    GodMomKim Posts: 3,703 Member
    Hi gals,
    Rori – a good lesson, now is the time to invest in friends and family

    Lisa – you are amazing!

    Seals – in San Francisco there is a pier area called pier 39 that has a special place for the seal lions to hang out and sun or sleep – always fun to watch them.

    Heather - a very fine line between the two Cornish or Devon

    Miriam – so glad to see you posting I miss you when you’re gone. What an amazing poem!

    Joyce – so glad Charlie got you what you wanted

    Heather – I did not realize you had a stillborn daughter, thinking of you! Later on your night time thoughts, it is interesting how a change has so many ripples, and that the change, Kate not living has good ripples the wonderful grandkids, as well as the painful ripples of what life would be like with a daughter….

    I think life is a lot like that sometimes the “bad” things end up providing opportunities for good things, even if it just for us to learn strength

    Newbies – welcome!

    I had my Mom here for mother’s day, we had a good visit, I did easy meals, BBQ hamburgers the first night, and cracked Dungeness crab, salad and homemade rolls for Mom’s Day. It was quiet and nice.
    Today is trying to catch up, and I am slowly getting there, so much work all of a sudden. But love the feeling that there is enough cash in the checking account to pay the bills.

    Really craving dessert, there is nothing in the house, so tempted to go to the market…. I’m off to take a shower and put on my pajamas as then I will not go out.

    Kim from N. California
  • jmkmomm
    jmkmomm Posts: 3,247 Member
    Awwww Heather, I didn't know you had a still born. I am so sorry. You are right, your husband can only empathize with you but he loves you very much and still understands.

    Lenora, my husband thinks it IS an unwritten rule that going in and out of a door at any establishment in the same as the written rules of the road so you go in the left and out the right. But if a gentleman is holding the door for me, whether that gentleman is 6 or 96 years old, I go out the door he is holding to aknowledge him doing that for me and to encourage the younger ones to continue it. I always say thank you sir as I pass through. It drives Charlie crazy if I use the wrong door. And I just don't care. Besides that, there is no unwritten rule, he was not taught that by his parents, he thought it up as an adult and thinks it is the only logical way of thinking. It also drives him crazy when a place has their automatic doors opening the wrong way. There is no arguing with that man.

    DWTS was good as usual tonight, it's getting down to the last teams now. It is amazing how a man who has never heard any sound can dance like he can but he is beautiful. He is one of the favored to win. That would mean he has won Americas top model and then Dancing with the stars.

    Joyce, Indiana
  • ljdw99
    ljdw99 Posts: 360 Member
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  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,101 Member
    morning ladies~
    slept soundly until 2 when Tom woke up,then the dogs wake up and Chester jumps off the bed and then I have to get up to get him back on the bed....so i tried sleeping a little more, but didn't work well...
    Today is my friend (other dental assistant) 50th birthday so I am sneaking in before she and Mary get there. and hang a Happy 50TH Birthday sign....well 3 weeks from today my daughter,granddaughter will be back here in Portland.... im getting excited...
    I forgot to send out a birthday card with money for my second grandaughter... will send one out the end of the week. she is saving up money for bible camp
  • lhannon062709
    lhannon062709 Posts: 1,140 Member
    Up at 3 am, been moving and shifting things around in the warehouse. Finally have everything out and neatly arranged for the sale, time to start pricing everything. Feel like my brains can finally sort it all out. Finally realized an inventory is almost unaccomplishable in the short time I have left, will just have to track as I sell in order to make sure my sis gets her share.

    Heather, I'm so sorry about Kate. :'( My sister nearly died with her last child from the same issue. When I flew in, they were fighting to save them both. Never been so scared. Vivyan was only 25 weeks in the womb, due in November, born in August on my mother's birthday, and named for her. They both survived, but only because my sister was a few miles from one of the premier natal ICUs in the nation. She had literally moved there two weeks prior. Moments, and quality of care, make such a difference.

    Second cup of coffee burbling, two more hours and I have to be in the shower. We go to press Wednesday at 2, so that pressure will be off for Thursday and Friday. Sale Saturday. I can collapse on Sunday, and probably will!

    Oh, and hosting a painting group tonight from 6 to 9pm. Whee! :p
  • mikesmom1983
    mikesmom1983 Posts: 582 Member
    Good morning Ladies!

    Just wanted to give a quick shout out while I had a minute with you and my morning coffee.

    Pip...I put soap under my sheets and it helps a lot. I would wake up at least two times per week with leg or foot cramps, now maybe once a month.

    To whomever posted the pic of the penny floor...I just love it. A few years ago I was in Provincetown, MA and a store there sold penny furniture, chairs, small tables, etc. I always wanted one and thought I may do something myself some day. I've seen penny countertops.

    Love to all of you, I have really big news to share when I get a few more minutes. Have to hit the shower and begin my work day.

    Chris in MA
  • KJLaMore
    KJLaMore Posts: 2,847 Member
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  • SaffronMeadow2
    SaffronMeadow2 Posts: 7 Member
    Thank you to all who've offered support -- Peach, Lagopus, Stephanie, Charleen, Grits, Trying, and especially Miriam. I made it through Day #1 and lost a pound!

    The Food Diary on this site is really helpful. After completing my entry for the day, I realized that the eight ounces of orange juice I had in the morning contained a walloping 26 carbs and 23 grams of sugar! Any suggestions for a quick but healthy breakfast that I can have before dashing out the door for work?

    Thanks again, ladies... your support means more than you could know.
  • auroranae
    auroranae Posts: 25 Member
    Good morning all!
    I have been very busy the last week but have logged my food and activity every day... 1of my May goals.
    Goal 2- lose 10 pounds by the 31st for my sons graduation
    Goal 3- be more active-go to gym, increase activity around the house, etc

    So far I am doing better with activity but my weight... Not so much. I weigh daily but post weekly. I am anywhere from 221to 218 -sometimes overnight.
    I am working on increasing my water intake and cutting back on carbs more.
    Wish me luck...
    I am not caught up on posts yet but getting there!
    D on day 17 of rain in Maryland
  • Peach1948
    Peach1948 Posts: 2,473 Member
    o:)
  • margaretturk
    margaretturk Posts: 5,261 Member
    :heart:
  • csofled
    csofled Posts: 3,022 Member
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  • csofled
    csofled Posts: 3,022 Member
    jmkmomm wrote: »
    DWTS was good as usual tonight, it's getting down to the last teams now. It is amazing how a man who has never heard any sound can dance like he can but he is beautiful. He is one of the favored to win. That would mean he has won Americas top model and then Dancing with the stars.

    Joyce, Indiana

    I was watching last night also and am amazed at what that young man can do dancing not hearing a single sound of the music. Also watched him on ANTM. He certainly is a winner!

    Cheri
  • janetr7476
    janetr7476 Posts: 4,001 Member
    Chris in MA - ugh, such a tease. Well you've got me waiting with bated breath. :)

    Janetr okc
  • karenleona
    karenleona Posts: 3,959 Member
    Hi. Karen from British Columbia. Hope i can join this discussion. Not sure what it is going to take for me to get my *hite together and lose weight for good. Working 12 hours shift work does not help. Nor does my depression. Off to work now for another crazy day in emergency
  • janetr7476
    janetr7476 Posts: 4,001 Member
    SaffronMeadow2 - for years I've grabbed a pre-mixed protein shake. My fav is EAS AdvanvtEdge chocolate fudge. 17 gr of protein, 4 gr carbs, 100 calories. There are others, just be sure to check out nutrition information.

    Janetr okc
  • janetr7476
    janetr7476 Posts: 4,001 Member
    karenleona wrote: »
    Hi. Karen from British Columbia. Hope i can join this discussion. Not sure what it is going to take for me to get my *hite together and lose weight for good. Working 12 hours shift work does not help. Nor does my depression. Off to work now for another crazy day in emergency

    Welcome, take one day at a time, baby steps. You can do this. Start with logging food on here every day. That will give you a picture of caloric intake and where problem ares hide. Glad you're here, it's a terrific starting place.

    Janetr okc
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,723 Member
    Saffron - Would a Quest protein bar be any good? I like the cinnamon roll ones, which are 170 calories and very filling. I buy 12 at a time from Amazon. I always have one in my handbag for emergencies as I can't skip meals, or even eat late, without getting the knee trembles. (Hypo)

    Here are my tulips in memory of Kate. I'm posting them for anyone who has ever lost anyone, especially a child.

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    My DSIL brought some plants for us so we have been putting them in pots and trying to find a space in the garden. All done now. :D

    Salmon and asparagus tonight.

    Heather UK
  • megblair1
    megblair1 Posts: 1,226 Member
    Good morning to all. I hope you are all well after the storms last night.

    My BD/mother's day weekend was pretty nice. Friday we went to a baseball game, we have the AAA farm club for the Kansas City Royals here and they have a great new stadium so that was fun. Saturday we had a cookout with the DDs , the BF, and grandbaby who is still not talking. So when they came in the tension was obvious, but it turns out not only had DD#1 and the BF been fighting, but she had hubby had been fighting all week over my birthday and mothers day. She refused to have anything to do with my on mothers day (not even a text) because "it is my day too and I'm doing what I want". Turns out this had been going on all week. She refused to tell me she wasn't coming on Mothers day telling dh "My plans are none of her business".

    She also said she no longer wanted to be invited to any family functions because we put too much pressure on her to be on time. So there is nothing we can include her in unless it's "stop by if you want to" but even then we can't say "between 2 and 6" because then she will feel pressure to be on time in that time frame.

    So I am totally befuddled with this.

    Mothers day we were going out to brunch but I decided I didn't want to go so DD#1 made fabulous omelets at home, I read the paper, took a nap, and planted some plants. We also went to the cemetery to see my mom. I totally enjoyed that day except I never heard a thing from DD#1.

    OK enough bitching. I hope all of you had a delightful weekend. I need to run to get my A1C done which will be sky high with all my back issues, steroids, limited mobility, etc. Bleh!

    You all have a great day. Take care, meg from omaha
  • Charleen2
    Charleen2 Posts: 223 Member
    Yesterday I pushed the limits of my knees. Today I must take it easy, the knees have the controls for today.

    Something I discovered yesterday on myfitnesspal reports - supplements make a difference - they need to be logged also. I thought since they had no calories they had no impact. Well I discovered logging my calicum suppliment completely changed the numbers in the calicum report. Instead of always being under the min., adding the suppliment entry put me above the min. which is a good thing. It's not news for the old hands on this site, but was a suprise to this newbie. Thought I would share it with the other newbies!

    Charleen in Colorado (Taking it Easy Today)
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,282 Member
    morning peeps -

    I was all set to ride in to work but at the last minute, I flaked out. still not over this poopy feeling, i'll ride home if the weather is still nice, supposed to be about 75, yesterday, I ate early and went up to bed and watched tv there, Kirby and the kids went up with me. Kirby has been my nurse, drowning me w/vitamin c, headache pills, sore throat stuff. I'm cold here at work. I have never liked air conditioners. I have a sweater on and a quilt over my lap, all I need are gloves and ear muffs.

    later peeps
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    Heather: I was lucky with my pregnancies and both went well other than morning sickness but my mom had several miscarriages, and so has my daughter. She's pregnant now, and we're praying for an easy pregnancy and healthy baby. I'm sorry about your DH's family troubles. :flowerforyou:

    Barbie: Sending good thoughts for Jake. I hope his surgery is a total success. DH has had three back surgeries & they've each been a blessing for him. Waiting for the surgery has always been the worst part of the experience for him. I hope Jake's experience is also a blessing. :heart:

    Kim: Mother's Day with your mom sounds wonderful. Crab salad is so good! Congratulations on the work and improved cash flow. :bigsmile:

    Chris in MA: "Love to all of you, I have really big news to share when I get a few more minutes." I can hardly wait to hear the news. Now I'll be stopping by even more often to look for your post. :grumble: :wink:

    SaffronMeadow: I like half a cup of 2% cottage cheese, a handful of blueberries & coffee for breakfast. The calories are low and it gives me sustained energy. Everyone is different. I hope you find a breakfast that starts your day well. :flowerforyou:

    Karen form BC: Welcome to a great group! I hope we will see you often. I had great success here by letting MFP set my calorie goals. I started off with a good number of calories and they were reduced as my weight dropped. Progress was not fast, but it was steady. I lost the weight slowly, over a period of a couple of years and am still here daily to make sure I maintain my good habits. Several of us are here to maintain our healthier lifestyles. I hope you'll be in that group in the future, too. :flowerforyou: :bigsmile:


    DD and the babies are here. We got home in the wee hours of the morning and I'm the only one awake at this point. Thankfully, the sea lions did not bark last night and the sleep I got was uninterrupted & appreciated. DGD lost a favorite mermaid doll on the flight. It was a gift from me. I remember exactly where we got it, & plan to go there and let her choose a replacement in the next day or two. I hope they still have the dolls! The place is a seafood restaurant at the beach and we'll be having a meal there soon!

    Newbies: I included my May Resolutions this morning. This list of 5 things has transformed my life. I hope you will be able to create a list of resolutions that do the same thing for yours.

    Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon

    Tibetan proverb: "The secret to living well and long is: Eat half, walk double, laugh triple and love without measure..."

    “Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.” Thomas A. Edison

    May Resolutions :
    1. Log every bite and swallow.
    2. Cardio exercise at least 3 days a week. Work on flexibility and back strength.
    3. Have fun every day.
    4. Drink at least three glasses of water daily, preferably more!
    5. Monitor sleep. Try to average 7 or more hours of sleep nightly.
  • mikesmom1983
    mikesmom1983 Posts: 582 Member
    Thank you to all who've offered support -- Peach, Lagopus, Stephanie, Charleen, Grits, Trying, and especially Miriam. I made it through Day #1 and lost a pound!

    The Food Diary on this site is really helpful. After completing my entry for the day, I realized that the eight ounces of orange juice I had in the morning contained a walloping 26 carbs and 23 grams of sugar! Any suggestions for a quick but healthy breakfast that I can have before dashing out the door for work?

    Thanks again, ladies... your support means more than you could know.
    Breakfast suggestion...I have a whole wheat english muffin with 1/2 tbls. natural peanut butter for breakfast every morning, along with coffee. It holds me until lunch and I just love peanut butter. I found that the more protein I had with my meals the more satisfied I was and less likely to snack. Drink alot of water.
    1 lb gone...great job!
    Chris in MA

  • DamitJanit
    DamitJanit Posts: 1,329 Member
    Call me crazy but I love to see other people happy and succeeding .

    Good Morning Ladies,

    Bridget, welcome. This is a great place for support and information. Come often and join right in.

    Anne, I think a mundane life is wonderful. I have a few friends with so much drama in their lives that they can’t possible enjoy living. We can always do things to make our lives less boring, if we want, but I for one just enjoy it this way.

    Miriam, what a wonderful gift from your new daughter!!!

    Joyce, what an all-around wonderful day you had. I’m so happy that Charlie got a gift that you really liked. I sure wish you could figure out how to post those pictures. Way to go, beautiful lady! (((Hugs))) (Later) So glad you were able to post the picture and how great you all look!!! And what beautiful jewelry!! Wow. I’m so glad he got something you like rather than a style he likes.

    Charlene, how nice that you have inherited a new son or two. And how sweet that he got you a gift for Mother’s Day. That is a great kind of friend to have. Can you post a picture of your water fall? I’d love to see it.
    MicheleNC, I saw the KFC nail polish talked about on GMA yesterday. I wonder if they disclose the calorie content? tongue-out-smiley-emoticon.gif
    KJ, congrats on your loss! If I lost 3 pounds in a week I’d be turning flips. I did when I first began this journey but not any longer. Keep up the great work.

    Saffron, it sounds like you need to come up with a plan and try to stick to it. Just remember to start with Baby Steps. Every little thing you do to improve your situation will make you feel better. Good luck.

    Katla, have a marvelous time with your DD and grands.

    Glo, thanks for the morning giggle when you said, “I love technology but can’t set the clock in my car”. That sounds like a few other people I know. snickering.gif

    Heather, what a great picture. And my favorite part was that food on the table!!! Yum yum. Oh and the greyhounds are beauties! I don’t think I’ve ever seen a black one.

    Pip, glad the soap did the trick for you. Others on here have said it works for them. Does any brand work?

    Joyce, so glad the jaw is getting better and you were able to eat the sandwich. Keep up the healing.

    CarolNC, what a cool lighthouse out of the pots!!!

    Karen BC, welcome. This is a great place for support and information so come often.

    Meg, was that your DD that doesn’t want to share mother’s day with her own mother? OMG Talk about selfish. And doesn’t want to have to be on time so would rather not be invited to family functions? I just don’t know what to think??? I’m glad you had a nice day and got to do what you wanted. ((((Hugs))))

    Pip, I hope you are feeling better soon!!!

    m1277.gifto any Newbies that I missed. Come often and join in the chat. This thing works!! Please sign your post with what you want to be called. It makes it easier for us to respond to you. Also a location is great, be it specific or general. We are happy to have you join us.

    It sounds like many of you had lovely Mother’s Day. Glad to hear it. I’m still working on the back door from the house into the garage. Every day I put another thin coat of the spray on Appliance paint. I think we will do the same on the new security door from the garage to the yard. Our Lab just licks the doors like crazy sometimes and that is how the one door got rusted. I mean that girl licked all the paint right off the door and got the metal to rust! Grrrr I just don’t want to have to go through this ordeal again. And she has already been licking the new security door and I sure don’t want it to rust. No matter how great our dogs are, there is always something. shaking-head-smiley-emoticon.gif I have a seminar for the HOA this afternoon with a reception following. These are usually very good and always learn something.
    I hope all of you have a healthy and happy day. relaxing-smiley-emoticon.gif

    Words I live by:
    Savor. I have to slow down and savor every bite.
    and
    Opportunity. Each day offers new opportunities for good health and happiness if we just look for them and choose them.
    I Love you, smiley-love013.gif
    DJ
    Myrtle Beach, SC
  • cory17
    cory17 Posts: 1,503 Member
    How does soap under the sheet help the leg pain??
    Happy mother's day belated to all of you.
    DJ and Katla, your posts are always inspirational.

    Linda in Calif.
    Trying to get back to logging, exercising and finding my mojo!
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,282 Member
    damnit - yes any brand works

    normally I don't have the cramps but now that I'm running longer distances (training for the marathon) in addition to the every day biking and other exercise poop I do, the cramps come. I read up on why it works... there is a theory that some molecule in the makings of the soap that does it. they say when you feel that it's not working any longer, to shave the outer layer of the soap and it will "reactivate" it to work again.
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