Ladies, would you let your boyfriend or husband go to the stripclub?
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I trust my husband. I know he is coming home to me. So I have no problem with him going to strip clubs.
If your boyfriend lies to you about things then you have a trust issue. If you feel the need to do things like look through his GPS record, check what he's reviewed online, or interrogate him years later, then you really have a trust issue. This has nothing to do with strip clubs. I suggest seeing a relationship counselor.2 -
maybe you should get a job there...thats how you investigate this properly.0
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Doesn't matter to me personally, as long as he hasn't had sex with any of them.0
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My boyfriend is a grown man, so he doesn't need my permission, but I do know he would consult me before doing it because he considers my feelings. I wouldn't be too terribly fond of him getting danced on by another woman, but as long as he doesn't touch and still comes home to me, we're good.0
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Based on some of your comments though, I just wanna say that strippers are people too. Just because they're dancing for money doesn't make them gross or disgusting. There's a demand to be seen and they're just supplying it. So if you think strippers are gross, then you should apply that same logic to people that pay to see them.
Well said! This times a thousand!
Also, I love the hooded Hello Kitty whatever it is you're wearing.
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another thing...why the hell do you join a fitness forum and ask about your strip club reviewing BF in the first 15 posts? hmmm.6
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LOL ... I personally hate strip clubs. But if my wife wanted to go to one and it made her want to come home and have sex with me, sure ... I would have no problem with it. Hell ... if it got her in the mood, I'd encourage her to go as often as she wanted!
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inkedShimewaza wrote: »LOL ... I personally hate strip clubs. But if my wife wanted to go to one and it made her want to come home and have sex with me, sure ... I would have no problem with it. Hell ... if it got her in the mood, I'd encourage her to go as often as she wanted!
so your ok with your not turning her on but some random dude as long as you get the action? lol. see how easy us dudes are?5 -
Honestly, I've always been more annoyed at the amount of money it costs to hang out at a strip club than my SO actually viewing another naked person.1
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I'd go with him if he was interested but he is WAY too cheap. AND it was 2 years ago.. time to let that s%^t go...1
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lol, I told my husband to go to the strip club a few weeks ago to unwind. I was home sleeping peacefully.0
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Helllll no! I would not have some skank grinding up on my husband.1
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I think strip clubs may be the least of your problems.10
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badgyaljilly wrote: »MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »Two years ago? Let it go.
Yeah I feel like I should, but the fact that right after he went there he went home to me and cuddled me after touching strippers. Gross
Strippers are people like you are a person. They are not diseased or dirty, unless you count like...body glitter and maybe some scented lotion as being dirty.
So he touched one (or several) and then touched you. Did you die?
Two years later and you're still here to make this thread, so what is the problem.3 -
denversillygoose wrote: »I think strip clubs may be the least of your problems.
THIS!!!!1 -
chaosbutterfly wrote: »badgyaljilly wrote: »MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »Two years ago? Let it go.
Yeah I feel like I should, but the fact that right after he went there he went home to me and cuddled me after touching strippers. Gross
Strippers are people like you are a person. They are not diseased or dirty, unless you count like...body glitter and maybe some scented lotion as being dirty.
So he touched one (or several) and then touched you. Did you die?
Two years later and you're still here to make this thread, so what is the problem.
it's gross.1 -
I understand your insecurities about it, but they are only there to watch. No different from them oggling over cheerleaders or scantily dressed women in the street. I would have issues if he went to a brothel, or picked up hookers. But I'm pretty sure there is a no touch policy. My SO has been to a strip-club, and before I met him I had been to a strip club. I think you need to go to one to understand that they aren't as seedy as you think they are.0
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I understand your insecurities about it, but they are only there to watch. No different from them oggling over cheerleaders or scantily dressed women in the street. I would have issues if he went to a brothel, or picked up hookers. But I'm pretty sure there is a no touch policy. My SO has been to a strip-club, and before I met him I had been to a strip club. I think you need to go to one to understand that they aren't as seedy as you think they are.
and you think all joints comply?0 -
SpotLighttt wrote: »chaosbutterfly wrote: »badgyaljilly wrote: »MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »Two years ago? Let it go.
Yeah I feel like I should, but the fact that right after he went there he went home to me and cuddled me after touching strippers. Gross
Strippers are people like you are a person. They are not diseased or dirty, unless you count like...body glitter and maybe some scented lotion as being dirty.
So he touched one (or several) and then touched you. Did you die?
Two years later and you're still here to make this thread, so what is the problem.
it's gross.
How many strip clubs have you been to? Or how many "strippers" do you actually know? They are just people that aren't afraid of using their bodies to support themselves. Most make more money than you can even imagine, hell if I could get away with it, I would do it! And that would not make me any less of a caring, giving, clean, loving person than what I am now.4
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