WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MAY 2017
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Happy Sunday
Just caught up on all posts, hugs for those who need them and joy to those who have successes.
weighed in this morning down 2.4 lbs (the .4 is important LOL)
Date day with DH today, sun is shining and forecast is good so maybe white jeans and nice top are in order.
Will go do my squats and weights vid and a Leslie Sansone vid (to balance out the wine to be drunk this afternoon)
Think DH thinks that I should stop what I'm doing he doesn't want me to disappear (he says) bless him he has no idea about nutrition eats a lot of the wrong things and drinks beer. But he doesn't overeat or snackon junk food. He is 76 and has no major health issues and is very fit, makes you want to grr. He doesn't mind my exercising and will drive me to the gym if needed. Men are peculiar.
Tata for now will catch up later (a little tipsy no doubt)
Kate UK5 -
Good morning. WellI think the worst is over for us. Today is the first day in weeks that I don't see the red weather warning on the Weather Network site. The river behind our house overflowed but is still far from the house. So I am planning a retreat day at home. No technology just reading, listening to relaxing music, maybe some yoga and journaling. And healthy nutrition of course.
For the newbies, I find that my weight loss journey is working this time because I have surrounded myself by continuous positivity and support and this thread is extremely supportive.
Have a great day everyone.
Sarah, Ontario
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Stronglift Rest Day
Kettlebell Swing
Goblet squats-6X5X 35
Russian kettle bell swing-28X10X 35
40lbs loss by May 27 Challenge
30 push-ups
May Move Your *kitten* Challenge
I will take a walk today. It is beautiful outside so, I will be out all day!
Move More Sit Less Challenge
I am setting my garage sale again today and for the next couple days. Beautiful weather for the week!
Keto/LC 4 Week Challenge April 23rd - May 20th
Day 15/28 this is the beginning of week 3! I am focusing on drinking enough water and staying with in carbs and calories!
Mary from Minnesota7 -
Happy Sunday. Recovering from my 6-hour drive hauling DDs belongings home. What a slog, at least it wasn't pouring rain the entire time and i wasn't sitting in traffic. It is just distance driving through gorgeous western NY and I mean gorgeous best part, DD will be home by the end of this week!!
Happy to be social today with work friends, a great colleague of mine has a children's production off off broadway so I am going to cheer him on. It includes things I love about being close to NYC, a train ride, good coffee, lots of people watching and great ethnic food. Should be a fun day. But, I will be a little behind with my work week prep, so off I go to squeeze in a few errands.
Cheers to everyone, Beth? did you make it back yet??? NYKAREN5 -
So happy to have the only son home; knowing he's sleeping just a few yards away is a hug-yourself feeling of no small proportions. This morning will be the first attempt at a conversation on the details of why they have him "under supervision," which I know means there was either verbalizing about suicide or an attempt at it. This is, please note, the only place in my life where I talk about that--he has both the need and the right to privacy about this matter, and I respect that completely.
Otherwise, I'm in list-making mode, both for home and work. While I don't necessarily pay detailed attention to them afterward, the mere making of them centers me, gives me focus.
First night in weeks that I haven't woke up coughing, so I feel as if I'm getting back to the land of the living.
Unfortunately, the scale is going the WRONG direction. Am within ten pounds of my highest weight since my gastric bypass, and struggling to get the eating under some kind of control. I have to start being truthful with myself again--the amount of calories I'm absorbing is obviously off the chain, and not recording it in MFP does not mean I didn't eat it. Now that the horrendous cold is done or nearly so, I have zero excuse for the eating I've been doing "to feel better." Have to go find my big girl panties, pull 'em up and get back to being mindful about what I put in my mouth.
Love y'all,
Contemplative in West Texas,
Lisa5 -
Good morning Ladies!
It's been busy since I came back from Nantucket. Had the most awesome time, my face hurt from smiling so much. The weather was sunny, if a bit cool,but quite comfortable. One never knows what weather will blow thru those islands. Enjoyed the Daffodil festivities, parades, beautiful downtown displays, scenery, people, Daffodil competition displays(I had no idea there were so many varieties ), Cisco brewery, shopping, ferry ride,people, food and drink. It was a full day. Random people stopped our group of 6, sporting our Daffodil decorated hats,and asked to take our picture. We certainly were not the only ones similarly decked out, but after the third request I began to feel like a celebrity! Prior to having lost this weight I would have been a spoil sport and have refused to have my picture taken, but not now. Looking at some of the pictures I see that the sweatshirt I am wearing looks big and unflattering. I assumed it was one of my size large sweatshirts until I looked at the tag and saw it was a medium. Every year when I go to The Cape I purchase a sweatshirt, last year I finally fit into a medium, seeing those pictures made me realize I needed a small this year. NSV.
On my way home on Sunday my son informed me that my daughter-in-law was in the hospital with pneumonia. She had the flu and it had worsened, aggravated by asthma. She was admitted on Saturday morning and finally responded to treatment on Wednesday. She is home now and on the mend. It was a scary week for all of us. Bless his heart that he didn't tell me until I was on my way home, he didn't want to spoil my weekend and there was nothing I could do anyway.
I think I have turned a corner in managing my social eating and drinking. Although I certainly enjoyed all the food and drink I consumed, I did so more mindfully. I did not have an alcoholic drink at every opportunity, and ate less junk than I normally would have. I gained a couple of pounds which was expected and was back on the program when I returned. My current goal was to get to my lowest weight which was just before Easter ( and the cured meat weight gain) as Heather would say, those pesky pounds. Yesterday I was within .4 lbs. of that goal. My book club meeting was last night which consists of munchies, wine and full on desserts. I ate very carefully yesterday being sure to save a few hundred calories. I drank water instead of wine, had a small piece of the pie and chocolate cake but couldn't resist the candied pecans. I dutifully got on the scale this morning to access the damage and was shocked to discover that I had lost the last of the pesky pounds. Had to get on the scale twice to confirm.Moral of the story...you can still enjoy your favorite foods, just be moderate and mindful. I think that will be my mantra for the summer...moderate and mindful.
A co worker asked me yesterday for advice on weight loss, she is in my age group and one of few that I work with that is not obese. I gladly shared what works for me. I try not to talk about my weight loss to others because I find it a mine field. Except here of course where I feel safe. The weekend I was away one of my friends whom I don't see very often asked me how I lost the weight. As I was talking, another friend (who has tried but has been unsuccessful in losing weight) came into the room and the expression on her face made me end the discussion. She didn't know I was asked for the advice and I think thought I was "preaching" and or bragging. So I make it a practice to not talk about it unless asked.
Gotta get to work, on call this weekend and have to get cracking.
Love and hugs to everyone.
Chris in MA
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grandmallie wrote: »I am wondering why it is so high also I have a 2016 Chevy Equinox and Tom said he paid 1800.00 for both of his cars.. wondering be cause one is electric that it is cheaper... will ask him..
Stop asking Tom. He's not in your corner. Go to an insurance agent and get your own insurance. You can go to a national company but I've often had better luck with an Independent Agent that shops around for the best for me. I don't always get the cheapest policy because I take into consideration the quality of the company (I only use A rated companies) but I have always gotten discounts and such by shopping around. You can also look at esurance online. We have used them before to get quotes. Tom might have his cheaper because he has multiple cars... and is his tied to the house? That can get a discount to. But he might just not care about yours since it's not his problem.... TALK TO AN AGENT.... and stop trusting Tom.9 -
Good morning!!
SueBDew Tell your grans to bring plenty of "Off" spray and stay on trails when hiking. Since the heavy rains the woods are so thick of undergrowth. I've learned the hard way!! This coming Thursday we are having a big storm come in. I'll keep you posted!
I got my new scale. I'm down, and it's neat to see an accurate reading in tenths of lbs too. I won't record till Wed. morning.
Have a Happy Day!
Dana in Arkansas3 -
grandmallie wrote: »I am wondering why it is so high also I have a 2016 Chevy Equinox and Tom said he paid 1800.00 for both of his cars.. wondering be cause one is electric that it is cheaper... will ask him..
Stop asking Tom. He's not in your corner. Go to an insurance agent and get your own insurance. You can go to a national company but I've often had better luck with an Independent Agent that shops around for the best for me. I don't always get the cheapest policy because I take into consideration the quality of the company (I only use A rated companies) but I have always gotten discounts and such by shopping around. You can also look at esurance online. We have used them before to get quotes. Tom might have his cheaper because he has multiple cars... and is his tied to the house? That can get a discount to. But he might just not care about yours since it's not his problem.... TALK TO AN AGENT.... and stop trusting Tom.
Great advice!7 -
Good Morning! I finally pushed the cancel button and cancelled my WW membership. I'm more interested in the kinds of calories I'm eating than how many Smart Points. It's a huge step for me. Wish me luck. I've gone to a Saturday morning WW meeting on and off for 17 years. Still not at goal weight. Time for a fresh approach. Have a great day!!6
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I never had any success with WW; to get my points in, felt like I over ate; trying to eat when DH eats his large meal in the middle of they day just did not work for me. Even now; I usually don't eat lunch until the middle of the afternoon and it is not high in calories.
I've kept my mouth shut on some posts; because it is obvious that none of the advice is probably ever going to be taken. Trust what is within you; stop trusting someone who has betrayed you. That's how life works. Forgiving someone for things and having them constantly repeat their bad behavior is something one has to be 'willing' to 'give up' or be 'stuck'. Move on! Being a 'victim' is something one allows themselves to be; changing that behavior is also something that has to be a 'choice'.
Lenora5 -
Oh I found you all!
Lillian in West Central Saskatchewan7 -
Hi all!
Yesterday's "feast" and wine only took me over my "losing "calories by 70 calories and this morning the scales recorded a slight loss. Very pleased.
I've been really concentrating on getting the exercise in with my arm so uncomfortable, and have been managing more than my normal 600. Today I did 700 on the recumbent bike and the elliptical. Tomorrow I can only do a very short session as I have to catch a train to London so I can sit with my friend through her chemo. I'm looking forward to it, but I hate losing my exercise schedule. Takes me a while to "titivate" before I go out. :laugh:
My alcohol calendar is working well for me. Yesterday after our delicious wine I really felt the urge for a bourbon, but desisted as I wanted a smiley face sticker, not a frown. This week I have recored 8.5 units of alcohol. My aim is to keep under 14 a week. Tonight I am going to get a gold star for AF. For those who don't drink, a small 125 ml glass of wine is 1.5 units. The big glasses you get in most wine bars and restaurants these days are 250 mls and 3 units!!! I often have a 125 ml wine with a lot of soda water. Lasts longer that way. 100 calories.
I have put extra support on my arm. I normally wear my lymphodema sleeve anyway, but I got out an old, very thick lymphodema sleeve from my drawer and I'm wearing it doubled up on top, with it folded back round the wrist. It is helping a lot.
Going to make Hairy Bikers' Lamb Tagine for tonight. DH is at one day cricket today. At least it is a bit warmer and sunnier than last time. I've had a lovely bath and done my nails. Going to finish reading paper and maybe watch a film. Or read.
Lots of love, Heather UK xxxxxxx4 -
Kate UK: White Jeans! How will you manage to stay away from dirt? I'm in awe. :bigsmile:
Lisa: I'm happy to hear your son is at home. I hope it will be a happy place for him and will allow him to have a big helping of peace and comfort.
Chris in MA: I don't offer advice about weight loss unless someone asks. Then I tell people I count calories and found this great website, MFP. Most of my old friends are used to the new me, and new people assume I've always been like this, so it doesn't come up often anymore. It was talked about a lot and I had lots of questions a couple of years ago when I was just getting close to goal. The worst was, "Will you talk to my wife?" The answer was, "Only if she asks me." :flowerforyou:
Jagbug: Welcome to a great group of supportive women.
Lillian: So good to see you! :bigsmile:
We have a sunshiney morning! Yay! I was thinking about going for a drive but DH said he'd like to go down to the sailboat and get the winter heaters off of it. He hasn't been on the docks at all in months, let alone a boat, and I'm crossing my fingers and toes that he won't get seasick when we go down the ramp and are actually floating. Wish us luck. Sailing has been a joy to us for years until DH started getting motion sick a couple of years ago. I've been hoping and wishing that the cataract surgery would solve the problem. Now we will find out whether there is any improvement. I'm praying for an end to seasickness for DH and have been for two or three years. Wish us luck.
Katla the hopeful in beautiful NW Oregon
Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!" -Audrey Hepburn
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After yesterday's long bicycle ride, today we just walked 2.2 km along the next beach over from ours.
This photo was taken a few months ago. Today was slightly darker and more overcast than that ... and colder and windier (getting on for winter here). And the waves were much larger and more impressive today!
But I need to do something about my bicycle setup. I'm having some rather unusual back pain when I ride that bicycle. The walk helped me stretch things out a bit.5 -
DamitJanit wrote: »Call me crazy but I love to see other people happy and succeeding .
Good Evening My Dear Friends,
Jane, I hope the pain is better and you were able to resist the food crutch.
Jane, her hair did come out great. She is a beautiful girl with beautiful hair. The main thing is that she liked it.
DJ
Myrtle Beach, SC
Thank you, DJ. I did resist the munchies and that is a major NSV for me. I kept thinking about the 30 odd lbs that I have lost and how the pain would be so much worse with that added weight! Then had the pleasure of jumping on Wii fit last night to be a further 6lbs down - I am so chuffed! I was hoping that after the heparin injections, my knee would start to feel better, but it's not yet and the tramadol makes me so sleepy. I have been getting a little more exercise with the help of a crutch and fingers crossed it won't be too long before I am walking normally!!
Thank you again for your kind words about little miss's hair. She is currently putting it through a coconut oil heat therapy. I remember a time when I would spend hours treating my curly hair, now it gets washed and combed maybe Coloured occasionally. Although it does make me smile when I see her finally enjoying her luscious locks!
Have a good Sunday
Jane
Kent, UK
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Happy Sunday!3
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Happy birthday to my 3rd born Floyd!!! He's 8 today!!
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