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What are your unpopular opinions about health / fitness?

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  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    Packerjohn wrote: »
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    I am extremely confused by purposely making food not taste good because "it's fuel". Or maybe the argument is the old parent argument of "poor children in Africa can't enjoy their food so you aren't allowed to either"?

    So am I, who stated that?

    What is your point?

    I will agree that you're not explicitly against food tasting good, but you seem to have an issue with people enjoying it. It would follow, logically, that part of enjoying food is enjoying how it tastes.

    You seem to have very black or white thinking on this issue. Reading between the lines of what you posted, it's almost as if it's not okay in your books for fat people to enjoy food for pleasure because they're fat.

    Why?

    Why can't food be good, and pleasurable and still within the realm of someone's correct energy balance?

    I think your cut-and-dried, rather dull "food is fuel" and your initial point was that maybe fat people should remove emotions from eating as... what? Punishment for being fat? OR is that your solution to the obesity crisis?

    Whatever you're doing, I don't think people who ignore the nuances of humankind's relationship with food have a balanced relationship with it. Food as fuel is just one aspect.

    You might want to do some soul searching.

    There are millions of people with a destructive, dysfunctional relationship with food - I will leave the deep soul searching to them, and not waste a moment of my time dissecting something that I do actually enjoy and is giving me great results. I'm former military and I think that there is a disconnect between my perception of discipline and delayed gratification and the mindset of others.

    You're right. If you use the search function for these forums and search for emotional eating and stress eating (IMO just a subset of emotional eating) you will get 1,000 hits (which is apparently the max) for each of them.

    The emotional ties to food surely are resulting in weight issues.

    For some people.

    Not all.

    This is besides the original point, but you two are too busy back-patting each other to realize that you've strayed from it.

    OR..

    Are you deflecting from the original point BryLander made about the "epidemic" of emotional eating and the need to diminish the prevalence of eating for pleasure?

    So emotional eating isn't an epidemic? So what is your theory on why so many people are overweight, did 68.8% of the people in the US just spontaneously get fat?

    They don't move and eat too many calories

    I'm fairly certain that everyone involved in this discussion already knows that - my question was concerning the psychology behind these behaviors.

    It doesn't take a ton of calories to become overweight. In fact I think it was shown that most people have weight creeping onto them slowly over years without noticing or not caring because it's never a lot at once. It only takes just over 100 calories extra per day to gain a pound per month and a year from now you weigh 12 pounds more.

    But wouldn't that initial extra100 over maintenance, at an ideal weight, have to keep increasing as the body weight went up otherwise one would hit maintenance at a slightly higher weight?

    Cheers, h.

    ah no...an extra 100 over maintenance is just that...100 over.
  • middlehaitch
    middlehaitch Posts: 8,486 Member
    edited August 2017
    SezxyStef wrote: »
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    Packerjohn wrote: »
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    I am extremely confused by purposely making food not taste good because "it's fuel". Or maybe the argument is the old parent argument of "poor children in Africa can't enjoy their food so you aren't allowed to either"?

    So am I, who stated that?

    What is your point?

    I will agree that you're not explicitly against food tasting good, but you seem to have an issue with people enjoying it. It would follow, logically, that part of enjoying food is enjoying how it tastes.

    You seem to have very black or white thinking on this issue. Reading between the lines of what you posted, it's almost as if it's not okay in your books for fat people to enjoy food for pleasure because they're fat.

    Why?

    Why can't food be good, and pleasurable and still within the realm of someone's correct energy balance?

    I think your cut-and-dried, rather dull "food is fuel" and your initial point was that maybe fat people should remove emotions from eating as... what? Punishment for being fat? OR is that your solution to the obesity crisis?

    Whatever you're doing, I don't think people who ignore the nuances of humankind's relationship with food have a balanced relationship with it. Food as fuel is just one aspect.

    You might want to do some soul searching.

    There are millions of people with a destructive, dysfunctional relationship with food - I will leave the deep soul searching to them, and not waste a moment of my time dissecting something that I do actually enjoy and is giving me great results. I'm former military and I think that there is a disconnect between my perception of discipline and delayed gratification and the mindset of others.

    You're right. If you use the search function for these forums and search for emotional eating and stress eating (IMO just a subset of emotional eating) you will get 1,000 hits (which is apparently the max) for each of them.

    The emotional ties to food surely are resulting in weight issues.

    For some people.

    Not all.

    This is besides the original point, but you two are too busy back-patting each other to realize that you've strayed from it.

    OR..

    Are you deflecting from the original point BryLander made about the "epidemic" of emotional eating and the need to diminish the prevalence of eating for pleasure?

    So emotional eating isn't an epidemic? So what is your theory on why so many people are overweight, did 68.8% of the people in the US just spontaneously get fat?

    They don't move and eat too many calories

    I'm fairly certain that everyone involved in this discussion already knows that - my question was concerning the psychology behind these behaviors.

    It doesn't take a ton of calories to become overweight. In fact I think it was shown that most people have weight creeping onto them slowly over years without noticing or not caring because it's never a lot at once. It only takes just over 100 calories extra per day to gain a pound per month and a year from now you weigh 12 pounds more.

    But wouldn't that initial extra100 over maintenance, at an ideal weight, have to keep increasing as the body weight went up otherwise one would hit maintenance at a slightly higher weight?

    Cheers, h.

    ah no...an extra 100 over maintenance is just that...100 over.

    Yes, that is what I was thinking, but the initial example for a 12 lbs gain over a year, I thought, was taken from an initial maintenance calorie intake.

    It really doesn't matter. I think I am too tired to think straight, or write a cohesive sentence. 4:44am and can't sleep because of the heat.

    Cheers, h.

    Thanks for doing the numbers @stevencloser.
  • sophie9492015
    sophie9492015 Posts: 204 Member
    edited August 2017
    Packerjohn wrote: »
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    Packerjohn wrote: »
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    I am extremely confused by purposely making food not taste good because "it's fuel". Or maybe the argument is the old parent argument of "poor children in Africa can't enjoy their food so you aren't allowed to either"?

    So am I, who stated that?

    What is your point?

    I will agree that you're not explicitly against food tasting good, but you seem to have an issue with people enjoying it. It would follow, logically, that part of enjoying food is enjoying how it tastes.

    You seem to have very black or white thinking on this issue. Reading between the lines of what you posted, it's almost as if it's not okay in your books for fat people to enjoy food for pleasure because they're fat.

    Why?

    Why can't food be good, and pleasurable and still within the realm of someone's correct energy balance?

    I think your cut-and-dried, rather dull "food is fuel" and your initial point was that maybe fat people should remove emotions from eating as... what? Punishment for being fat? OR is that your solution to the obesity crisis?

    Whatever you're doing, I don't think people who ignore the nuances of humankind's relationship with food have a balanced relationship with it. Food as fuel is just one aspect.

    You might want to do some soul searching.

    There are millions of people with a destructive, dysfunctional relationship with food - I will leave the deep soul searching to them, and not waste a moment of my time dissecting something that I do actually enjoy and is giving me great results. I'm former military and I think that there is a disconnect between my perception of discipline and delayed gratification and the mindset of others.

    You're right. If you use the search function for these forums and search for emotional eating and stress eating (IMO just a subset of emotional eating) you will get 1,000 hits (which is apparently the max) for each of them.

    The emotional ties to food surely are resulting in weight issues.

    For some people.

    Not all.

    This is besides the original point, but you two are too busy back-patting each other to realize that you've strayed from it.

    OR..

    Are you deflecting from the original point BryLander made about the "epidemic" of emotional eating and the need to diminish the prevalence of eating for pleasure?

    So emotional eating isn't an epidemic? So what is your theory on why so many people are overweight, did 68.8% of the people in the US just spontaneously get fat?

    They don't move and eat too many calories

    Surely not the only reason, but couldn't emotional eating be the reason some of the overweight and obese eat too many calories?

    Some != "epidemic"

    Because we live in a very fast paced and lazy society. And fattening foods are so easily and quickly available...... oh and the advertising we are subjected to.
  • accidentalpancake
    accidentalpancake Posts: 484 Member
    edited August 2017

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  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    With almost 70% of the US considered obese, I think we can safely conclude that people are utilizing food as something more than a means to fuel themselves. Emotional/psychological eating is an epidemic and diminishing the prevalence of this type of relationship with food is crucial to reducing destructive eating habits. If you are in control of your eating and at a healthy weight, I don't think you really need to be concerned if you are occasionally eating "emotionally" ;)

    it's actually 35.7% obese and 68.8% overweight per

    https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity
  • accidentalpancake
    accidentalpancake Posts: 484 Member
    edited August 2017
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    So emotional eating isn't an epidemic? So what is your theory on why so many people are overweight, did 68.8% of the people in the US just spontaneously get fat?

    "Overweight BMI" != fat/unhealthy.
    "Healthy BMI" != healthy.
  • Need2Exerc1se
    Need2Exerc1se Posts: 13,575 Member
    lemurcat12 wrote: »

    I HATE grazing/snacking. I do think it works for some so wouldn't say people shouldn't do it, but I strongly dislike how eating lots of mini meals is promoted and dislike snacking quite a lot for myself.

    .

    Oh really? Why is that.. I've just noticed if i have several healthy snacks instead of a sandwich or something more of a meal for lunch I can manage my calorie goals much better.

    I also don't like to snack and certainly wouldn't want several snacks to be the principal way in which I get my daily calories. I like a small lunch (not more than a snack really, usually around 300 calories) and all the rest of my calories are eaten late in the evening for dinner.

    But that's just me. Different strokes and all that jazz.
  • Need2Exerc1se
    Need2Exerc1se Posts: 13,575 Member
    SezxyStef wrote: »
    SezxyStef wrote: »
    Yes you can certainly argue that all foods can be fattening but you'd have to eat a shitload more chicken and salad than doughnuts to gain weight.
    Also the majority of people don't count their calories therefore eating more "fattening" foods like pizza and KFC will make most people gain weight. Therefore generally they are fattening.
    Thats why we have such a big problem with obesity because these foods are so readily available and heavily advertised.

    you really don't get it do you....

    food itself is not fattening. Period end of discussion.

    The Quantity aka amount, total volume of the food eaten is what is causing the weight gain.

    I can eat appx 10-15 plain cake dunkin donuts a day and still lose weight...each donut is 160 calories..

    As well eating more of any food will make you gain weight it doesn't have to be KFC or Pizza...there is nothing wrong with either of those things...

    There is a problem in NA with obesity because of lack of education about nutrition and how to maintain or lose weight and your posts are proving that point quite nicely..thanks you.

    Isn't this just an argument in semantics?

    http://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/fattening
    fattening
    adjective us ​ /ˈfæt·ən·ɪŋ/
    ​(of food) containing a lot of fat, sugar, etc., that would make you fatter if you ate a lot of it:

    Sure, you could probably eat enough of any food to get fatter (though honestly that is arguable) but I think most people know what someone means when they say "fattening". It's almost always calorie dense and nutrient poor.

    no I don't think it is just semantics...as the poster mentioned things like KFC and pizza being fattening but salad and chicken not being fattening.

    When in fact a lot of salads can have more calories than even a quarter pounder at Micky Dees.

    even the definition of "fattening" says " if you ate a lot of it"

    Not sure I understand your point here. Yes, like pizza or soup, 'salad' is more a method of preparing food than a food. Some salads are fattening and some are not.
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    Packerjohn wrote: »
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    Packerjohn wrote: »
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    I am extremely confused by purposely making food not taste good because "it's fuel". Or maybe the argument is the old parent argument of "poor children in Africa can't enjoy their food so you aren't allowed to either"?

    So am I, who stated that?

    What is your point?

    I will agree that you're not explicitly against food tasting good, but you seem to have an issue with people enjoying it. It would follow, logically, that part of enjoying food is enjoying how it tastes.

    You seem to have very black or white thinking on this issue. Reading between the lines of what you posted, it's almost as if it's not okay in your books for fat people to enjoy food for pleasure because they're fat.

    Why?

    Why can't food be good, and pleasurable and still within the realm of someone's correct energy balance?

    I think your cut-and-dried, rather dull "food is fuel" and your initial point was that maybe fat people should remove emotions from eating as... what? Punishment for being fat? OR is that your solution to the obesity crisis?

    Whatever you're doing, I don't think people who ignore the nuances of humankind's relationship with food have a balanced relationship with it. Food as fuel is just one aspect.

    You might want to do some soul searching.

    There are millions of people with a destructive, dysfunctional relationship with food - I will leave the deep soul searching to them, and not waste a moment of my time dissecting something that I do actually enjoy and is giving me great results. I'm former military and I think that there is a disconnect between my perception of discipline and delayed gratification and the mindset of others.

    You're right. If you use the search function for these forums and search for emotional eating and stress eating (IMO just a subset of emotional eating) you will get 1,000 hits (which is apparently the max) for each of them.

    The emotional ties to food surely are resulting in weight issues.

    For some people.

    Not all.

    This is besides the original point, but you two are too busy back-patting each other to realize that you've strayed from it.

    OR..

    Are you deflecting from the original point BryLander made about the "epidemic" of emotional eating and the need to diminish the prevalence of eating for pleasure?

    So emotional eating isn't an epidemic? So what is your theory on why so many people are overweight, did 68.8% of the people in the US just spontaneously get fat?

    They don't move and eat too many calories

    Surely not the only reason, but couldn't emotional eating be the reason some of the overweight and obese eat too many calories?

    Some != "epidemic"

    Because we live in a very fast paced and lazy society. And fattening foods are so easily and quickly available...... oh and the advertiaing we are subjected to.

    Not so much lazy as convenience oriented. it's easier to drive than to walk, even if walking isn't that inconvenient.

    But it depends... It's harder in a city like New York or LA where parking is a premium. and its observable that folks in cities where walking is easier... walk more.

    Very true. I rarely drive anywhere unless there is a specific reason, because parking is a hassle and likely to be expensive. It's not just that it's so easy here to walk (although that is part of it), but that it's also not easy to drive.
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    Yes you can certainly argue that all foods can be fattening but you'd have to eat a shitload more chicken and salad than doughnuts to gain weight.

    Depends on how much dressing (and what kind) is on that salad.

    I agree that if you cook at home and make chicken (even with skin and bones, like I normally do) and salad it's easier to control calories than if you are eating lots of inherently calorie-dense foods, but people think that salad is "not fattening" and donuts are, so might be more sparing in getting a donut (when I was fat I was actually surprised to find out a particular donut I got occasionally was 300 calories, I'd assumed much more) and think they are fine with a salad when a restaurant salad can be 1000 calories and even a homemade one if you load on high cal dressing and nuts or cheese and what not can be high cal if one is not counting.

    When I was gaining it wasn't much from sweets or "fattening foods" (other than cheese, which I love). It was being careless with the olive oil and portion sizes of supposedly "healthy" foods.
  • Need2Exerc1se
    Need2Exerc1se Posts: 13,575 Member
    lemurcat12 wrote: »
    Packerjohn wrote: »
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    Packerjohn wrote: »
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    Bry_Lander wrote: »
    I am extremely confused by purposely making food not taste good because "it's fuel". Or maybe the argument is the old parent argument of "poor children in Africa can't enjoy their food so you aren't allowed to either"?

    So am I, who stated that?

    What is your point?

    I will agree that you're not explicitly against food tasting good, but you seem to have an issue with people enjoying it. It would follow, logically, that part of enjoying food is enjoying how it tastes.

    You seem to have very black or white thinking on this issue. Reading between the lines of what you posted, it's almost as if it's not okay in your books for fat people to enjoy food for pleasure because they're fat.

    Why?

    Why can't food be good, and pleasurable and still within the realm of someone's correct energy balance?

    I think your cut-and-dried, rather dull "food is fuel" and your initial point was that maybe fat people should remove emotions from eating as... what? Punishment for being fat? OR is that your solution to the obesity crisis?

    Whatever you're doing, I don't think people who ignore the nuances of humankind's relationship with food have a balanced relationship with it. Food as fuel is just one aspect.

    You might want to do some soul searching.

    There are millions of people with a destructive, dysfunctional relationship with food - I will leave the deep soul searching to them, and not waste a moment of my time dissecting something that I do actually enjoy and is giving me great results. I'm former military and I think that there is a disconnect between my perception of discipline and delayed gratification and the mindset of others.

    You're right. If you use the search function for these forums and search for emotional eating and stress eating (IMO just a subset of emotional eating) you will get 1,000 hits (which is apparently the max) for each of them.

    The emotional ties to food surely are resulting in weight issues.

    For some people.

    Not all.

    This is besides the original point, but you two are too busy back-patting each other to realize that you've strayed from it.

    OR..

    Are you deflecting from the original point BryLander made about the "epidemic" of emotional eating and the need to diminish the prevalence of eating for pleasure?

    So emotional eating isn't an epidemic? So what is your theory on why so many people are overweight, did 68.8% of the people in the US just spontaneously get fat?

    They don't move and eat too many calories

    Surely not the only reason, but couldn't emotional eating be the reason some of the overweight and obese eat too many calories?

    Some != "epidemic"

    Because we live in a very fast paced and lazy society. And fattening foods are so easily and quickly available...... oh and the advertiaing we are subjected to.

    Not so much lazy as convenience oriented. it's easier to drive than to walk, even if walking isn't that inconvenient.

    But it depends... It's harder in a city like New York or LA where parking is a premium. and its observable that folks in cities where walking is easier... walk more.

    Very true. I rarely drive anywhere unless there is a specific reason, because parking is a hassle and likely to be expensive. It's not just that it's so easy here to walk (although that is part of it), but that it's also not easy to drive.

    Yes! Where I live it's very hard not to drive everywhere because it's a rural area and everything is far away. I'd have to walk at least 45 min at a fairly brisk pace to get to anything other than a house or church. It's almost a mile to my nearest neighbors house, even further to our mailbox, and almost 5 miles to the nearest bus stop. Nobody around here is going to walk to the store or work (unless they work from home ;) )
  • sophie9492015
    sophie9492015 Posts: 204 Member
    lemurcat12 wrote: »
    Yes you can certainly argue that all foods can be fattening but you'd have to eat a shitload more chicken and salad than doughnuts to gain weight.

    Depends on how much dressing (and what kind) is on that salad.

    I agree that if you cook at home and make chicken (even with skin and bones, like I normally do) and salad it's easier to control calories than if you are eating lots of inherently calorie-dense foods, but people think that salad is "not fattening" and donuts are, so might be more sparing in getting a donut (when I was fat I was actually surprised to find out a particular donut I got occasionally was 300 calories, I'd assumed much more) and think they are fine with a salad when a restaurant salad can be 1000 calories and even a homemade one if you load on high cal dressing and nuts or cheese and what not can be high cal if one is not counting.

    When I was gaining it wasn't much from sweets or "fattening foods" (other than cheese, which I love). It was being careless with the olive oil and portion sizes of supposedly "healthy" foods.

    Of course you can have delicious very high calorie salads. Just an example of a generally healthy food. Lets assume we are talking a 300Cal garden salad lolol.
  • sophie9492015
    sophie9492015 Posts: 204 Member
    SezxyStef wrote: »
    Yes you can certainly argue that all foods can be fattening but you'd have to eat a shitload more chicken and salad than doughnuts to gain weight.
    Also the majority of people don't count their calories therefore eating more "fattening" foods like pizza and KFC will make most people gain weight. Therefore generally they are fattening.
    Thats why we have such a big problem with obesity because these foods are so readily available and heavily advertised.

    you really don't get it do you....

    food itself is not fattening. Period end of discussion.

    The Quantity aka amount, total volume of the food eaten is what is causing the weight gain.

    I can eat appx 10-15 plain cake dunkin donuts a day and still lose weight...each donut is 160 calories..

    As well eating more of any food will make you gain weight it doesn't have to be KFC or Pizza...there is nothing wrong with either of those things...

    There is a problem in NA with obesity because of lack of education about nutrition and how to maintain or lose weight and your posts are proving that point quite nicely..thanks you.

    Isn't this just an argument in semantics?

    http://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/fattening
    fattening
    adjective us ​ /ˈfæt·ən·ɪŋ/
    ​(of food) containing a lot of fat, sugar, etc., that would make you fatter if you ate a lot of it:

    Sure, you could probably eat enough of any food to get fatter (though honestly that is arguable) but I think most people know what someone means when they say "fattening". It's almost always calorie dense and nutrient poor.

    No, you'd think so but no.. they rekon KFC isnt fattening.
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    SezxyStef wrote: »
    SezxyStef wrote: »
    Yes you can certainly argue that all foods can be fattening but you'd have to eat a shitload more chicken and salad than doughnuts to gain weight.
    Also the majority of people don't count their calories therefore eating more "fattening" foods like pizza and KFC will make most people gain weight. Therefore generally they are fattening.
    Thats why we have such a big problem with obesity because these foods are so readily available and heavily advertised.

    you really don't get it do you....

    food itself is not fattening. Period end of discussion.

    The Quantity aka amount, total volume of the food eaten is what is causing the weight gain.

    I can eat appx 10-15 plain cake dunkin donuts a day and still lose weight...each donut is 160 calories..

    As well eating more of any food will make you gain weight it doesn't have to be KFC or Pizza...there is nothing wrong with either of those things...

    There is a problem in NA with obesity because of lack of education about nutrition and how to maintain or lose weight and your posts are proving that point quite nicely..thanks you.

    Isn't this just an argument in semantics?

    http://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/fattening
    fattening
    adjective us ​ /ˈfæt·ən·ɪŋ/
    ​(of food) containing a lot of fat, sugar, etc., that would make you fatter if you ate a lot of it:

    Sure, you could probably eat enough of any food to get fatter (though honestly that is arguable) but I think most people know what someone means when they say "fattening". It's almost always calorie dense and nutrient poor.

    no I don't think it is just semantics...as the poster mentioned things like KFC and pizza being fattening but salad and chicken not being fattening.

    When in fact a lot of salads can have more calories than even a quarter pounder at Micky Dees.

    even the definition of "fattening" says " if you ate a lot of it"

    Not sure I understand your point here. Yes, like pizza or soup, 'salad' is more a method of preparing food than a food. Some salads are fattening and some are not.

    my point is that food itself is not fattening...that the quantity of food is and to say "salad" is not fattening is false.

    To say pizza is fattening is false.

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