My bf cheated on me
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And now he is saying that I'm blaming him for our breakup...and said that the breakup was my fault and that if he wanted other females, he would have them in his bed right now.5
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ButterIsGood wrote: »He texted me about an hour ago asking if we can be friends. I confronted him about what my friend told me and he's acting confused. He says " I dont know what you're talking about. I'm confused. We broke up because of you not because of me"
Definition of "gaslighting" right there. Typical, predictable and classic narcissistic move. Don't argue, don't justify your behavior, don't respond.
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ButterIsGood wrote: »And now he is saying that I'm blaming him for our breakup...and said that the breakup was my fault and that if he wanted other females, he would have them in his bed right now.
So much gaslighting... no need to justify, argue, defend or explain. He's just gonna suck you into his narcissistic vortex.10 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »And now he is saying that I'm blaming him for our breakup...and said that the breakup was my fault and that if he wanted other females, he would have them in his bed right now.
He's trying to tear down your self esteem. Don't....play....the... game.8 -
i'm not necessarily one to cut people out of my life.
but he needs to go. now.5 -
MIltonBradley1 wrote: »
Come on bro...Why you gotta play games?3 -
Fairly simple.
At this point, especially. You don't need this. Any of it.
Once you realize that, you will be better off. And it will be very easy to walk away.
I don't really care who did what or who asked who out. The second the words "we should take a break" came out, should be the biggest clue that he didn't want to be in a relationship anymore. He clearly doesn't care about your feelings judging by everything he is texting you. Based on that alone, it's enough for me to call it quits, and to walk away without looking back.
But when I was your age, I probably would have held on longer...
I guess that's something you learn with time from your own experiences, or other people's experiences.
But this is your relationship and your friendship and your choice to make.3 -
JustPassingTime wrote: »Posting your problems here is like googling your health symptoms. It's always cancer
As opposed to it never being Lupus.
OP, it's almost comical how much of an *kitten* he is. You definitely dodged a bullet with this jerk.
And geeeeeeeeeeeeeeez, you guys. I love chocolate more than anything but if a sleazy (on a break from my friend) guy gave me chocolates, I'd throw them back in his face....hard. What *kitten* nerve!4 -
A 36 year old single guy wanting to a date a 24 year old? That's a huge red flag right there.12
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He's been in about 2 serious relationships other than ours. He was with female #1 for about 10 years. He has 3 kids with her. His oldest kid is about 6 years younger than me. He was with female number 2 for 2 years. Also had a kid with her. And always talks about how he hates her guts and how it was their fault their relationship didn't workout but right now, I think I know it wasn't them and it was him the whole time.15
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The way he speaks to you alone is reason enough to kick his *kitten* to the curb. Gross.8
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midlomel1971 wrote: »A 36 year old single guy wanting to a date a 24 year old? That's a huge red flag right there.
Why?1
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