WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JANUARY 2020

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  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,691 Member
    @SUziQ113, being in academia, a teaching in 3 schools with 14 classes and some hundreds of students this semester, and legal things going on is enough of a reason to have so many files. And France is particularly known for being excessive in paperwork. The legal case(s) really bogged me down, as has the thesis work. I don't have that many momenos at all, and they don't bother me as they are tucked away and don't need to be revisited unless I want to. In legal cases lots needs to be kept just in case. But if I can toss half, I still need to go through it to toss half. If I had known I'd have legal issues I'd never have started the thesis I guess - I mean legal issues that came up in 2015 were lightyears from my thoughts in 2013. Managing both is almost impossible. And I'm also involved in some union stuff (more paper), though I've opted out from any official position till end of 2020, if not forever. I also have 2 tiny rental "student studettes" (they are bought on credit and the rent pays the mortgage till I'm 62 and 65.). Thank goodness they are going well, and I'm used to running them. They go quite smoothly for the most part (sometimes things to repair and damage issues to sort out but I get a good deposit and good co-signers and just follow the law which is pretty specific on all fronts. It takes times but doesn't confuse me much. I usually don't explain all the above since over busy-ness (or excess of paper) is common and tedious. Good idea to do some while watching videos or TV. Some takes some focus and some not so much. Some of it stresses me out, since some of it reminds me of stressful legal issues. Nice to read that the meditarian diet is still number one. It's not that hard to follow.

    A lot of my paperwork comes from years and years in school. I've got 2 bachelor degrees, 2 year-long certificates, 1 diploma, 1 grad certificate, 1 grad diploma, and now I'm most of the way through a masters. I've kept most of the course notes etc. from all of that and also all the little courses I've taken in between (French, Spanish, numerous computer courses of various sorts, photography, etc.).

    In addition to that there's the paperwork involved in moving to a different country and becoming a citizen ... there's a mountain of that!

    Plus boxes of paperwork for the area of cycling I've been involved in (audax/randonneuring) because I've not only participated in a lot of events, I've also been involved in organising events since about 2006 or so.

    And souvenir paperwork ... because I cycled around Australia for 3 months in 2004 and then my husband and I took 8 months to cycle/travel around the world in 2012, plus all our shorter trips (3 weeks here, a month there, etc.), I've ended up collecting brochures and this and that from everywhere. I would usually mail it "home" with the intention of putting it all together into some sort of souvenir scrapbook, but as usual life takes over very quickly and that has not happened.

    Then my husband's accident has resulted in at least one file box full of paper.

    Right now, all of this and whatever else there is is pretty much divided into file boxes. I found that the easiest way to deal with it for the time being and having everything related to one category in one file box makes it a little bit easier to find something when I go digging.

    Eventually I will have to go through it all and decide what I really need to keep.


    Machka in Oz

  • ple79
    ple79 Posts: 6 Member
    Hi
    How do you reply or talk to people on this site? I am confused how to do it. I am interested in this forum 50+ January.
    Thanks
    Pam
  • ple79
    ple79 Posts: 6 Member
    Not sure if I posted. How do I post here?
    Pam
  • JRsLateInLifeMom
    JRsLateInLifeMom Posts: 2,275 Member
    Pam- You posted just fine just use the names we post at the bottom to talk directly.

    Got Baby closet done ✅! 3 bags of gifts for his birthday 🎁 done ✅! Baby living room done ✅!

    Still need to take down decorations to arrange garage. A few more things to arrange as I go like find a place for my exercise bands for baby safety yet easy to grab!

    Amber Tx
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,691 Member
    ple79 wrote: »
    Hi
    How do you reply or talk to people on this site? I am confused how to do it. I am interested in this forum 50+ January.
    Thanks
    Pam

    You've done it!! :) Welcome here!
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,358 Member
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  • kymarai
    kymarai Posts: 3,730 Member
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  • bananasandoranges
    bananasandoranges Posts: 2,410 Member
    @1948Peachy I'm so sorry about your Pom

    @Machka9 years of school, becoming a citizen in a different country, I'm there. it sounds like you are somewhat organised, more than I am at present. your beach is so beautiful!

    @ginnytez that Is so sad, but good that he went on his own terms

    @pie79 you did it! Welcome!

    @auntiebk I can relate about being intro/extravert. I'm somewhat in the middle, slightly more introvert I think. I used to dance lots at parties in college, partly cause I didn't feel like speaking that much. Great job on cleaning.

    Off to a slow start today. I need to return the bad computer I bought. I tossed the box unwisely so I know it's gonna be more of a fuss to bring it bad. Customer service here is laughably not good. The opposite of USA customer service. Need to have breakfast, go to gym and computer repair place or visa versa. Meeting a neighbour new friend-acquaintance for coffee at 4:30. it's been hermit-like with all the transport strikes. hard to meet people these holidays and I couldn't go away easily- plus I had all the legal gunk to deal with.

    Here is a balanced video that talks about it from 3min28 to 5:30. It's very accurate. It's by a francofile person so rather fair. The most common answer is "no it's not possible". And then you hang around and you may or may get satisfaction. If you are francofile you might like this. Though not particularly this video. she talks about what she loves about France in another video, or French management style, or how to swear in France, or what not to wear in France, or French beauty secrets, etc, etc ec.

    I checked online and this is a major chain and it says with no box its exchange or credit not reimbursement. Fine. Let's see how it works. I'm apprehensive. this is no LL bean or eastern mountain sports (good on exchange policies).

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pJWtVYVrd3Q
  • klanders30
    klanders30 Posts: 2,569 Member
    Morning ladies, I'm up early as usual enjoying my first cup of coffee, what a delight. Lots of cleaning up and errands from the holiday to complete today. Laundry, cleaning and grocery shopping. Also Rachel needs to have her phone repaired, what a rabbit hole that may be!

    We will go back to work tomorrow, wow, that's the first time I thought about that for 2 entire weeks! Unplugging the past 2 weeks has been very good for all of us, DH and I are more in sync and the 3 of us have had time to enjoy each other, feeling grateful for my little family <3

    "mindful" is my word this year and it includes staying on the path I've set up that includes morning journaling, keeping track of to dos with my post it note method and weekly index card :) . This keeps me on the straight and narrow and takes away a lot of the stress and muddle. I am becoming more aware of my actions as they relate to dealing with anxiety, I often medicate with food and sedentary behaviors to decompress. I plan on recognizing this and choosing differently or at least examine potential choices I have that don't have to mean mindlessly reaching for comfort food and the remote control!

    Carol lots of love and strength coming your way, ((( <3 )))

    NYKAREN
  • SuziQ113
    SuziQ113 Posts: 1,520 Member
    Stats Update

    Even with the holidays I managed to lose a little. I do have some habits I have to get back to such as drinking 8 glasses of water a day and better meal planning. While reviewing my weight loss I see those two things result in greater loss.

    It’s interesting that I am still finding I am losing weight at the same or increased rate than my younger self. For those of you who are new – I am very fortunate to not have had any major illnesses or injuries. And, WW = WeightWatchers.

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    2020 list of To-Dos is complete and left in an area where I will see it daily. My goal for January is to be down another 5 pounds which will bring me very close to goal.
    SuziQ - SFL
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,691 Member
    SuziQ113 wrote: »
    We are expected to “dress” for the event. Since I am down over 30 pounds since last year’s event and our office is business casual (jeans are OK) I had to figure out an outfit. So for the past couple of weeks I have been hitting the clearance racks at various stores and as of Friday I have a pants suit I will be wearing. The portion of the event I am attending is our “Partner Showcase”. We have almost 50 partners attending this year so with only three hours I will be running around like crazy trying to make sure I hit every table. Some of our partners include HP, Apple, Dell, Cisco, Kingston, C2G, Lenovo, and many more.

    I usually keep my nails natural but since this is such a big event I gave myself a manicure. I splurged and bought Sally Hansen’s Miracle Gel. It is a gel polish that does not require the use of a UV lamp nor does one need to scrape/file/soak the polish off. It is supposed to last 2 weeks. I will say once I got the hang of using it, the polish is slightly different than typical polish, I will say my nails look like they were done in a salon.

    SuziQ - SFL

    Dressing was something I had to get used to in Australia. The places I worked in Canada were fairly casual - engineering offices. Here, most offices dress up ... dress uniforms or black skirt, nice blouse, etc. My office is slightly more casual. We don't have a uniform, and we have casual Fridays where we can wear jeans. But the rest of the week, I'm usually in a skirt or dress.

    I also use gel nail colour. Maybelline has some, but not a wide colour choice. I like it much, much better than regular polish. I've just removed my Christmas red and green and have applied clear.

    Machka in Oz

  • okiewoman510
    okiewoman510 Posts: 1,319 Member
    On pets and travel - When we had our first Great Dane mix, he could happily be left at home "alone" for 3 days. I say "alone" because our neighbor would come over each day to pet his head and put down food for him. She often would stay and read her book for awhile and pet him or just sit with him beside her. Our last Dane mix was not the same. He would go outside and howl because he was lonely. He knew when the suitcases (or backpacks or whatever else we used to try to fool him into not thinking we left) left that he was alone and he would howl. We could go from dawn to dusk and he was fine, no suitcases meant we were coming back and he happily went in and out his doggie door and was a good quiet boy.

    Okie in the TX Hill Country
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,790 Member
    WELCOME all the new ladies! :D When you sign off always leave a name and general location so we can sort you out. :p

    Lisa - I love your word. :o<3 I once saw a house renovation programme where they had poured a new concrete floor and it had cracked in a few places. They decided to fill the cracks with gold coloured stuff, (not pure gold I imagine). It looked amazing. We can all be strong at the broken places and beautiful as well. Best wishes for the health issues.

    Off to do some bonus rowing.

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,252 Member
    edited January 2020
    :) Welcome PAC I am about the same age as you also retired and married. I eat my breakfast at my computer and read this thread every day. It helps me focus on being healthier and more active.

    :) Welcome, Christina in Canada I have had my hair its natural color almost all my life. I hope you'll enjoy it. It has helped me to take my journey to weight loss and fitness one day at a time and concentrate on behaviours that will help me.

    :)Heather, your new table is beautiful

    :)Lisa, I love your word. I hope you'll mention it from time to time in case I forget it. I want to add to my vocabulary.

    <3 Barbie in NW WA
  • TerriRichardson112
    TerriRichardson112 Posts: 19,149 Member
    edited January 2020
    Finally packed away all the Christmas stuff. We have a garden group meeting in our home on Wednesday, so have to get ready for that.

    On page 8. Will get caught up eventually.