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  • Posts: 3,120 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »


    Good Lord, No.

    Thoughtful, Kind and Educated.


    btw, I've know more than a few highly educated folks who I regarded as complete morons.

    mfp has spoken and i stand corrected. 😁
  • Posts: 13 Member
    Anyhow you feel like dressing is okay by me but you must look sexy and beautiful in it and also i don't like ladies with much muscles, it scares me away.🤣🤣🤣🤣
  • Posts: 196 Member
    edited March 2020
    Guys... when you see a chicks married, does it put you off?
    I’ve been told by a few people that guys don’t care when they see a wedding ring 🤷‍♀️
  • Posts: 6,286 Member
    i don't like ladies with much muscles, it scares me away.🤣🤣🤣🤣

    Mmmk... I truly thought this was a myth. Convenient for me as I like lifting (which will never ever change). So...

    Guys/Gals,
    Do you have a preference for how lean, vascular, "ripped to *kitten* shreds," etc your partner looks?
  • Posts: 3,120 Member
    edited March 2020
    MaltedTea wrote: »

    Mmmk... I truly thought this was a myth. Convenient for me as I like lifting (which will never ever change). So...

    Guys/Gals,
    Do you have a preference for how lean, vascular, "ripped to *kitten* shreds," etc your partner looks?
    I don’t like super vascular and lean both because it is unattractive to me and because it usually indicates a dedication to a type of eating I would find annoying. I respect individual choices, but for ME that’s a no.
  • Posts: 12,588 Member
    Guys, you like stupid girls, yes?

    I like goofy and weird... That's just in these days I guess 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    Stupid? Well mama always said a stupid is a stupid does 🤷🏽‍♂️
  • Posts: 6,398 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »

    Mmmk... I truly thought this was a myth. Convenient for me as I like lifting (which will never ever change). So...

    Guys/Gals,
    Do you have a preference for how lean, vascular, "ripped to *kitten* shreds," etc your partner looks?

    I don’t mind some definition on a woman - I like her to be fit - but the vascular/shred bodybuilding competition look is not appealing to me - nothing wrong with that. Just not what I’m attracted to
  • Posts: 707 Member
    edited March 2020
    cowsfan12 wrote: »

    I don’t mind some definition on a woman - I like her to be fit - but the vascular/shred bodybuilding competition look is not appealing to me - nothing wrong with that. Just not what I’m attracted to

    (Don't kill me, I'm not busying your balls)😂

    Prior to your current physical appearance, would you have said the same thing? You've worked hard and are "in the best shape of your life." Have your standards changed now? Anyone can answer this - just want your thoughts.
  • Posts: 3,120 Member

    (Don't kill me, I'm not busying your balls)😂

    Prior to your current physical appearance, would you have said the same thing? You've worked hard and are "in the best shape of your life." Have your standards changed now? Anyone can answer this - just want your thoughts.

    I would have been afraid to ask for what I want because I’d feel like a hypocrite
  • Posts: 707 Member

    I would have been afraid to ask for what I want because I’d feel like a hypocrite

    That's kinda how I felt about it, and why I asked for further explanation.
  • Posts: 6,398 Member

    (Don't kill me, I'm not busying your balls)😂

    Prior to your current physical appearance, would you have said the same thing? You've worked hard and are "in the best shape of your life." Have your standards changed now? Anyone can answer this - just want your thoughts.

    Nah it’s always been what I was most attracted to - but not the only thing- so not being fit has never been a deal breaker for me - but was a preference even when I wasn’t I guess - hypocritical absolutely 🤷‍♂️
  • Posts: 707 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »

    Nah it’s always been what I was most attracted to - but not the only thing- so not being fit has never been a deal breaker for me - but was a preference even when I wasn’t I guess - hypocritical absolutely 🤷‍♂️

    10/10 for honesty
  • Posts: 3,120 Member
    iMago wrote: »

    depends.

    if she initiates, then yeah I'll go for it. reason being, that if it ain't me it's gonna be someone else at that point. so it might as well be me.

    but if she's clearly happy and not looking to start creeping then i ain't gonna go for it and try to change her mind.

    You’ve said things like this before but what if it’s not true? What if you are unique in her mind? Playing devil’s advocate here
  • Posts: 12,588 Member
    Guys... when you see a chicks married, does it put you off?
    I’ve been told by a few people that guys don’t care when they see a wedding ring 🤷‍♀️

    🙈.... 🤷🏽‍♂️
  • Posts: 8,714 Member

    You’ve said things like this before but what if it’s not true? What if you are unique in her mind? Playing devil’s advocate here

    do you mean like, say she's interested in just me and not going out looking for just anybody?

    I've done that before too. it's been a while now. if i could do it over I'd have stopped her from getting close to begin with i guess. we're on good terms now at least and for the most part it's like nothing ever happened except for every now and then.
  • Posts: 12,588 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »

    Mmmk... I truly thought this was a myth. Convenient for me as I like lifting (which will never ever change). So...

    Guys/Gals,
    Do you have a preference for how lean, vascular, "ripped to *kitten* shreds," etc your partner looks?

    Frank Zane is the goals I aspire to achieve...

    d1ni2qq27mjr.jpg

    And on a woman... I've never been picky but, I'm not terribly into the muscular or vascular look, nor the super model skinny look... I guess I go for more of a natural look...

    Like if you follow Stephanie Buttermore, I think she looked better after gaining about 20-30lbs over her competition weight... Btjm 🤷🏽‍♂️
  • Posts: 3,120 Member
    iMago wrote: »

    do you mean like, say she's interested in just me and not going out looking for just anybody?

    I've done that before too. it's been a while now. if i could do it over I'd have stopped her from getting close to begin with i guess. we're on good terms now at least and for the most part it's like nothing ever happened except for every now and then.

    Yes, that’s what I mean. Thoughtful answer
  • Posts: 9,883 Member
    I don’t like super vascular and lean both because it is unattractive to me and because it usually indicates a dedication to a type of eating I would find annoying. I respect individual choices, but for ME that’s a no.

    Same. I prefer someone who is at a similar fitness level as me. Who is motivated to workout and be in shape, but could also veg out with pizza and booze for 5 days.
  • Posts: 9,883 Member

    (Don't kill me, I'm not busying your balls)😂

    Prior to your current physical appearance, would you have said the same thing? You've worked hard and are "in the best shape of your life." Have your standards changed now? Anyone can answer this - just want your thoughts.

    I am attracted to the same type of person. But when I was heavier, I just wouldn't have dated (and I didn't). When I was heavier, I wasnt happy where I was. I didn't want to be with someone at that level of unhealthy. So I waited till I got healthier before dating. But I don't want to go backwards. So I need to be with someone who also is looking to move forward and not backwards with fitness.
    My standards have been pretty much the same. 🤷‍♀️😊
  • Posts: 707 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »

    I am attracted to the same type of person. But when I was heavier, I just wouldn't have dated (and I didn't). When I was heavier, I wasnt happy where I was. I didn't want to be with someone at that level of unhealthy. So I waited till I got healthier before dating. But I don't want to go backwards. So I need to be with someone who also is looking to move forward and not backwards with fitness.
    My standards have been pretty much the same. 🤷‍♀️😊

    Perfect response!
  • Posts: 4,692 Member
    Guys

    Do you find pregnant woman sexy?
  • Posts: 12,588 Member
    edited March 2020
    Ladies...

    Honestly... Frank Zane, this Dudes a bodybuilding legend, Mr Aesthetics they call him...

    I mean I could never get there without like 10lbs of skin surgically removed and even then, I'm not going to kid myself... Nor do I feel like I ever need to reach this for any reason..

    I get, in the eye of the beholder and all, but are our ideals of beauty really so dissimilar... I mean, Dudes a living work of art, is he not?

    d1ni2qq27mjr.jpg

  • Posts: 12,588 Member
    Guys

    Do you find pregnant woman sexy?

    Adorably... 💕

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