Messages from creepers :-/
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GymGoddessGoals wrote: »mi_nina_lola wrote: »
Or if you'd like to see leg gains *pants dropped to the floor*
and of course my personal fav
Look at my abs! *pants and underwear pulled down to the pubic area*
all the this^^.0 -
slimgirljo15 wrote: »Serious question on this. Any FR I do send normally does imply intent to support/encourage each other.....and given the tenor of this that's obviously completely been ruined of people because it's been abused and/or made creepy?
I get that many may say something similar, but obviously many have ruined it for some who genuinely mean it I guess. That's disheartening.
You're good.. It's obvious to all there's not a creepy bone in your body. 🙂
Agree. 100%
It’s not even so much the FR message....it’s the unnecessary dm’s in my opinion. Even those can be fine sometimes. But, sometimes you just know.0 -
Serious question on this. Any FR I do send normally does imply intent to support/encourage each other.....and given the tenor of this that's obviously completely been ruined of people because it's been abused and/or made creepy?
I get that many may say something similar, but obviously many have ruined it for some who genuinely mean it I guess. That's disheartening.
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GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Serious question on this. Any FR I do send normally does imply intent to support/encourage each other.....and given the tenor of this that's obviously completely been ruined of people because it's been abused and/or made creepy?
I get that many may say something similar, but obviously many have ruined it for some who genuinely mean it I guess. That's disheartening.
Not necessarily. There are other items to take into consideration when considering a FR.
IE: PFP, activity on the forums, if they have mutual friends, if said mutual friends would recommend them, the tone of the actual message sent or even if there is a message. Most people can tell a genuine FR when they read one.
Some people make the mistake of blindly accepting any request and then the creeper has access. Others go through all the necessary channels to screen a request and still a creeper many not appear to be a creeper until he/she/it/they start the creeping.
I get all of that and it's a completely sensible response in all the cases you stated. Thank you. Appreciate your answer.
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So is it just me or is this creepy?
When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?4 -
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So is it just me or is this creepy?
When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?
I used to think so but now I think it depends. Some people are just more comfortable with the opposite sex.2 -
- no creepy - just think that surely you would find someone or more - that you would want to be friends with of the same sex - just for support and to support if that's what you really signed up to do - and have fun with - get opinions from - seek advice from - you know - real life *kitten*
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- no creepy - just think that surely you would find someone or more - that you would want to be friends with of the same sex - just for support and to support if that's what you really signed up to do - and have fun with - get opinions from - seek advice from - you know - real life *kitten*
That probably works for you 🙂0 -
Apparently not thirsty enough. What does a person have to do to get a creeper?3 -
don't know much about pokemon except that my boy used to collect and trade them like i did baseball cards - but i get your point0 -
Apparently not thirsty enough. What does a person have to do to get a creeper?
Headless torso pic bro -3 -
So is it just me or is this creepy?
When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?
I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...
It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽♂️...
Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen3 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »So is it just me or is this creepy?
When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?
I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...
It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽♂️...
Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen
In a past life same but switch the genders2 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »So is it just me or is this creepy?
When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?
I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...
It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽♂️...
Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen
In a past life same but switch the genders
Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it.1 -
XxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »So is it just me or is this creepy?
When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?
I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...
It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽♂️...
Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen
In a past life same but switch the genders
Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it.
Oh no, i mean i got at least one fr from a woman who was trying to scope out my FL and my interactions with them.
You should send out more FRs.0 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »XxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »So is it just me or is this creepy?
When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?
I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...
It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽♂️...
Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen
In a past life same but switch the genders
Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it.
Oh no, i mean i got at least one fr from a woman who was trying to scope out my FL and my interactions with them.
You should send out more FRs.
Yep, I kind of understood that part. But, even so, I'm still limiting on who I send/receive FR's with.
If you don't really interact with someone, or plan to, why bother? It's like these people with massive friend's lists on FB.2 -
XxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »XxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »So is it just me or is this creepy?
When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?
I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...
It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽♂️...
Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen
In a past life same but switch the genders
Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it.
Oh no, i mean i got at least one fr from a woman who was trying to scope out my FL and my interactions with them.
You should send out more FRs.
Yep, I kind of understood that part. But, even so, I'm still limiting on who I send/receive FR's with.
If you don't really interact with someone, or plan to, why bother? It's like these people with massive friend's lists on FB.
I have two rules for FB: 1. I must know you irl
And 2. You must not annoy me too much
My mfp rules are much stricter4 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »XxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »XxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »So is it just me or is this creepy?
When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?
I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...
It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽♂️...
Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen
In a past life same but switch the genders
Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it.
Oh no, i mean i got at least one fr from a woman who was trying to scope out my FL and my interactions with them.
You should send out more FRs.
Yep, I kind of understood that part. But, even so, I'm still limiting on who I send/receive FR's with.
If you don't really interact with someone, or plan to, why bother? It's like these people with massive friend's lists on FB.
I have two rules for FB: 1. I must know you irl
And 2. You must not annoy me too much
My mfp rules are much stricter
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Motorsheen wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »XxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »XxFunctionalStrengthxX wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »So is it just me or is this creepy?
When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?
I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...
It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽♂️...
Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen
In a past life same but switch the genders
Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it.
Oh no, i mean i got at least one fr from a woman who was trying to scope out my FL and my interactions with them.
You should send out more FRs.
Yep, I kind of understood that part. But, even so, I'm still limiting on who I send/receive FR's with.
If you don't really interact with someone, or plan to, why bother? It's like these people with massive friend's lists on FB.
I have two rules for FB: 1. I must know you irl
And 2. You must not annoy me too much
My mfp rules are much stricter
Mfp rule # 1. You must be hot1
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