WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR APRIL 2020
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Yes, yet another post.
For what am I grateful for in this moment.- I awakened to another beautiful day.
- My beautiful garden which provides so much peace and comfort.
- Central air which has been heavily used the past two weeks when the temperatures were hitting will over 95 degrees.
- My strength which was instilled in me by my mother. It was one of the greatest gifts she gave me.
Hugs to all and prayers to those in need.
SuziQ - SFL4 -
Good Thursday
I am so far behind.....I feel selfish for posting when not staying caught up....
My MIL, Pat, had refused any treatment on Tuesday night. As of yesterday morning, the hospice worker was able to get her to start blood thinner and pain meds. Pat has been moved to the hospice center to try to get her symptoms under control and get her home prepared for her to come home. The end is closer than further. The hospice worker told us that her comfort is more important than food or water. I didn't hear from my SIL last night after she visited her. We are going after work today, if my husband will go......he is so freaked out.
As for me, I have my moments.....I did declutter the house last night as I know that was adding to my stress. I need to pay my taxes this morning and some work paperwork before work. I am okay. Trying to keep people in the loop is tiring. I need to focus on water. My intake has sucked the last two weeks. Eating yesterday wasn't hateful but a lot of calories. I am sure not enough carbs. My concentration there is staying away from the cookies and candy. Water will help.
Thank you for all of your supportive thoughts and prayers. I love all the support! It makes things easier.
Time to get a few necessities done before work.
I am grateful for every one of you thoughtful, strong, and caring women!
❤
Kylia still treading and kicking in Ohio10 -
Oh ....and to top things off my credit card got hacked night before last! My bank and paypal locked things down quickly. No harm done, but frustrating. Thieves really raise my hackles! If you can take time to hack, then you have time to do something productive!
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Hello to the new ones here on the thread! We're glad you're here.
Where are you located (approximately)?
Arkansas, USA, in the foothills of the Boston Mountains (part of the Ozarks), and near the western border of the state. Very rural.
What are some of your favourite hobbies/sports/activities?
I write, quilt, paint, crochet and help rehab the mid-century stone house my husband and I live in. He's the gardener, as well.
What takes up most of your day?
I worked remotely before the pandemic, and still do, as a grant writer for the Girl Scout council in this region.
In the spoiler, a set of questions I was interviewed for at work, as they're "introducing" a staff member every week while we're all working remotely. Whether you're an old hat or a new chum, please feel free to take any or all of the questions, erase my answers, and answer them for yourself.1. Where are you from originally?
I was raised from the age of six in rural East Texas. I think of myself as a Texan.
2. Do you eat breakfast? If so, what did you eat today?
Yep. Old-fashioned oatmeal microwaved in vanilla almond milk. With Splenda.
3. Do you prefer to dine in, carry out, or cook at home?
We almost always eat at home, and my husband is the cook. I’m very lucky to have a husband who loves to cook and finds it relaxing. I am a stress baker though! Right now, I have all the fixings to make crack blondies sitting out on my counter.
4. Favorite Girl Scout Cookie?
Samoas. Frozen, so the caramel snaps when you bite into them. Nummy. I was not a Girl Scout growing up. A brownie was something you ate.
5. Do you listen to music when you work?
Since my job is heavily centered on writing, I can’t listen to music when I work because I’ll end up putting the words of the song into a grant.
6. What is your favorite sonic drink?
Unsweet tea. By the gallon. I drink tea all day long.
7. What is your favorite board/card game?
Scrabble, Monopoly, Risk, Trivial Pursuit, Backgammon are the top five. Pretty much any board game, honestly.
8. What is your favorite podcast?
I don’t listen to podcasts, but I do listen to NPR.
9. What is your dream sandwich?
Crispy bacon, lettuce, mayonnaise on home-made bread. No tomatoes. I loooove bacon. I would wear bacon if I could.
10. What makes you gag?
Well, tomatoes, which are pretty much just little pink wagon wheels filled with snot and seeds. Urk.
11. What are your hobbies?
I write, I quilt, I read, I crochet, I paint, I tried to learn to knit, but ended up with a snarled, sweaty ball of stress, so I gave that one up. Plus, who needs more stabby things in their lives? With all of this going on with COVID, I’ve been reading a lot more than usual.
12. What is one thing that can make your day instantly better?
Today, it was my best friend, calling from Montana, saying, “You sounded a little down yesterday. How you are holding up?” I probably talk to her about 3 or 4 times a week.
13. What was the best vacation/trip you ever took and why?
In all truth, I have enjoyed very few vacations or trips I’ve taken. Vacations with my birth family are now used as scare stories told to children. When I took PTO the second week of March, our daughter came down from Fort Riley, Kansas, with her two youngest, and stayed with us for a week. She helped me spring clean my house. Loved it. And got a clean house out of it. My idea of a good vacation is, essentially, not going anywhere.
14. If you were an animal, what animal would you be?
Probably a quokka. (See picture below) I’m certainly built like one, short, stout, bigger at the bottom than the top, and smiling all the time FOR NO REASON. And no, they don’t throw their babies at predators so they can get away, that’s internet inanity.
15. At a party, where can someone find you?
Out on the back porch, talking to another iconoclast or two. Flip on the light, we’ll scatter like rats.
Quokka
Later, ladies,
Lisa in AR7 -
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My answers to Lisa's questions: Feel free to enquire further if you like.
1. Where are you from originally?
Canada ... I'm Canadian-Australian
2. Do you eat breakfast? If so, what did you eat today?
Nope!
Eating breakfast is like flipping an "ON" switch for my appetite. If I don't eat breakfast, I probably won't eat anything till about noon and then just eat "normally" after that. If I do eat breakfast, I'm cleaning out the fridge.
And the rest ...3. Do you prefer to dine in, carry out, or cook at home?
We almost always eat at home, and my husband is the cook. I bake when I've got time ... which is almost never.
4. Favorite Girl Scout Cookie?
I've never liked Girl Scout cookies. In Canada we could get 2 or 3 kinds and they weren't appealing. However, I noticed the other day that in the US, there are more varieties.
I don't eat much in the way of cookies in general, but if I do I like:
-- McVitie's Chocolate Digestives
-- Melting Moments ... the kind the bakery in our local shop has.
-- Good homemade or homemade-style chocolate chip cookies.
5. Do you listen to music when you work?
I often have ABC Classic FM on.
https://www.abc.net.au/classic/
6. What is your favorite sonic drink?
I don't know what a sonic drink is.
7. What is your favorite board/card game?
I used to play board and card games a lot, but once my ex and I split up, that stopped. So I haven't played in something like 21 years. I'd like to play ... there's just no one to play with. So I do Mahjongg on the computer occasionally.
8. What is your favorite podcast?
I don’t listen to podcasts.
9. What is your dream sandwich?
I rarely eat sandwiches but probably grilled cheese. That's a stress/comfort food for me. I ate grilled cheese sandwiches when my husband was in the hospital, but haven't had one in about 2 years.
10. What makes you gag?
Mushrooms. Most seafood. Meat, unless it is so well cooked some might call it burnt.
11. What are your hobbies?
I gave my list a page or so ago.
12. What is one thing that can make your day instantly better?
Sleeping till nearly noon. Sleeping a good 10-12 hours. Sleep is better than being awake.
13. What was the best vacation/trip you ever took and why?
All of them!! I've had so many, it's hard to rank them. I take time off work just about every month and extended time whenever I can get it. I've been to many countries, and mostly have my bicycle with me.
14. If you were an animal, what animal would you be?
Cat.
15. At a party, where can someone find you?
At home.
Machka in Oz3 -
Machka, sorry - Sonic is an eat-in-your-car burger and shake joint that can be found in 44 of the 50 US states, with carhops who bring food and/or drinks to your car:
And I LOVE McVities digestives with chocolate... they remind me of all the years spent in England. They're just starting to show up in most big grocery stores in the U.S.
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Machka, sorry - Sonic is an eat-in-your-car burger and shake joint that can be found in 44 of the 50 US states, with carhops who bring food and/or drinks to your car:
And I LOVE McVities digestives with chocolate... they remind me of all the years spent in England. They're just starting to show up in most big grocery stores in the U.S.
This is what sprang to mind when I read "Sonic". Sonic the hedgehog!
I've never heard of a burger place called Sonic. We don't have a lot of fast food places here, but as far as drinks go, I start my day with water and black coffee, then move to decaf tea and some version of diet coke in the evenings.
In fact, it's time for one of my teas.
I almost always have a packet of McVities in my cupboard. It was one of the first things I grabbed when I was stocking up a bit for the shutdown. I'll have a couple of them maybe a couple nights a week ... so not a lot, but I do like to have them there when I want them.
M in Oz
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Hi.
I am Annie from Delaware. I live with my parents in a typical suburban development. I read and meditate and waste time online.
I am retired after a long and varied professional life. I served in the Air Force as an intelligence officer, I was a computer programmer, and then a patent examiner. Now I am writing a novel, but I'm taking a break from it.
I am divorced, and spend time on online dating. I met some good friends that way. I spend a lot of time listening to my parents. They are in great health but that won't last forever.
I weigh about 165, and use CiCo. I'm usually very strict and dedicated at least until 2:00. Then I fight sugar cravings. I do calisthenics and dumbbells 3x a week, and I used to hit the gym but that's closed. I keep meaning to start walking but don't actually put my shoes on.
I lead a slow contemplative life, especially now. I do knit some.
Annie in Delaware8 -
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Morning Ladies
Went and got Homer and took them.both for a walk..they had breakfast and I did too.. not much going on4 -
Machka, I didn't know what a Sonic drink was when I read the quiz. After Lisa explained it, I realized that I had heard of the restaurant but had never been there.
Kylia, sending hugs to you.
Going back to an older question of what is your fondest desire (or something like that), years ago when I was working, it looked like the road from my house to the main street might be flooded over and impassable and I wondered how long I could be stranded at home before it stopped being fun. Now I'm getting to find out.
Now that I have face masks, I've figured out that I can probably wait to go to a store again until next week. This morning I told Jake that he should drive the car around the block or something since it hasn't gone anywhere in 8 days and probably won't go out again for awhile.
Barbie in NW WA4 -
Lisa - I will do your quiz later.
Had a fabulous day so far. Exercised, wrote, , then Zoomed Edie and Max and their answers to DH's tests. They said they want to do all his tests and not the school ones. We were both amazed at how much Edie's reading has come on in a few months. She can now read quite hard stuff with ease. Before she was spelling words out phonetically. DH is now composing some new sheets for them.
Then I cut the brownies into 16 and DH carried them over to my son's while I ran beside him. A good 5k there and back. It is very warm out. We enjoyed chatting through the window and it was great to talk to Bea as we've seen less of her.
On the way home we bought spinach and found the bakery was selling flour in paper bags. I bought 1kg plain bread flour and 1kg wholemeal. Plus a lovely big seeded loaf.
Now relaxing. About to have a brownie. That will be all the calories I have just burnt off by running 5k! Dinner is ragu from the freezer with baked sweet potato and roasted cauliflower. Parmesan.
Stewed plums and homemade yogurt.
Then I wait for my delivery. :drinker:
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx5 -
But when I hopped in the van and started it up, I knew something was terribly wrong. It idled very roughly in park and neutral ... and when I shifted into drive or reverse, it died. Fantastic.
The van story so far ...
About a month ago, I pulled up to the fuel tank at a local service station behind a vehicle. He had driven there just fine but was having an awful time getting into gear to drive away. It would die on him when shifted into drive or reverse.
Then I pulled up and we topped up with about a quarter of a tank of fuel.
About 20 km later, the van started idling really roughly at intersections, like it was about to stall, and dropping power when I accelerated.
We took it to the shop where they confirmed that cylinders were miss firing. They replaced the spark plugs and checked some coils etc. and it seemed to run some better although the last couple times we were out, it was just a bit rough again.
Our last drive was last week ... maybe Thursday or Friday.
Now we're down to a quarter of a tank and I thought I might fill up on the trip back from getting our flu shots ... but I couldn't get the van out of the driveway!
The van has been towed to the shop. I hope they can figure it out.
Their first suggestion was to get a jerry can of high octane fuel and put that in to see if it helped. But the logistics of that were challenging.
We do have another van, but ... something went badly wrong with it about 6 months before my husband's accident and that's why we got the "new" van. I'm not sure what went wrong. I may have been told but that's 2.5 chaotic years ago. But I do know it was bad enough we got another van.
My husband thinks he remembers what went wrong and without much effort at all thinks he has fixed it. The trouble is, the problem he is telling me he fixed is a problem of some time ago ... not 6 months before his accident. Maybe it's the same problem again, but maybe not. His memory is so patchy it's hard to know!! He remembers things from a long time ago much better than closer to his accident.
He has been starting the van and letting it run quite regularly. And I have driven it once about a year ago. It was OK then, so maybe it would be OK. But I'm apprehensive about driving it ... I'm just not confident.
So the idea of using that van to get a jerry can of fuel for the "good" van wasn't something I was thrilled about.
I know motor vehicles can be convenient sometimes, but they can also be pains.
I had many lovely, stress-free years without one and a hope of mine is that one day we'll move somewhere we don't need to use one at all or much ... somewhere where we can walk or cycle to do what we need to do.
Meanwhile, fingers crossed the problem will be solved this time, without much expense.
M in Oz5 -
Did 3 Horizontal Conditioning DVD’s today which I’m going to throw out. They are Way, Way, Way too intense and too much jumping. I wound up modifying just about everything. So then I did a South Beach Supercharged DVD which I’m going to throw out because it’s much much too easy
Lisa – I found that when I read a book on the treadmill or elliptical, I seemed to go slower. Same thing with watching the TV, I get involved in the book or the TV to the point that I unconsciously slow down. So I only listen to music now.
Yea Pam!!! How big is Pearl? One of our cats is big, not fat – just big. He lays in the condo (cat toy) and even tho his back end is sticking out, he figures since he can’t see me then I can’t see him….lol
Betsy – we had two cats who caught a mouse. Then they made their paws into a sort-of ring and they batted a mouse around. When the mouse finally died, they just walked away. We called them Ouday and Cousay after Hussain Cousain’s (did I spell that right?) sons
For quite a while now I’ve had a pain in my lower back. I thought it was because I have such tight hamstrings. Now I’m wondering if it’s arthritis. I’ve heard that there’s a type of spinal arthritis. I remember my father always saying how his arthritis would flare up when it rained outside or was going to rain. Well, it’s raining here and today my back seems to be worse.
I started the decrease on the c2c blanket that I’m making. Maybe I’ll finish that today, who knows?
Vince needs to go to the post office so I got a box of things for the Salvation Army. I’m figuring we can stop there, I’ll make the donation, then we can go to the post office. Afterwards, he needs to stop at WalMart to get a prescription.
Read in the paper that there’s talk of NC opening Wednesday. I just pray it’s not too soon.
Bananas – (((HUG))). Let us know what the GP says. When do you go?
Flea – that video was wonderful, I was about to start crying – glad the video ended when it did.
We couldn’t find the packing tape gun yesterday. I know that Vince is OCD and always puts it back in the same spot, but I suspect he did something with it. He’s convinced that I threw it out because I was cleaning and throwing things out. However, he had to have had it on Sun since he sealed up the box for the Salvation Army. I didn’t do any cleaning on Monday, just my running around. On Tuesday I worked in Jess’ room and didn’t use it at all. Yesterday I worked in Denise’s room and didn’t use it at all. I had no reason to use it. If anything, I needed the scissors to open boxes
Heather – how wonderful you got your refund, just sorry it took so long
Barbara – my kids always loved those orange pops. They are high in calcium, high in protein, low in sugar and best of all cheap. I did find that orange seems to be the only decent flavor. I tried grape juice, apple juice and some others, and they weren’t that good. I did find that if I make my own yogurt, I can let it drain longer than the kind you get at the store, which makes them even higher in protein. I just wonder how economical they are if you make the yogurt yourself. Probably comes out to about a wash when you buy the yogurt at the store
Viv – I’m sure you do this, many times I throw something out that I know someone can’t use. Vince likes to keep a lot of things “you never know when you’ll need it”. Jess likes to save things too. She asked me for a lot of my cookbooks once. I knew that she really didn’t need them but I gave them to her anyway. Well, about a year later she was cleaning and guess what she gave me for the Salvation Army?
Kylia – what a pain to have your credit card hacked. Glad the bank and paypal were able to shut down quickly. My intake of water has been lower, too. I’m sure that’s because I’m not out and about as much and exercising
1. Where are you from originally?
I was born and raised in NJ
2. Do you eat breakfast? If so, what did you eat today?
Yep. Bran cereal, strawberries and almond milk
3. Do you prefer to dine in, carry out, or cook at home?
Definitely at home.
4. Favorite Girl Scout Cookie?
Those thin mints frozen with a tall glass of milk. Heaven on earth
5. Do you listen to music when you work?
Am retired, but didn’t when I worked
6. What is your favorite sonic drink?
For as long as I’ve lived in NC (12 years going on 13) I have never once been to a Sonic
7. What is your favorite board/card game?
Mahjongg. But I also like mostly all board games.
I almost never listen to podcasts
9. What is your dream sandwich?
I really don’t know, I like a lot of different foods.
10. What makes you gag?
Peanut butter
11. What are your hobbies?
Crochet, x-stitch, most any other craft except quilting, cooking, volunteering, exercise, probably things I haven’t thought of.
12. What is one thing that can make your day instantly better?
Getting up and feeling good
13. What was the best vacation/trip you ever took and why?
In all truth, I haven’t vacationed much. Probably going to Europe or St. Kitts
14. If you were an animal, what animal would you be?
Probably a cat
15. At a party, where can someone find you?
Talking to someone.
Michele in NC
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Good Morning All
Where are you located (approximately)?
I am located in small town outside of Baton Rouge, Louisiana.
What are some of your favourite hobbies/sports/activities?
I love to read historical romances. I know it's kind of nonsense, but I need to read something stress free to help me to not focus on the pandemic of today. I do keep up with the goings on in the USA, but I don't want to harp on it ALL DAY. I'd be a basket case if I did. I do Yoga every morning and walk throughout the day. .
What takes up most of your day?
I continue to work every other day for a major advertising company. I am the corporate receptionist. Who knew folks are still wanting to rent billboards and do bus advertising. 🤔😊 Days I'm not working I do the normal household tasks, and of course reading. 😁
I am excited to start this journey. I am more encouraged and excited to be here. Thank you guys for allowing me to be here.
Hope you have a great day. Hope you stay safe and healthy.
Hugs,
Pam in Louisiana5 -
Kim: I don’t personally know anyone who has had the virus. I’ve been looking for information for my county without luck. It was posted previously but I can’t find it today. Perhaps it will become available after county offices open for the day. :ohwell:
Barbie: Our Library is a member of Library to Go. We can check out physical books from the Library in ordinary times, plus check out books through Library to Go. The Library to Go system is managed electronically through Amazon. While we can’t go to the library in person due to COVID 19, we can still check out electronic books from Library to Go.
Rebecca: Our gym is closed due to the virus, too. I stay active by walking the dog in the neighborhood on dry days and riding a recumbent tryke that is setup on a roller system in the garage that lets me ride in place. The tryke has two front wheels and one back wheel.
Last night we had a wonderful facetime call from DS and DDIL. We also got some photos sent to us. I am planning to go out and buy a few grocery items this morning, and then ride my tryke in the garage while I read a book.
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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1. I was born in Welling Garden City in Hertfordshire. It was a maternity home. I was raised in North London until I was 9 and then we moved to Horsham in Sussex, not far from where I live now.
2. I eat breakfast every day and it's always the same. My husband makes it. It's homemade muesli with fresh fruits and berries on top. He always chops up a beautiful selection.
3. We don't often carry out, but when we do I like it to be something I can't easily make at home, like fish and chips, or tandoori. I love my home cooking, but I also love a good restaurant. As well as excellent food, good service is important to me. My favourite thing is a fishy lunch under a parasol with a BFF.
4. Never had a GSC and can't see why they want to make the nation even fatter.
5. Don't listen to music while I'm working, but I do sometimes like the tv or radio burbling on in the background if I'm having fear of the blank page.
6. Don't ever go to fast food places.
7. Don't like any board or card games. Or many games at all.
8. I love the BBC Radio 4 podcast - Soul Music. I listen to them while I run. The other day it was True Colours and Plaisirs d'Amour.
9. I love a good egg sandwich with cress. No mayonnaise and lots of black pepper.
10. Tins of baked beans. Anything where sour is mixed with sugar as in commercial tomato sauce.
11. Singing, dancing, reading non fiction, tv watching, exercising, running, cooking, being on this thread. For light relief I read a lot of home decoration magazines on line.
12. Doing a good stint of writing.
13. So many! All the cruises. All the amazing places I've been to all over the world. France. Everywhere! The stand out was probably the month I spent in Peru with my son and his girlfriend. Fabulous.
14. I think a cat would be the least worst option.
15. Usually hovering near the food, or on the dance floor.
That was fun!
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx4 -
Michele..... I wish peanut butter made me gag. I love peanut butter and I eat it on PBJ sandwiches and on celery and sometimes a spoonful just out of the jar. :-( Not good for my CICO eating plan.
Betsy in NW WA2 -
No secret to growing the celery. I just put the stump in water and left it alone! Just make sure it doesn’t run out of water. You can do that with onions, garlic, carrot tops, beet greens, leafy lettuce stumps. Pretty much anything that has a stump. Easy gardening! Lol
RV Rita
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