WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JULY 2020
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I asked to become part of that group and did not receive confirmation. I think that was during the MFP issues.
I'm so sorry! Had I seen your ask, I would have made you a member, but it never came across. My apologies.1 -
Suzi not sure of the process to join.0
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https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/group/123702-women-ages-50 - for those interested in the group. Many are members already from earlier days, when it was just sort of an advertisement for this thread. I have already turned away more than a few who aren't on the thread, but asked them to come here first, join the conversation, and then decide whether they want to join the group still.
Much of the initial catharsis has, I think, run its course--but anyone who is part of this thread is welcome to join. It does impinge on all the things we choose not to deal with on this thread, including religion and politics, so yes, you will see opinions that are not the same as yours. If that is uncomfortable for anyone, I would suggest that they not ask to join.1 -
Made it through the week. Walked through a lot of memories and found the whole process rather cathartic. I looked back at the way my life has changed since my husband died 5 years ago. It became clear to me that I have taken many active, positive steps in rebuilding and redefining. I am pleased with where I am. I think in some ways the isolation after he died helped better prepare me for this craziness of the pandemic. Can't fight against any of it, just find a way to make the best of it.
Gray hair--I colored mine for a few years. My mother had beautiful gray hair, and went gray in her 30s. I started seeing the people paying money for gray highlights, etc., and just thought I would stop coloring and see how it went. I may be 50% or so gray now. I like the shade of gray and it is turning fairly evenly so I believe I am done with coloring. Of course, if I change my mind--the beautician is always there. Find it easier not having to worry about roots showing, etc.
Putting second coat of paint on door frames today. Rather pleased with how it is turning out. Will do some more cleaning of overhead fan louvers in hallway and perhaps get coat of white metal paint on it this weekend. Really makes things look brighter and cleaner and keeps me active.
Got walk in this morning. May go out for a shorter one this evening if it cools off.
Oh-I did take a Covid test Tuesday (guinea pig to help local Health Department get practice in before mass testing). It was negative as I expected. Did realize though that waiting the three days for results can be a long time. I can't imagine those who are really concerned waiting a week or more for results. Hope we can get that straightened out somehow.
Off to work. Have a good day all,
Ginny in Ohio5 -
Barbara: Indigo Bunting=beautiful bird. Inigo Montoya=funny movie character from Princess Bride. (I really enjoyed that movie, silly as it was.) When DH had his last round of eyedrops the pharmacy gave him samples because the RX cost so much money. He doesn’t remember the name of the drops. :ohwell:
Heather: Here in Oregon there have been some upticks in Covid 19 cases. Our county is still doing very well compared to others. We’re avoiding Portland and Beaverton, although I did have a procedure in Portland. They were meticulous about safety. :flowerforyou:
SuziQ: I’m happy to see you posting again. Your worries about power outages are something I haven’t worried about in years. We have been very lucky. Buying a gasoline powered generator for the freezer makes some sense to me. I imagine you’d want it outside on your deck to keep the fumes away.
Allie: Your thoughtful approach to Sanibel makes good sense to me.
Lisa: I think the opportunity for discussion of more controversial subjects is a gift. Thank you!
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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Love seeing all of the beautiful babies. I am happy because my weight finally dropped into the 150s (technically 159.3, but I will take it). I have been measuring portion sizes, making sure to exercise daily, and staying on track with occasional flubs (my son and I ate Mcdonald's french fries yesterday and we had an outdoor meet up with friends at an ice cream shop where they had dairy free double chocolate. I got two scoops, but next time I will get one scoop instead because it was super rich). My goal is to come out of this pandemic at a healthy weight, in good shape physically, and with my short hair grown out to my shoulders (From a pixie to a short bob since March. From 170 to 159.3 since March).5
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I put henna on my dark hair which gives it red highlights, but the roots are subtle. I do it every two months or so.
Still doing taxes. I would so much rather eat something!
Annie in Delaware3 -
ASSESSMENT ON HOUSE - good news and bad news and then good news:
Well we knew there were going to be issues, there always is. we've never had any while living here. it is 114yrs old after all. gonna cost about 60k to fix what they had listed. SO... here how it is going to go.
GOOD NEWS: We had accepted their offer at 316k (cuz it was conventional, aha and va are more strict). we were then they wanted 7500.00 credit for something, I dunno, we countered w/6k, they accepted, that would have been then 288k
BAD NEWS: ASSESSOR gave a list of stuff that needed to be fixed this way the buyer could get a loan from a bank, which would have cost roughly 60k. we would have had to pay to fix the stuff would have brought it down to 60k or more which would have left us with 228k. and as you know nothing goes according to plan, so it could have been more.
GOOD NEWS: Kirby called one of those guys with the sign we'll buy your house for cash, he offered 215k out the door, we don't have to fix anything, no closing costs, just that. all this on Kirby's bday.. I was just so into work drama, house, moving, packing , getting rid of stuff..... we signed the cancellation of the contract on the sale of the house
we signed the rental agreement to the house yesterday.. well, there you have it8 -
KetoneKaren wrote: »Allie LOL for a minute, I thought you were getting one of these
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OMG RITA!!! Those temperatures! Is your humidity really low? In normal times when people go to restaurants, do they have misters to keep people cool?
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Rita's little Francesca DOES look yummy! LOL
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So yes, I think you missed the explanation of it.
Karen in Virginia
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The humidity is low thank goodness. Mid to low 30’s in am and Dow to about 7 in afternoon.
Gotta go talk later!
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Pip - Wow! That is a huge drop! In the uk you usually fix the price according to the condition of the house and normally the survey is just a formality. Old houses are old houses. Ours is nearly 100 years old. Most people rip everything out anyway! New everything! Every house round here has been totally redone. Are you sure you couldn't get a better offer? I'm sure you understand the US system better than I do. Your house is utterly charming.
Had a quick look at the 'group', which I joined at its inception and didn't use. I'm a bit afraid to start! I have far too many 'bees in my bonnet'.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx3 -
Thank you Lisa. MFP has its momenets.0
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Allie: Good luck with your plans. I hope you’re able to enjoy your lovely home, vacation when you want a change, and be happy. :flowerforyou:
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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cityjaneLondon wrote: »Pip - Wow! That is a huge drop! In the uk you usually fix the price according to the condition of the house and normally the survey is just a formality. Old houses are old houses. Ours is nearly 100 years old. Most people rip everything out anyway! New everything! Every house round here has been totally redone. Are you sure you couldn't get a better offer? I'm sure you understand the US system better than I do. Your house is utterly charming.
Had a quick look at the 'group', which I joined at its inception and didn't use. I'm a bit afraid to start! I have far too many 'bees in my bonnet'.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
the catch is EVEN if we got a better offer, the assessment STILL has to be done and STILL would have to be fixed. the buyer more than likely won't have the $$$ to pay outright without getting a loan from a bank. the bank WON'T loan without that stuff getting fixed.
we COULD do a seller finance but I wouldn't want to, cuz that's the job that I'm in and I see what sellers go thru if the buyer is late, behind, hasn't paid, etc... I don't wanna deal with that. there aren't a lot of people out there that can afford to pay for a house with cash like us, every buyer will probably have to go to a bank to get a loan to buy it.
the person willing to buy as is is in the business of flipping it probably, then sell it for much more. they probably do tons of business with people that will fix the foundation, pipes or whatever, they may pay 30k where we would have to pay 60k or more, in addition to looking for people, hiring to do stuff, etc... we are blessed that we are financially able to accept that much of a price drop. we are on a timeline, we need to go. we did buy the house for 80k on a 15year loan. when you think about it, we are STILL ahead, even by getting 200k5 -
well as Doris Day would say Que Sera Sera
the trip is not to be, the real estate agent backed out and was kind of nasty about it, and I have cancelled the reservations I had.. so onto the next and circle 4.. I am kinda bummed ,but know there will be something better down the road it is a bit of a disappointment though..well I will hop in the shower and that should make me feel better....6 -
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My favorite flowering bromiliade. When fully bloomed the stamia are bright purple. When the flower fades the plant dies but typically has two babies. These take 2 to 3 years to bloom.
For some darn reason MFP will no longer let me add pictures from my phone. Urg.1 -
Pip - I think over here that as long as it is liveable in and resellable you can get a mortgage. Your system sounds much more strict. I have often wondered why people in the US were doing up in order to sell. Here you can sell as is without too much trouble. Doing houses up is what you do after you've bought. Sometimes people prefer a wreck. People don't want someone else's decor.
If you want perfect you buy new.
In France the natives were amazed that the British liked buying their old properties. The French wanted new. I guess all that is well past now with Brexit and Covid. My friend got to her home in France very easily. I still think she is brave to drive so far alone. She says she has emerged into the light from a gulag!
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx3 -
Lisa, Thank you for setting up the opportunity for venting for those who find that practice therapeutic. I took a look at it for the first time this morning and saw how many posts there were on so many different topics. I read just enough to remind me why I'm glad we don't have such discussions on this thread. When someone is venting, they are likely to believe that others who are reading their words are of the same mind and will welcome hearing what they say when, in fact, there will be many who not only don't agree with them, but are hurt and sad by what they say. I strongly believe in free speech and the rights of all to speak their minds, but I believe also in my right to not have to listen. I don't watch the news or read the paper but I will defend to the end, the importance of the press.
Allie, I'm sorry to hear that there is a roadblock to your dream. As you wait, you can continue to clean and organize your possessions and assess your finances so when the door or window opens, you'll be physically and emotionally ready to go through it.
Jake used his Ninja Foodie the last two days to make hot dogs and buns that taste like they were grilled outdoors. Today he'll fix the chuck roast with multi-colored potatoes, carrots, onions, and celery. He has been watching lots of cooking videos in preparation.
I just keep on walking dogs, dancing,working in the yard, riding my exercise bike, knitting, and attending Zoom meetings. Don't do much housework.
Temps here are in the 60's during the day, 50's at night with occasional light rain.
Barbie in NW WA
Hmmmm…this is not true for me. I don't assume that others reading my rants agree with me. I do try to remember that when other people vent, it is not about me, it is not personal, and the opinion may well be something I disagree with. But that's OK with me. I don't find it hurtful or sad to read strongly worded opinions that differ from my beliefs. I find it interesting. I realize not everyone is like me. Thus, I am very grateful for the Group Lisa set up, where I can feel free to opine without worrying if I am stepping on somebody's toes.
Karen in VIrginia4 -
(((Allie))) So sorry.1
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Hello all! We are sweating pounds off here, humidity makes the workout feel like it is lasting all day.2
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Today Jake made chuck roast with potatoes, celery, carrots, and onions in his Ninja Foodie. We had a great lunch and I froze three meals for later7 -
Yummy Barbie!
I prepped my meal at 10:30 am for noon fixing! Wild rice, broth, shiitake mushrooms, and a splash of shiitake mushroom dressing. When I plated up I added some blue cheese crumbles.💖. Also had a bagel with slices of pepper jack cheese, a cup of guacamole and tomato/olives/ and a splash of shiitake mushroom dressing. Dessert was a Big Fig raspberry bar and coffee.👍
💖Rebecca
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Drew napping with son...
Went to Eagle Center in Wabasha Minnesota on Lake Pepin/ Beautiful Day... eagle shown can no longer live in the wild.
model of eagle's nest...
View from center...
Son with Drew...
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Hi Gals,
I love that we have both the regular forum and our “group” I would never want to write something in the regular forum that would hurt one of my friends…. Yet it is nice to have a place for things that are a bit more edgy - so a big thanks to Barbie and to Lisa that give me both!
Allie - sorry to hear that the move didn’t work out.
SuziQ – missed you.
I laughed at myself this week, I was looking for a piece of fabric and came across a neatly folded fabric that was the fabric I had used for my kitchen curtains (the everyday ones, I have winter ones with snowmen) I thought I had used up that fabric. As I unfolded it I realized that it is JULY and I still had my snowmen curtains up! They are changed now!
This is the harvest I gathered this week.
Kim from N. California
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Allie ~ I was just wondering....perhaps you could explore opportunities on one of the other beaches close to Sanibel Island and then you would be close enough to visit it often. The cost of living might be better also.
Carol in GA
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Yes Carol your right,i asked a friend who is a real estate agent in the North Port area that i have known for years2
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Allie, I am a firm believer in there being a reason for everything, so I believe that, for you, moving to Sanibel at this time was not the right thing. This means, of course, that there is something better coming along for you.
Kim, snowman curtains in July! LOL
Pip, sounds like you and Kirby did okay. I agree that it's sometimes better to just bite the bullet and take what is offered, rather than have to run around and try to get things done that you won't benefit from. I'm sure you're right, the person who is buying it is probably going to fix and flip, but you will be doing your own thing by then, so more power to the flipper! I'm so excited for you two starting the next chapter of your lives! Happy Birthday to Kirby!
Stepped on the scale this morning, it was a good day! Not official wi day, tho, so no marking that weight down, hope I can keep this up til Tuesday! I have not been snacking at night, this is a huge problem of mine, so I am happy to be in control of it, so far anyway. I have been staying at least close to my calorie goal every day. I rode my bike to work yesterday and today, but now it's kind of raining, and I'm not tough like Pip and Machka so I may be calling hubby to come and get me. Still close to 3 hours til quitting time, tho, so the weather could change a few times between now and then so we shall wait and see.....
Hugs for those needing them, congrats to those celebrating and welcome to the newbies!
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well the deal is done, I was out and the lady came by (a different company that flips) so we got 3k more, not bad, 218k7
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