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Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »If ladies can say they like beards 🙄...
Then what's wrong with a guy saying he prefers little to no makeup? 🤷🏽♂️...
*ducks*
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. We all like what we like. I just don’t think it’s right for me to think anyone would change their appearance for my preferences. If I asked him....”what do you actually like better?” and be liked something different than my norm it would be up to me to decide how to proceed from there. If I liked wearing it and he said something to me about wanting me to not.....there would be a problem. Just like a woman who doesn’t like it....can you imagine her guy telling her to wear makeup? Eeeek.
i agree with everything u said but i am def the kind who will be like “u should grow a beard 😍” or “yes keep the beard dont change pls” and never thought twice about it and like is that wrong idk anymore4 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »If ladies can say they like beards 🙄...
Then what's wrong with a guy saying he prefers little to no makeup? 🤷🏽♂️...
*ducks*
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. We all like what we like. I just don’t think it’s right for me to think anyone would change their appearance for my preferences. If I asked him....”what do you actually like better?” and be liked something different than my norm it would be up to me to decide how to proceed from there. If I liked wearing it and he said something to me about wanting me to not.....there would be a problem. Just like a woman who doesn’t like it....can you imagine her guy telling her to wear makeup? Eeeek.
i agree with everything u said but i am def the kind who will be like “u should grow a beard 😍” or “yes keep the beard dont change pls” and never thought twice about it and like is that wrong idk anymore
I think it's only wrong if yer like "you should grow a beard and if you don't I'm gonna glue one to your face made out of your old hair (I've been collecting from your haircuts) while you sleep"7 -
Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »If ladies can say they like beards 🙄...
Then what's wrong with a guy saying he prefers little to no makeup? 🤷🏽♂️...
*ducks*
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. We all like what we like. I just don’t think it’s right for me to think anyone would change their appearance for my preferences. If I asked him....”what do you actually like better?” and be liked something different than my norm it would be up to me to decide how to proceed from there. If I liked wearing it and he said something to me about wanting me to not.....there would be a problem. Just like a woman who doesn’t like it....can you imagine her guy telling her to wear makeup? Eeeek.
i agree with everything u said but i am def the kind who will be like “u should grow a beard 😍” or “yes keep the beard dont change pls” and never thought twice about it and like is that wrong idk anymore
I think it's only wrong if yer like "you should grow a beard and if you don't I'm gonna glue one to your face made out of your old hair (I've been collecting from your haircuts) while you sleep"
Well *kitten*...
🤦🏼♀️5 -
Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »If ladies can say they like beards 🙄...
Then what's wrong with a guy saying he prefers little to no makeup? 🤷🏽♂️...
*ducks*
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. We all like what we like. I just don’t think it’s right for me to think anyone would change their appearance for my preferences. If I asked him....”what do you actually like better?” and be liked something different than my norm it would be up to me to decide how to proceed from there. If I liked wearing it and he said something to me about wanting me to not.....there would be a problem. Just like a woman who doesn’t like it....can you imagine her guy telling her to wear makeup? Eeeek.
i agree with everything u said but i am def the kind who will be like “u should grow a beard 😍” or “yes keep the beard dont change pls” and never thought twice about it and like is that wrong idk anymore
I think it's only wrong if yer like "you should grow a beard and if you don't I'm gonna glue one to your face made out of your old hair (I've been collecting from your haircuts) while you sleep"
So gluing it to *my* face is still okay though5 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »If ladies can say they like beards 🙄...
Then what's wrong with a guy saying he prefers little to no makeup? 🤷🏽♂️...
*ducks*
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. We all like what we like. I just don’t think it’s right for me to think anyone would change their appearance for my preferences. If I asked him....”what do you actually like better?” and be liked something different than my norm it would be up to me to decide how to proceed from there. If I liked wearing it and he said something to me about wanting me to not.....there would be a problem. Just like a woman who doesn’t like it....can you imagine her guy telling her to wear makeup? Eeeek.
i agree with everything u said but i am def the kind who will be like “u should grow a beard 😍” or “yes keep the beard dont change pls” and never thought twice about it and like is that wrong idk anymore
I think theres a difference in stating preferences and demanding or belittling or manipulating to get what you want.
If a man prefers a certain body type and puts you down for not having it...or comments how you need to work harder or stop eating cookies...thats where I think it becomes an issue.
My SO grows a beard in cooler weather and shaves in warmer...he thinks I prefer the beard but I actually feel like I get best of both worlds ...its fun to me both looks hVe their appeal1 -
Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »If ladies can say they like beards 🙄...
Then what's wrong with a guy saying he prefers little to no makeup? 🤷🏽♂️...
*ducks*
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. We all like what we like. I just don’t think it’s right for me to think anyone would change their appearance for my preferences. If I asked him....”what do you actually like better?” and be liked something different than my norm it would be up to me to decide how to proceed from there. If I liked wearing it and he said something to me about wanting me to not.....there would be a problem. Just like a woman who doesn’t like it....can you imagine her guy telling her to wear makeup? Eeeek.
i agree with everything u said but i am def the kind who will be like “u should grow a beard 😍” or “yes keep the beard dont change pls” and never thought twice about it and like is that wrong idk anymore
I think it's only wrong if yer like "you should grow a beard and if you don't I'm gonna glue one to your face made out of your old hair (I've been collecting from your haircuts) while you sleep"
So gluing it to *my* face is still okay though
Definitely, in fact I dare say it might be *encouraged*2 -
_DisasterDoll_ wrote: »Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »If ladies can say they like beards 🙄...
Then what's wrong with a guy saying he prefers little to no makeup? 🤷🏽♂️...
*ducks*
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. We all like what we like. I just don’t think it’s right for me to think anyone would change their appearance for my preferences. If I asked him....”what do you actually like better?” and be liked something different than my norm it would be up to me to decide how to proceed from there. If I liked wearing it and he said something to me about wanting me to not.....there would be a problem. Just like a woman who doesn’t like it....can you imagine her guy telling her to wear makeup? Eeeek.
i agree with everything u said but i am def the kind who will be like “u should grow a beard 😍” or “yes keep the beard dont change pls” and never thought twice about it and like is that wrong idk anymore
I think it's only wrong if yer like "you should grow a beard and if you don't I'm gonna glue one to your face made out of your old hair (I've been collecting from your haircuts) while you sleep"
Well *kitten*...
🤦🏼♀️
ikr?! next they are going to make a rule that blood oaths are “weird” and say cats aren’t the same as real babies
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PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »If ladies can say they like beards 🙄...
Then what's wrong with a guy saying he prefers little to no makeup? 🤷🏽♂️...
*ducks*
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. We all like what we like. I just don’t think it’s right for me to think anyone would change their appearance for my preferences. If I asked him....”what do you actually like better?” and be liked something different than my norm it would be up to me to decide how to proceed from there. If I liked wearing it and he said something to me about wanting me to not.....there would be a problem. Just like a woman who doesn’t like it....can you imagine her guy telling her to wear makeup? Eeeek.
i agree with everything u said but i am def the kind who will be like “u should grow a beard 😍” or “yes keep the beard dont change pls” and never thought twice about it and like is that wrong idk anymore
I think theres a difference in stating preferences and demanding or belittling or manipulating to get what you want.
If a man prefers a certain body type and puts you down for not having it...or comments how you need to work harder or stop eating cookies...thats where I think it becomes an issue negging
My SO grows a beard in cooler weather and shaves in warmer...he thinks I prefer the beard but I actually feel like I get best of both worlds ...its fun to me both looks hVe their appeal
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PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »If ladies can say they like beards 🙄...
Then what's wrong with a guy saying he prefers little to no makeup? 🤷🏽♂️...
*ducks*
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. We all like what we like. I just don’t think it’s right for me to think anyone would change their appearance for my preferences. If I asked him....”what do you actually like better?” and be liked something different than my norm it would be up to me to decide how to proceed from there. If I liked wearing it and he said something to me about wanting me to not.....there would be a problem. Just like a woman who doesn’t like it....can you imagine her guy telling her to wear makeup? Eeeek.
i agree with everything u said but i am def the kind who will be like “u should grow a beard 😍” or “yes keep the beard dont change pls” and never thought twice about it and like is that wrong idk anymore
I think theres a difference in stating preferences and demanding or belittling or manipulating to get what you want.
If a man prefers a certain body type and puts you down for not having it...or comments how you need to work harder or stop eating cookies...thats where I think it becomes an issue.
My SO grows a beard in cooler weather and shaves in warmer...he thinks I prefer the beard but I actually feel like I get best of both worlds ...its fun to me both looks hVe their appeal
is crying or putting out is considered manipulative?3 -
Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »If ladies can say they like beards 🙄...
Then what's wrong with a guy saying he prefers little to no makeup? 🤷🏽♂️...
*ducks*
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. We all like what we like. I just don’t think it’s right for me to think anyone would change their appearance for my preferences. If I asked him....”what do you actually like better?” and be liked something different than my norm it would be up to me to decide how to proceed from there. If I liked wearing it and he said something to me about wanting me to not.....there would be a problem. Just like a woman who doesn’t like it....can you imagine her guy telling her to wear makeup? Eeeek.
i agree with everything u said but i am def the kind who will be like “u should grow a beard 😍” or “yes keep the beard dont change pls” and never thought twice about it and like is that wrong idk anymore
I think it's only wrong if yer like "you should grow a beard and if you don't I'm gonna glue one to your face made out of your old hair (I've been collecting from your haircuts) while you sleep"
So gluing it to *my* face is still okay though
Definitely, in fact I dare say it might be *encouraged*
OH NO HE DI-INT1 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »If ladies can say they like beards 🙄...
Then what's wrong with a guy saying he prefers little to no makeup? 🤷🏽♂️...
*ducks*
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. We all like what we like. I just don’t think it’s right for me to think anyone would change their appearance for my preferences. If I asked him....”what do you actually like better?” and be liked something different than my norm it would be up to me to decide how to proceed from there. If I liked wearing it and he said something to me about wanting me to not.....there would be a problem. Just like a woman who doesn’t like it....can you imagine her guy telling her to wear makeup? Eeeek.
i agree with everything u said but i am def the kind who will be like “u should grow a beard 😍” or “yes keep the beard dont change pls” and never thought twice about it and like is that wrong idk anymore
I guess I think it depends on the relationship too? Like the dynamic? I think once you both know each other well enough you know what’s ok to say. Above all...if you love them and they are important to you, you aren’t gonna go around purposefully saying hurtful things.
Maybe that’s the next question.
Do guys like a woman to state their facial hair preference to them? What would you say/do if it was opposite of what you liked for yourself?2 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »If ladies can say they like beards 🙄...
Then what's wrong with a guy saying he prefers little to no makeup? 🤷🏽♂️...
*ducks*
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. We all like what we like. I just don’t think it’s right for me to think anyone would change their appearance for my preferences. If I asked him....”what do you actually like better?” and be liked something different than my norm it would be up to me to decide how to proceed from there. If I liked wearing it and he said something to me about wanting me to not.....there would be a problem. Just like a woman who doesn’t like it....can you imagine her guy telling her to wear makeup? Eeeek.
i agree with everything u said but i am def the kind who will be like “u should grow a beard 😍” or “yes keep the beard dont change pls” and never thought twice about it and like is that wrong idk anymore
I think theres a difference in stating preferences and demanding or belittling or manipulating to get what you want.
If a man prefers a certain body type and puts you down for not having it...or comments how you need to work harder or stop eating cookies...thats where I think it becomes an issue.
My SO grows a beard in cooler weather and shaves in warmer...he thinks I prefer the beard but I actually feel like I get best of both worlds ...its fun to me both looks hVe their appeal
is crying or putting out is considered manipulative?
Thats what I consider back-alley wizardry.
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_DisasterDoll_ wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »If ladies can say they like beards 🙄...
Then what's wrong with a guy saying he prefers little to no makeup? 🤷🏽♂️...
*ducks*
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. We all like what we like. I just don’t think it’s right for me to think anyone would change their appearance for my preferences. If I asked him....”what do you actually like better?” and be liked something different than my norm it would be up to me to decide how to proceed from there. If I liked wearing it and he said something to me about wanting me to not.....there would be a problem. Just like a woman who doesn’t like it....can you imagine her guy telling her to wear makeup? Eeeek.
i agree with everything u said but i am def the kind who will be like “u should grow a beard 😍” or “yes keep the beard dont change pls” and never thought twice about it and like is that wrong idk anymore
I think theres a difference in stating preferences and demanding or belittling or manipulating to get what you want.
If a man prefers a certain body type and puts you down for not having it...or comments how you need to work harder or stop eating cookies...thats where I think it becomes an issue.
My SO grows a beard in cooler weather and shaves in warmer...he thinks I prefer the beard but I actually feel like I get best of both worlds ...its fun to me both looks hVe their appeal
is crying or putting out is considered manipulative?
Thats what I consider back-alley wizardry.
I call it positive reinforces.3 -
Everyone needs to freaking chill alright 🙆🏽♂️... 😂
For tmfr... I never said one should be forced on the other, I don't think any look should be forced on anyone...
But let's just face it and say it... Beards are trending right now...
I just wonder how many less "beards" post I would see in the Weaknesses thread if it wasn't the popular trending "in" thing right now...
No makeup however is different... 🤷🏽♂️
That's all I'm saying 🤷🏽♂️......... 😂
https://youtu.be/7mfkl_Ny74U 3 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Everyone needs to freaking chill alright 🙆🏽♂️... 😂
For tmfr... I never said one should be forced on the other, I don't think any look should be forced on anyone...
But let's just face it and say it... Beards are trending right now...
I just wonder how many less "beards" post I would see in the Weaknesses thread if it wasn't the popular trending "in" thing right now...
No makeup however is different... 🤷🏽♂️
That's all I'm saying 🤷🏽♂️......... 😂https://youtu.be/7mfkl_Ny74U
I feel like everyone is calm except you dude. Calm the *kitten* down. Aight?
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Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »If ladies can say they like beards 🙄...
Then what's wrong with a guy saying he prefers little to no makeup? 🤷🏽♂️...
*ducks*
To me the difference in your question is "likes" vs "prefers"
"I like you without makeup/with a beard" - Is more neutral and complimentary (as I hear it?)
"I prefer you without makeup/with a beard", I hear "you look worse with makeup on/a beard"6 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Everyone needs to freaking chill alright 🙆🏽♂️... 😂
For tmfr... I never said one should be forced on the other, I don't think any look should be forced on anyone...
But let's just face it and say it... Beards are trending right now...
I just wonder how many less "beards" post I would see in the Weaknesses thread if it wasn't the popular trending "in" thing right now...
No makeup however is different... 🤷🏽♂️
That's all I'm saying 🤷🏽♂️......... 😂https://youtu.be/7mfkl_Ny74U
I feel like everyone is calm except you dude. Calm the *kitten* down. Aight?Miss_Chiev0us wrote: »
😂... Come on don't hate me, I love you guys 💕
I'm just *kitten* with you... Blame it on the alcohol and I'll be back to quoting Rod Stewart tomorrow 😂...2 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Everyone needs to freaking chill alright 🙆🏽♂️... 😂
For tmfr... I never said one should be forced on the other, I don't think any look should be forced on anyone...
But let's just face it and say it... Beards are trending right now...
I just wonder how many less "beards" post I would see in the Weaknesses thread if it wasn't the popular trending "in" thing right now...
No makeup however is different... 🤷🏽♂️
That's all I'm saying 🤷🏽♂️......... 😂https://youtu.be/7mfkl_Ny74U
I feel like everyone is calm except you dude. Calm the *kitten* down. Aight?Miss_Chiev0us wrote: »
😂... Come on don't hate me, I love you guys 💕
I'm just *kitten* with you... Blame it on the alcohol and I'll be back to quoting Rod Stewart tomorrow 😂...
Rod Stewart😂
Post some more stuff after you’ve drank some more. Could be a fun night.3 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »guys/girls
whats the best thing anyone ever given u as a gift
My mom got me a "my size" Barbie doll one year and put it in my bed so when I woke up from my nap it was there. I cried.
My brother got me a puppy once, I cried.
The gf made a Christmas ornament with my cat's paw print in it. I cried.3
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