Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..
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hawkeye45_ wrote: »Nails.
Do you have a preferred length or color of nails on your preferred sex? Do you notice them at all? Should guys paint their nails?
long and fake with bright shiny chrome sparkly colors is honestly the key to my heart. i think.
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hawkeye45_ wrote: »Nails.
Do you have a preferred length or color of nails on your preferred sex? Do you notice them at all? Should guys paint their nails?
long and fake with bright shiny chrome sparkly colors is honestly the key to my heart. i think.
gross
think of the smell of unable to properly clean nails
...gross
eta - I know these girls
i use a nail brush and mine are super clean
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Guys what's your real opinion on females who live in gym clothes versus females who doll themselves up cute jeans, boots, and sweater?1
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PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys what's your real opinion on females who live in gym clothes versus females who doll themselves up cute jeans, boots, and sweater?
like ratty old sweats type of gym clothes?
or like cute tight leggings with the butt scrunch type of gym clothes?1 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys what's your real opinion on females who live in gym clothes versus females who doll themselves up cute jeans, boots, and sweater?
like ratty old sweats type of gym clothes?
or like cute tight leggings with the butt scrunch type of gym clothes?
Realistically...tshirt and leggings
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PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys what's your real opinion on females who live in gym clothes versus females who doll themselves up cute jeans, boots, and sweater?
like ratty old sweats type of gym clothes?
or like cute tight leggings with the butt scrunch type of gym clothes?
Realistically...tshirt and leggings
i guess as long as she doesn't smell like feet then its all good either way2 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys what's your real opinion on females who live in gym clothes versus females who doll themselves up cute jeans, boots, and sweater?
I prefer a casual/sporty/athletic look, so I'm good with that.0 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys what's your real opinion on females who live in gym clothes versus females who doll themselves up cute jeans, boots, and sweater?
like ratty old sweats type of gym clothes?
or like cute tight leggings with the butt scrunch type of gym clothes?
Realistically...tshirt and leggings
this is a win.
save the cute jean, boots and sweaters for a fancy dinner
.... like Olive Garden1 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys what's your real opinion on females who live in gym clothes versus females who doll themselves up cute jeans, boots, and sweater?
I'm either in gym clothes or dolled up. What's the opinion on the chick who does both, usually in the same day?4 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys what's your real opinion on females who live in gym clothes versus females who doll themselves up cute jeans, boots, and sweater?
I'm either in gym clothes or dolled up. What's the opinion on the chick who does both, usually in the same day?
My initial judgements...you have a lot of time on your hands😜...but I know1 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys what's your real opinion on females who live in gym clothes versus females who doll themselves up cute jeans, boots, and sweater?
I'm either in gym clothes or dolled up. What's the opinion on the chick who does both, usually in the same day?
My initial judgements...you have a lot of time on your hands😜...but I know
Nah, I just get up at 430am.2 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys what's your real opinion on females who live in gym clothes versus females who doll themselves up cute jeans, boots, and sweater?
I'm either in gym clothes or dolled up. What's the opinion on the chick who does both, usually in the same day?
best is the time between outfits.4 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys what's your real opinion on females who live in gym clothes versus females who doll themselves up cute jeans, boots, and sweater?
I'm either in gym clothes or dolled up. What's the opinion on the chick who does both, usually in the same day?
My initial judgements...you have a lot of time on your hands😜...but I know
Nah, I just get up at 430am.
Yup...I follow you...gurl...I know...while my kitten is still in bed youre doing the dang thing1 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys what's your real opinion on females who live in gym clothes versus females who doll themselves up cute jeans, boots, and sweater?
I'm either in gym clothes or dolled up. What's the opinion on the chick who does both, usually in the same day?
My initial judgements...you have a lot of time on your hands😜...but I know
Nah, I just get up at 430am.
i do that too but also look like crap most of the time idk3 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Ladies and Gents...
Rank the following...
Jack in the box
Wendy's
McDonald's
Burger King
Carl's Jr / hardeys
In and out
If they had no calories and weren't terrible for you... For the purist 😂
In n Out
Wendy's
Carl's Jr
McDonald's
Jack in the box
Burger king
In n Out is always great
Wendy's has good burgers and the frostie
Cjr has decent burgers, for a fast food joint
McDonald's is crap but tastes good
Jack in the box has terrible burgers but good crispy chicken sandwich
Burger King is bottom of the barrel slop.
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PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys what's your real opinion on females who live in gym clothes versus females who doll themselves up cute jeans, boots, and sweater?
I don't remember what it is to wear anything other than sleepwear or my uniform.1 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys what's your real opinion on females who live in gym clothes versus females who doll themselves up cute jeans, boots, and sweater?
Ew who calls them "females" we all know it's "wamenz"
Give me those gym clothes 6.8 days a week and get dolled up when we go out for Saturday breakfastAt least that's how I liked it before the apocalypse0 -
I've been rocking the t-shirt+jeans look, 24/7, for nearly twenty years now. Wouldn't be fair to expect anything more than that from you girls either...PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys what's your real opinion on females who live in gym clothes versus females who doll themselves up cute jeans, boots, and sweater?
Maybe earrings.1 -
Guys/gals: What would you do if you found out your long term partner ended up having an unusual kink/fetish? Nothing illegal or harmful to others, just... out of the ordinary. How do you respond? Let's assume that they developed this fetish throughout the course of your relationship (they didn't come into the relationship knowing they were already into this particular thing).
- How do you respond?
- Is it a deal breaker?
- Do you attempt to engage to see if maybe you'll enjoy it, too or at least not mind it?
- If the above is no, it's not enjoyable... do you end your relationship with this person?
Saw a Reddit thread earlier today that gave me pause and it seemed like an interesting question for y'all.2 -
KosmosKitten wrote: »Guys/gals: What would you do if you found out your long term partner ended up having an unusual kink/fetish? Nothing illegal or harmful to others, just... out of the ordinary. How do you respond? Let's assume that they developed this fetish throughout the course of your relationship (they didn't come into the relationship knowing they were already into this particular thing).
- How do you respond?
- Is it a deal breaker?
- Do you attempt to engage to see if maybe you'll enjoy it, too or at least not mind it?
- If the above is no, it's not enjoyable... do you end your relationship with this person?
Saw a Reddit thread earlier today that gave me pause and it seemed like an interesting question for y'all.
How do I find out about this kink/fetish? Is it something they bring to me in an effort to get me to participate in something they like, or did they leave a browser tab open by accident?1 -
hawkeye45_ wrote: »KosmosKitten wrote: »Guys/gals: What would you do if you found out your long term partner ended up having an unusual kink/fetish? Nothing illegal or harmful to others, just... out of the ordinary. How do you respond? Let's assume that they developed this fetish throughout the course of your relationship (they didn't come into the relationship knowing they were already into this particular thing).
- How do you respond?
- Is it a deal breaker?
- Do you attempt to engage to see if maybe you'll enjoy it, too or at least not mind it?
- If the above is no, it's not enjoyable... do you end your relationship with this person?
Saw a Reddit thread earlier today that gave me pause and it seemed like an interesting question for y'all.
How do I find out about this kink/fetish? Is it something they bring to me in an effort to get me to participate in something they like, or did they leave a browser tab open by accident?
Give your answer for both and let's see how it changes depending on the situation. There's a lot of shame around kinks/fetishes, even ones that are more normal nowadays, so I can see why so many are hesitant to bring it up to their partners, particularly if they didn't come into the relationship with it.0 -
KosmosKitten wrote: »hawkeye45_ wrote: »KosmosKitten wrote: »Guys/gals: What would you do if you found out your long term partner ended up having an unusual kink/fetish? Nothing illegal or harmful to others, just... out of the ordinary. How do you respond? Let's assume that they developed this fetish throughout the course of your relationship (they didn't come into the relationship knowing they were already into this particular thing).
- How do you respond?
- Is it a deal breaker?
- Do you attempt to engage to see if maybe you'll enjoy it, too or at least not mind it?
- If the above is no, it's not enjoyable... do you end your relationship with this person?
Saw a Reddit thread earlier today that gave me pause and it seemed like an interesting question for y'all.
How do I find out about this kink/fetish? Is it something they bring to me in an effort to get me to participate in something they like, or did they leave a browser tab open by accident?
Give your answer for both and let's see how it changes depending on the situation. There's a lot of shame around kinks/fetishes, even ones that are more normal nowadays, so I can see why so many are hesitant to bring it up to their partners, particularly if they didn't come into the relationship with it.
If they bring it up to me in an attempt for us to be closer together, I will do everything within my own limits to accommodate them. If I see a browser tab that was accidentally left open, I don't do or say anything different. I certainly don't confront them about it. When they're ready to bring it up, they will. Though, I'm speaking from the perspective of someone whose online friend group consists almost exclusively of people with kinks/fetishes that are at least semi-unusual.2 -
KosmosKitten wrote: »Guys/gals: What would you do if you found out your long term partner ended up having an unusual kink/fetish? Nothing illegal or harmful to others, just... out of the ordinary. How do you respond? Let's assume that they developed this fetish throughout the course of your relationship (they didn't come into the relationship knowing they were already into this particular thing).
- How do you respond?
- Is it a deal breaker?
- Do you attempt to engage to see if maybe you'll enjoy it, too or at least not mind it?
- If the above is no, it's not enjoyable... do you end your relationship with this person?
Saw a Reddit thread earlier today that gave me pause and it seemed like an interesting question for y'all.
I would imagine that the fetish would be more important to the person who has it vs the way I’d feel about it in the case that I’m not into it. Like do they ‘need’ it? If I don’t wanna then I’m not doing it. That could be a dealbreaker for them and their choice to end things. Depending what it is I’d be down to try in theory. 🤷🏻♀️
If it's just something they like to watch and I just think it's weird isn't a problem just a odd quirk.2 -
KosmosKitten wrote: »Guys/gals: What would you do if you found out your long term partner ended up having an unusual kink/fetish? Nothing illegal or harmful to others, just... out of the ordinary. How do you respond? Let's assume that they developed this fetish throughout the course of your relationship (they didn't come into the relationship knowing they were already into this particular thing).
- How do you respond?
- Is it a deal breaker?
- Do you attempt to engage to see if maybe you'll enjoy it, too or at least not mind it?
- If the above is no, it's not enjoyable... do you end your relationship with this person?
Saw a Reddit thread earlier today that gave me pause and it seemed like an interesting question for y'all.
The "what are you into" pre-game talk is a regular thing for me with someone I'm going to share bodily fluids with. Therefore, and ideally, there's no surprises on any given evening. Not yet anyway.
If there is something new or unexpected and I'm not morally/ethically opposed and physically capable then I'm game at least once.
If it turns out I'm not into it, I'll make that clear once I've "processed" whatever elaborate series of activities were involved. All this perhaps...
🤸🏼♀️🤸♂️🤸🏿♀️🦾🤏🏿🤳🕸️🍯🛸🪑🚿☂️🧰🕐➡️🕕
At that point, it's a matter or finding compromise or they hit the bricks in order to enjoy their fetish more regularly with someone who is more willing.
Who am I to block their joy? 🤷🏿♀️3 -
hawkeye45_ wrote: »KosmosKitten wrote: »hawkeye45_ wrote: »KosmosKitten wrote: »Guys/gals: What would you do if you found out your long term partner ended up having an unusual kink/fetish? Nothing illegal or harmful to others, just... out of the ordinary. How do you respond? Let's assume that they developed this fetish throughout the course of your relationship (they didn't come into the relationship knowing they were already into this particular thing).
- How do you respond?
- Is it a deal breaker?
- Do you attempt to engage to see if maybe you'll enjoy it, too or at least not mind it?
- If the above is no, it's not enjoyable... do you end your relationship with this person?
Saw a Reddit thread earlier today that gave me pause and it seemed like an interesting question for y'all.
How do I find out about this kink/fetish? Is it something they bring to me in an effort to get me to participate in something they like, or did they leave a browser tab open by accident?
Give your answer for both and let's see how it changes depending on the situation. There's a lot of shame around kinks/fetishes, even ones that are more normal nowadays, so I can see why so many are hesitant to bring it up to their partners, particularly if they didn't come into the relationship with it.
If they bring it up to me in an attempt for us to be closer together, I will do everything within my own limits to accommodate them. If I see a browser tab that was accidentally left open, I don't do or say anything different. I certainly don't confront them about it. When they're ready to bring it up, they will. Though, I'm speaking from the perspective of someone whose online friend group consists almost exclusively of people with kinks/fetishes that are at least semi-unusual.
Seems like a good response. Do you think it would change your interaction with them knowing that they had a particular fetish (again, not harmful to anyone and not illegal) but weren't telling you (for whatever reason)?0 -
KosmosKitten wrote: »Guys/gals: What would you do if you found out your long term partner ended up having an unusual kink/fetish? Nothing illegal or harmful to others, just... out of the ordinary. How do you respond? Let's assume that they developed this fetish throughout the course of your relationship (they didn't come into the relationship knowing they were already into this particular thing).
- How do you respond?
- Is it a deal breaker?
- Do you attempt to engage to see if maybe you'll enjoy it, too or at least not mind it?
- If the above is no, it's not enjoyable... do you end your relationship with this person?
Saw a Reddit thread earlier today that gave me pause and it seemed like an interesting question for y'all.
would prolly be okay trying anything once2 -
KosmosKitten wrote: »Guys/gals: What would you do if you found out your long term partner ended up having an unusual kink/fetish? Nothing illegal or harmful to others, just... out of the ordinary. How do you respond? Let's assume that they developed this fetish throughout the course of your relationship (they didn't come into the relationship knowing they were already into this particular thing).
- How do you respond?
- Is it a deal breaker?
- Do you attempt to engage to see if maybe you'll enjoy it, too or at least not mind it?
- If the above is no, it's not enjoyable... do you end your relationship with this person?
Saw a Reddit thread earlier today that gave me pause and it seemed like an interesting question for y'all.
older ive gotten the less i care so much.
so i figure id give it a shot whatever it is4 -
When I date people these days I pretty much lead with my main kinks. I have life partners, so I just really have room in my life for a few friends-with-benefits, and that's going to involve kink, cause that's how I roll.
The question of how to handle incompatible kinks is for us the same as saying "I like horror movies and my partner doesn't." Answer: Find someone else to go see horror movies with.
With my life partners, I have one who likes being tied up. I find tying people up boring as can be. I just...rope doesn't do it for me. So I go (in normal times) to the kink club meetups, and we arrange for occasions where he can go have a session with a friend who likes to tie but doesn't have a partner for it. He likes to have me there, but being there means reading a book on the couch and occasionally keeping an eye on him, and driving him home afterwards while he's too blissed out to drive. I much prefer that to actually doing the work, my friend gets practice, and he gets the rope he likes.
That said, I'm not going to get into a serious relationship with another dominant-identified person. And there are a few kinks that are the kind of all-encompassing life kink that I don't go for, and so I'm not going to get into a relationship with someone who needs someone who's going to aid and abet their kink. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but it's a lot like people who are seriously into a fandom and decorate in it and structure their lives around ComicCon or whatnot; you have to be okay with that in your life if you're going to date them, and okay with some degree of participation, or it will not work. It's okay not to be into Superman to that degree; it's okay for me to prefer my guys to wear men's clothing.
That's where I'm at, anyway.3 -
Related questions:
- Where is the "line" for you personally as to what you would be willing to try or engage in assuming they were legal and involved consenting partners (also legal)?
- Have you ever actually encountered someone with erm... more unusual interests in the bedroom?
- Does anyone ever wonder where these interests originate from in the first place? What dictates what a person will find sexually arousing that is a complete turn off or non-interest for another? I've always wondered where these interests arise from. I don't have answers, only questions.
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KosmosKitten wrote: »Related questions:
- Where is the "line" for you personally as to what you would be willing to try or engage in assuming they were legal and involved consenting partners (also legal)?
- Have you ever actually encountered someone with erm... more unusual interests in the bedroom?
- Does anyone ever wonder where these interests originate from in the first place? What dictates what a person will find sexually arousing that is a complete turn off or non-interest for another? I've always wondered where these interests arise from. I don't have answers, only questions.
haven't found the line so much yet i guess
have encountered unusual interests and ended up sparking fires in my brain going forward afterwards
dont think about the causes too much if i can help it anymore4
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