The Sober Squad- Alcohol Free Living

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  • RubyRed427
    RubyRed427 Posts: 4,371 Member
    BeIn2day wrote: »
    Hi Sober Squad 😊😁

    Hope everyone is doing well, just thought I'd ask ya'll what 1 of your favourite benefits are of quitting / interrupting your alcohol intake?

    For me, it's discovering my love of reading. I have an actual hobby now !! I would never have discovered this had I not stopped / interrupted my drinking. Reading has opened up a whole new world for me.

    May have to buy more book shelves 😬📚

    It's having a tons of time in the evening after work to do lots of things. Teaching myself how to build a website, create a small business, yes reading too like you, ....

    Also, I like remembering the night before.
  • lorrainequiche59
    lorrainequiche59 Posts: 900 Member
    GOOOOD Morning...I hope everyone is healthy & happy today...when things get tough remember this: "I am EXACTLY where I need to be right now." I repeat this phrase to myself regularly when I get anxious about the future or regrets about the past. It brings me back to the present <3

    I hope everyone is hangin in B)
  • RubyRed427
    RubyRed427 Posts: 4,371 Member
    GOOOOD Morning...I hope everyone is healthy & happy today...when things get tough remember this: "I am EXACTLY where I need to be right now." I repeat this phrase to myself regularly when I get anxious about the future or regrets about the past. It brings me back to the present <3

    I hope everyone is hangin in B)

    I'm doing well! I drink on occasion but not like I used to. Of course, sobriety 24/7 is best for me, but sometimes "good enough" is what I can do. My daughter turned 21 and we both had a drink at lunch. She was so excited to order one.

    I guess that's normal; but I didn't promote it with her. I remained neutral. She knows my struggle with alcohol and I've spoke frankly on it. It's her journey now.
  • lorrainequiche59
    lorrainequiche59 Posts: 900 Member
    BeIn2day wrote: »
    Hi @lorrainequiche59 in case your wondering where I am these days, I'm still here ! I started my own sobriety thread. Its in the challenges section called Sobriety Matters ~ I sent you a private message on here. Not sure if you received it or not. ❤

    Hey there Thank you I'll check it out... <3
  • lorrainequiche59
    lorrainequiche59 Posts: 900 Member
    Hello to All <3
  • jrowens3102
    jrowens3102 Posts: 29 Member
    @lorrainequiche59, @Beka3695, @BeIn2day, @RubyRed427, @lloydrt and all other members here: Good morning from the Pacific NW! The holidays can be tough but I enjoy it more without alcohol. Today's a good day to be sober!
  • lloydrt
    lloydrt Posts: 1,121 Member
    hello to you as well jrowens..........looks like very few people are coming here recently.........? Hope all is well with everyone................best wishes
  • jrowens3102
    jrowens3102 Posts: 29 Member
    edited December 2021
    BeIn2day wrote: »
    @lorrainequiche59, @Beka3695, @BeIn2day, @RubyRed427, @lloydrt and all other members here: Good morning from the Pacific NW! The holidays can be tough but I enjoy it more without alcohol. Today's a good day to be sober!

    I'm looking forward to a AF festive season 🎄🎅

    Had my first one last year, and loved it ! Today is a very good day to be sober 😊

  • jrowens3102
    jrowens3102 Posts: 29 Member
    BeIn2day wrote: »
    lloydrt wrote: »
    hello to you as well jrowens..........looks like very few people are coming here recently.........? Hope all is well with everyone................best wishes

    Hey ! I actually made my own sobriety thread so I have been hanging out on there more often these days. But I will still pop by and say hello here too.

    Hope everyone is well 😊❤

    Cool. Why did you decide to leave this group and start another?
  • Beka3695
    Beka3695 Posts: 4,126 Member
    I guess our little thread is dead..... So sad... We had a good run!!
  • Xellercin
    Xellercin Posts: 924 Member
    BeIn2day wrote: »
    ^^ I can't help but notice I'm getting a couple of 'disagrees' on my last comment.

    The way I see it, there is nothing stopping people from continuing to add to this thread. Maybe instead of hitting 'disagree' on my comment, add to the thread instead, and keep it alive ??

    It's not my responsibility to prove that I didn't intend to kill the thread. Why would I want to do that?? This thread helped me immensely. Why can't there be 2 threads about sobriety? There is absolutely nothing stopping anyone from continuing to add to this thread. 🤷🏼‍♀️

    I eventually decided to just ignore the "disagrees" they're utterly pointless if no one is willing to actually engage in terms of what they disagree with.
  • annliz23
    annliz23 Posts: 3,742 Member
    I am starting again this is so hard but I wik keep trying.
  • walterm852
    walterm852 Posts: 409 Member
    edited July 2022
    Hey All, its been a while since I have been to this thread, still sober and going well. I will try to stop by more, please feel free to friend me. Bein2day, I will try to find your thread too - sort of like meetings ... its nice to have variety for many reasons :-)
  • SunnyDays930
    SunnyDays930 Posts: 1,573 Member
    Hey this thread has been kaput for a while but I am jumping in to say hello and if anyone wants to chat please do! Our other thread Sobriety matters has been taken down so comment here if you feel like it!
  • RubyRed427
    RubyRed427 Posts: 4,371 Member
    Hi Sunny Days. I am happy to chat here.
  • MissMay
    MissMay Posts: 3,749 Member
    Good morning lovely ladies. You know you both are ALWAYS ALWAYS welcome to join in on our discussions over on your old thread.
    REMEMBER:
    LESS is LESS, even when your LESS goal is NONE.

    Come for support, to vent or give your advice.


  • SunnyDays930
    SunnyDays930 Posts: 1,573 Member
    Thanks Miss May!
  • RubyRed427
    RubyRed427 Posts: 4,371 Member
    MissMay wrote: »
    Good morning lovely ladies. You know you both are ALWAYS ALWAYS welcome to join in on our discussions over on your old thread.
    REMEMBER:
    LESS is LESS, even when your LESS goal is NONE.

    Come for support, to vent or give your advice.


    Thank you! I read your thread all the time; you have good people. I will participate sometimes.
  • RubyRed427
    RubyRed427 Posts: 4,371 Member
    Did you see that Leslie Jordan died? I loved his humor. He was also sober for decades and quite funny about it. https://people.com/health/leslie-jordan-was-more-than-2-decades-sober-the-hardest-thing-that-i-ever-did/