WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR SEPTEMBER 2023

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  • myvt9v4crh
    myvt9v4crh Posts: 391 Member
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    <3

    Katla in Illinois
  • teklawa1
    teklawa1 Posts: 675 Member
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    Betsy in NW WA
  • skuehn48
    skuehn48 Posts: 2,861 Member
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  • auntiebk
    auntiebk Posts: 2,510 Member
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    Lisa thanks for the Brokenwood recommendation. Requested from library.
    Carol glad you caught that $400 charge.
    Rosemarie so sorry you got C-19. Please take all the time you need to completely recover. The fatigue can just hang on and on…
    Yesterday’s (9/3) gratitude: legs way less achy, glorious ocean views on Sunday’s “commute”.
    09/04: Move: 2 sets PT w/x&a, beach stroll with D. Steps:8070
    Fuel: sugar in vs mfp=4 CI<CO net=139
    Live: Joe, readings, BP, AD, ptT. ptS, Wt:131.6
    Too sleepy for more.
    Later, lighter, lovelies!
    Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD x8zcp1ya37k1.gif
    September: Move more, fuel better (less sugar), live mindfully with people, dogs, open heart and mind before mouth.
    2023: Be of good cheer.
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,037 Member
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    kevrit wrote: »
    Here is the monthly list I use for you to copy if you’d like. Thank you Machka for posting the calendar. I always forget to post it in a format that works on here.

    2023 Self-Care September 2023

    1. Find time for self-care. It’s not selfish. It’s essential.
    2. Notice the things you do well, however small.

    I'm spending quite a bit of time relaxing this weekend. Self-care.
    And what do I do well? I don't know ... the usual household things like the laundry I've done this weekend, working on my drystream, cycling, colouring.

    3. Let go of self-criticism and speak to yourself kindly.
    4. Plan a fun or relaxing activity and make time for it.

    I'm not usually overly critical of myself but I will question myself, like "What are you doing?"
    And today, I went for a long-ish walk at lunch then did some colouring at home after work.

    5. Forgive yourself when things go wrong. Everyone makes mistakes.

    And most of the time, mistakes can be fixed. :)
    6. Focus on the basics: eat well, exercise, and go to bed on time.
    8. Give yourself permission to say ‘no’..
    9. Be willing to share how you feel and and ask for help when needed.
    10. Aim to be good enough, rather than perfect.
    11. When you find things hard, remember it’s ok to not be ok.
    12. Make time to do something you really enjoy.
    13. Get active outside and give your mind and body a natural boost.
    14. Be as kind to yourself as you would to a loved one.
    15. If you’re busy, allow yourself to pause and take a break.
    16. Find a caring calming phrase to use when you feel low.
    17. Leave positive messages for yourself to see regularly.
    18. No plans day. Make time to slow down and be kind to yourself.
    19. Ask a trusted friends to tell you what strengths they see in you.
    20. Notice what you are feeling without any judgement.
    21. Enjoy photos from a time with happy memories.
    22. Don’t compare how you feel inside to how others appear outside.
    23. Take your time. Make space to just breathe and be still.
    24. Let go of other people’s expectations of you.
    25. Accept yourself and remember that your are worthy of love.
    26. Avoid saying ‘I should’ and make time to do nothing.
    27. Find a new way to use one of your strengths or talents.
    28. Free up time by canceling any unnecessary plans.
    29. Choose to see your mistakes as steps to help you learn.
    30. Write down 3 things you appreciate about yourself.
    31. Remind yourself you are enough, just as you are.

    Machka in Oz


  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,037 Member
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    Today and yesterday were long days at work as I had to solve 2 problems with a submission I make to the Commonwealth.

    Not easy!!

    So much digging through online records, reports, etc. ... reading small text on the screen, looking, hunting ...

    M in Oz
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,037 Member
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    Amazing to think how, when we were young, we could play barefoot in the lawn and even the sidewalks without a second thought. I'm not liking this part of getting older. :(

    Lanette B)
    SW WA State where it's 45F right now.

    I still go barefoot whenever I can. :)

    Although the possibility of scorpions and jackjumpers in the grass, and the gravel paths we have, limits the time I spend in bare feet around our place.

  • LisaInArkansas
    LisaInArkansas Posts: 2,457 Member
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  • sspell1958
    sspell1958 Posts: 9 Member
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    Hello September 🌻
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 16,962 Member
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    :) Good morning. Jake twisted his ankle and hasn't been able to do much. It was worse last night and he made lots of noises that woke me and the dogs. I always take Bessie out around midnight and last night Bodie sounded like he needed to go, too. It was new to take them both but it worked. I think Bodhi expected breakfast when we came in and it was tricky getting him back into the kennel but I got him there. This morning Jake was too sore to get up so I learned how to get them both out, stay with them in the yard for 15 minutes (I listened to a podcast) and then fixed breakfast. Bodhi learned a bit about patience.

    <3Rosemary, sorry to hear you have Covid. You love being with people so this must be extra hard.

    <3Heather,sorry to hear that you are unwell. I know how active you are and this must be really tough.

    :) My recumbent bike is not a great one, but it has worked for me so that's all that matters. I spend as much as four hours on it some days. It allows me to read, listen to podcasts or audio books, or watch TV and be active at the same time.

    <3 Barbie in NW WA