WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JANUARY 2024

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  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,288 Member
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  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,630 Member
    Rosemarie I started a novel about a military explosives expert whose family was targeted by a terrorist. It was sort of a murder mystery, located in Maryland. As I got further along, it became more and more of a memory challenge to keep the elements of the story straight. So I got a few chapters done and then I stalled out. Now it's on my previous laptop, so that's a challenge.

    I've had a number of concussions, and I'm not sure my little dented brain is capable of a book length work, especially a mystery with multiple suspects. And I'm not sure why I would put in the work. But on the other hand, it was a good story.

    If I'm just doing it for fun, maybe short stories would suit better. Hmm. Something to think about. I joined a writing group but they were more advanced and into publishing, so I let it go. I'm not ready to even think about that. Kudos to you Heather! It's a long challenging journey, and you did it!

    Meanwhile I am starting to close out my Mom's banking and insurance. Lots to do.

    Annie in Delaware

    In my data analytic way ...

    Whenever I attempted to write short story mysteries, I drew up a flowchart of what was supposed to happen, then created a little database of who would be the possible suspects, why they might have done it or not, the clues they would find, etc. etc.

    When I finally finished all that, I put some words around it.

    Unfortunately the people who read it found it very "clinical", I suppose. They said they couldn't get to know or relate to the characters. Several suggested I use more adjectives.

    Then I started doing technical writing and discovered I'm quite suited to that. :)

    Machka in Oz
  • auntiebk
    auntiebk Posts: 2,616 Member

    Michelle in NV, beautiful cactus flowers!
    Lisa ”Back. On. The. Elliptical. Brava! You inspire me to try PT again.
    Belated welcome back @pinh Anna! Lots of support here. Sometimes the best families are the ones we find/make for ourselves.
    Heather ‘…Online friends count as friends…´ for which I am truly grateful!
    Rebecca yippee, just yippee for the forthcoming (or is it already) visit. YIPPEE!
    @hmjack Hope you are not alone in your struggles. This month has been a bust for me, looking forward to February.
    Rosemarie it is no wonder that you are tired. It could take a year for you to recover all the energy you expended caring for your husband. Rest well.
    Machka “a floater” ugh :sick:
    Lanette thanks for bone health links, will try to watch tomorrow before my MD appointment. RIP little Almy. ((hugs))
    Rita “…I feel useless and sad…” That’s it! That’s exactly how I feel. Sorry you’re there but thanks for letting me know I’m not alone.
    I really enjoyed Dean Koontz “The Watchers” but haven’t read any others.
    Only through pg 59 but that’s it for now.
    Later, lighter, lovelies!
    Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD x8zcp1ya37k1.gif
    January: Move more: dailyish PT, play with dogs, more steps than yesterday.
    Fuel better: less sugar, CI<CO, dailyish vitamins. more AF days than not.
    Live NOW: dailyish time with Joe, dogs, readings, Hebrew, meditation.
    Open heart and mind before mouth.
    2024: Strengthen: body, mind, heart-connections.

  • skuehn48
    skuehn48 Posts: 3,049 Member
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  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,724 Member
    Annie, Rosemarie, Tracey, and any others that are feeling the writing bug.
    I'm not going to give much advice, because everyone has to find their own way, but you do have to 'show up at the page' regularly. Inspiration is not required. Just grab whatever medium makes you feel most comfortable, phone, back of an envelope, tablet, laptop, and make some marks. Put black on white. Don't judge what you are doing. Schedule your writing time, put it in your diary, and make it a priority. It will feel like walking through treacle, but , 'done is better than good'.
    If you have the itch, you need to scratch it.
    Plus, you need, for the first draft, to lose your fear of getting it wrong. Make mistakes, flounder, write rubbish.
    Just keep putting one foot in front of the other. Occasionally, inspiration might, I say, might strike. That's a bonus and a very good day. If you don't 'have' to write, don't bother.
    It is the most rewarding thing in the world and one of the hardest.

    Schedule it. Do it.
    That's all.

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,630 Member
    While I anticipate starting another novel before the end of the month, I highly doubt I'll finish it.

    So ... in January, I read these books! I couldn't do much in the way of exercise or gardening, so I read.

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    Machka in Oz
  • TerriRichardson112
    TerriRichardson112 Posts: 19,062 Member
    edited January 30
    @kymarai This could be an option for each square
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    I am going to the surgery for the nurse to check on the progress of my eczema shortly. It’s a beautiful day so I may walk as it’s not very far away. The fresh air will do me good.

    🤗🤗🤗 and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for those who need them.

    🙋‍♀️ Miele failte to the newbies.

    ☘️ Terri
  • ginnytez
    ginnytez Posts: 1,406 Member
    Tracey-Columbus is about an hour to where I go (depends on traffic and which route I take). If they are all day meetings both days I often stay over. Next week there is a meeting that starts around 9. I am driving over the night before-there is a group of us that go the day before and have dinner. This week I should be done with doctor by 1 so will head back-there is a teams meeting at 3 I would like to attend and then at 5 is a retirement reception for one of our community people. That can change based upon cat scan discussion, etc. Thursday I will leave from home to be there at 9:30 for work meeting. It finishes around noon. Depending on how productive I am this week I may or may not take some vacation time and stop by Casino!

    Barbara AHMOD-sorry you feel this month has been a bust for you but that happens. I really feel like I am just getting back from the Thanksgiving/Christmas slide! But BMI is hanging at 26-26.2 (supposed to be healthy for my age) and waist to hip ratio is .73. My problem is my clothes will feel better 5 lbs down so I am working towards that. Working on core should help that.

    Heather-sound writing advice. I once had aspirations but that seems long ago. I recently listened to a pod cast about J.D. Salinger-they said he loved the act of writing and his key was that he spent hours each day in the act of writing. Of course, he ended being a bit bizarre so probably moderation in all things is needed!

    Kylia-yay for us-rain, snow, sleet this afternoon! Thankfully a one day shot and then maybe sunshine later in week!

    Off to get ready for work. Heading in a bit early since I am leaving for physical therapy. No stretches before hand. Will get some steps and such in tonight after hair appointment at 3:30. Perfect sort of work day!

    Take care all,

    Ginny in Ohio
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,724 Member
    edited January 30
    I went out to the post office after our exercise session. Got my old passport on 'tracked and signed for' delivery. Relief! Popped in to the posh deli to buy organic sauerkraut. Then crossed the road to book a dental check up. Went down a bit to the doctors to make a long overdue appointment, only to find out that it is no longer possible to make an appointment ahead. You have to ring up at 8.30 on the actual day, or come to the surgery at 8.30. What a pain! I may go in on Thursday as it is only at the top of our street. Hanging on the phone seems less attractive.
    By this time my hips were hurting, but I made it home OK.
    Came down from my bedroom for lunch and got a text from my son to say that Bea has a heavy cold and is not at school! Typical of my son to forget to tell us early. We were all geared up to go, and now it feels weird not to be doing the pick up. :'( I love doing it, but today I was worried about my legs holding up, so maybe it's all for the best.

    As I was awake from 3 a m (probably excitement over my book) I am looking forward to a nap. I've been texting friends with news of my book, and will start emailing others this afternoon.

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx

  • anmlmzdiet
    anmlmzdiet Posts: 179 Member
    I've been missing for a few days, and I started to read all the posts I missed, but you all are prolfic. I wrote something for Lisa, and realized that I could be here for a week trying to catch up. So I've decided to give you one big hug for all the sorrow I missed and a giant thank you for still being here. I'm going to read a few back posts as I need to understand the newer posts, and there you go. Starting over.

    Anyway, I have been gone, because I was out kicking my soda addiction. I've been going through soda withdrawals. I've been grumpy, agitated, miserable, and snappy. It has been rotten. I am starting to feel better, but I'm not there yet. I could tell my husband to go get me a Dr. Pepper at any time, and he would; but I would have to start over again.

    I should be able to start reading again, instead of rolling around on my bed, lol. :o



    LisainArkansas
    I know exactly what you mean about missing someone. My grandfather has been gone for 37yrs. and I still cry sometimes. He was the best man I've ever know, and as I've aged I've only found one other man whose come close. I married him. So, don't worry about emotional baggage as long as it's good baggage. Don't dwell on unhappy memories or regrets, just think all that has been good in your life. If she make up part of that good, then hold on to the memories.
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,105 Member
    Morning ladies
    Was up early had to pick up Dan at the garage,he needs a new exhaust and is getting his tires rotated and an oil changed and he will walk over here,and I'll take him down to pick his car up.
    Lisa- oh love the configuration of the furniture in the sunroom ,I can just see you both relaxing having a cup of coffee and watching the birds and Egg watching the birds too😆
    Waiting for my SS check to drop,to get some bills paid.will have the Irobot run a bit..
    I wish the sun would come out,tired of the rain and clouds grrrrrr
    Other than that..all is well.
  • pipcd34
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  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,820 Member
    Machka9 wrote: »
    While I anticipate starting another novel before the end of the month, I highly doubt I'll finish it.

    So ... in January, I read these books! I couldn't do much in the way of exercise or gardening, so I read.

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    Machka in Oz

    Love Clive Cussler! Dirk Pitt is like a more scruffy 007 plus his sidekick ( Al Giordino) is hilarious, yet endearing. The only thing that is frustrating is that I can't put his books down. The way he writes makes you NEED to read the next chapter! So my life pretty much stops, 2 days go by that nothing is accomplished but my adventure with my handsome Dirk.🤗💖
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa
  • kevrit
    kevrit Posts: 4,333 Member
    Machka9 wrote: »
    While I anticipate starting another novel before the end of the month, I highly doubt I'll finish it.

    So ... in January, I read these books! I couldn't do much in the way of exercise or gardening, so I read.

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    Machka in Oz

    You beat me! I only finished 5 books in January! LOL. Good job Machka!

    RVRita
  • kevrit
    kevrit Posts: 4,333 Member
    Good morning ladies!

    Machka that's interesting that you flow charted your writing. I could get a cork bulletin board and do that on paper. I don't know where I could put a bulletin board though. Hmm.

    I'm not driven to write, I just do it to entertain myself sometimes. It stretches my little brain. Maybe I could look for a journal of writing exercises. Hmm.

    Meanwhile I have to take my Dad to the dermatologist this morning. Not fun, but not terrible either. Then work on my Mom's wallet, and then groceries.

    And yes I will be on my dad's account starting tomorrow so i can get more involved. Hope it works out.

    Have a great day ladies!

    Annie in Delaware

    On writing I’ve always enjoyed writing, but never did it for a book or short story. I do however, at the moment Have 4 different journals going! 3 of then have writing prompts in them. My daughter got me started on those a long time ago with a book she gave me for Christmas one year Called “300 Writing Prompts”. This one works on my sanity. I have another I am using to reinforce my sobriety, it also has prompts. Another I have is a coloring/journal book of the 12 Steps (I’m working on step 8 right now), and I started another journal to track my DH’s moods/activities to see if I can find a trend in his moods (narcissist/alcoholic). If I find what he says or does to trigger my emotional response, I can or should be able to adjust my response to where I don’t get sorry for myself or feel guilty if I read and write these things, when I re-read what I wrote, I can see where the pattern lies.

    I’ve been told many times I should be a writer, but never tried to do it. I like to write, but don’t think I could write a whole book, possibly if I do like Heather and use my journals, IDK. I’ve been doing diaries and journal since I was a kid, but didn’t save them all.

    RVRita