Am I the only Virgin here?
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I'm a virgin......in my butt.
I just giggled a little...lol0 -
I never understood the important thing about virginity... Come on, is just sex. Nothing special, at least I dont find it special.
Personally, I "lost" it when I was 17, and it wasnt a special moment or something like that, just as i said, is just sex.0 -
for some people its not just sex, it means something more to them. so some people choose to wait.I never understood the important thing about virginity... Come on, is just sex. Nothing special, at least I dont find it special.
Personally, I "lost" it when I was 17, and it wasnt a special moment or something like that, just as i said, is just sex.0 -
for some people its not just sex, it means something more to them. so some people choose to wait.I never understood the important thing about virginity... Come on, is just sex. Nothing special, at least I dont find it special.
Personally, I "lost" it when I was 17, and it wasnt a special moment or something like that, just as i said, is just sex.
Okay, good for them, I just dont get it, thats all.0 -
I was butt ugly and still had sex...People keep saying they were a virgin "by choice." Do some of us here NOT have a choice to be a virgin?
If somebody is **** ugly then yeah....
Thanks for the ideological support...I think.0 -
I was a virgin until November 2006 at the age of 49.......Can anyone else beat that?.....Yes, it was by choice, I just didn't find the right person......
Also, you don't need to have sex to get HPV.......
You don't have to have sex to get HIV, AIDS, or HBV either, but why bring it up?
Because most people think that is the only way to get HPV......They also think that a condom will protect you.......I was told it was my fault that I got HPV because the guy didn't wear a condom....This was by a female doctor......I'm 100% certain who I got mine from and it wasn't by penetration sex as he couldn't get it up.....How do I know it was him?....Because he had prostate cancer which can be connected to HPV...............
Well, unless they've tested him, having something "connected" (I think you mean correlated) with HPV doesn't mean he HAS HPV. It sounds like you're bitter, and you should be if doctors are "blaming" you for any illness, but maybe get some counseling. And get a new doctor.0 -
So... I was sort of what you might call a "born again" virgin. I went over 3 1/2 years without it (March 2005-December 2008) because my best friend, who later became my husband, who is now becoming my ex-husband, didn't believe in sex before marriage (or *kitten*, but that's a whole different story).
But then the wedding came and I wasn't one (a virgin, born again or otherwise) anymore.
At all.0 -
lol you lose it when you want its a personal thing that everyone can pick.0
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I think mine might've grown back :sad:0
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I don't know why people are so doubtful when I say my son is a virgin. I'm not that gullible when it comes to my kids and they know I wasn't a virgin when I got married so no reason for either of them to lie about something like that. Would it be different if he got on here himself and said he was a virgin? :ohwell:0
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I think it is awesome that you respect and value yourself enough to choose to wait for the right time/place/person to be that intimate with. My hubby is only number 2 for me and if I could do it again he would have been my 1 and only.
Good for you!!!!!0 -
wow... I was just asking...
Curiosity wins out over fear, a lot with me, and when I become curious about something I research it. The only way to research that kind of question was to ask it.
And for the record, I have more female friends, than I do guy friends. Many of whom are attractive... and one of which, have openly said, that if I didn't take a stance against it, she would leave her boyfriend, at the time, for me. Not what I want....
My choice to remain a virgin, has little baring from my Christianity, just a bonus, but more on my own life.
Christ spoke, "Love your neighbor as you love yourself" So, I love everyone, not in the lust sex manner... but in the, if you need a shirt... take mine, need a ride, Where too? Need arms to help move, I got wedsndays off... Need a shoulder to cry on... mine is dry. I don't care if you pay me back ether. That is me.
God bless you. What a wonderful young man you are. :flowerforyou:0 -
I don't know why people are so doubtful when I say my son is a virgin. I'm not that gullible when it comes to my kids and they know I wasn't a virgin when I got married so no reason for either of them to lie about something like that. Would it be different if he got on here himself and said he was a virgin? :ohwell:
Hey personally i think its great that in this generation of liars and secretism, you've got that much trust in your son. Good to see!0 -
I don't know why people are so doubtful when I say my son is a virgin. I'm not that gullible when it comes to my kids and they know I wasn't a virgin when I got married so no reason for either of them to lie about something like that. Would it be different if he got on here himself and said he was a virgin? :ohwell:
Did your mother know you weren't a virgin, back BEFORE you got married but AFTER you had sex the first time? Did you entertain any thoughts of telling her? We don't tell our moms these things, for the most part.
I would most likely believe him if he said he was, under the circumstances that the OP posted. I WOULD NOT believe him now if he posted to this particular thread.0 -
Because virginity is a social construct used to keep women oppressed. Virginity isn't everything people make it to be. All it is is never having had sex. That's it. Doing so doesn't make anyone more or less virtuous than the next person.
Have you read "The Purity Myth:How America's Obsession with Virginity Is Hurting Young Women" by Jessica Valenti?
I think it would be right up your alley.
Haven't read that particular book yet, but I do love Jessica Valenti and Feministing! I do have "He's a Stud, She's a Slut ... And 49 Other Double Standards Every Woman Should Know."0 -
I don't know why people are so doubtful when I say my son is a virgin. I'm not that gullible when it comes to my kids and they know I wasn't a virgin when I got married so no reason for either of them to lie about something like that. Would it be different if he got on here himself and said he was a virgin? :ohwell:
Don't worry about the people that thinks you are blind to what your son is doing. It takes a strong person to stand up for being a virgin. Why would your son lie about being a virgin? A lot of people believe that a person has to lose their virginity at a certain age or something is wrong with them. A lot of people that's going around saying they aren't virgins are actually scared virgins. They are afraid of being strong, so they weakly fall into the hands of people they want to like them. It's sad, but it's true, a lot of people go out and lose their virginity to fit in.
Fornication is a sin.0 -
I am and I'm 29. It's not that I haven't had opportunities, it's just that I'm a female who feels strongly about there being a link between sex and emotional feelings. Sometimes I think I'm ready...but then I remind myself of my wishes to stay that way until marriage. I think it was my mum who encouraged me to think this way (almost like a brainwash) and I love her for it. Plus, she had to get it right with me considering she had no influence on my brother with this at all.
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Fornication is a sin.
And like most sins, it's ****ing awesome :drinker:0 -
Because virginity is a social construct used to keep women oppressed. Virginity isn't everything people make it to be. All it is is never having had sex. That's it. Doing so doesn't make anyone more or less virtuous than the next person.
Virginity does not oppress women. In fact, I'd consider the push for women to give up their virginity at the drop of a hat to be oppressive. I mean, consider the consequences. And, yes, we have options, but I'm still waiting for unplanned pregnancies and rampant STDs to be a thing of the past due to all these options we have.
Come on, women! Own your bodies. Utilize self-control. It's funny that self-control is okay (and encouraged) when it comes to giving into donuts or french fries, but it's considered oppressive when it comes to a potentially life-altering decision like a one-night-stand.
I respect all virgins and responsible non-virgins alike. But I get irritated with people who chase after pleasure without concern for consequences. This includes the obese who won't lift a finger to change their habits or the sexually promiscuous who think birth control and condoms (or abstinence) are too much of a hassle.
Yes, virginity oppresses women by reducing them to their sexualities and basing their worth on whether or not they've had sex. Oh, and there is absolutely no push for women to give up their virginity at the drop of a hat. More like the exact opposite. Seriously, for women to be able to own their own bodies, they have to be sexually liberated, and they can't be shamed for making decisions about their bodies.
Thank you, Laura! I couldn't have said that any better.
How is it not oppressive to tell women to "own their bodies" on YOUR terms and not encourage autonomy?0 -
I don't know why people are so doubtful when I say my son is a virgin. I'm not that gullible when it comes to my kids and they know I wasn't a virgin when I got married so no reason for either of them to lie about something like that. Would it be different if he got on here himself and said he was a virgin? :ohwell:
Do worry about the people that thinks you are blind to what your son is doing. It takes a strong person to stand up for being a virgin. Why would your son lie about being a virgin? A lot of people believe that a person has to lose their virginity at a certain age or something is wrong with them. A lot of people that's going around saying they aren't virgins are actually scared virgins. They are afraid of being strong, so they weakly fall into the hands of people they want to like them. It's sad, but it's true, a lot of people go out and lose their virginity to fit in.
Fornication is a sin.
No where does it say Fornication is a sin.
Fornication outside of wedlock is considered a sin but God actually orders us to fornicate.0 -
Quite honestly I don't think its anyone's business and I don't know why anyone would advertise whether they are or not.
Because virginity is a social construct used to keep women oppressed. Virginity isn't everything people make it to be. All it is is never having had sex. That's it. Doing so doesn't make anyone more or less virtuous than the next person.
so...virginity is not a social construct but the beliefs surrounding what it means to not be a virgin are.
Yes, virginity is a social construct. There is no clear medical definition of virginity.
Being a virgin means that one has not had sex. It seems pretty black and white to me. Now, the implications society attaches to virginity, or the lack there of, is the social construct.0 -
i am a virgin but I don't get why bringing up the topic for you had to make you state whether or not you were gay.
lots of people associtae stuff like that because you could be the in the closet gay and are to scared to come out and you know you like the same sex but are to scared of people finding out.or you are in the closet and people dont know you are a gay and never slept with a woman because you are gay. thats another reason why people usually say that. its not saying gay people are virgins or saying its associted with yous sexuality. and its actually said a lot to alot of people who are virgins mainly male virgins. thats why that was said. 0 -
I don't know why people are so doubtful when I say my son is a virgin. I'm not that gullible when it comes to my kids and they know I wasn't a virgin when I got married so no reason for either of them to lie about something like that. Would it be different if he got on here himself and said he was a virgin? :ohwell:
Did your mother know you weren't a virgin, back BEFORE you got married but AFTER you had sex the first time? Did you entertain any thoughts of telling her? We don't tell our moms these things, for the most part.
I would most likely believe him if he said he was, under the circumstances that the OP posted. I WOULD NOT believe him now if he posted to this particular thread.
My mom knew I wasn't a virgin even though I never told her. I wasn't very close to my mom and didn't feel like I could talk to her about something like that. Of course when I ended up pregnant without being married, there was no denying the fact that I wasn't a virgin.
It really doesn't matter to me if anyone believes my son is a virgin or isn't. It just seems odd to me that people who know nothing about me or my son thinks I'm that gulllible or think he's lying about it. :ohwell:0 -
I was butt ugly and still had sex...People keep saying they were a virgin "by choice." Do some of us here NOT have a choice to be a virgin?
If somebody is **** ugly then yeah....
i don't believe you. the butt ugly part. butts are beautiful!0 -
Yes, virginity oppresses women by reducing them to their sexualities and basing their worth on whether or not they've had sex. Oh, and there is absolutely no push for women to give up their virginity at the drop of a hat. More like the exact opposite. Seriously, for women to be able to own their own bodies, they have to be sexually liberated, and they can't be shamed for making decisions about their bodies.
So, in our culture now, women aren't reduced to objects because sex is no longer shameful? I think being objectified has just transformed into women who were/were not virgins into women who are/are not hot. We're still just bodies, not minds, not people who have feelings, thoughts, and ideas. It's not much of an improvement.
I also think you misunderstood my post. It's silly to think that sex has no consequences. It does. However, if you're a woman who absolutely must have sex, then please consider that sex causes babies to happen and also has the potential to land you with an STD. Condoms and birth control, for the love of everything good. Being empowered means knowing what you're getting into and taking the necessary precautions ahead of time.0 -
I don't know why people are so doubtful when I say my son is a virgin. I'm not that gullible when it comes to my kids and they know I wasn't a virgin when I got married so no reason for either of them to lie about something like that. Would it be different if he got on here himself and said he was a virgin? :ohwell:
Do worry about the people that thinks you are blind to what your son is doing. It takes a strong person to stand up for being a virgin. Why would your son lie about being a virgin? A lot of people believe that a person has to lose their virginity at a certain age or something is wrong with them. A lot of people that's going around saying they aren't virgins are actually scared virgins. They are afraid of being strong, so they weakly fall into the hands of people they want to like them. It's sad, but it's true, a lot of people go out and lose their virginity to fit in.
Fornication is a sin.
No where does it say Fornication is a sin.
Fornication outside of wedlock is considered a sin but God actually orders us to fornicate.
I would like to know where in The Bible does God orders people to fornicate.0 -
I don't know why people are so doubtful when I say my son is a virgin. I'm not that gullible when it comes to my kids and they know I wasn't a virgin when I got married so no reason for either of them to lie about something like that. Would it be different if he got on here himself and said he was a virgin? :ohwell:
Do worry about the people that thinks you are blind to what your son is doing. It takes a strong person to stand up for being a virgin. Why would your son lie about being a virgin? A lot of people believe that a person has to lose their virginity at a certain age or something is wrong with them. A lot of people that's going around saying they aren't virgins are actually scared virgins. They are afraid of being strong, so they weakly fall into the hands of people they want to like them. It's sad, but it's true, a lot of people go out and lose their virginity to fit in.
Fornication is a sin.
No where does it say Fornication is a sin.
Fornication outside of wedlock is considered a sin but God actually orders us to fornicate.
I would like to know where in The Bible does God orders people to fornicate.
Genesis 9:7 - "Go Forth and Multiply." I am not a biologist but I do know that humans do not reproduce via mitosis.0 -
virginity is a choice. I gave myself only to one man, my husband. I've been celibate since he's been in Heaven, 10 years, now, and I will be until I marry again. And I intend to... man (people) were not meant to be alone. God gave Eve to Adam as his wife. 0
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I don't know why people are so doubtful when I say my son is a virgin. I'm not that gullible when it comes to my kids and they know I wasn't a virgin when I got married so no reason for either of them to lie about something like that. Would it be different if he got on here himself and said he was a virgin? :ohwell:
Do worry about the people that thinks you are blind to what your son is doing. It takes a strong person to stand up for being a virgin. Why would your son lie about being a virgin? A lot of people believe that a person has to lose their virginity at a certain age or something is wrong with them. A lot of people that's going around saying they aren't virgins are actually scared virgins. They are afraid of being strong, so they weakly fall into the hands of people they want to like them. It's sad, but it's true, a lot of people go out and lose their virginity to fit in.
Fornication is a sin.
No where does it say Fornication is a sin.
Fornication outside of wedlock is considered a sin but God actually orders us to fornicate.
I would like to know where in The Bible does God orders people to fornicate.
Genesis 9:7 - "Go Forth and Multiply." I am not a biologist but I do know that humans do not reproduce via mitosis.
1 Corinthians 6:9 Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals,0 -
I don't know why people are so doubtful when I say my son is a virgin. I'm not that gullible when it comes to my kids and they know I wasn't a virgin when I got married so no reason for either of them to lie about something like that. Would it be different if he got on here himself and said he was a virgin? :ohwell:
Do worry about the people that thinks you are blind to what your son is doing. It takes a strong person to stand up for being a virgin. Why would your son lie about being a virgin? A lot of people believe that a person has to lose their virginity at a certain age or something is wrong with them. A lot of people that's going around saying they aren't virgins are actually scared virgins. They are afraid of being strong, so they weakly fall into the hands of people they want to like them. It's sad, but it's true, a lot of people go out and lose their virginity to fit in.
Fornication is a sin.
No where does it say Fornication is a sin.
Fornication outside of wedlock is considered a sin but God actually orders us to fornicate.
I would like to know where in The Bible does God orders people to fornicate.
Genesis 9:7 - "Go Forth and Multiply." I am not biologist by I do know that humans do not reproduce via mitosis.
You need to read the whole chapter to understand what God was talking about. God would never order people to fornicate, because it's a sin. God was talking to married people. God was talking to Noah and his three sons and all 4 men were married men. Please get an understanding of God's truth, before you say something about God that's not true.0
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