Sleeping with my boyfriend ticks me off.

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  • purplegoboom
    purplegoboom Posts: 400 Member
    If you're not going to have sex with him, probably a good idea to stop sharing a bed. From your description he's not going to stop until he gets some.
  • greentiffanie
    greentiffanie Posts: 15 Member
    And how is this related to fitness and losing weight?? Just curious.
  • creech6317
    creech6317 Posts: 869 Member
    Dumber than a bag of hair, this one. :noway:

    +1
  • Peanut0711
    Peanut0711 Posts: 88 Member
    HA HA...I got a kick out of all your comments....Just had to tell you all.

    As for the virgin...yeah, stop being a **** tease. send him home. or give him a hand job, you'll still be a virgin I promise.
  • ChrisRS87
    ChrisRS87 Posts: 781 Member
    Solution: Use your hands and or mouth.
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,238 Member
    And how is this related to fitness and losing weight?? Just curious.

    chit chat.
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
    And how is this related to fitness and losing weight?? Just curious.
    Hi, welcome to the "Chit-chat, fun, and games" forum.
  • ChrisRS87
    ChrisRS87 Posts: 781 Member
    Pillowpants and Listerfiend got your back girl :)

    bahahahaha
  • And before you say anything, I really mean sleeping. I'm a wait until marriage kind of girl. :)

    Anywho, with his work schedule, some days my only chance to see him is early early in the morning and after 11:30 at night. Most days like that he'll just spend the night so we can have time together.

    Don't get me wrong. I love sleeping with him... Sometimes. On good nights, I sleep fantastically. The other 50% of the time I wake up to him fondling my stomach or back. Or like last night, he kept me up for HALF AN HOUR because he was licking and kissing my ears and breathing on them. This just drives me CRAZY! Or I'll say "stop that." and he'll do it again later!
    Some nights I'm in a cuddly mood. But if I'm hot, then I can't stand to have a hot, sweaty body all over me. Or even touching me for that matter.
    He sleeps in late and stays up until around 3am. He's kind of like a child in the sense that if I don't stay awake despite exhaustion to entertain him, he'll keep me up all night.

    Does anyone else have a problem like this? I should tell him, right?

    It's totally unfair to sleep in the same bed with him if you guys are waiting. Like, "against the Geneva Convention" unfair.
  • PanteraGirl
    PanteraGirl Posts: 566 Member
    Shocking, I know... but I think he's horny, honey.

    She took the words out of my mouth.
  • Maude_Lewbowski
    Maude_Lewbowski Posts: 395 Member
    I just had an idea. Hookers and blow!
  • _the_feniks_
    _the_feniks_ Posts: 3,412 Member
    And how is this related to fitness and losing weight?? Just curious.

    chit chat.

    Fun and games.
  • purplegoboom
    purplegoboom Posts: 400 Member
    Pillowpants and Listerfiend got your back girl :)

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    get seperate beds, but in the same room...
  • You need to get out of his bed if you're waiting for marriage.

    THIS!!!
  • Is this the guy who dumped you over text or a new one?
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
    get seperate beds, but in the same room...
    I think that was covered in another thread.
  • _skittybang
    _skittybang Posts: 970 Member
    As long as you're waiting, at least let him bagpipe you. I don't think the armpits get enough play, anyways.

    Oh for the love of gravy, i've pissed myself... again. Damnit, Skitty!

    I'm gonna piss on you... drip drip drip

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  • TArnold2012
    TArnold2012 Posts: 929 Member
    Yes, you need to be honest and stop sending mixed signals. If you are a wait until marriage girl sleeping in his bed is NOT saying that no matter what is in your mind. It is great you want to wait until marriage but you are crossing the line and doing something that a married couple does. With crossing that line, as long as your in his bed there will always be the hope of taking it farther. It's not fair to him to be upset with these mixed signals.
  • Pedal_Pusher
    Pedal_Pusher Posts: 1,166 Member
    Shocking, I know... but I think he's horny, honey.

    nail meet hammer. He only fondles your stomach and back? WTF? No boobage??
  • LifeOnMars_
    LifeOnMars_ Posts: 720 Member
    get seperate beds, but in the same room...

    I think I've seen that topic before LOL
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    And how is this related to fitness and losing weight?? Just curious.

    because if she gave in she could log the calories burned during the monkey romp, thus losing weight....ta-DAAAAA!
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    And how is this related to fitness and losing weight?? Just curious.

    chit chat.

    Fun and games.

    And I'm pretty sure if you asked her boyfriend, this falls perfectly under the "Games" section.... "Fun," not so much.
  • PhotogNerd
    PhotogNerd Posts: 420 Member
    Solution: Use your hands and or mouth.

    Solid solution advice here. It's a win/win.
  • Bexyf
    Bexyf Posts: 42 Member
    I have to say MASSIVE mixed signals for him. If you do not want him to be doing this dont share a bed. He obviously finds you very attractive and wants to be with you and for most blokes staying in the same bed as partner means at some point this is going to happen.

    Not having a go, but do think of him as well!
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    And how is this related to fitness and losing weight?? Just curious.

    because if she gave in she could log the calories burned during the monkey romp, thus losing weight....ta-DAAAAA!

    BOOM goes the dynamite.
  • KombuchaCat
    KombuchaCat Posts: 834 Member
    I think you are on the wrong website.
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
    I know what you mean, honey. I dance around naked in front of my boyfriend and then he tries to grab my boobs. It's so frustrating for me. He knows I don't like being touched.
  • Is this the guy who dumped you over text or a new one?

    LOL I was wondering the same thing since all last month it is all she went on about.. Did not take long to get a new one in bed.
  • dfborders
    dfborders Posts: 474 Member
    :laugh:

    Seriously, I think you need to have a serious discussion with him and make sure you are both on the same page. That being said, he probably thinks that he can change your mind if your sleeping in the bed with him through the night (i.e. seduce you). I agree with a lot of the above posters he is probably quite horny.
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