Sleeping with my boyfriend ticks me off.
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He's trying to seduce you, sweetie. And you're being a tease. Stop it.
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Solve the problem. Get married, and you'll leave each other alone, and sleep in peace. :bigsmile:0
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Solve the problem. Get married, and you'll leave each other alone, and sleep in peace. :bigsmile:
Who are you who is so wise in the ways of science?0 -
Happens all the time. My breaking point is about 20 minutes before I give in and let him have sex with me so he'll leave me alone and let me sleep.0
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It cause he has blue balz. Poor guy is dieing cause you wont touch his willie. Thats like putting a bowl of food outside the kennel in front of the dog anf he cant get to it.0
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If you let him tickle your tailpipe, technically you're still a virgin. Win-win right there.0
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If you let him tickle your tailpipe, technically you're still a virgin. Win-win right there.
Listen to him...he knows what he's talking about.0 -
And before you say anything, I really mean sleeping. I'm a wait until marriage kind of girl.
Anywho, with his work schedule, some days my only chance to see him is early early in the morning and after 11:30 at night. Most days like that he'll just spend the night so we can have time together.
Don't get me wrong. I love sleeping with him... Sometimes. On good nights, I sleep fantastically. The other 50% of the time I wake up to him fondling my stomach or back. Or like last night, he kept me up for HALF AN HOUR because he was licking and kissing my ears and breathing on them. This just drives me CRAZY! Or I'll say "stop that." and he'll do it again later!
Some nights I'm in a cuddly mood. But if I'm hot, then I can't stand to have a hot, sweaty body all over me. Or even touching me for that matter.
He sleeps in late and stays up until around 3am. He's kind of like a child in the sense that if I don't stay awake despite exhaustion to entertain him, he'll keep me up all night.
Does anyone else have a problem like this? I should tell him, right?
Tell him. It may not fix it, but at least he can't pretend he doesn;t know what he's doing. :laugh: I work nights and for the most part my old man is on my schedule, but there are times when his schedule is different for various reasons and he tries to torment the crap out of me because he either doesn't want to sleep alone, or because I have to sleep and he wants to talk or cuddle or whatever.
Good luck, Men are notorious children!0 -
after the 1st night he allowed that type of coercion, should've been known that he's insane and that she was manipulative and selfish (for only wanting her own type of intimacy). soooo many other things she should/could/supposed to do as a negotion.0
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sometimes the thesaurus is a bad thing.after the 1st night he allowed that type of coercion, should've been known that he's insane and that she was manipulative and selfish (for only wanting her own type of intimacy). soooo many other things she should/could/supposed to do as a negotion.0 -
Um...there are other things you can do to hold him over until you're ready to get married while you keep your virginity. Come on, don't be a tease. Poor guy. >.<0
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I assume she's more of a troll, but seriously? You don't think that saying no but getting into bed with someone is being a tease? Oooookay then!I'm surprised at all the people calling the OP a tease. I would hope that her boyfriend is aware she's a wait until marriage kinda girl and if he's not ...well there's bigger issues than sleeping here. If he is aware of it then he needs to respect her boundaries- waiting until marriage may not be what most people do but if that's her choice then any person she dates should be respectful of it.
Not if she's open and honest about it- there's a lot of stuff we dont know...I mean if they sleep naked together yea something's weird...but no I don't think it makes her a tease if he is aware of her boundaries. I'm quite positive she didn't hold a gun to his head and say sleep next to me but don't screw me...
There's nothing wrong with waiting but if it's for religious reasons, or any reason for that matter, then they should not be sleeping together. When my boyfriend and I decided not to have sex for religious reasons, we knew we had to put limits on how we spend our time together. And cuddling late a night definitely had to go!
There is nothing wrong with waiting, but just because she wants to wait doesn't mean he wants to wait and isn't hopeful she'll change her mind . . . especially with these mixed signals.0 -
Temptation is just too strong!!!0
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You need to get out of his bed if you're waiting for marriage.
This I agree with. I completely understand where you're coming from with no sex before marriage, and I support you 100% but it's a mixed message when you'll sleep with him in the bed.0 -
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Hahahaha, love this!!0 -
Sorry to see OP is gone.
I was going to suggest that her boyfriend exercise a bit before bed, it will probably be a more restful night for both of them.
I just need all my friends to read this thread. It has surely been the highlight of my day.0 -
aahahahahahahahaha!!!!! Poor guy.0
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I want to say BUMP but I'm also waiting until marriage 0
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B.L.O.W.J.O.B.0
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ROFLMAO!!!0
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Seriously? :huh:0
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Well the way I'm laughing reading this thread, it is very healthy. I'm burning more calories than if I wasn't :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:0
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Throw him a sympathy screw.0
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And how is this related to fitness and losing weight?? Just curious.
It's called Chit-chat, fun, and games.0 -
One day you're going to wake up with him slapping his penis on your forehead.
Get out of his bed if you're waiting!
I am seriously crying laughing so hard at this comment. Awesome 0 -
If you're waiting til marriage you shouldn't be sleeping with him. I waited til marriage and we didn't live together. We met online and lived in different states til the day we got married in a court house.0
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I'm surprised at all the people calling the OP a tease. I would hope that her boyfriend is aware she's a wait until marriage kinda girl and if he's not ...well there's bigger issues than sleeping here. If he is aware of it then he needs to respect her boundaries- waiting until marriage may not be what most people do but if that's her choice then any person she dates should be respectful of it.
But, she's sleeping in his bed!!!!! Or did you miss that part? I mean, talk about mixed signals...0 -
Kind of makes you wonder what someone would actually have to do to be considered a tease then? Lick it then say no?
I assume she's more of a troll, but seriously? You don't think that saying no but getting into bed with someone is being a tease? Oooookay then!I'm surprised at all the people calling the OP a tease. I would hope that her boyfriend is aware she's a wait until marriage kinda girl and if he's not ...well there's bigger issues than sleeping here. If he is aware of it then he needs to respect her boundaries- waiting until marriage may not be what most people do but if that's her choice then any person she dates should be respectful of it.
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One day you're going to wake up with him slapping his penis on your forehead.
Get out of his bed if you're waiting!
I am seriously crying laughing so hard at this comment. Awesome
Oh come on, all guys do this... (don't they?)0
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