Online Cheating

Friends is one thing. I don't have many guy friends, but I do have a few, both online and in person at work.

My husband has one other female friend, though...he doesn't really talk to her. And we only see her when we arrange a playdate for our kids.

Anyway...there's a difference between friends and cheating. I would never go out after work with a male friend or co-worker unless our SO's were present also. If the conversation online gets a little...uncomfortable, we cease being friends.

I think it's a very fine line between cheating and not cheating, and a lot of it does have to do with how you and your SO view cheating.

I think with the start of social media networking, IMing, smart phones, etc it has made it much easier and tempting to fall into something like cheating, whether it was originally meant to be that way or not.

I think people need to step back and think: "If my partner was doing this, would I be happy with them?"

Sometimes stops things in its track.

This.

Yes! Agreed.

I have guys on here and I appreciate their input and encouragement just as much as I do my girls.

I jhave been with my Hubby for 22 years now and we both have friends of the opposite sex I don't see nothing wrong with it....but I won't flirt or anything like that with them......I love my hubby and respect him

I'm here for one thing only, sex with strangers. For the last year I have lulled my female friends on MFP from across the nation into a false sense of security by giving praise and encouragement, jokes, and the occasional flirtation so that one day I could potentially fly around the country to bang all of them.

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I don't look at the gender of someone when I am looking to add them to my friends list. I look for things we might have in common, goals, hobbies, that sort of thing.
IRL I only have one female friend. I get along better with guys, I work with mainly guys and I have always been treated as one of the guys.
I haven't gotten any of the flirting hitting on type of comments. But it must be because I not one of the "hot" ones, or because I don't put off that vibe. I think a lot of the flirting comes from what you put out there, in posts or in your pics. I'm not saying any of it is bad, just you get back what you put out there.

I'm here for one thing only, sex with strangers. For the last year I have lulled my female friends on MFP from across the nation into a false sense of security by giving praise and encouragement, jokes, and the occasional flirtation so that one day I could potentially fly around the country to bang all of them.

Love it!

Hilarious...I'm here to maintain my own healthy agenda and meet PEOPLE who are like-minded that can help motivate me (and hopefully I can return the favor). I don't care if they have boy or girl parts beneath their workout clothes, as long as they're motivating and can make me laugh here and there...

For me its a women only rule as any of the guys I've come across so far usually have ulterior motives even being on a site like MFP!

Also out of respect for my husband as well as I wouldn't be happy about him having women friends - men and women cannot be friends without sex or innuendoes coming into the equation!

i feel sorry for people like you. i think its ridiculous that someone cant be "friends" with someone of the opposite sex on a site like this.

For me its a women only rule as any of the guys I've come across so far usually have ulterior motives even being on a site like MFP!

Also out of respect for my husband as well as I wouldn't be happy about him having women friends - men and women cannot be friends without sex or innuendoes coming into the equation!

My policy is to avoid adding people like this as MFP friends.

Hey Taso... we've been friends a long time. Has sex or innuendoes or even a single PM ever come into play??

No innuendos at all. It's all been very explicit :bigsmile:

I'm a huge flirt. Both here and in person. My husband is used to me flirting. I'm sure he gets aggravated sometimes. But with the right girl he can be a flirt too. The difference is that I flirt with most people (guys and girls). He would only flirt with someone he'd probably actually wanna sleep with.

Now, I do OVERLY flirt sometimes...and I probably embarrass people sometimes. I really am just having fun. It puts a smile on my face, makes the day go by faster, and yeah...it can be an ego-boost.

Sometimes my flirting gets taken the wrong way and when it does I am quick to tell the person that I am a flirt but I am harmless. I have no plans to have an affair. And while I flirt and post innuendo that's as far as I go.

Some of the people that I flirt with daily though have become some of my best friends. I really care about them and hope that everything is going well in their lives. And when they hurt I hurt for them. So yeah...you do get close to those people. And I guess it would be easy to cross a line. But I don't.

I'm a huge flirt. Both here and in person. My husband is used to me flirting. I'm sure he gets aggravated sometimes. But with the right girl he can be a flirt too. The difference is that I flirt with most people (guys and girls). He would only flirt with someone he'd probably actually wanna sleep with.

Now, I do OVERLY flirt sometimes...and I probably embarrass people sometimes. I really am just having fun. It puts a smile on my face, makes the day go by faster, and yeah...it can be an ego-boost.

Sometimes my flirting gets taken the wrong way and when it does I am quick to tell the person that I am a flirt but I am harmless. I have no plans to have an affair. And while I flirt and post innuendo that's as far as I go.

Some of the people that I flirt with daily though have become some of my best friends. I really care about them and hope that everything is going well in their lives. And when they hurt I hurt for them. So yeah...you do get close to those people. And I guess it would be easy to cross a line. But I don't.

Haha... you took a lot of words to say "guilty as charged"