Male members with only females on their friends list.

staceypunk
staceypunk Posts: 924 Member
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Do any other ladies find it off-putting when you accept a friend request from a man and then you go and check out their page and ALL of their friends are females? Usually they are all females my age or there abouts and showing a lot of skin (i.e. muscle and progress) in their pics. It just looks like a collection of hot girls.

I delete them right away. It just kind of pisses me off.
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  • Achrya
    Achrya Posts: 16,913 Member
    Maybe hot chicks are their motivation?
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    Can you really blame them? I want to see sexy people everywhere I turn, too.
  • catrinaHwechanged
    catrinaHwechanged Posts: 4,907 Member
    I do find it a little off-putting, but I am not absolute with anything as far as deleting them.....it totally depends on the interaction. I do have a lot more male friends here, so maybe I'm just a creepy man candy collector. :P
  • bikermike5094
    bikermike5094 Posts: 1,752 Member
    maybe theyre gay and relate better to women? why so judgemental?
  • MzManiak
    MzManiak Posts: 1,361 Member
    I don't usually go through people's friend lists... :huh: Am I the weird one?
  • ApocalypticFae
    ApocalypticFae Posts: 217 Member
    Not at all. I figure that's what inspires them.
  • runs4zen
    runs4zen Posts: 769 Member
    Nope. Doesn't bother me. Send them my way. I need to build up my male harem! LOL!
  • redhead1910
    redhead1910 Posts: 304 Member
    Idk I take it as a compliment when one of those dudes wants to add me lol
  • tonytoo
    tonytoo Posts: 307
    "male members"

    *snicker*
  • classycouture
    classycouture Posts: 888 Member
    Guilty. I usually ignore or delete them.
  • Tuffjourney
    Tuffjourney Posts: 971
    I don't usually go through people's friend lists... :huh: Am I the weird one?

    I was thinking the same thing. But, I'm new so I wouldnt even have thought of it.:frown:
  • Bajiggity
    Bajiggity Posts: 88 Member
    Doesn't bother me at all.
  • PaleoChocolateBear
    PaleoChocolateBear Posts: 2,844 Member
    I think it's just natural for most people to have more opposite sex friends, I actually would like to have more males on my friend list to see their routine and if they are heavy lifting for maybe tips here and there
  • karllundy
    karllundy Posts: 1,490 Member
    I have mostly women on my friends list. I find them more supportive, plus it seems to me there are WAY more women on MFP in the first place. Just my 2 cents.
  • rassha01
    rassha01 Posts: 534 Member
    Sorry stole this one!!!

    hDC5A5D9D
  • 1ConcreteGirl
    1ConcreteGirl Posts: 3,677 Member
    I prefer the ones with mostly men, that way I am sure to get more attention from them
  • brower47
    brower47 Posts: 16,356 Member
    Maybe hot chicks are their motivation?

    ^^^

    Wouldn't bother me a bit.
  • PlayerHatinDogooder
    PlayerHatinDogooder Posts: 1,018 Member
    I just add a few dudes so I look legit.
  • ApocalypticFae
    ApocalypticFae Posts: 217 Member
    "male members"

    *snicker*

    Lol.
  • eric_sg61
    eric_sg61 Posts: 2,925 Member
    Maybe they are uncomfortable adding other men.
  • PaleoChocolateBear
    PaleoChocolateBear Posts: 2,844 Member
    I do find it a little off-putting, but I am not absolute with anything as far as deleting them.....it totally depends on the interaction. I do have a lot more male friends here, so maybe I'm just a creepy man candy collector. :P

    Yes you are
  • LetsTryThisAgain54
    LetsTryThisAgain54 Posts: 381 Member
    Most of my friends are women. There are a lot of guys on here I wouldn't want to friend.
  • ryans5050
    ryans5050 Posts: 31 Member
    Keep in mind too, there's a lot more women here than there are us men. But having ALL women, yea that seems a bit off to me. I tend to not look at the sex of the person as much as I look at what they're doing and if the potential MFP friendship is going to be mutually beneficial to both of us..
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    Do any other ladies find it off-putting when you accept a friend request from a man and then you go and check out their page and ALL of their friends are females? Usually they are all females my age or there abouts and showing a lot of skin (i.e. muscle and progress) in their pics. It just looks like a collection of hot girls.

    I delete them right away. It just kind of pisses me off.

    So let me get this straight. This person never creeped on you. Never bothered you outside of FR'ing you that you willingly accepted. And yet it pisses you off? You do know that about 90% of the population on MFP is female right (making up a number, females are just a higher number on MFP). I automatically accept male FR's and still if you look into my FL you will think that I'm collecting females.

    Its your FL, you don't have to justify to anyone who/why you add/delete anyone but please, keep your judgmental mentality to yourself. Not all of us are creepers.
  • KeepCalmNGetyaSweatOn
    KeepCalmNGetyaSweatOn Posts: 361 Member
    I just add a few dudes so I look legit.

    Hahaha! Sneeky sneeky :D
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
    I just add a few dudes so I look legit.

    this. you need to add a guy for every 5 chicks. so there is a guy on your top 6.
  • staceypunk
    staceypunk Posts: 924 Member
    I don't usually go through people's friend lists... :huh: Am I the weird one?

    I was thinking the same thing. But, I'm new so I wouldnt even have thought of it.:frown:

    I usually click on someone's profile page to see what they are about. If I see all hot women as the 6 or 8 friends that show on the profile page, then I click to see all their friends.
  • djkronyx
    djkronyx Posts: 77 Member
    I add very few people. The only guys on my short list of friends are people I know. Otherwise I have no desire to go randomly add some guy I don't know who needs attention by posting half naked profile pics.. As far as the women go, most have added me with the exception of one or two. All together I find it strange that people have so many "friends" (both men and women) with whom they have no contact with in real life (unlike other social sites like FB). I guess it's for the "support". Oh well, maybe it's just me. Happy Friday :smile:
  • staceypunk
    staceypunk Posts: 924 Member
    I just add a few dudes so I look legit.

    this. you need to add a guy for every 5 chicks. so there is a guy on your top 6.

    exactly! it wouldn't be so obvious.
  • Mainebikerchick
    Mainebikerchick Posts: 1,573 Member
    I personally think it's a little creepy....

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