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Why do you think you are single?

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  • slimgirljo15slimgirljo15 Member, Premium Posts: 255,775 Member Member, Premium Posts: 255,775 Member
    According to some guy from this website it’s because I’m a pudgy nerd who can’t fight.

    Is the guy who said that a perfect specimen? Does he have tons of women lining up at his front door? I bet not.
    You're a good person and you'll find what you've been looking for when the time is right. 💙

    Agree 100% :)
  • never2old67never2old67 Member, Premium Posts: 101 Member Member, Premium Posts: 101 Member
    2,3,4. I do have trust issues (from past relationships and things I went through in the Middle East for 2 yrs when I was deployed) because some of my insecurities are tossed back in my face like being sober for 9 yrs has been one thrown back at me, not too keen on how I look. I have tried to open up in the past and that was also thrown in my face, so I work on me, and make sure all my kids have what they need and that I am there for them. Sorry if I am long winded about answering this.
  • forestfreekforestfreek Member Posts: 5,659 Member Member Posts: 5,659 Member
    Because I’m happier that way...
    And I should add, so are my exes 😁
    edited August 2019
  • mattig89chmattig89ch Member Posts: 2,640 Member Member Posts: 2,640 Member
    What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.

    If you've tried both, and you prefer one or the other, I think that's a perfectly valid statement.

    My issue is, I've only ever been single. I don't have anything to compare it too.
  • forestfreekforestfreek Member Posts: 5,659 Member Member Posts: 5,659 Member
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.

    If you've tried both, and you prefer one or the other, I think that's a perfectly valid statement.

    My issue is, I've only ever been single. I don't have anything to compare it too.

    Hmmm. Compare suffocation to breathing fresh air. Do you need to be smothered with a pillow to know that you like breathing?

  • forestfreekforestfreek Member Posts: 5,659 Member Member Posts: 5,659 Member
    I’m so only kidding. LOL LOL.
    (Not)
    edited August 2019
  • nighthawk584nighthawk584 Member Posts: 1,980 Member Member Posts: 1,980 Member
    I’m so only kidding. LOL LOL.
    Not 😂

    You're pretty spot-on haha
  • mattig89chmattig89ch Member Posts: 2,640 Member Member Posts: 2,640 Member
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.

    If you've tried both, and you prefer one or the other, I think that's a perfectly valid statement.

    My issue is, I've only ever been single. I don't have anything to compare it too.

    Hmmm. Compare suffocation to breathing fresh air. Do you need to be smothered with a pillow to know that you like breathing?

    I thought a relationship was like dating your best friend? Where both people are equal.
  • forestfreekforestfreek Member Posts: 5,659 Member Member Posts: 5,659 Member
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.

    If you've tried both, and you prefer one or the other, I think that's a perfectly valid statement.

    My issue is, I've only ever been single. I don't have anything to compare it too.

    Hmmm. Compare suffocation to breathing fresh air. Do you need to be smothered with a pillow to know that you like breathing?

    I thought a relationship was like dating your best friend? Where both people are equal.

    I can’t even bring myself to say anything cheeky or sarcastic to this. It’s just so sweet and hopeful....
    So the answer is - yes, ideally that’s the way relationships should be 🤗
  • ResistiveResistive Member, Premium Posts: 209 Member Member, Premium Posts: 209 Member
    Cause I have a complicated relationship going on...9zbr6lhn058v.jpeg
  • forestfreekforestfreek Member Posts: 5,659 Member Member Posts: 5,659 Member
    Resistive wrote: »
    Cause I have a complicated relationship going on...9zbr6lhn058v.jpeg
    @Resistive - 🤗
    Here’s to hoping you get it sorted out.
  • mattig89chmattig89ch Member Posts: 2,640 Member Member Posts: 2,640 Member
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.

    If you've tried both, and you prefer one or the other, I think that's a perfectly valid statement.

    My issue is, I've only ever been single. I don't have anything to compare it too.

    Hmmm. Compare suffocation to breathing fresh air. Do you need to be smothered with a pillow to know that you like breathing?

    I thought a relationship was like dating your best friend? Where both people are equal.

    I can’t even bring myself to say anything cheeky or sarcastic to this. It’s just so sweet and hopeful....
    So the answer is - yes, ideally that’s the way relationships should be 🤗

    And...that's not what happened with your part partners?
  • PAFC84PAFC84 Member Posts: 1,869 Member Member Posts: 1,869 Member
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.

    If you've tried both, and you prefer one or the other, I think that's a perfectly valid statement.

    My issue is, I've only ever been single. I don't have anything to compare it too.

    Hmmm. Compare suffocation to breathing fresh air. Do you need to be smothered with a pillow to know that you like breathing?

    Some people get off on oxygen deprivation. Just saying.

  • PAFC84PAFC84 Member Posts: 1,869 Member Member Posts: 1,869 Member
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.

    If you've tried both, and you prefer one or the other, I think that's a perfectly valid statement.

    My issue is, I've only ever been single. I don't have anything to compare it too.

    Hmmm. Compare suffocation to breathing fresh air. Do you need to be smothered with a pillow to know that you like breathing?

    I thought a relationship was like dating your best friend? Where both people are equal.

    I can’t even bring myself to say anything cheeky or sarcastic to this. It’s just so sweet and hopeful....
    So the answer is - yes, ideally that’s the way relationships should be 🤗

    And...that's not what happened with your part partners?

    I’d try not to let other peoples’ experiences shape your reality.....although you said you’ve always been single.
  • VersicolourVersicolour Member Posts: 6,788 Member Member Posts: 6,788 Member
    TomFit18 wrote: »
    I'm single because of one word.....and I hate it! Cancer!! #fckcancer

    💔 I'm sorry. Karma and cancer never work together
  • VersicolourVersicolour Member Posts: 6,788 Member Member Posts: 6,788 Member
    Im not buuut if i was it would be coz guys like me fall harder than girls like you!

    Doubtful. I have never met someone who falls faster and harder than me (phrasing police... There's a gem for you)
  • mattig89chmattig89ch Member Posts: 2,640 Member Member Posts: 2,640 Member
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.

    If you've tried both, and you prefer one or the other, I think that's a perfectly valid statement.

    My issue is, I've only ever been single. I don't have anything to compare it too.

    Hmmm. Compare suffocation to breathing fresh air. Do you need to be smothered with a pillow to know that you like breathing?

    I thought a relationship was like dating your best friend? Where both people are equal.

    I can’t even bring myself to say anything cheeky or sarcastic to this. It’s just so sweet and hopeful....
    So the answer is - yes, ideally that’s the way relationships should be 🤗

    And...that's not what happened with your part partners?

    I’d try not to let other peoples’ experiences shape your reality.....although you said you’ve always been single.

    Its more that I try to learn from other people's failures and successes. ofc, not everyone's experience will be like mine. And ofc, I will make different mistakes then others. But the more knowledge I have going into something, then better off I think I'll be. If nothing else, having plans in place help me to feel more relaxed (and maybe a tiny bit more confident).
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